Masterclass How To Be Assertive At Work WITHOUT Being Rude

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In this introductory training you will learn to be assertive at work without being pushy, aggressive, rude, or a jerk.
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02:00 - What are doormat problems?
07:55 - How can assertiveness help you?
11:45 - What does assertiveness mean?
15:01 - When should you be assertive?
18:20 - What is your communication type?
29:01 - What is the assertive mindset?
31:09 - How to adopt an assertive body language?
35:02 - What are assertive expressions and language?
37:51 - How to manage your negative emotions?
41:15 - How to use curiosity to gain more clarity and be more assertive?
47:15 - How to express yourself with confidence
52:21 - How to avoid weak language
56:15 - How to express yourself in assertive situations
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@thamalones 2 года назад

I learnt that instead of “trying” to be nice/polite, just be respectful.

@ivnacuri5231 2 года назад

That’s an excellent learning!

@lilianab7967 3 месяца назад

This is such a great subject. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻 . I have been in a position to be disrespectful by not sharing with honesty the reasons of leaving. For me personally is an educational issue. Being in a girl position where my parents always were critical and obsessed fitting into a specific woman behaviour. I learned to act in silence, only in my favour and not to listen to anyone. Not to take others opinions in consideration. I am aware that is not a great approach but is automatically coming back. My opinion was not valued in my family and now I find myself being threatened and I consider it a waste of time. I am in a bad energy and I might not be okay to attend a decent honest conversation. I am working towards this and I really appreciate your valuable input. Is really hard to not be in a passive or aggressive position only because you are not aware of your experience. Is a great skill to develop. Mostly for the women who come from a side of world where they were raised to be more obedient than opinionated.

@SsroseL 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for the informative video. I've been working on this issue for quite some time and find that I somehow yo-yo back to my passive-aggressive behavior and not speaking up for myself. I've taken a lot of notes and looking forward to putting them into action

@speakyourmindunapologetically 3 месяца назад

Amazing, you can move past your passive-aggressive behavior and speak up! Listen to my podcast Speak Your Mind Unapologetically for more tips to speak up for yourself: speakyourmindnow.libsyn.com

@CinnamonMay30 7 месяцев назад

thank you very much

@speakyourmindunapologetically 3 месяца назад

Thank you for listening. I have much more content like this on the podcast Speak Your Mind Unapologetically: speakyourmindnow.libsyn.com

@sponkmcdonk3898 2 года назад

this is very very helpful. thanks for the valuable content and the time you spent putting this together

@speakyourmindunapologetically 2 года назад

Glad it was helpful to you! Thanks for writing this message because it inspires me to do more! By the way, I publish free content on this on my newsletter, so feel free to sign up at www.assertiveway.com/newsletter

@datsnothing 2 года назад

Do you have a book?

@speakyourmindunapologetically 3 месяца назад

@@datsnothing I have a book called Unapologetic Voices: www.amazon.com/dp/B0CW2X4WWL? and a the podcast Speak Your Mind Unapologetically: speakyourmindnow.libsyn.com. Check it out!

@averynmitchell 3 месяца назад

19:00 I'm 1000% passive

@speakyourmindunapologetically 3 месяца назад

Your self awareness is admirable! So was I. All of my content is designed to help you not be passive anymore. Sign up to my newsletter assertiveway.com/newsletter/ and listen to the Speak Your Mind Unapologetically podcast: speakyourmindnow.libsyn.com. Cheers.

@sanamichael8563 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this video. Now I know why I always feel miserable when I am around people. I am passive communicator. Is there a book or a place to go to to fix this nasty problem?. I am really not happy, and no wonder why I can’t get what I want. What should I do?

@speakyourmindunapologetically 2 года назад

AHA moment! Awesome you figured that out! No worries, you can stop being passive by learning this assertiveness skill! First, I recommend that you join my email list where I send you assertiveness tips, that is at www.assertiveway.com/newsletter. Second, sign up for the 3 free hour assertiveness live workshop I'm hosting in January where you can also submit your questions: assertiveway.aweb.page/boldmasterclass. Third, check my assertiveness book recommendations at: assertiveway.com/10-best-assertiveness-and-standing-up-for-yourself-books/. Fourth, check the blog posts at assertiveway.com/blogs/ . Hope to hear from you!

@mohsenashorioun9423 5 месяцев назад

Great

@justanothernick3984 2 года назад

So the categories could also be Aggressive Passive Aggressive Neutral (Your passive) Balanced (The "assertive") In negotiations, it's almost a mild form of conflict, and in conflicts you have fight, flight or freeze responses. Call fight the aggressive part, flight as passive aggressive since you protect yourself but by removing yourself from the situation, doesn't mean you like it and might be manipulative to avoid it in the future and finally freeze or the neutral position. What I get the feeling you are describing here is recognizing the situation and applying appropriate response by balancing these three traits in order to benefit you the most. Be aggressive so the conflict doesn't control you but don't engage in it too forcefully to make you the root cause of conflict. Know which battles are worth going in on and when to stay silent and neutral. This is a good skill to master and requires practice and effort. If you become better at the things you do without being arrogant, this will help you be looked up to and approachable at the same time. I agree with most of what you say, I would just make the categories more clear from each other. Thanks for a good video.

@speakyourmindunapologetically 2 года назад

Great way of saying it "negotiations are a mild form of conflict." The Passive category is not quite neutral, it's more like "people-pleasing", "agreeable", or doing so much for others that it hurts you. Assertive yes can be described as balanced. flight is passive, and partially passive-aggressive too. Yes, sometimes it makes sense to not engage in conflict. Other times it's the right thing to do and it is always good to communicate assertively without being arrogant. Thanks for your suggestion on making categories more clear from each other.

@demotkt2357 2 года назад

37:05 38:57

@dennis.teevee 4 месяца назад

♥️👍💯

@speakyourmindunapologetically 3 месяца назад

Thank you! I have much more content like this on the podcast Speak Your Mind Unapologetically: speakyourmindnow.libsyn.com. Check it out!

@karenmartin1032 2 года назад

i want to sign up but don't see the button below

@speakyourmindunapologetically 2 года назад

Hi Karen, here's the link: assertiveway.aweb.page/webinaroffer , if you have any trouble, feel free to email directly at ivnacuri@assertiveway.com. cheers!

@zah936 4 месяца назад

Haha

@speakyourmindunapologetically 3 месяца назад

Was it funny?

@maggieghaly2188 5 месяцев назад

The introduction is tooo long u lost me I the few few minutes

@speakyourmindunapologetically 3 месяца назад

thanks for the feedback Maggie. Try my more direct content on the podcast Speak Your Mind Unapologetically: speakyourmindnow.libsyn.com

@Orlandozumbacom 2 года назад

There was no much "assertiveness" in this talk; instead, countless questions and personal views that were useless to the average listener. Not worth listening. Forward the video the end to listen to the speaker sales pitch!