99.9% Of Women Are Turned On When You Do THIS 

The best line was "only text to meet up, no chitchat". Powerful and thoughtful.

No offense, but I've dated piles of girls, and tried much of what many dating experts recommend. In the end, I just don't give a rip. If I'm busy I text them when I am not. If I'm not busy I text them back. Playing games is just lame. If a girl wants you, and is intelligent, and keen she won't need you to jedi mind trick her. Mystery is good etc etc, but purposely trying to wait to text means you're focusing way too hard on outcomes. Don't care. That's true strength.

"Distance creates desire." Damn, that girl I met 10 years ago must really like me now

I used to text and reply almost instantly. Used to send emojis, the good morning sunshine crap. Now I only call. Call her phone. Speak with a low voice, slowly. It’s so much better that way.

Unfortunately, all the girls I talk to are part of the .01%

This is funny as other dating coaches are telling women the same strategy. At this rate no one will ever get it together.

people want what they cant have

it is hard to be a challenge when you really like someone and want to talk to there

You're the most calm and relatable dude I've ever watched on this type of things,thank you. Tripp.

Pro tip- mute conversations on phone.

Covid.. even Sam Harris switches profession

alot of the availability and lack of initial vulnerability stuff is really expanded on in 48 laws of power. Law 4: Always Say Less than Necessary Law 12: Use Selective Honesty and Generosity to Disarm your Victim Law 16: Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor

So true... the challenge is in you all along. There’s a psychological thing that your not looking for good love but the love you were familiar with as a child. If you complement the love and denial of love your partner had as a child then they will “fall in love”

I am so guilty . You are a legend

Wouldn't it be simpler if women was just authentic, period.

That economics part was best explanation bro

These rules are ridiculous to me. Why have we turned dating into a game? Can people just be their authentic selves?

Remember demand is only high with scarcity when the product is valued. If you’re without supply and not desireable, you have 0 sales. Work on yourself brothers

Tripp you have saved me once again! I feel like I’m learning and realizing so much every time I watch your videos. I’m always thinking of how I go about dating and talking to girls every time you’re giving advice. It feels like applying these tips will not only be easy but really beneficial! Great video, Tripp!

All excellent advice from Tripp. As for being attracted to what seems to be unavailable to us, we obviously won't desire something if we already have it!

What Tripp is saying in this video 100% makes sense. Won't lie, I'm 20 years old and have complications with getting into a relationship, but I keep trying and I'm gonna keep trying! I know I'll start seeing more improvement as I keep going.

Agree with this because I 100% focus on myself.

Hi Tripp, I've been dating a lady for about two months now. She's already told me what she is very happy with me about. The fact im not to needy. Yes, she actually said this.

Facts all being needy and clingy does is push her away, you gotta not be available all the time it’s not what you want to do, but it’s what you have to do.

My scarcity-value is so high that women don’t even know I exist. I am like a rare gemstone buried 50 miles under the earths crust

so true! this tip would probably be applicable in a marriage. To keep the passion and desire alive. As the saying goes, familiarity breeds contempt.

Dude, you're onto something very powerful here. Of all the things I ALREADY knew and a was a 100% sure of is the don't try to impress by buying and give her material things. However, I was completely failing by overcomplementing(even if I AM being sincere, because I do mean it - there's a thin line line there) and it 'becoming white noise' really checks out. You're giving us gold, dude. Thanks for the excellent tips! "And then saw his vid! Now I'm a believer!" :D

Your job is amazing, bro! Keep up with it.

Indifference makes a difference.

Hahaha. I approach and approach and approach. And I don’t get numbers and dates. So I don’t have to worry about being too available because I don’t get the date!

The whole texting phenomenon is ridiculous because it just lends itself to the stupid mind games. Just phone the person and make direct communication and be honest how you feel.

availability is not the only challenge. most of my successful nights involved "disagreements" i've had women almost yelling at me when i calmly disagree with their point of view on something, then had those same women all over me half an hour later lol.

The best way to be a challenge is to show interest in us but also have your own life. Dont be there available at aall times. That tells us we will be despo sivlw for your self-esteem. That's not attractive to anyone, especially when you barely know each other. No one likes to feel that they are 100% responsible for someone else's happiness, someone else's social life. Being too available feels engulfing and is waaaay to much pressure. This goes for girls needing to have their own life and not being too available to the guy she likes. It's human nature.

Most important ATTRIBUTE when dating is making a good IMPRESSION and EFFORT in everything you do!! REMEMBER YOUR COMPETING WITH OTHER MEN....

Hey. I get a text ..I respond. If the girl doesn’t want me it’s ok with me HER LOSS.

This not always work. I know one beautiful smart girl that married not handsome, poor bald man because he treat her like a queen. She said he is hard-working and have a lot of potential. When he is success she will be treated even better. And know what? He is rich now and she is still his queen. Smart girl have wider vision

Basically be reserved!!!!!

My ex complained that I was never available. So we broke up.

Few years back I saw your video on something about forming a triangle when looking at a girl. Eye + Eye + Mouth. It worked the first time I used it and ever since then I have been using that. Since then I have also started paying attention to your content. I remember having this girl friend for few years and she knew my schedule and we could only meet few times a week. That help maintain my relationship with her for few years until I moved out of state. Good Tipp on been mysterious and taking my time to relive little at a time.

What is good about your channel is the fact that you keep a mature vibe in your videos. It is less likely high schoolers get involved because mostly because of the way the message is delivered. Even I don't consider I need this stuff I find myself constantly evaluating what you teach. It is upsetting listening to emails from youngsters that Even struggle everyday to choose what colour of sneakers they are going to wear.

There's not really any difference between guys and girls in this. How would you feel about a girl instantly texting you back every time, constantly buying you gifts, never challenging you, always hanging around? Sure, some of these may be "nice", and out of politeness you'd thank her for the gifts, which is usually what girls do to guys, but you can't buy attraction. Being mysterious is alluring. Girls, like strippers and writers and movie makers, constantly use it.

Great job man, amazing advice

Like a PS5, couldn't find one so easily. I was so happy when I found one and now that I have it, it's barley being used.

Just find interesting things to do in your life and girls well recognized that and well shase you just keep that and never never make her feel she got u...

So .. I'm going for it guys. I have a girl that I am crazy about. I have always loved her .. been friend zoned for DECADES. Not sure how this is going to turn out, but I would LOVE to have her in my life. Yes, I understand its a long shot, but I feel God is working inside of me. I am changing and understanding more and more about women and my girl in particular. Yes, I may read this post back in a year from now and feel like the biggest dope ever. But as Marcus Luttrell (Lone Survivor) said .. "we have this fire inside of us .. a river .. pushing us into those cold dark places .. where the bad things live .. where the bad things fight. And we wanted that fight at the highest possible level .. a loud fight". I'm not afraid to fight. I'm not afraid to look like a fool. If I am going to be a fool it will be for my Lord and my love. Amen!

I wish I had seen this man’s videos 4 months ago.

Lets hear Kezia's response to this one

The first 3 minutes of the video he basically said everything in my head

Lmao, girls are watching the same videos and both don’t text each other for weeks and one person gets very impatient and texts or calls finally 🤣😂

you gotta make a video on how to approach a high school girl that you have no classes with but want to get to know her without her thinking your a weirdo bc you know how it is

you are a superior teacher mr. tripp. thank you very much.

geez, I have been doing everything wrong

well now she knows you're not busy since you're in quarantine

Great advice my friend, keep it coming. We need more people like you

Great vid, thanks Tripp!!!

If I'm POLITE, HANDSOME, SUCCESSFUL AND ADVENTUROUS...BELIEVE me they ain't gonna LOOSE INTEREST!

Me. Stops being so open (aka not always initiating conversation) Her: never fuckin texts me again

This is discouraging. If a woman needs to be teased, tricked and games than she isn’t worth it. This seems like the perfect advice for middle schoolers but this all seems kind of childish for adults, I’m not saying it doesn’t work, that’s why it’s discouraging

This doesn’t work. I’ve tried for years not to make myself available and haven’t had a girlfriend in 6 years. Whenever I make myself a challenge they lose interest and disappear.

THIS IS GOLD.

She'll only be up to the challenge If she's attracted to you in a first place So then you can give her a little bit of the challenge ,or some sort of stimulation to keep things less boring.. Otherwise it's a waste of time. And sorry to say but the main attraction factor will be your looks, body , face, smile , eyes, how you carry and present yourself , maybe tone of your voice, your emotional intelligence, flirting skills, other talents, smell of your perfumes. etc. Then you may serve her some playful challenge 😄😎

Spot on as ever, Tripp 👌 Easy to listen to as well Keep up the good work, bro!

In a nutshell, Be Darth Vader 💀

These are some good tips and ideas, and really how a lot of guys approach dating etc. I totally agree that knowing how women think is great but I might caution against putting too much work into chasing a specific person, if she does not try to connect with you after you've tried a few times than she probably is not interested and you should move on. After a bit of time yeah she may show interest again but she may also be messing with you or she may be practicing her attraction skills on you or who knows. I guess I'm saying that if it's meant to be than it will be easy and fluid, and if it's not than maybe it's not the right time or right person or both. I agree that it's not good or right to give gifts, or buy attention, even when people are married it's not really a good look if it happens all the time. Tripp has some good advice and I'll admit that I've done some of the things that Tripp is advising against, this is how guys think I guess, and the phycology of attraction and dating seems strange sometimes but if this is how most people think and act than role with the good advice. And if all this feels difficult, Alternatively, you could live in a society that has your relationships and marriage, if you are to be married, planed before you were born, or some other arrangements. So, improve your self and learn about phycology but don't be too hard on your self either because this is very much social stuff and there is and have been a great variety of societies. Also, it is possible that your life and experience is different from those around you, and while some people are attracted to difference others are not. Some people will relate to you very well, others may not, and it's no one's fault it's just that there are a lot of people on this world. Food for thought.

Thanks for the advice, Tripp!! I will put all of your advice to good use!!

I am totally against dating more than one woman at a time.

Never EVER reply straight away. It's a game killer Trust me I'm talking with plenty of experience.

Well in my case, the 0.1% of girls are in my school. Just kidding🥰😂

Hahaha.... @ 1 minute .. "I bet some women are watching that" 😉 yup... I just randomly clicked on this. Actually your tips can be used by both parties. Matthew Hussey, the relationship couch for women is giving us the same advice. 😛 Fun channel! Good luck!

When people take a day to return a text and you know they got very little in their life, it comes across as pathetic in my book. Then again, why am I interested in someone like that? lol

Thanks for this video... interesting perspective. 👍

So does this all go away when you say, you’re cute lets hangout? Like when you approach you give a compliment and usually men ask to hangout. Doesn’t that mean your value is gone? “ does he like me or not?” It’s obvious that he does ??

Great coach!

Yes, not being too available makes you more attractive. However, it also increases the chance that she picks a man who is available in the meantime. Good women do not need to wait, they will be approached all the time. If they are really attractive, they will not be single/available anyway. The cute women are snatched from the market quickly, if you wait too long, they are gone! Happened to me and none are left to date.

Thanks Tripp.

Tripp I hope you read this. I wanna say man to man. Thank you. I know you don’t know me but I love ya brother. Thank you.

Good video I appreciate your help

man, i like your dating advice and especially the way you articulate english words, i can hear clearly though i am non-native.

Any advice on a situation like this. My and my wife are seperated. Been working on myself and I'm fine with the split at this point. However I'm down and out waiting on an ankle surgery. Getting out right now is difficult. Meeting up not so easy. Besides myself and working on my mind. What kind of game or dating can I work on while I heal up? Video on this may be good as well. How to continue this lifestyle when life itself get rough.

Desperation is not an aphrodisiac. Give compliments rarely, after she has earned them.

3:25 she will choose another guy that clarifies that to her. Has happened to me in the past bro

Definitely agreed, but where do you get the statistical number?

You're the Iron Man of love man !!

MYSTERY. THE MORE YOU DONT CARE THE BETTER muahahahahaha

Thx bro

"Ever once in a while", "very seldom", what does this actually means in terms of timescales?

It is completely crazy and low value advice but it may work. Yet, it lay work as long as it stays as a secret but nowadays this "trick" is adviced in almost all of seduction channel ( lol!). So you gonna end up ignoring each other responding 2 days latter to appear hot (sic), unaccessible (sic).... The real respectable man will respond on minute if he fancy it since he shared the attraction he has for thr women. If the women try to play the game, he will put her on the skip

Never text a woman if she text you back unless she texted you first,but only if it's an initial texting. Women will appreciate that because they do the same thing, . Then meet up with her 2 times every week,but only if you have met with her once per week ,, like 3x per day. Thats what will make them like you.. Women don't know what they want ,unless it's what they think their friends like it then they like it even if they don't like it. Thats what they like .

We meet once a week but when I told her I like her after five dates, she told me to keep on knowing each other. Women

You the man Tripp 💪

Hmmm i dont agree. You have the girl and the guy doing it. Then its a put off and turn off.

Well love became mind game I can say....

Fellas it's not us, woman are gone way up in the clouds now a days. Stop giving a shit let the clouds drift away

"We all want to win" . . . . Everybody:.... GaryVee: sup homies

Wait.... need friends? Dammit....

What does it mean when someone you work with says where have you been hiding this guy from me

So after 10-20 years he/she figures out everything about me, does that mean it's time for divorce?

I'm a girl but I'm just watching this because i wanna see how accurate it is

This advice is weird. As a woman I’m not interested in a man that makes it too hard. Blahhhh 🤢🤮

Use dating sites just to invite women out for a quick meet and greet over a drink. Texting can be misread plus it's not until u meet a person f2f and interacting for a short time will u know if y have any connections or level of chemistry that leads to some type of relationship Friends or casual or dating short to long term .. depending on ur path not hers...