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@navaxemmanuel4410
@navaxemmanuel4410 Год назад
Hi beautiful ladies it’s Nava 💕💕 I love reading all your words and want to say a few things that have been taken out of context. In this video I’m sharing my personal experience in marriage and I’m no expert. Just being me and sharing what God has shown me in my marriage. So let’s chat! 1. Let’s talk about the work comment. Marriage does take work of course! But Ive found it’s important in my marriage not to call it “work” and to put my marriage under that category. Calling it work all day can make it sound like a burden or a job you have to go to everyday. I don’t want to refer to my marriage as a 9-5 job. 2. Let’s talk about the comment about porn. My heart was to encourage women to pray for their husbands. Porn is an addiction and I’m not by any means blaming it on the wife. What I do want to encourage is for you to pray for them. By no means did I try to convey the idea that it’s the women’s fault!!! 3. If you are in an abusive relationship or you feel unsafe PLEASE reach out to a friend and if needed a social worker/counselor. Please speak up and reach out to someone!! Please feel free to ask me anything, I love the topic of marriage!!
@eq7746
@eq7746 Год назад
Thanks for adding some clarity - praying for your family and Israel right now in all that’s going on 💕
@rosefilled
@rosefilled Год назад
Please do similar videos on your own channel where woman can ask you questions on marriage, faith and other things I feel like it would be such a blessing 🫶🏼
@bayleenitafan2013
@bayleenitafan2013 Год назад
Thank you for clarifying the porn comment. I definitely took it the other way so I’m appreciative that you explained further what you meant 😊
@andreacastaneda-valencia8711
I appreciate this video and loved every part of it. So encouraged to try new habits to serve my husband and do God’s will in my marriage. Nava, your advice was on point 👌🏼
@kimberlypayneepicrealty1982
You are so beautiful inside and out. Everything you said, truly spoke to my heart. I appreciate it💞
@the.undividedheart
@the.undividedheart Год назад
Nava mentioned loving your husband so well that he stops watching porn which I find to be biblically/spiritually inaccurate and I just wanted to address this in the most loving yet truthful way possible. Our husband’s sin is not a reflection of how well we are loving them. Their sin is their own choice and spiritual battle. We cannot love them enough to stop their sin. Only God can change their hearts and minds toward sin. To the woman who loves her husband as well as you possible can, biblically, if he is watching porn it is not your fault nor does it mean you aren’t loving him well enough. We have to stop the thought that we can make our husbands stop sinning. Yes, we can influence them towards Christ, pray for them, and love them through their sin but their sin is a spiritual battle that only God can win for them. Wife, you cannot make your husband stop sinning. He has to choose it through surrender and dependence on God. When I am being a rebellious wife with my tone, words, etc this isn’t because my husband isn’t loving me well. There are LOTS of times when my husband is loving me as biblically accurate as possible but I’m still a human who battles with my flesh and sin and I still can be extremely sinful toward him no matter how well he’s loving me. We are called to lovingly call out their sin, pray for them, and encourage them not love them so hard they stop sinning. Only God can take sinful addictions such as porn, not your love as a wife. You can be the best, most biblical, most beautiful wife in the world and your husband can still choose the sin of porn because he is his own person with his own spiritual battles. 🤍
@bayleenitafan2013
@bayleenitafan2013 Год назад
so beautifully said ❤
@catherinedurant7806
@catherinedurant7806 Год назад
Thank you for this!!
@abigailjillfilmphotography659
These are such true words! I do think their hearts are in the right place, just a bit naive to how they sound to those who are in a different season of marriage. It sounds like they are all thriving in their relationships with the Lord and have acquired a very faith based, somewhat idealistic attitude after their years of marriage. I think this is so beautiful and a amazing thing. Just is not the case for all marriages. It might be a tough video for a married couple walking through a season such as trying to overcome an addiction to porn… which is very much dedicated “work”. I think it’s great to not view the relationship as purely “work”. But many seasons can feel like you are working so hard, so much, giving it everything you have and sometimes even casting all your cares on the Lord takes… well work. I think it’s okay to acknowledge this and call it work. You have to work hard at anything to create habits and a mentality that one day might feel like it’s not work at all. Different seasons. Different struggles. Different marriages. God can use your marriage for His glory no matter what season you are in.
@jade8107
@jade8107 Год назад
She clarified this in the comments
@SmittenInLove
@SmittenInLove Год назад
I agree with your comment but I think Nava’s comment was more of a “love him so well that hopefully HE feels so convicted about porn that for himself he wants to stop watching an honour you” (but ofc the burden is still on him) rather than “if you love him enough/properly then he will stop watching porn and if he doesn’t then you’re not being a loving wife enough”.
@RHM_MusicMinistry
@RHM_MusicMinistry Год назад
As a woman who’s been married almost 7 years…and had an issue with porn addiction in our marriage…I would submit to the woman on the left…loving a man so well that he “stops watching porn” isn’t biblical… and please be careful what you say on a public platform..where there are wives like me who’ve been through hell and back. Thinking somehow we can “love” our husbands well enough that their own “worship disorder” and sin issue will just “stop or go away”, if we do our part. The issue is his own sin and relationship with God. We as wives have influence, not control. I say this in love because these issues are SO tender for some. Also it could lead other sisters astray in thinking that WE have the POWER to change our husbands sin patterns. We don’t. We can PRAY and have GODLY INFLUENCE. God has the power. And Only Him.
@christinacanto3740
@christinacanto3740 10 месяцев назад
100%
@AbigailJoannaGreen
@AbigailJoannaGreen 7 месяцев назад
I agree with you completely. this is a very sensitive topic, and I'm sorry for what all you have been through I know that's hard. God knows your heart and that is the only thing that matters. He has compassion on you and your marriage, and he does not expect you to "fix" anothers sins.
@zareakirby7991
@zareakirby7991 Год назад
Most profound piece so far is when Navaa said “ People can see the dirt in your husband but it’s your job to see the treasure. It’s your job to pull it out “
@kelleyryanvlogs
@kelleyryanvlogs Год назад
Beautiful
@Beesknees923
@Beesknees923 Год назад
Comment from a 66 year old with grown daughters. 😊Choose wisely, don’t chose one with more dirt than treasure. Look for a godly man in the first place. It’s always a privilege to pray for your husband but choose one who knows where true North (Star of Bethlehem), is, Jesus. Enjoyed your talk ladies❣️
@cechernandez
@cechernandez Год назад
When Nava said..if I hadn’t held my tongue it would have caused an argument, would have ruined the whole day and I would have had one less day with my best friend..that hit so hard bc life is fragile..8 years ago my fiancé passed away and this couldn’t be more true!
@chlm-px4vy
@chlm-px4vy Год назад
🕊
@natnatureba7229
@natnatureba7229 Год назад
And let me tell you this … MELANIE??! She spoke so much truth, so assertive with her words, for her not to have the experience of marriage but still talk with so much wisdom is impressive
@kelleyryanvlogs
@kelleyryanvlogs Год назад
Totally agree!!! 🙏🏽💗
@beautifulmariah6677
@beautifulmariah6677 Год назад
I love how you said “crying is not a weakness” because a lot of people don’t get that. Crying is literally your body saying “I can no longer contain this feeling”
@kelleyryanvlogs
@kelleyryanvlogs Год назад
Could not agree more!
@ChandriaB08
@ChandriaB08 Год назад
Don’t be a perfect wife, be a loving wife! This was such a beautiful conversation. It even led me to repentance and to ask forgiveness from my husband for an argument yesterday! Loved everything about this!
@eq7746
@eq7746 Год назад
I disagree with avoiding calling marriage work- I don’t think it’s a negative thing to call marriage work. Marriage is full of mountains and valleys- highs and lows… and if you’re in a valley it’s going to take “work” to get back on top of the mountain. Love is a choice and sometimes choosing to sacrifice your wants, wishes, or desires for your spouse is going to feel like work. We don’t need to make people feel guilty if they are in a season in marriage where it feels like work. If anything marriage is the hardest thing a person can do because it requires you to put someone else before yourself… and when both spouses are naturally sinful in nature it will not be easy… it will take work. With that being said, in my experience almost every good thing requires some degree of work- nothing comes for free… not even a thriving marriage.
@bethanybailey4437
@bethanybailey4437 Год назад
AMEN! Thank you! I thought the same thing.
@zeagenmeyers4823
@zeagenmeyers4823 Год назад
I agree with this but some people can take work as negative connotation when in the context of a relationship for example love is a choice yes but instead of “work” it takes dedication to communicate through shortcomings disagreements etc
@kelseygiles3597
@kelseygiles3597 Год назад
AMEN !!
@tatyanaargirov1928
@tatyanaargirov1928 Год назад
She isn’t saying you don’t have to work in a marriage. She is saying not to call it work and treat it like a job but instead a privilege to have the opportunity to bless him. Like she was saying, you will get out of it what you focus on
@nicolemarie4216
@nicolemarie4216 Год назад
Totally agree. Something being “work” does not make it bad. Since when was work bad? Just means it takes effort, intention, and time.
@stefanie7088
@stefanie7088 Год назад
I’m sorry…. “Women need to love their husbands enough so he stops watching porn???? “ Porn and cheating is HIS SIN. A wife can’t love him away from that. That’s like saying she doesn’t love him enough, so he’s going to cheat. You’re taking away responsibility from a cheating husband.
@LizHeartsBeauty
@LizHeartsBeauty Год назад
👏👏👏👏
@michaiahs
@michaiahs Год назад
My thoughts exactly!
@ariannajoy3417
@ariannajoy3417 Год назад
I think they could’ve added more context for reasons like this..
@anestassia6346
@anestassia6346 Год назад
She didn't say it wasn't his sin or that it was the wife's fault. She's saying that arguing, nagging, and throwing his sin in his face doesn't change or cause him to repent of his sin. Praying over your husband and allowing God to convict your husband is the better route. You can't change your husband's heart and mind, that's God's job
@IndiaNicole_1
@IndiaNicole_1 Год назад
Maybe she meant love your husband THROUGH all of that? Because I agree, his sin isn’t about you. That’s his heart issue.
@ekc2411
@ekc2411 Год назад
Man. I watched this and cried calling my husband in repentance. Thank you ladies for sharing. This was life changing.
@olivebranchtruth7162
@olivebranchtruth7162 Год назад
Me too ❤
@curlymotherhood
@curlymotherhood Год назад
This is literally a whole cheat sheet on how to honor your husband and kids, I LOVE THIS.
@elizabethgutierrez-ob4yy
@elizabethgutierrez-ob4yy Год назад
As I’m listening to this I am speaking to my husband about some of his opinions on what you’re saying. He mentioned that he would agree with Nava and say that marriage isn’t work. He would say that marriage is humility. It takes effort or work to be humble but humility is the ultimate fruit of the labor. There has to be humility in speech, sex, working with the kids, etc. I thought that was so beautiful! ❤️😌
@mirandahenkel550
@mirandahenkel550 Год назад
I’m sure this isn’t what Nava meant, but in case anyone is in a verbally or emotionally abusive marriage, it is ok to stand up for yourself and it is ok to speak up. Even if it’s in the moment, it might be needed. Keep yourself safe ❤️
@KAM173
@KAM173 Год назад
I think another good way to look at the "what is the hardest part of marriage?" question is to think "the hardest part in my marriage is me." When you start focusing on you can do to better your marriage and refine yourself, things will begin to get a lot easier. Personally when I hear that question I think of what is wrong with my HUSBAND before thinking about what I am doing wrong. "If he just did xyz things would be so much easier" and I have learned that that is simply not true.
@BlaackStones
@BlaackStones Год назад
There is a RU-vidr called Kilean Rodriguez, I love her and her videos. Lately she’s been talking a lot about how you impacted her life and way of thinking even though she’s not a christian. I find it so amazing that you're able to spread the gospel all around and impact even people who are not Christian!
@jazpatuzzo4721
@jazpatuzzo4721 Год назад
I thought she was a Christian
@emilymartinez1754
@emilymartinez1754 Год назад
Please please do a video on raising sons! I’d love to hear the wisdom you guys have gained
@EverAfterAlways4
@EverAfterAlways4 Год назад
Hardest thing about marriage- transitions. Like transitioning through new jobs, having kids, school, etc .. figuring out life together with each other. Not a bad "hard thing" but learning to do that with another person can be challenging
@aliknorr2273
@aliknorr2273 Год назад
I like the idea of this video and was inspired about some things as a wife of 6 years. But i think saying “how do we love our husbands so they stop watching p**n” is an extremely problematic statement. That can be a severe addiction that can ruin a marriage that has absolutely NOTHING to do with the amount a wife is loving her husband. And is solely a responsibility of the partner that is choosing to watch those things over being fully committed to their spouse. I can’t stress that enough. Such a quick comment Can have a big impact for people who have truly walked or are walking through that situation. There needs to be more mindfulness when bringing things like that up in a topic around marriage. There’s so much more I could say but I will just leave it at that.
@courageouslykristen
@courageouslykristen Год назад
Agreed 100%.
@rebecaiacob4642
@rebecaiacob4642 8 месяцев назад
I was about to type this out
@morgangreen6109
@morgangreen6109 Год назад
I’m a little confused on 12:37 . Yes we should love our husbands so well but not so they “stop watching porn.” They shouldn’t be watching porn regardless!!
@proud2batj87
@proud2batj87 Год назад
YES! I would add that porn is an addiction. It has nothing to do with how much our husbands love us or whether they are satisfied in marriage. It's heaping blame on the wife to make it seem like it's her fault for not "loving her husband enough" if he's watching porn. It has nothing to do with that.
@the.undividedheart
@the.undividedheart Год назад
Yep. I wrote a comment on this. Their sin is not a reflection of how well we are loving them.
@nicolemarie4216
@nicolemarie4216 Год назад
I have 3 sons and would love for you guys to talk about raising sons in this day and age!
@kaitlynn2368
@kaitlynn2368 Год назад
Nava has such a gentle and genuine spirit. This was such a good convo to hear!
@sammimata
@sammimata Год назад
This video came out at the perfect time. We had such a nagging/ bickering day over the dumbest things! You can just feel the negative feelings in the home throughout the day. Thank you for posting this! Please keep doing videos like this! We need more Christian mamas advocating and fighting for our families ❤
@Chelle75
@Chelle75 Год назад
I honestly think this was the best video I have watched on Milena’s RU-vid. Three godly woman speaking on marriage is what we all need to hear. Thank you for this much needed conversation. I needed to hear this today ❤️
@Alyssa77774
@Alyssa77774 Год назад
This was an INCREDIBLE Holy Spirit filled conversation about marriage. I am so thankful for you ladies taking the time to share this powerful message needed in these times 🤍
@Meriniel
@Meriniel Год назад
God bless you girls for this video, it was very needed. I started bowling my eyes out just a couple of minutes in, and then paused to pray for my husband and our marriage. Keep these conversations going! They’re very needed!
@emilywilcox65
@emilywilcox65 Год назад
I love that through this video you can tell what conviction the Lord has brought on each one of these women. It really proves that the Lord is always working on each of his children in different ways. This conversation was beautiful to hear and helped bring light to some of my personal convictions I had been pushing down. It highlighted what a marriage should be versus the examples the world shows us. ❤
@allisonfoxworthy9457
@allisonfoxworthy9457 Год назад
It’s so important to pray for your heart in a moment of strife and THEN bring up hard things when you’re calm, then it will produce way more!
@valleriescavella8547
@valleriescavella8547 Год назад
Usually a silent viewer, but want to say that these types of conversations are so powerful. Been following you since I was a teenager. Continue to allow God to lead you in sharing words of wisdom and encouragement. God is using you!! 👏🏽👏🏽
@faiththomas3696
@faiththomas3696 Год назад
I’m so thankful to all of you for creating this video. I starting balling and then began walking around my house, praying. I heard God. I just have to put the work in
@maren.kristine
@maren.kristine Год назад
Wow. I didn’t realize how much i needed to hear this. Thank you SO much for taking the time to speak on this. Absolutely inspiring
@ivee1
@ivee1 Год назад
This is a podcast I would loooove to watch, it’s chatting with the girls but Godly and based on the Bible we need this!
@JLDEE-if4gx
@JLDEE-if4gx Год назад
“She was busy yo” was so relatable, these woman are woman of God. They are also human, it’s beautiful to watch their relationship with the Lord & to remind myself although I don’t have a perfect relationship with the Lord, no one does. What matters is that we remain faithfully to Him and seek Him always. Thank you for this ladies!
@bambio9686
@bambio9686 Год назад
Been married to my highschool sweetheart since I was 17 June will be my 29th year anniversary, 6 kids together Yes fight for your marriage my hubby is my best friend no one can replace him , love keeps us together ❤💪🏽 PS you can NEVER change your man only GOD can !
@notbreadalone6696
@notbreadalone6696 Год назад
Amen!!!
@sbragdon212
@sbragdon212 Год назад
👏 ❤🎉
@Khassie17
@Khassie17 22 дня назад
Happy 30 years!!!!!
@HisHelina
@HisHelina Год назад
“that’s how you pray without ceasing” SO GOOOOOD. (around the 15 min mark)
@inesita9196
@inesita9196 Год назад
The part where you mention strip clubs kinda messed with me. Like… that’s a legit biblical reason to split if your husband constantly cheats. You sure do have some power over the situation of your marriage, but if your partner isn’t invested and doesn’t care about you, cheats, lies etc. you have every right to leave. I don’t think it’s godly to guilt trip young wives into believing they gave reasons for their husbands to cheat. Maybe I got the point wrong, I don’t know, not a native English speaker.
@sunnywildflowers5915
@sunnywildflowers5915 Год назад
I can’t find this part of the video, could you tell me where it is?
@sharon6981
@sharon6981 Год назад
Yeah I agree. I mean, you can make it work if you wanted to, but the Bible also says that’s grounds for divorce only because of our hardened hearts as humans. God would rather us not get divorced even in instances of cheating. But, I would absolutely leave.
@surennaful
@surennaful 11 месяцев назад
@@sunnywildflowers5915it’s around 23 minutes
@JohannaMarie.
@JohannaMarie. 9 месяцев назад
I agree
@opinionbytriz
@opinionbytriz 8 месяцев назад
I agree... watching porn, liking/looking at naked or inappropriate women photos in social media & complimenting other women on social media like "stunning" while telling you you're unattractive or only have a beautiful face.... that stuff is honestly traumatic (I didn't know until I went through it). God is helping us with our marriage but I am willing to leave if any of this resurfaces in the future. I can't handle it again
@lanaonish2561
@lanaonish2561 Год назад
You guys, this was for me. Thank you for this video💗 I have been asking the Lord to show me certain things that I’m doing wrong in my marriage because I have only been seeing my husband’s faults, and He REALLY spoke to me through this video.
@minniemouse5863
@minniemouse5863 Год назад
I have cried so many tears of happiness when watching this video. I thank Jesus and you for everything you shared, it touched my heart sooooo deeply😭❤️❤️
@margaretjanec8484
@margaretjanec8484 Год назад
Thank you for this from a a fellow young mom and wife! ❤️ you ladies are so beautiful. And it goes far beyond physical beauty. It’s coming from within. Thankful for you all.
@christinaybarra9750
@christinaybarra9750 Год назад
What Navia said in the beginning about calling marriage hard and focusing on the good is so beautiful!!! I love that- life is all in perspective!!
@natnatureba7229
@natnatureba7229 Год назад
Wow such divine timing for me to watch this today. I’m not a Christian but I definitely subscribe to the Christian take on marriage. I will get back home today speaking life and being the gatekeeper of my family. This message was so empowering, and I soooo needed it:
@sbragdon212
@sbragdon212 Год назад
I’m in tears while I type this and I’m only 30 mins in but I’m so convicted watching this. As a wife for the last 7.5 years, I’ve learned from you 3 so much and am practically taking notes. Thank you! ❤
@alinaburada8415
@alinaburada8415 11 месяцев назад
I’m 24 and this was just the thing that saved me. I was looking at my partner and always found something he did wrong but not appreciated enough what he did and what he does. Thank you! ❤️
@emmaberg4047
@emmaberg4047 11 месяцев назад
Amazing words I could listen to you guys for hours! This really came at just the right time for me and I immediately had to apologize to my husband about an argument from the night before. I loved the part about bringing everything to God first and refining our words before speaking to either our husbands or anyone else. This video is such a blessing thank you❤
@gathergrow
@gathergrow 9 месяцев назад
I’m currently in a season of separation from my husband (praying and believing that he will come home!), and it’s been easy some days to let the house slip since it’s just me and my two year old. But listening to this, I was reminded that I’m being made into the wife I want to be in this season where no one really sees it but God. I could let this season slip by and give into the fleshly urge to cut corners and sit back, or I could become a woman who honors God in all that I do. Thank you ladies for speaking hard truths and being women I can look up to and learn from!
@EdenCD
@EdenCD Год назад
There is sooo much goodness in this video. I can’t wait to rewatch it several times!
@whitneywestbrook
@whitneywestbrook Год назад
Literally bawling! I needed this. I love my husband so much, but I need to show him all the time not when it’s convenient for myself. Thank you for sharing your hearts. ❤❤❤🥺
@alyssamarie4215
@alyssamarie4215 Год назад
I've been married for two years now and we have our first baby on the way! The last few days I have felt so much conviction of being a Godly wife. This video gave me so strength and courage. Thank you!
@genesisdeters1886
@genesisdeters1886 Год назад
This conversation edified me and warmed my heart so much, bless you all for it 💜
@jasminebrown6794
@jasminebrown6794 Год назад
LOVE this! I needed to hear this specifically today and it may have saved my marriage. Thank you ladies - be Blessed. ❤
@sofiamogileva3823
@sofiamogileva3823 Год назад
Nava is soooo beautiful inside and out. I love the way she talks her voice is so soothing!❤
@andreagaleno4297
@andreagaleno4297 Год назад
🥺🥺🥺 when I tell you this is so convicting. I have been praying to be a better Wife. I noticed I do so many of these things! I will try and pray to apply these things in the daily life. Thank you so much for being vessels of the lord to convict us ❤ I will come back to this video over and over to get conviction lbs 😂❤ hugs and blessings ❤❤
@thelearninghomemaker
@thelearninghomemaker Год назад
I’m so encouraged by how God is working in and through you and how He is working in others through your obedience to to share on yt and insta! Thank you so much! As always, I’m so so encouraged and motivated after watching your videos!
@meaganfigueroa630
@meaganfigueroa630 Год назад
Wow. Stumbling upon this video feels like an answered prayer!! Thank you so much for speaking boldly and honestly and humbly about being a godly wife, and actually giving practicals of how to grow. I have also felt convicted lately of many areas I want to be sanctified in the way I treat my husband, my kids, my family - not only my actions, but my thoughts and words! Taming the mind and the tongue are so challenging but I’m also learning how to let Jesus into my brokenness and mess, and ask Him to heal those parts in me. Living by grace, having grace and patience for myself and extending that to my people. Really appreciate this, I will be sharing with friends and probably watching again whenever I need more encouragement!
@KristenGilmer
@KristenGilmer Год назад
An hour long video?! Yes please!! Also, I desperately needed to hear all of this. My husband and I struggle daily and I am far from a good wife. Thank you all for sharing your biblical wisdom on this 💕
@naturebaby303
@naturebaby303 Год назад
WOW🙌 God is so good! My spirit needed this awakening message and the call to conquer my fleshly habits in my marriage. Thank you all so much☺️
@brittanyhutchinson9367
@brittanyhutchinson9367 11 месяцев назад
Lord I pray for a friend group like this. 😭😍 Connection with others is a huge stuggle for me especially other women. This bond that you all share is encouraging! Thank you.
@carolineurena8509
@carolineurena8509 Год назад
I’m not even 30 mins in but I’ve already teared up like 3 times 😅😂❤ I feel so convicted and encouraged at the same time because I can literally feel the Spirit speaking through you girls to me ❤ thank you for this video ❤❤
@marysabonnema2593
@marysabonnema2593 Год назад
Loved this conversation ❤️ I have been married for 6 years now and it’s been a process of the Lord softening my heart and teaching me how to be more like Jesus each and every day. May our lives be a light and bring peace to our husband’s and those around us.
@sophiastudebaker6490
@sophiastudebaker6490 Год назад
I love your idea of prayer when you are taking care of things in the home! I started thanking God when I did things! And it was so life changing to giving me a thankful heart, rather than discontent One Major habit change for me was to play worship music in the morning when we get ready!! I would usually be so exhausted, so I do this to put us in Joy and praise of the Lord!
@myjessworld
@myjessworld Год назад
This video is what I needed! I got married two weeks ago and I had started being convicted about the nagging and the fasting. I didn’t know what any of it meant, the convictions. And then this video is posted and it all started to make sense. God started to plant a seed in me some days ago and then the video popped up and I could hear God louder.
@stephanieavalos3553
@stephanieavalos3553 Год назад
LOVED this video. Every time you have Nava on, I ALWAYS watch/listen. She’s so inspiring.
@prideandpaperback
@prideandpaperback Год назад
Gosh, this chat is so 👏🏼 incredibly 👏🏼 SO much truth and encouragement in the words spoken. Loved this 💕
@destinyankarstran8932
@destinyankarstran8932 8 месяцев назад
My struggle is envying and not being grateful for what I have, and it’s something God is changing in me. These videos are helping so much!
@Tirsvdb
@Tirsvdb Год назад
This is so good!! Thank you so much for sharing. The part about praying and loving for your husband when you are frustrated about something he did or didn't do. That is something I've been learning for the last few months. It's not easy, but it's so good. I needed this reminder. Thank you!! ❤
@niscayryv.salazar8053
@niscayryv.salazar8053 Год назад
I have to say this has been the most BEAUTIFUL, meaningful, perspective-changing video I have ever watched. Just, wow. Thank you for all of it!! God bless you all ❤️🙏
@LeahP3210
@LeahP3210 Год назад
You have no idea how much this video has blessed my life!
@francie.6200
@francie.6200 Год назад
I love this! Made me cry 🥹❤️ God bless you ladies.
@Gentleheart22
@Gentleheart22 Год назад
Thank you for being so honest about your marriage Milena. It seriously helps me know that nobody and nothing is perfect.
@mashamorim
@mashamorim Год назад
Love this 🥲 y’all are all radiating with so much beauty and grace!! Def got convicted not praying enough for my future husband, we get married in 2 months and we can get so caught up in planning and the what will be instead of praying for each other in these moments!
@yaisaadcock9269
@yaisaadcock9269 Год назад
Thank you so much ladies for making this video, the Lord knows how much I needed it in this very moment. 😭 I've been married for 9 months now and it has been so hard. I have been convicted and encouraged! I believe in the beauty of marriage again ❤
@katherinethereseallen
@katherinethereseallen 4 месяца назад
milena i just love your joy it is infectious and shows the beauty of your inside and outside
@Michelle-gg7hn
@Michelle-gg7hn Год назад
Wow, thank you for doing this. This whole video humbled me, challenged me and convicted me. ❤
@meganashley1229
@meganashley1229 5 месяцев назад
I just keep listening to this video over and over. You have helped me in my marriage, faith, and obedience SO MUCH with your videos and podcasts ❤️ I can’t be more thankful to God for leading me to your content it has truly changed my life
@ninaw8186
@ninaw8186 Год назад
This is so good! Thank you ladies! We are a young married couple and this wisdom is so powerful! Like church doesn’t go in depth about these things or we just need a reminder- so very thankful for this! ❤
@claudia_christianmommy
@claudia_christianmommy Год назад
Thank you ladies for the encouragement and sharing your convictions and want to share with the viewers.❤ sometimes us Christian moms/wives feel alone and I feel seen with these conversations.
@desiraypearl3681
@desiraypearl3681 Год назад
This was the video I needed in this season of my life!!! The last couple weeks God has been strongly convicting me of building up my marriage. I am trying so hard to be a more biblical wife. I have a great marriage and my husband is amazing but God definitely needs to be more centered into our marriage.
@biancoeonero
@biancoeonero Год назад
You three are so beautiful💛 Such kind, loving hearted women. Thank you for sharing so much wisdom and in such a graceful way!
@lysandramccoy772
@lysandramccoy772 Год назад
I loved watching you all speak about your perspectives of marriage. It was truly inspiring for me.
@sonata662
@sonata662 Год назад
I'm not married but I find myself drown to home life, married couples and watching godly women. I thoroughly enjoyed this video and I hope that may God bless you and the Holy Spirit continue to strengthen each of you beautiful women to grow in wisdom and understanding in the time and status that yall are in right now.😊
@Ro19303
@Ro19303 Год назад
This was one of the best chats about marriage I watched! Loved it!!! You guys should do more often ❤ God bless your lives, thank you for that!
@abbyt3240
@abbyt3240 Год назад
This was so encouraging for my marriage!!! Please make more videos like this! We need more godly role models like this in our society 👏
@arianazinzalet1103
@arianazinzalet1103 Год назад
Absolutely love everything you ladies spoke on! Definitely going to save this video for the seasons ahead
@madison_hudnall
@madison_hudnall Год назад
This is absolutely amazing ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you all so much 💕
@kelleyryanvlogs
@kelleyryanvlogs Год назад
🥰🥰🥰🥰 so amazing!
@notbreadalone6696
@notbreadalone6696 Год назад
I fell into that trap of surrounding myself with women who was influencing my thoughts negatively towards my husband. My husband was dealing with depression and other things and here I was just squashing him even more on top of Satan attacking him! I can only imagine how awful I made him feel. Words are very powerful! The Bible talks so much about it because that’s the evidence of what’s inside the heart. Thank goodness we stuck through the rough times because it only made us stronger. My husband is my best friend and no one will ever change that. This video was so good and refreshing! Thank you Milena for posting these videos, it really has helped motivate me to draw nearer to God and strengthen my relationship with him! 💕
@camryngrabeal3453
@camryngrabeal3453 Год назад
How timely!! I'm in a relationship right now that is on the trajectory for marriage, and I so desire to learn how to be a good wife to my husband. I am learning that my parents might not be the best role models for marriage, and I want things to be a complete 180 from what I've seen in my parents. I'm so thankful for the ministry you have on RU-vid and this season of refining that the Lord has you in. He is using you to help refine me as well!
@sxtaos
@sxtaos 7 месяцев назад
This conversation is very much needed! So beautiful to see 🤍God bless you all
@LMEL756
@LMEL756 Год назад
So blessed to have access to godly advice like this. I am a hard-core Christian, and I have been married for 14 years. But I still need reminders like this! I do a poor job at making these things habits, and I have a long ways to go to being a proverbs 31 wife. But thank you for sitting down and talking about this very important subject.
@dTopnotes512
@dTopnotes512 6 дней назад
Such a fantastic video on the realness of marriage and living in community and in relationship with your spouse and children. So refreshing and encouraging!
@jailene8086
@jailene8086 Год назад
The Lord knew i needed to hear this. My eyes have been opened! Please upload more of these types of videos!❤
@emanuelacross
@emanuelacross Год назад
Wow. This video is so powerful. Cried about 3 times 😢 Please make more of these!!! ❤️
@Lifeofahomecookmama
@Lifeofahomecookmama Год назад
Love love love this chat! Inspires me so much to be a better wife and mom. To stop feeling sorry for myself and actually take accountability for my own actions and contributions to problems in the home. So much grace and love 💜🤙
@sarahlutz6650
@sarahlutz6650 Год назад
i'm not even 30 minutes into this video & WOW WOW WOW this video is exactlyyyyyy what I needed today (& every day)!! 😭🧡🙌🏼
@edenbenson3782
@edenbenson3782 Год назад
I love that your videos are huge blessings now. The old videos were entertaining but this is edifying and a blessing
@makennaerickson886
@makennaerickson886 Год назад
Praise the Lord for calling y’all to create this! Thank you!
@AudraPhillips-pk7vs
@AudraPhillips-pk7vs 9 месяцев назад
Wow, wow, wow. I cannot explain how much I needed to hear this conversation. This has blessed me so much. Thank you.
@ilianazambrano3076
@ilianazambrano3076 Год назад
My cousin sent me this video to me today and I literally laughed cried and smiled the entire time but God also pointed out certain things in me to change and begin to start certain things in my home as well I’m so excited. God bless you three and your homes!!!! Thank you for this ❤
@joanninsiima2529
@joanninsiima2529 Год назад
Milena I appreciate your honesty about areas of life where you require growth. Love is willing the good of the other.
@taranpippin6894
@taranpippin6894 Год назад
Milena, I just want to say thank you for your content recently. It has been a huge blessing in my life and has made me take a step back and look at how am being and my life. Such a blessing! Keep up the good work ladies! Loved this video!
@mariahpedro3298
@mariahpedro3298 Год назад
Thank you for this video! God bless each of you for your wisdom❤