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A Chinese Photographer Comes Out To Her Parents On Facetime 

OutChina | China LGBTQ Stories
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Mengwen Cao is a queer photographer based in New York. She created a video letter explaining her sexuality, and shared it with her parents in China on Facetime.
Follow her on Instagram @mengwencao
Website: www.mengwencao.com
Read her story on New York Times www.nytimes.co...

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Комментарии : 32   
@siyeon170
@siyeon170 4 года назад
the dad smiling throughout the entire thing made it so much cuter
@misterWAHI
@misterWAHI 5 лет назад
I love how they still chose to love their daughter over their beliefs. They may still hope she may find a bf, but at the end of the day, they will always love and support her
@SaraOanimeOcookie
@SaraOanimeOcookie 5 лет назад
Your coming out video was beautiful. I hope your parents will grow to understand and support you with time. I think they will when they finally see your true self.
@behappiness6544
@behappiness6544 5 лет назад
At least her parents like accept her not abandon her . Even tho in the end her parents wish she can find a bf ( even tho it's not possible unless she is bisexual ) . It's still good for her
@fairycars
@fairycars 5 лет назад
Be Happiness yeah she said she likes people regardless of gender!
@enderwiggins8248
@enderwiggins8248 5 лет назад
What a complex response. Thank you for making the video!
@kanalkucker14
@kanalkucker14 4 года назад
Yes, a complex response, that's the word for it!
@kikecastro446
@kikecastro446 5 лет назад
Good for her but by the end her parents showed how conservative Chinese parents are. Still it’s a moving video
@VimPraChina
@VimPraChina 4 года назад
Not only Chinese my friend... At least they accepted her =)
@Laura-ps5em
@Laura-ps5em 4 года назад
They were so nice about it and talked really carefully to not hurt her in anyway. The video was a beautiful idea and i hope one day they can also see their daughter happy with another woman. I believe in the end they will be happy if Wenwen is
@mohanthegay4398
@mohanthegay4398 3 года назад
her parent's faces, just calmly watching, smiling, listening and appreciating being let in, made me fucking cry. this is so bittersweet and nerve-wracking and heart-wrenching and beautiful.
@dwightflinkerbusch9991
@dwightflinkerbusch9991 4 года назад
Hi Meng! I shared yr vid with a young chinese man who is struggling to communicate with his family. He was deeply moved by your vid and has also shared it. His parents are very conservative and have said derogatory things abt LGBTQ people in the past. Your vid helped him create a different perspective. Thank you for posting!! Ps. Hope you're doing well!!
@crenmao
@crenmao 4 года назад
Wow another one :/ My Dad: 'As long as you are happy and healthy I will be happy as well.' 'Maybe someday you will find a fitting and loving boyfriend and I will be happy for you.' That was my Ma. And I was thinking it might be vise versa. Asian parents can be weird and hard. You came out very professionally and passionately. Well done little one :)
@allisonbryan3112
@allisonbryan3112 5 лет назад
Your channel gives me strength.
@sash1226
@sash1226 5 лет назад
Never stop making these sorts of videos. This is really raw and moving, and hits home. This is amazing, thank you so much and well done!
@elizabethtv9450
@elizabethtv9450 4 года назад
😭Am not crying tears are only full in my eyes 😭😭😭
@Liface
@Liface 4 года назад
I have not cried this hard in a long time!
@ericshao5749
@ericshao5749 2 года назад
great job! And u r very lucky to have such great parents. I’m preparing a coming out video for my parents who live in rural China and have no idea what is gay. I don’t event know where to start when talking to them about my identity. Would you mind giving me some advice.
@stuwy
@stuwy 2 года назад
I hope you don’t feel pressured to meet your parents hope and expectations. It’s hard and you’ll need to find support to go through.
@janeying5955
@janeying5955 3 года назад
Omg I cried so much
@黄尚煌
@黄尚煌 4 года назад
我不反对同性恋,不歧视他们,但那不是主流,祝你好运🤞
@peggykwok7712
@peggykwok7712 Год назад
Thank you so much for making this wonderful, meaningful, touching and genuine video !
@junlyn3607
@junlyn3607 3 года назад
Your parents are highly educated with good English. Not like my parents
@amiraberdouk3897
@amiraberdouk3897 4 года назад
我哭了,谢谢,这给了我希望。
@fairycars
@fairycars 5 лет назад
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@HectorGarcia-mk2uj
@HectorGarcia-mk2uj 2 года назад
Good luck sister much love for you and parents
@user-ul1vs3ie3p
@user-ul1vs3ie3p 4 года назад
I feel so proud of myself that I can understand Chinese and speak that language and this is so BEAUTIFULLLLLL
@luxeriousnsociable
@luxeriousnsociable 4 года назад
Your parents are cute!
@Stephanie-ez6xl
@Stephanie-ez6xl 4 года назад
If I was anything but straight and I told my parents, they would probably abandon me
@iprobablydislikeyou2735
@iprobablydislikeyou2735 4 года назад
Same
@adrianneji1234
@adrianneji1234 5 лет назад
Yeayeayayasss
@ficki1234567
@ficki1234567 3 года назад
I exspected a different Reaction after the dad was smiling all the Time
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