This is actually one of the most realistic videos I have seen about confidence. Everyone is like "Oh just be yourself." But its really hard to be yourself in a world in which everyone is comparing to each other. What I really understood from this is that instead of comparing yourself to other people, following celebrities and seeing their perfect lives, we must work on each day being a better version of ourselves.
I just recently found your channel and it’s already helped with so much, especially fashion! I just can’t get enough and I love putting pieces in my closet together now ☺️
Oh my goodness this makes me so happy to hear!! :D Thank you so much for watching my videos and I'm so glad I can help you out babes!! 💖💖💖let me know if you ever have any video requests!! x
Jessica Neistadt yay thank you!! I noticed you put Psalm 46:5 in your info section, would you mind talking about God and tips for living close to Him with the daily challenges we face?? Thank you ❤️
I've been having the worst week confidence-wise and then I stumbled upon your channel through one of your other videos and this is perfect, thank you so much for being such a positive influence girl!
I struggled about HOW exactly this whole "love yourself" thing works, like where to start, how to love yourself when you feel like your never enough, ... And then I just started to give it a try. When there is a bad though about myself, I say to myself as a good friend "no, it's not like that". And I compliment myself when I look in the mirror or when I did something good. For me, it works very well and I feel a lot better now.
definitely just subscribed! 💕 i love that you’re not like “just be positive! you can do it!!!” and talk about real things you and other people have actually experienced!
Loves this video. I was the same with social media. I would see others doing things in their stories or posting pictures that made me feel negative about myself. Like i wasnt doing enough and i started to feel like a loser. I unfollowed a lot of pages. I even unfollowed the news apps. I feel so much happier now and not comparing myself to others. I love it.
This video is so amaaaaziinngg, sometimes we just need some advice to see that we our so unique and we are so powerful. Such a great video. Sorry for the bad english, im a french love you Jessica so much from Africa ❤️ Super video
The positivity is so inspiring!! I'm definitely not the most confident person, but my tip for self confidence is to remember that it's not a linear journey. There will be ups and downs, so that shouldn't stop you from feeling like you're getting somewhere as long as you keep going!
Okay a HUGE confidence tip that's helped me and Jess kind of already said something similar: look into the mirror and look at the one thing that you always hated the most about yourself. That one biggest insecurity. Now smile at your reflection and tell yourself (out loud!!) "It's beautiful. It makes me look so cute! It's my favourite part of my body." It's helped me to stop hating things about my appearence ❤
Welcome to my channel :) thank you so much for watching- I'm so glad you're loving the girl boss series 💗 let me know if there's every any specific topic you'd want me to cover!!
You know, to be quite honest, Earlier today, I was thinking, "why am I not good enough.?" I decided to fold my clothes and thought, Maybe I could vent a bit and I got on RU-vid to see this video on my recommended and I clicked it and I realized I am the type of person to say sorry for things that aren't my fault and if I bump a chair, like the example you said Jessica, I say "sorry". and I am not the person to say no. I always try to make people like me and sometimes I get stressed over it and there have been times when I get anxiety and get really depressed. But I have come to realize, there are good people like you, who care about people like me.... so I would really like to say thank you, Jessica.!! It means a lot to me that there are people like you who care about others.!! God bless and be safe.!
Wow amazing video !!!!! Truly touched and grateful for this video !!!!❤️❤️❤️Thank you so much for these tips that I know truly work 😍😍😍😍 Your are amazing 😘😘
I would say that I needed this confidence boost now, but I think we need to hear this all the time, it’s so easy to forget to be confident in this society. Also yessss Jessica, do a decorate with me soon! I follow you on Pinterest and I love your home decor ideas!
Such powerful content! 💖 thank you for putting this video together, it was such a great positive boost 😘😘😘 I am a nurse 👩⚕️ and often work within the mental health field. Can I add a darker side to having a very real and constant feeling of "lack of confidence", this sometimes can also mean that you are in one of these abusive relationships: a controlling partner, a deaming job, a dysfunction family, a misogynistic church, a bully-culture school or any type of sexual abuse situation. Often, these types of dark places will break down your confidence on PURPOSE, so they can better control you and use you. If you are seriously feeling hopeless or helpless, try to look at these situations. Sometimes you will need to walk into a police station or a doctor office and tell someone what is really going on in your head and life to get help and to get out. 😘😘😘
Omg thank you so much for this video, these past few weeks have been really difficult for me to stay positive for myself and others. All in all this video honestly gave me insight to new ideas and plan to improve and become the best version of myself. I really admire you and your channel for its authenticity :’) Happy to hear you excited over your new apartment and office xD Needed to hear this topic being talked about, gave me reinsurance that I’m not alone, thank you and llysm! ☺️🙏🏼❤️
Thanks for inspiring us jessica! First time I watched your vid I know there something very special in you! You bring so much positive vibes for us, your viewers! Proud filipina here watching from Montreal. Keep rockin' 👌☺️
i feel thankful for watching this video :) it makes me feel better and confident. thank you so muchh. im happy for you having your own office. you should make a video for introducing your room. that would be so great! i will be looking forward for your next video XD
How do you know when you’ve worked hard enough? I saw a post a while back on Facebook that said your self worth isn’t determined by working yourself to the brink of a break down. But then what is it based off of? And how do you know you’ve worked hard enough if you’re not exhausted?
OMAHGHADDDD🙊 I am a new subscriber and im like "she looks superrr familiarrr" then i like watched all (almost) of your vids then i realized that you were that girl that didn't like dilissss🤣🤣 your super mature naaaa😂💕 gosh more power gurlll💕
I make a list of things I get done but then I turn around and feel like I didn't do enough or I could have done more. Hey Jessica how do I conquer this any suggestions? Very much appreciate it love your channel! Keep your vlogs coming! New subscriber from the great state of Oklahoma. You are a child compared to this old fart (me) but I'm learning so much that I can use! Thank you thank you thank you!!💙💜💚💗