When he said, na mahiya naman yung mga asawa na nag e-expect na pagsilbihan after maging full time mom ng isang nanay. GREENFLAG😩 proud of you po kuya ben❤️
Your baby is gonna watch this few years from now and it's like a video journey! For sure he'll treasure this for life. Your baby is so cute. God bless your journey! ✨
Congrats po on being a dad now, Kuya Ben! We are glad that we are witnessing this part of your journey. And also, I hope you don't feel pressured po to share stuff sa amin. We take what you can give us and we're just proud of you po! Love you po, Kuya Ben,
not defending other people , pero as a follower/susbcriber syempre maging curious sila regarding sa baby. like hindi rin ba sumagi man lang sa isip mo? Ang difference lang nag comment sila dito where did the baby came from. Ayun lang po, hindi po ako nakikipag away hehe
@@WTFitsJoshu Syempre sumagi. Pero this is not the living room of my house where I can ask or say whatever. And I don't dwell on it. Ang problema sa mga Pinoy ginawa nilang tindahan at bahay ang social media. Like pamilya at kaibigan na nila ang mga kausap nila and they can just blurt whatever comes to their minds. It's not necessary. May proper etiquette na how I wish matutunan ng maraming Pinoy. It's still a long way.
Almost 2 years ago I was doing everything alone. Going to check ups, recovering alone after CS, the journey of breastfeeding, embracing mixed feeding (ang mahal ng breastmilk like na gatas ha iyak sa bulsa) the life after maternity leave, being a good mom whilst being a good daughter and provider. Kuya Ben, I cannot thank you enough because during those trying times na iyak ako ng iyak because I felt alone, because I felt like wala akong masandalan na dapat kasama ko sa journey of being a parent. Ikaw ang isa sa mga naging pangpakalma ko, thank you for being a good vibes, for the laughs, for reminding me that there's more to life. My son is gonna turn 2 y/o this coming November, and life is sailing smoother now. Enjoy the new born stage, Kuya. It's tiring pero somewhat relaxing parin. You're doing great kuya! You're doing a good job. 🫶
I am also a single dad like you. New subscriber here. Be strong, it is not easy. You are being strong not for yourself but for your son. I am a single dad with a small business, two part time jobs and one consultancy work.
Your first video about fatherhood (the one where you showed baobao for the first time) is already enough for me to understand where you're coming from and why you ended up in this new journey. I am telling you, don't ever listen to what other people tell you about your life. You are doing great. I just hope you can sustain that awesome mindset. God bless you on this journey with your son, Ben!!
As a mom ,, legit lahat ng wisdom mo at sakripisyo nakakaproud ka ben, soon makikita ni baobao ang mga vedio mo na ito ,, at tiyak magiging super proud din sya sayo,, GODBLESS U TWO
i'm a single mom , and my baby turns 6 months na 🤍 iba ung happiness na nakukuha sa kada araw na may bago sa kania , and im super thankfull sa mga taong nakapaligid sakin to guide . as a first time mom its a super duper roller coaster ride feelings with my baby .
Soon to be mom here. And watching this made me realize, that pregnancy is hard but having a responsible qnd caring husband makes it bearable. You're such a green flag Ben 💕
Legit yung mga kwento mo Ben about taking care of a baby and being a single parent. It's true it's very challenging and very fulfilling 💯. May God bless you with more strength and courage to nurture this little blessing. I'm happy seeing you enjoying the journey I once experienced (malaki na kasi ang baby ko). ❤
Ang cute mag smile. Napapa smile din ako eh hahaha. Cherish every moment habang baby pa. Sobrang bilis lumaki ng baby, same with may bb. Mahirap pero masaya ❤
Use swaddle po while he sleeps pra mejo mahaba tulog nia kasi kaya nagigising yung baby agad kasi nagugulat pa siya if open yung arms nia while sleeping. . .
@benedictcua true nakikita ko din kay kryz uy for longer sleep then pagumaga inoopen ang curtain and nag stretch na lang si baby kapag inaalis ang swaddle. Alam na ni baby na morning na. Hangang 1yr old ata yun.
Its really cute seeing u right now that you are a father with cutie baby dati na nonong lang ngayon daddy na goodluck being single dad i know its not easy pero alam ko fighting person sa kwento mo sa buhay mo you are not easy person to give up anything, congratulations being a father more patience lang 🥳🫶🏻😍
Sobrang cute ni Baobao. Nakakainspire po ang fatherhood journey mo. Baobao is so lucky to have you as his father. Sana more videos pa ninyo ni baby Baobao. 🥰🍉
Sana mapanod to ng mga lalaki na nangttake for granted ng partner! yung nagaalaga ka ng anak, tapos darating sila galing ng work, gusto pa na aasikasuhin mo din. tapos kapag di na feel ng lalaki na di na sila inaalagaan ng partner nila dahil focused ka sa anak, madali lang sakanila na maghanap ng iba. I'm super proud of you, Benny huhu not all guys can do that. Yung iba, kinakahiya nila na may anak sila. And as a single mom here, I'll support you with your journey! Mahirap, pero napaka-fulfilling nyan! Go Ben! ♥
You're my favorite content creator and dad, kuya Ben! I'm happy po na well prepared ka bago ipanganak si Baobao! Ang dami ko rin natutunan sa mga vlogs mo recently. Onti-onti rin nababago perspective ko sa buhay dahil sa wise wordings mo (wise wordings?!)
One week kana naming topic sa office kung prank lang daw ba 'yan. Pero madami akong natutunan sa kwento mo, sa dami kung videos na napanuod sayo parang sa vlog mo lang last week mas nakilala kita kung gaano ka strong na tao at ni-reremind mo din ako last week na walang masama na mag start ulit ng bago. Thank you po 🥺
I admire u benben!! Kada vlog is a life u share and lesson we feast on -at yun yung best part for me. Di natatapos vlog mo without imparting knowledge. Hayy
As a fulltime housewife napakahirap po talaga at nakakatuwa po makita lalo sa first time dad na pinupunuan nya lahat para sa anak nya. Siguradong babalikan to ng baby nyo kapag malaki na siya at magiging proud sya sa inyo na kayo ang naging tatay nya. Nakakaproud ka Ben, May God Bless You more & your son as well. 🤗 Happy Father's Day po. 😊
Watching this video reminded me of my life before.... Single mom for a long time.... It was unexpected unplanned, but 3 monthe before I gave birth in 2002 everything changed, I startwd researching and preparing, and when my son finally came, well everything changed. And yes mahirap, kulang sa tulog, gagawin mo mag isa kasi single parent ka but thankful becoz my family was thwre to support me. And isang ngiti or sagot lang mula kay baby napawi na agad yung pagod at walang tulog. Just continue your fatherhood journey, be happy and enjoy every single day kasi mabilis silang lumaki, he's such a baby pa pero in a few more days ma realize mo na lang 1year old na sya. God bless you and your sunshine of happiness. Thanks for sharing your journey this is very empowering esp to those single moms and dada out there....
I love how calm your videos are now, Benny. Keep going at it and please know that watching you parent your child is somewhat healing my childhood. You're doing a good job and your baby is lucky to have you as a dad. You are also very lucky to have such a cute and angelic baby. Good vibes lang all year long!
You sum up everything well. I missed my son being this small😢❤ ambilis lg ng panahon, treasure the days, the diaper change, the incomplete sleep, Great Job Daddy Ben! I'm also a single parent po.❤
Im a single mom of two and i can totally relate to this but still we have to keep going for our little ones. I just wish my kids had a father like you, you are doing an amazing job ben. More blessings to come for you and baobao!
He is sooo cute 🧿 so proud of you 🥹🥹 i know it’s very hard pero its worth it. He is so lucky to have you as his dad and mom. Hindi lahat kayang gawin ang ginagawa mo. Salute 🫡 ❤
there are so many underrated single and solo fathers in our country and i hope this spikes a confidence not just in solo moms but also in solo fathers to fight for their kids more and if need be, raise them themselves instead of being in toxic environments. i hope a new gen gets inspired to break cycles and start a generation of babies with no generational trauma. ❤ congrats ben!! your baby couldn’t have a better father than you.?
Don't mind other people. We are glad to see your baby in every videos kasi nakakawala ng stress at napapa smile ako. Ang cute ni baby. yung iba nga content dagdag sa stress namin like hiwalayan or cheating jusko. We need content like this. REFRESHING❤
Mad respect to you Ben, agree sa lahat ng mga nabanggit mo dito kung paano dapat rumespeto sa mga pagpapalaki ng anak. Lalo na kung paano dapat maging understanding ang mga tatay sa tahanan sa hirap ng mga housewife lalo kung nag aalaga sila ng mga anak. Agree even sa mga unsolicited opinions ng iba kung saan sila dapat lulugar at kung paano sila idi-deal. Sana maintindihan ng iba yung salitang RESPETO. 🙂 Sobrang cute ni Baobao lalo pag naka smile 🥰😭
Congrats Ben, you are really lucky to have baobao. I know na you will be a good father, as you are a good person. Hopefully, baobao will grow up well and be just like you.
Grabe relate na relate talaga ako. Hindi ako single mom pero ako lang mag isang nag aalaga ng anak namin kasi OFW ang asawa ko. Sobrang hirap mag alaga kasi firsttime Mom ako pero kinakaya ko at salamat sa youtube nanood ako kung meron akong mga tanong😅. 2months na baby ko healthy sya at masiyahin madaldal hehehe. Stay strong kuya ben kaya natin toh 😇
Baobao is super proud na ikw ang father niya soon mapapanood nia toh. At maiiyak siya sa mga sacrifices na ginawa mo🥹 stay safe kuya 😊 and family. I am proud na nakapag pa picture ako sau sa Csq dati😊
Grabe Ben. Im so, so proud of you. May learnings ako lagi sayo kahit 3 videos mo pa lang napapanuod ko (sa YT) 😂 di ko alam na super matured mo mag isip pero ang jolly mo pa din. The future Baobao would be so proud of his dad, I just know it. We all know it. Bless your family. Wish you and Baobao all the happiness there is ❤ (PS. Sana magka baby na din ako, been trying for 2 yrs! Penge baby dust pls 🥹 haha!)
Halfway thru watching this vlog makes me so happy. You could actually feel how happy he is that he's now a father and he's enjoying taking care of his son. So proud of u ben! Ang pogi ni baobao like u huhu looking forward for more vlogs like this. ❤
Hello FTM here! Ganyan din ako noong mga 1st to 3rd month ng baby ko feel ko nd ko siya maenjoy kasi apaka fragile nila pero ayon ito lang mga payo ko sayo Daddy ben... 1. Para malaman ni Baby day and night maganda na may background sound ka sa kanya , usually ako kapag umaga may words ang song na pinapakinggan niya then sa gabi WHITE NOISE so ayon nasanay siya kapag may white noise tulog siya then kapag magmilk siya tuwing 11pm pinapalitan namin ang sound so nagihising siya.. 2. Then wag masadong bumili ng gamit kasi kalalakihan lang hehehe. 3. Pacifier is okay kasi nagprevent siya ng SIDS sa baby bsta pagdating 4th month tinngal namin ayon hilig na niya teethee. 4. FEEDING Magbabago yan ng oras kami noong medyo nakakatulog na ng matagal ng 3months. 5.diaper change do it daddy ben before feeding kasi para magising sila.. GOODLUCK ON YOUR JOURNEY DADDY BEN!!! NAKAKAPROUD KA AT KAKAYANIN MO YAN!!!!
Yes po ang hirap kaya minsan naaawa din ako sa nga full time yaya talaga tapos ang liit ng sweldo. Lalo pa now ako 2 inaalagaan ko grabe 2 boys pa! Andaming energy grabeee and parehas nasa stage ng curiousity. Yun kuya tanong ng tanong daming gustong malaman di ko na masagot grabe napaka daldal talaga yun bunso 1yo curious mahawakan lahat at lumakad kun sansan kasi nakakalakad na. kaya ako din nasa stage na din ako ng Mommasauraus na pinsan ng T-rex. Dyusko patience is the key at hingang malalim😅 all parents kaya natin to dahil love na love natin mga anak natin. We’re doing a great job 💕
ang cute ni baby super! so proud to watch you, you're doing so well as a dad, happy si baby! also I only hear one friend who says ''it's not my story to tell'' and honestly it's amazing. absolute keeper.
Congratulations Ben! ❤ I've been a fan of you since 2019. I am so happy that you are already a father! 🥹 I also gave birth to my first child. I'm so proud of you! Being a parent is hard but seeing our child grow up every single day makes us happy 😊
super healing ng vids! akala ko before puro eme lang si ben, pero napaka authentic pala. love this! will stay tuned to this journey of yours. 🥰 best of luck. budol ko din ang jowa to watch your vlogs. 🤙
I'm very happy for you even it is hard to become a single father you can able to handle this responsibility to become a bridge for your child to grow a good person through your love and care Happy Birthday Kuya Ben!
Me and my partner recently became a dad. I am glad to see your videos kasi nakaka relate ao. Naiiyak talaga ako always pag naiisip ko na may baby na ako. I am so happy! Thank you! Trust your instincts in terms of taking full care of the baby. Madaming advise pro ikaw parin ang nasa tabi ng baby the entire time.
Hello ulit Ben,single mom here also,,pinapanuod n Kita eversince nung lagi kayo magkasama ni Baninay KC s Kanya tlaga Una nanu2od..believe aq sau sobrang caring mo as a father,.happy kmi for u😊
Okay but can we not normalize having kids from flirt flirt relationship or one night stand lang? I mean, we shouldn’t normalize it and make it look like aesthetic siyang tignan 😅
Hola kuya Ben! I'm your fan and may suggestion po ako for baby Baobao. Maganda po magplay ng Mozart na music for sleeping para kay baby. Ginagawa rin po namin sa kapatid namin na 2yrs old na ngayon at lumalaki na bibo at matalino. Btw, congrats po for being a dad. More vlogs together po in the future, God bless po. 🥳🎉
Super kaproud ka Ben! As a mom, I know how Haaaaaard and exhaaausting this is but as I can see you are beginning to appreciate how rewarding it is. Your baby appreciates you from this time. He can feel it! More power to you and keep inspiring! You are amazing, indeed! 🤩🌟
Happy Birthday daddy Ben! ang gwapo gwapo ng BaoBao na yan, ang bilis niyang lumaki hinay hinay lang baby boy. Grabe kuya Ben TBH plan B ko talaga to sa future in case wala talaga as a Single Mom din ako, thank you may mababalikan ako na references, the best ka talaga ❤. God bless you and your family sobrang pogi ng virtual pamangkin ko!
I love ung lahat ng sinabi mo dito specially bout the friendship.. and so true if they real friends they will be happy sa life mo, whether na share or hindi mo man sa kanila ang nangyayari sa buhay mo! I love hearing ur facts inspiring word Ben! And baobao made me smile when i saw him smiling din dito sa video mo! ❤❤❤😊😊😊
I just started watching your video and napa subscribe agad ako. Wow, super hardwork talaga maging single parent. I just found out na pregnant ako nung March, turns out the guy doesn’t want to get involve in any way. I already accepted it na magiging single parent din ako. I can do this! Watching your video gave me hope na magiging kaya ko din 🤍 It’s gonna be hard but it will be worth it.
congratulations 🎉 sobrang hirap tlga magalaga NG baby grabe I'm not yet a mother but I have experienced it already when my brother were not able to find a yaya so I volunteered as a tribute charr😂, pero worth it namn especially when I saw her smile feeling mama lng 😂 I love watching this video CUZ aside from naka relate aq eh na reminisce q din yung times na nasabisig q yung niece q😊 thank you so much and may God bless you and guide you for your journey as a single father😊😊😊❤❤❤
So happy for you ben im also single parent but my son was with my parent since december 2023 since i choose to be an ofw since yung income ko as call center agent isnt enough. 3years 9 months nung iniwan ko siya ngayun 5years old na siya 🥲 mahirap maging single parent pero masarap lalo na pag kasama ang bata (ps:im literally single parent since the father of my son dont give financial support) And for people keep asking about how ben get baobao thru surrogate or normal way i think lets wait for ben to share that info in right time hayaan natin si ben i enjoy yung fatherhood niya and please take note even he is social media influencer not all kind of personal things about in his life need to be share
Sir ben masarap po na ikaw po mismo ang makakakita ng milestone ng baby nyo kasi sa totoo lang po sobrang bilis ng segundo para lumipas ang araw, sunod po nyan naglalakad na po yan na parang kelan lang e sobrang cute pa noong days pa lang sya☺
Hi Ben❤❤❤❤ Nakakatuwa ka panuodin I am a mother of 3. And currently I have a baby boy just turned 2yrs old. 😊 Tips lang kapag iipunin mo ung mga baby bottles before totally hugasan para sabay sabay always rinse ng water lang din muna ung milk sa bottles para iwas mapanisan 🤗🤗🤗 Gusto ko din na ipunin ung mga bottles para tioid din sa soap and pag sterillized. 😊
be strong..bilang magulang napakahirap talaga mag alaga ng anak kaya di masisisi ng iba na kaming mga magulang napaka protective para sa mga anak..ang cute ng baby mo 😊😊
Nakaka tuwa.. Same situation bilang single mom ako and first time ko din. Un nga lang less help ako lahat dahil breadwinner din ng family mahirap pero laban lang.. Congrats Ben being a parent is a blessing from God ❤❤❤
you're child is very lucky to have you, take one step at the time 😊 and your baby so cute. happy father's day and God bless you both. Enjoy your fatherhood 😊❤
One of the reasons why I support and continue watching Ben's vlogs compared with the other vloggers that I subscribed is apart from his humor, he always impart a good and honest point of view of life. I might not relate too much on what's happening in his life but in some point, I see myself in him, on how he view things within his surroundings. Thank you always for sharing your thoughts. The inspiration that you can brought to me is so priceless. Padayon kuya Ben!!! 😊❤🙏🏻
Things will get easier sa routine. Then when u look back, di mo maiimagine pano mo kinaya hahaha Then maaanxious naman how to teach things tapos pano maging mabuting parent and all hahaha hayys grabe Watching this, i remember my journey too. Thanks ben for this. Time flies so faaaaast.
this is my 2 nd time to wacthed ur vlog maraming matutunan samga shinishare mo specially being SUPER HANDS on to ur anak ur BABY PAOPAO ur PARENTS n ur anak paglaki nya1000 percent PROUD syo SALUDO ako syo dont mind d negative coz si LORD is with U ALWAYS but TAKE GOOD CARE of UR HEALTH n MAY GOD BLESS U n UR FAMILY ALWAYS for me GUWAPO kna MABAIT kapa THANKS❤❤❤
Hi Benedict. I came across your channel recently, when you revealed that you are already a Father and since then, I have been looking out for your new video as I am excited to see your journey as a Father. I am a gay Parent, me and ny Partner have decided to go for adoption. Everything you mentioned here in this vlog is very true. Although I am not a single dad, I can relate to you especially when you said that becoming a Parent needs preparation be it mentally, spiritually, financially. As a gay parent, it's not easy to raise a child especially everytime we meet new people and would label our set up as "abnormal". However, if you think through it, the set up is never different from a "normal" set up because we also have to work hard to provide for our family, keep the family intact, and to do our daily best as responsible parents. I am sure this new phase of your life will serve a great inspiration to all new parents and help them survive this phase of their lives. Enjoy the journey, Benedict and advance Happy Father's Day!
Congrats Ben ❤ Naiyak ako sa moments niyo ni Baobao 😊 I remember my son’s newborn stage ❤ Iba talaga kapag nanjan ka to see yung milestones nila. Iba ang saya 😊
Just want to share po... Chinese din yong boss ko and nasa fashion scene din pero nong nagkaanak, she decided to lie low and focus sa kids. She decided na no tv talaga since birth up to 2yrs old yong mga bata. More of music and book reading kaya kahit nong nong pwede na, di sila tumatagal sa panunuod. They are all girls pero di sila nahilig sa mga Disney princesses. Fave toy ng alaga ko is a doll and a 🦖 na dala-dala nya kahit saan kami mag punta.
Huhuhuhuhu you're doing very well, kuya bennnn😭😭 I'm so proud and i did not imagine na grabe kakayanin mo na talagang maging father. For sure you'll be a good father🥰 stay healthy sa inyong dalawa
didn't expect the relevation. Thanks for this that you answer the #1 question on your previous vlog. We are happy on your journey as a fan and a supporter here silently. Baobao is so cute!!! 😍😍😍
