Do THIS If She Ghosts You 

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MIDWAVY 😂😂😂

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I thought i had it bad

Dang Bro....that's too bad...LOL

Damn, I’m sorry to hear that.

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This!!!!!

You sir are a genius. I agree 100%

and if she doesnt let you borrow money its time to git rid of her

What a good way of responding, if anybody ghosts someone.

Matty Matt i agree man. He/she doesn’t even respect the person they ghost enough to give them a polite rejection. It’s called zero empathy

Or she's a narc..

That last sentence, fuck. Thanks haha

It still would’ve been better if she didn’t ghost u

BINGO!

Great comment dude, this really made me realize that I'm so lucky that she ghosted me so I don't have to feel bad because I reject or hurt her at the end lol

Abundance of goals aswell, not just women.

I agree she is immature and needs to emotionally suffer , and her kids should be taken away ,

I agree she is immature and needs to emotionally suffer , and her kids should be taken away ,

Facts bro

They might

They always run

@@morelions4014 😢

It sucks. But never forget that women are usually dating many guys at once. So if your competitors make progress after your date with the girl, you will get ghosted after. Women are only as loyal as their options. Never forget that.

This is gold 💯

She ghost you fuck her she deserves to be single for the rest of her life

I just want revenge

@@Suspect333 You want revenge ? Date another woman. Don't chase. 🙂

@@Suspect333 what happens when you chase a cat ? You'll be fine 👍

@@kkenason8728 She’s not going to care

Yes, I got rejected and ghosted before and getting rejected hits harder, but stays for less time and is less painful. and there’s this girl that’s been „ghosting“ me for a day and I don’t know if she’s just busy or Abt to really ghost me. I’m not chasing her, I’m giving her time to decide if she’s gonna text me back finally or just gonna ghost me.

​@KnowYourDestiny that's a big f lie, I'm ripped and much better looking than when I was on my 20s, (I'm 30 now), I have almost 0 pussy with a lot of positive changes on my physical and mental self, what get you girls is social circles not gym.. that's a lie

They both suck!

It’s true :(

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Finally someone gets it..,

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Yep, it’s very disrespectful, but can’t fall into their trap and chase after them. Hold onto your power, don’t give it to someone who’s not interested in you.

Im thinking exactly the sameee!!! i came across some female dating tips and they where very contradicting to what ive been learning from the male dating tips loool i dont even know what to do anymore

If women would stop playing games

Show the women some respect. Give her space but dont ignore her. Treat her right especially if shes a nice/kind/decent person. Be there for her..take her on a date. She loves it..You talk on the phone every other night or so. She talks and acts like she has real feelings and you cant help but start to feel the same. Then just before Valentine's day she ghosts you lol. She acts like you no longer exist, and while you continue to be kind and respectful, you still get ignored. All while she continues posting stories on her snapchat to her 2k+ male followers, telling them "hmu😑" which itself doesn't mean much if anything. But when you are PURPOSELY ghosting the "one guy I care about, you are the only guy I talk to" blah blah blah yet I cant even get rejected by you. Which I'd prefer. I can handle rejection and breakups. But the past week she been talking like we were going to be seriously dating soon. I didn't force her. And now I am just so confused. She was cool af. Still dont hate her and am not angry. Just a bit hurt and confused. Really wish shed just send one message saying why..I mean she hasn't blocked me or deleted me. So whats going on? And how are you ok with fucking with people like this? I havent dated in years cuz my last gf cheated. I never knew what ghosting was but ive just found out the hard way . How can you happily continue living your life like nothing happened? Are you that cold hearted and cruel? If I had closure I'd be much better. Then I could know the truth and move on. This sucks so much. Like Im the butt of her joke and they all watch as I get cucked like some pathetic soy boy simp.

@@ElPatron42069 update?

@@ElPatron42069 Same situation bro, don't know either what to do, but I guess she was just not into you, due to other factors, character, personality, humor etc...

As long As you had sex with her and and didnt pay and making money youl come ah long way being single

does this apply for BPD too?

@@LiquidSnakeSSJ4 yes i had sex with ah ex and they are not marriage type they seem like happy people but reality they are getting desperate and old infact i meet 38 year old woman who has BPD wants to divorce and wants to have sex with me no joke

@@LiquidSnakeSSJ4 Run away from BPDs before its too late.

​@LiquidSnakeSSJ4 don't waste your time with those girls. Flakes at the best of time, nightmares at the worst.

keep your head up brother, i'm 33 and just learning this now.. when a girl ghosts I just delete/block and move onto the next. 90% of these girls act & think they are movie stars they need to be brought down a peg or two.

The fact that you're dealing with this shit at 54 makes me lose what remaining hope I had for this dating stuff.

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No, you're going the wrong way.

@@GeeCeeWU Probably right, I tend to crab walk around attractive women until they become uncomfortable and leave. Forever sideways!

@@horizonkage I meant that you're going the wrong way by chasing her. I'm 72 years old now and have had a lot of life experience regarding relationships, marriage, divorce etc. I'm thinking that technically it should be a lot easier to meet women today with all the social media tools at your disposal, which we didn't have in the 1960's and 70's. It just seems to be like a minefield, with the thought of having to interact with the opposite sex striking terror into the hearts of the male species in general, what happened?

@@GeeCeeWU I mean that people shouldn't be chasing any woman. Either she doesn't like you or she's playing immiture games. If she's moving away from you, look for someone else. Someone that moves towards you. But to answer the question, I'm sure this problem with guys has always existed. Men with better role models will always do better, and we have a lot of broken homes nowadays. The other problem is social media, People, especially women have too much choice but the other problem is the easy access to porn and how easy it is to hide at home and never go outside. Accessibility has actually resulted in far more isolation then ever.

@@horizonkage You are right, I'm glad I was born when I was. Most of the social scene today seems to be superficial and fake.

Nah I would act bitter. I hate being an adult

TD3 - That is the whole point about ghosting. You don't know it is being done until after some time.

"She will most likely now want you because you’re not chasing her" This is your imagination and hope. If she liked you in the first place, she would already be with you.

@@goranvuletic8873 this from actual experience. I’ve had a lot success with meeting and dealing with women but very little success in finding women of quality. I myself had to also do some maturing which eventually led my success in finding a good wife. Nothing delusional here.

@@WORLD8NSH5KNIGHT1 did you not read the paragraph?

@@atreaunews6174 blame women...they want to reproduce with the best genes possible or they just want you for your money

Yes. But goals and hobbies are more enjoyable if you have someone in your life to share them with.

You know that's not as easy to actually do when you're in a state of trauma or depression ....

@@miamitrancemissions6425 i totally agree with you. I feel the same way but people keep shoving down your throat that "you need to learn to be happy with yourself " I'm like yeah no s*** I do love myself this is a completely separate issue lol

@@miamitrancemissions6425hahahaha no. I go to the gym solo and I only have my gym bros there to share it with. Everything else also doesn’t have to be anyone romantic

Especially if she gorgeous I heard, its like the jealousy pre selection bachelor effect according to my research

Same except i had 2 then i broke up with them and all of a sudden im getting choosing signals shit test and a little touching. A bump and a reach for my food but not too much.

Oh yeah she even be in my business ik because my stepmom sister told me.

Thats your ego talking if she ghosted you she doesnt have feelings for you strong enough. You cant make a woman jealous who isnt "interested" in you

@@ritagomes9186 yess ecactly what I was thinking

As I sit here stroking my numb rock hard fingers nodding my head saying yes yes this is so true lol 😆

Man! I so love your analogy since I'm a guitar player and that is so true! Those callouses are what allow you to become a guitar god later on! I'm gonna see this stuff this way from now on bro! 🎸

@@ignaciocarda6004 👍

thats such an awesome analogy man!! I'm glad i found and read your comment and i play guitar myself. You're right we gotta keep going💪

I totally agree man we need to hit the reset button

learnt something here as a lady who's been ghosted I'm going to apply the laws you have stated.. thank you

In today's world unfortunately many women have a false sense of their attractiveness and think they should be on a pedestal. Texting has made this much worse. Another form of ghosting is avoidant behavior, which points to issues she may have had from childhood.

Genius level

Lol

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Yep. Lets all get more depressed and sulk! It doesnt mean the next is gonna work out. The whole dating pool is garbage

Same here. I'm now 46, but back in my 20s and 30s and into my early 40s I had no time for women, game and serious dating since I ended up being a caregiver on many levels to my sickly family. My life only finally became my own 5 years ago, so I have a lot of catching up to do.

Dude I barely dated in my 20s but now in my 30s I want to. Glad I'm not the only one.

Dating in the 40s is an absolute nightmare.

100%

Very excellent point. Thanks for that!

Wife of 21 years had an affair and I recently found out. During those 21 years, I was basically subjected to narcissistic abuse, where I was degraded, insulted, isolated, etc. I tried to forgive her over the years, thinking that she will come around. Nope. Instead she had an affair. I tried to forgive that also, but it drove me nuts that she betrayed me this way. Recently I met someone online, but she ghosted me (my fault - I was a little too pushy), came back, and ghosted me again, but this time I have no bloody idea why as I didn’t say or do anything. It’s almost as if she is shit testing me in some way. Or, she’s another narc that is looking for a victim.

Everything seemed great for a few weeks while we talked. And only got better. Started to get attached to each other. We were up til like 3 am gaming the day before Valentine's day. Still, everything was going great. She seemed so happy. And now she acts like I don't exist. No idea why. Im not gonna spam her with messages. Or cuss her out or anything. All I said was "if you're no longer interested thats fine. Just lmk so I can properly move on please? No hard feelings whatsoever " word for word and, still nothing. I saw her posting on her snapchat to her 2k+ followers saying "hit me up😑" and that made my heart sink. I can take rejection and breakups. But I hate liars. You say you aren't talking to other guys like that. Yet shes more content to continue posting snapchat stories to all those 2k+ random horny dudes who just wana fuck..and tbh I didnt say any of that. And the snapchat thing never bothered me. I trust you so theres nothing to worry about. But after ghosting me the day before Valentine's day and being shady and doing your snapchat stories for attention, I started to not trust her. Its just cruel how you can lead someone on, convince them you care for them dearly, and just hang them out to dry like that. Thats the only reason the snapchat thing got to me. You can be so cold hearted that you can just live life normally and cut me off while my mind goes berserk, but you cant be cold hearted enough to just message me on snapchat and say something like "its over loser. Im hot, you're ugly. I found a better/real man" or whatever the reason is. Honestly any of those would be better than getting ghosted. At least I'd know what to work on. And it would be so much easier to move on!!! But not knowing drive me insane! :(

Everything is a waste if you're ugly. Hard truth for us as a man

Thank you

Same here. Had great chemistry, she initially showed interest. I shared personal stuff about my life that only a handful of people on earth know about me, I was emotionally invested in her. She intentionally ignored me when I wished her happy thanksgiving. It stings badly because I simply don’t get very many opportunities. I unfriend her from Facebook and moved on. It really sucks because I made absolutely sure there was enough signs there to have preponderance of the evidence that she was interested

I have had the same shit happen to me. I told her straight up what the fuck is going on, I spilled the beans all over her. Turns out we just wern't compatible so I just ended the whole thing there and then and never looked back. Don't fuck around with ghosters, they'll fuck your soul and leave you dead. If you ever get ghosted or friendzoned, just move on.

Guys, we've all been there. Trust me, even the Chads and Tyrones have gone through this at some point in their life. I think the problem boils down to us young men trying to fill a hole with women. We instead need build ourselves, work towards a greater goal, and find inner peace. Whether women wanna get onboard or not should not bother us too much.

Yup too much options for their own good

Ass backwards ....

Yep. This is me... Fit. Almost 6 ft. Good job. Own apartment. Make them laugh. I can get them into the bedroom no problem. Good family upbringing with good values. I think I'm not too bad looking face wise but definitely not top tier... But if I go for a woman who I consider "on my level" or close enough... Maybe I get to a 3rd date but it only takes one tiny slip and she's onto the next one. As if she's perfect herself! I just know they will wind up alone with their cats but that guys like me lose out too. It's just so sad.. Why can't women pull their head in and understand that James Bond is not going to suddenly want to wife them up after they've whored around past the age of 30! And why is it such a horrible thing to express a bit of interest after a 3rd date and expect a bit of respect to not play this cat and mouse bullshit of not texting back in a timely manner! God. I just can't stomach having a long term relationship with someone who is into those kinds of manipulation tactics. It's so immature.

Wait so where did you see her at after the week and a half of silence from both of you?

Now i just block girls who takes 1-3days to open a message

im a sigma..

once you learn how to do it once you can master it

Your a boss

I feel your pain 💯 percent

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You are right

Corey wayne too

Great speech

I’m a girl and I would agree the same for men

So basically not chasing doesn’t work either 😅

This is exactly what happened to me ghosted, went back to her ex after two months of dating... I was her rebound, no explanation it's a form of abuse, no empathy coward like Manor they can't just tell you I'm going back for leftovers🍗

@@JustinMasters1989 then what happen after 2 months, are you still seeing her? Or did she flake back out like a box of Frosted Flakes

@@JustinMasters1989 there's usually another guy in the picture, that you never knew about, they tried to move on but it wasn't enough time for them to heal, and then they screw you over and then you are in the same boat sinking oh, it's never ending it seems

@@JustinMasters1989 I did the same thing with her, I told her what I wanted she tried to friendzone me, I said no friends !!! got plenty of them romance only) we had a great time together a lot of like likes, I told her if you change your mind or your heart give me a call .... I never called or text her ever again no chasing , walked away like she was dead ...like you said never existed you have to do that. If you chase you'll just push her further away... she has to go back to figure it out, she had more time with him than me,,,, will she ever come back? Flip a coin,,, I know people that came back 5 10 20 years later amazing that's your choice then... always go by your gut feeling, your gut is connected to your brain it will tell you..., I haven't heard from her in three years ... dating many other women, but that one was the Unicorn, 🦄one-of-a-kind , she was definitely amazing, in every aspect,

@L L savage af bro

xMCxVSxARBITERx I’m praying for you brother. I have the same feelings at times but Jesus is the way and He has someone for you. The key is obedience to Him and patience

xMx go off shore for a fertile woman it beats the odds the costs are extra, but your the prize.

Love your self..how can you love youre self when you let them treat you like that.Treat them like they are treating you👍I wish you well brother

Exactly the same here. I can't find a woman who knows what she wants.

yeah, I lost my virginity wayyy late. not ashamed because I had an amazing girl! honest humble people get the best for real... Keep working!

Best answer by far on here

Most guys need to learn from introverts. I am personally more of an extrovert, and I would easily get hurt by rejection and a lack of social arrangements. Introverts have a hidden power in being able to enjoy their own company for a long period of time.

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doesn‘t matter if you have a father. Most fathers these days would be in the same situation with this messed up generation of woman these days

@@Chris-gw2xgExactly even now it’s so much worse

I'm a fucking confident men she go and talk to alot of guy's meet new guy's and we're like talking not as boyfriend and girlfriend but i get jealous and i don't wanna tell her

she's not this beautiful I'm more beautiful than her but she got me trapped i don't really fucking know how and andd i can't fucking stop thinking about her please help

Bullshit go & hire escort you will forget everything

Go into the bathroom after the "goddess " has scented and come to YOUR Scenses.

@@thamuzm2684 maybe listen to some Sandman vids... Helps to see the techniques they use on us... Helps to be educated on what we're dealing with... Being in the dark on how they operate leaves u more helpless

Everyone is a piece of shit.

I feel you bro, I wished it would never happen to anyone.

It’s never too late

@@TrippAdvice Thank you very much. Have a son and am genuinely happy. But the genuine happy only came when i finally learned not to chase. Thank you.

That's fucking genius man. Hhhhaaaa! But really smart !

Eh I lived in Chicago for 22 years and I used to think the same thing. That same pendulum will eventually swing the other way where it is not an advantage.

SAME BRO SAME

because they got married after the second date lol

Social media..

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