Thank you for being so vulnerable. It's not an easy subject to discuss with family and even worse with strangers. You do you Melinda and cherish the time you spend with your rainbow baby. Scarlett. 🥰
I was 29 when I had my first child. Had my second child at 30 years old. They are 13 months 4 days apart. I am now 65 years old. I raised them on my own.
OMG Melinda, you bared your whole soul there and you know you probably will help others to get checked out in case they have something similar so well done. Scarlett is such a beautiful daughter to have and I bet you are so grateful to have her, I love to see herself and Aurora play, it genuinely is heartwarming and the way Aurora wants to have Scarlett over to her house is so sweet
Can't imagine what Melinda is going through but one thing I can imagine is the amount of people that can take comfort from her story, so many people don't talk about ectopic pregnancy, stillborn and pregnancy loss. Melinda thank you so much for talking about such a sensitive topic. Prayers for you and Scarlett ❤ xx
I’m so sorry for your losses I am a firm believer that we will see our sweet babies in heaven someday . What a blessing your sweet Sandwich Scarlett is .
I’m so sorry for your loss. I went through an ectopic pregnancy last year, the pain was unbelievable I passed out several times and if my husband hasn’t been here I’m afraid I wouldn’t have made it that day. My tube ruptured and I ended up losing 3 Liters of blood that day. Scariest thing ever and definitely traumatic. A few months ago we found we was expecting again, everything this time around was going great. At our 15 week appointment last week we found out our little girl no longer had a heartbeat. Still in shock and heartbroken. Im sure you are going through these same feelings girl. Prayers and love going to you. Babies born sleeping are to beautiful for earth 🤍 definitely doesn’t make the pain any less but hopefully time will help heal. Thankful to have my 2 year old little girl she’s definitely what keeps me going 🤍
So sorry for your loss. 💔 I hope your heart heels soon and know you are not alone. I have 4 forever babies and 3 growing up too fast kids. Sending thoughts and prayers your way 🙏.
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You got your miracle baby! Just don’t stress about the pregnancies that could happen. God will have you when he says it’s time. Work on you don’t stress about it
I've been in and out of hospital my whole life and I've kept all my discharge papers since I was 18 because the information is handy to look back on especially years later so I understand why you kept your discharge papers. Even more so than my papers that was your little baby so I can imagine how important the papers are as ot symbolizes your first pregnancy/child. Hearing more and more of your life journey explains why you are a really strong woman. 😊
So sorry you went through this I had my first child at 22 with my beautiful girl, then I had a miscarriage at 16 weeks Then had my awesome son at 24 after that I got cervical cancer and they took part of my cervix Told me that I would never be able to have anymore kids as I would not be able to carry due to the mucas plug not being able to form properly, 11yrs later I miscarried again , then had my beautiful boy, 14 mths lady had another boy, It's not nice but it happens Your are amazing young lady and amazing for sharing your story Love you guys HERVEY BAY QUEENSLAND AUSTRALIA
I’m so sorry about you going through all of this. I couldn’t imagine how hard it was. I had a missed miscarriage in 2020 and I’ve not been able to get pregnant since. I’m so glad you had such an amazing family with you when you were going through that.
So sorry for your losses❤ i sadly miscarriaged my first and second pregnancies and currently pregnant with my rainbow. Wishing you all the best for the future❤
I'm sorry for what you went through thank you for sharing. I was 18 when I had My first and only biological child she just turned 30 and now has two kids. I do have 5 kids total 4 adopted and 11 grandkids. Love you and your families videos. Thank you again for being so real.
My sister (who shares your name) had to do a LOT of fertility treatments after her first baby. After several years she finally was pregnant and they went to get an ultrasound to share with the fam. The dr couldn’t find a heartbeat or a baby so she was sent to the hospital. In less than 45 minutes her ectopic pregnancy burst and she bled 2 quarts into her abdomen. She had no symptoms and had she not gone to the Dr that day age would not be here still. And she lost fallopian tube, meaning it harder for her to get pregnant but she did. Pregnancy is wonderful and also risky. I’m glad you’re doctors took good care of you❤
Feel better soon , I had a miscarriage right before I had my eldest , its a horrible feeling and thing to go through , it's good u hav your amazing family around u. Its good to talk about it and to let others know they r not alone xx
Melinda, thank you for being so transparent. Your journey has been a painful one. HUGS❤ This is more common than a person realizes. I know some woman my daughter included that had endtrometriosis. It is weird how many women go thru this. Scarlet is a sweetheart, you are blessed to have her. I am married at 21 & was 23 when I had my daughter. The only complication I had was excessive bleeding. I was horribly enemic from the loss of blood. We have just our daughter. Prior to having my daughter prob from the age of 14 I had horrible periods. The pain would sometimes make me throw up. It was awful.
You are a beautiful woman and have a beautiful daughter ❤ I would love to see you find love again! I am 67 and have 2 girls 1 miscarriage and my first baby girl died 8 hours after birth. I was 23. I didn't have my girls until 4 yrs later. Life can be difficult and full of challenges at times but once I grew up a little and started putting my priorities in perspective and going to church. My life changed. God began to move and open doors for me that I have never closed or changed for the rest is history and now I'm going to be a great grandma this summer!
So sorry Melinda. Thank you for sharing your story so that others who have been through similar situations don't feel so alone. That cold/flu! I was sick for 2,5 weeks and so so tired even after recovering. Had my boys at 26 and 28 years old. They are now 14 and 12. It's a whole different phase! Much love to you and Scarlet ❤
So sorry that you are so sick, Melinda - I hope you get well soon 🙏 I am also sorry that you had to endure 2 tubal pregnancies 😰 Thank God that you have Scarlett she is such a beautiful child, in both looks and spirit 💕💖💗 Thank you for your honesty in posting this vlog - I’m sure that it was not easy 🥹 You are a beautiful kind person and I hope that God blesses you and Scarlett all during your lives 🍀💚❤️💖🙏🙏🙏
I am sorry you had two ectopic pregnancies. They must have been so scary for you. Thankfully you have Scarlett! She is gorgeous x I had 2 ectopic pregnancies and miscarriages and i have 'lost' both my fallopian tubes. I had children before that (I was 19) and luckily thanks to IVF i have had another child and pregnant with my 4th baby! You are strong! Keep being you!
I had my first pregnancy at 25 had a miscarriage then at 30 i had my first and only daughter .My daughter was 22 and she adopted twin daughters that made me a grandma and i can tell you being a grandma is the best title yet.....Im so sorry you went through all that at such a young age but i wish you all the luck in the future.
I'm very sorry for your losses.scarlett is your miracle baby.i love you and Scarlett your an amazing mom.i love your videos...I'm sorry what you went threw.i hope things get better for you.your so strong...you got a great big family there for you.im here for you too I'm a great talker.
You are lucky to have survived 2 ectopic pregnancies Just be happy with you and sweet Scarlett and focus on the two of you. If things work out later down the line you can always adopt🥰❤
You have a wonderful family but don't let them pressure you into having children, no matter what. Your decisions are your decisions and you have your reasons for doing what you do. I enjoy watching all the videos from all of you. I have 2 children - 32 and almost 30 with no grandchildren. I would like to have some grandchildren but I also understand their reasons for none. I come from a much smaller family - only 7 of us :D and have numerous nieces and nephews and now some great-nieces and nephews and I'm happy for my siblings and their grandchildren. Things happen for reasons that we don't always know.
That is so scary Melinda, I'm sorry you went through all that. How can they say you're low risk when its happened twice already I wonder? I guarantee your mom wants YOU alive and well more than another grandbaby from you! Shes got Scarlett, and I'm sure the siblings will give her one or two more eventually 😉! Hope you feel better soon, appreciate you uploading when you aren't feeling well. Much love from Wilsonville Oregon ❤
I was 19 when I had my oldest son, 18 when I got pregnant. My parents were not excited, so you were lucky in that respect. Then I was 23 when I had my second son, and 28 for my third boy. Some people may not understand you keeping that information, but it's not their place to understand. That's your way to grieve as you choose. ❤❤
Melinda💖 so sorry to hear about your ectopic pregnancies 😢 I had my first baby at 25 & my second at 29 but did have a miscarriage before my second one and a miscarriage about a month ago.
I'm sorry to hear about your pregnancy losses. I'm praying for a healthy pregnancy for you in the future and you can keep trying until you are in your late 30's or early 40's! My mum had my brother at 32, then she had me at 34 and then she had my sister at 40. There are options here like donor egg or donor sperm, IVF and IUI.❤❤❤❤
Hope you feel better soon Melinda. I had similar experience to you I lost my first baby at 4 months on Christmas eve rushed into hospital. Then my second at 3months I had to have IVA treatment and treatment to keep the baby so I didn't loose it again I got to 35 wks he was born prem quite poorly but he's over 6ft and 42yrs old my 2nd full birth I had treatment again she was born at 37wks she was small still is she is 40yrs I thought I was lucky so didn't want to push my luck but 4yrs later I was so ill and found out I was 4 months pregnant put on bedrest had treatment to keep her got to 7 half months she was born very small very poorly in nicu a long time . Poorly baby but she is 37yrs old . 😢
I got pregnant first at 18 and miscarried 😢 then had my first born at 20 second at 21 third at 24 and fourth at 27!! 😅 but I wouldn’t change it for the world! Although I do often wonder how my first little baby might have been 😢 now I’m going on 30 and love the family I was given and try to soak it in as much as I can before they grow old ❤
I had an ectopic back in 2012. I found out I was pregnant at 9dpo then at 11 weeks 3 weeks I started bleeding and had super bad shoulder pain. Went for an emergency scan to find out I measured 10.11 but tube was almost about to rupture so had to had surgery ❤️
My 3rd pregnancy was an ectopic. The pain would move from shoulder to shoulder, it was horrible. Also the abdominal pain. When I went to the ER( military) they said I was making up the pain. Managed to make it through the night and went to a civilian hospital. They said I would’ve died in less than 24 hours if I hadn’t come in. Had emergency surgery and they took one tube. Women listen to your body and don’t let doctors make you think you’re crazy.
Been following you family and followed you since you started your channel, My son is11yr old almost 2yrs after having him one night out of nowhere i was in extreme pain I was eush to the ER and it was an Ectopic Pregnancy had to have emergency suregy. At first I was sure how I felt but even to this day i do get sad when I think about it. I am blessed to have my son he is the love of my life but i had always want to have to kids and now I dont see that do to many factors, Just know I understand what you been though thank you for sharing your story. I have my son st 30
Girl u got this i been through it and but be strong this will get better 😢me had etopic pregnancy sucks hoping that body will Allowed me to have a child
Love you Melinda. Thank you for sharing this. Did the Ectopic pregnancy always be in the same tube? Does the father hold guilt because of it? I love you have adoption in your heart, and your daughter growing in the mind. Keep being a great mom.
🙏🏻 Hoping you start to feel better❤Aww sisterly love was there for you. My gosh Melinda❤I am just so happy you have Scarlet(sandwich) and knows she brings you so much joy. Enjoyed watching and thank you for sharing ❤❤
I had my 1st child at age 21 but I turned 22 a few weeks later. I had my youngest child in February 2017 4 weeks before my 41st birthday I have 6 children but also had 2 miscarriages too.
Hope you get feeling better sooner rather than later. ❤ Thanks for sharing your eptopic pregnancy story. How often does a person have more than one ectopic pregnancies? I am sorry you had two. 😢
This is Tammy. They I'm very sorry for your loss. And I don't know hate my ethos kid at the age of 25. And then I want to say 2 years later, I end up finding out putting again and it was on normal and stuff. Until 1 day he was at school and I was having well bad Domino. Cramps, and fortunately it in the beam echoed pregnancy and they independent to take. My Tube but now I always want another kid but and I always tried but never end of heaven. Another one now I'm in my high 40s and my son. It's twenty two and and the love of my life , and I think I did so I know how it is and I know how hard it can be
28 with my first child. Very possibly my last, but i think i want one more. The delivery was just so traumatic, and idk if i could deal woth another delivery not going to plan
I was 18 when I had my first. 22 with my second. And 26 with my third. I also have a bonus son and I was 16 when he was born. Met him when I was 19 tho and I'm now 31 (32 later this year). Anyway....my junior year, my mom had an ectopic pregnancy. She had her tubes tied since my sister was born (she's almost 5 years younger than me) they said somehow the sperm didnt even go thru the fallopian tube the way it traditionally does. But she had a tear on the other side of her tube and the sperm found the tear and swam up the opposite way which is how she got pregnant. How they know that..I have no clue but he said that sperm was very determined. But her hormones were doubling like they're supposed to in a healthy pregnancy so they didn't even think anything was wrong. Her tube was about to burst and she was bleeding internally. And in excruciating pain. So they had to do emergency surgery. It was a sad day so I can only imagine your pain from going thru 2 of them. You're a strong woman Melinda. You've gone thru so much in your life. So very proud that you just keep pushing thru and never give up. You're incredible. Don't ever tell yourself otherwise or let anyone else either. 💜
I'm so sorry for the loss of your 2 babies. Since you have had two Ectopic pregnancies, do you have a chance of another? Can anything be done so you are safe?
I was 21 when I miscarried my first baby was 3 months along. Ended up pregnant soon after and had my daughter at at 22 then my son at 24 they are two years and 3 days apart.
