CONGRATS AND WELCOME TO THE PARENTHOOD ERA! YOU MAY NOT BE THE PERFECT DAD BUT I KNOW YOUR BABY WILL SAY TO YOU IN THE FUTURE THAT YOU'RE THE BEST FATHER!
AAAaaaahh Bennn. The fact na you have your own child now feels surreal kasi di ka halos mahagilap sa social media for months. Thanksss for showing him to us Bennyyy. Mahal ka naminnn sobraaa :(
Watching this video on the first anniversary of me graduating college just hits different! I'm working on my first job right now and I feel so lost and empty. It's so hard to choose what to pursue and not to pursue. But watching this video makes my heart so happy. I feel like I'm being comforted by a friend. Thank you for this!
feels like I’m talking to a friend I haven’t seen for a long time :( I just know you’re gonna be such a great great father. Thank you for sharing this to us, Daddy Ben! 🥺🤍
I'll say it again, you're always be my comfort person. Though hindi madalas mag upload but once there, click agad. Swerte ni baby bunbun kasi marami siya matutunan sa'yo. You're always be that personality here in yt na masarap kausap (exactly, though it's one way but the way you made us reflect to ourselves is a form of connection na "oo nga, nuh".) THAT WAY! 'yung feeling na kaibigan na sarap kausap tuwing gathering kasi maraming pulot tsaka nakakarelate. Sobrang raw and pure ng conversation. You're so smart, grabe saksi ako sa paglawak ng wisdom mo. Can't wait how baby bunbun will grow 🥺.
with ben’s personality, to mention he was diagnosed with depression, i believe he will be a great father. a father who listens, empathizes, and loves his child dearly. congrats, ben!
That's when I cried for real. As someone clinically diagnosed and still dealing with depression and anxiety disorder, I thought I didn't want to have a child/ren (still not sure though) because I'm a bit afraid that I might pass down generational trauma and I wouldn't want that for my own kid for sure, BUT when Benny said those lines, it made me realize that I just need to heal and I might still be able to be a good enough parent, not sooner or later pa since I'm still young and reaching for my goals and dreams pero napapaisip din nyan from time to time. So Benedict Cua, thank you for your vulnerability. This video has made an impact to a soul like mine. ❤
This is what I mean whenever people ask me kung kelan ako magpapamilya or at least mag anak man lang. Being a parent is something a person should want wholeheartedly, and not because of reasons like “sino na lang mag aalaga sayo pagtanda mo?” Being a parent is a life long responsibility and before you go into that, Dapat ready ka emotionally, physically, financially, mentally. I’m so happy for people like you, Benedict, for being able to embrace parenthood in a sense na talagang ginusto mo, kaya I am sure you will be a great parent kay baby kasi he is truly loved. Thank you for sharing your story, Benedict! 축하해 on being an 아버지 🤭
Ask a few couples kung naging ready b sila nung nlaman nila pregnancy nila..wala pong taong ready..ang pgbubuntis ay hindi maprpredict dpende nlng kung aso 😂
@@TanyaLee778 ay hala tita. Gets ko gusto mong Sabihin pero Mejo malayo siya sa point ko. As in iba po yung point ko sa point mo. Pakibalikan po sinabi ni Ben sa 20:32 “I was already engaged, ready to have a family and have my own children”. Dyan umikot yung comment ko, tita. Pakibalikan po please. ☺️
@@hannahcelicamaranan933 dibaaaaa? Hahaha! Also, kaya ako nag Korean kasi diba nag aaral/ nag aral din siyang mag Korean nung pabalik balik siya sa Korea? 🤭
Yes i love Benedict always saying that he owes his being a u tuber to Baninay. .. miss them together na. Ga Sayang get Baninay to be your Godmothers baby .
Parenthood looks so nice when people genuinely wants to start a family. Yung sure na aalagaan anak nila at bubusugin ng pagmamahal. Sobrang nakakataba ng puso!
aahh.. the love you never knew you'll be capable of.. gift of parenthood.. Love love this era for you Ben! Dati pa, alam kong magiging maswerte ang mabubuo mong pamilya :) God Bless your little fam.
To be able to speak or do a sit down vlog for more than 27 minutes is such a gift and you have that, Ben! Always and will always watch your videos. Good luck sa new page ng buhay mo. Congrats!
I'M TOO SOFT FOR THIS VIDEO, LITERALLY TEARY EYED SA LAST PART. 🥹🥹 CONGRATULATIONS, DADDY BEN! SUPER HAPPY FOR YOU! ROOTING FOR YOUR WONDERFUL JOURNEY SA FATHERHOOD AND YOUR LIFE! 🫶🏻 LOVE YOU SO MUCH! 😭🩷
Akala ko noon totoy ka lang naligaw sa social media , panay tawa lang panay pakitang gilas c Nongnong kay baby Ju but now ikaw na Father na , treasure every moment . we are so happy to see your new chapter . Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤❤
I don't know why i search your name here in RU-vid after i watched krytels vlog. After i watch this video of yours i know what is the reason , this past few months i am struggling but fighting this mental sickness that i have. Been diagnosed a severe depression last 2022 and having a lot of thoughts of hurting and kill my self, one day i went to church somewhere in tagaytay and cried and pray all the sorrows and disappointments that i have for my self to him i cried and cried losing my energy to ride our motorcycle to go home and felt why is it feels like no one is listening to me. all i can hear is my sobbing voice but no one is comforting me, am i not that worthy to be value by others? and then i decided to be selfish on that day moving forward. but here now watching your video sharing those experiences and sharing those words of thoughts i realized that i am not alone in this battle. Thank you Ben . Wala mang ka relate relate tong sinasabi ko sa sinabi mo pero ang lakas ng impact mo sa akin. thank you again. sana makayanan ko pa lumaban sana maka kapit pa ako .
Very inspiring. From how you learned english fluently and on how you managed to achieve the career you felt comfortable doing while making money. Dedication, perseverance and discipline are the key factors i saw talaga para ma achieve mo yung goal mo in life while being happy. Indeed a very refreshing and yet informative vlog to watch. Thanks Ben, natapik mo ako. 💚💚💚
And one more thing, you love and respect your parents unconditionally. Sabi nga ni Ryan Bang, kapag may respeto ka sa magulang mo gaganda ang buhay mo. ❤
It’s a different kind of happiness when influencers like you share the joy of parenthood. When younger friends ask me how it is to have a kid, I always answer them that there are no words that can explain what’s in my heart. It is more than joy. It is more than all the happiness I felt in this lifetime. It is more than life itself. But I can see that in your eyes. I can feel it from your words. Enjoy parenthood, Ben! There is more to see and feel as you go along. I am excited for you. 🎉
i shed a tear watching this feeling lost at 25. not knowing what to do, not knowing what im passionate about. feeling empty, feeling nothing. thank you Ben
just trust God's plan and timing. pray and you'll be fine. 😊 coming from someone healed from major depression for 8yrs. super blessed and grateful ky Lord kaya go ka lng besh. aha hugs and kisses for you 😊❤
Same. It feels like Kuya Ben is telling my story. I've been feeling lost since 2021 and I still haven't found what I want so far. I'm in the phase where I try everything, doing the elimination method to find what I'm passionate about. Still struggling as of the moment but I'm trying to be optimistic with my improvement. Even how small it is. Baby steps, I'm getting there. In God's perfect time, we'll get there.
thank you for this vlog sobrang naantig ako while watching this during my lunch kanina like I was so emotional and sobrang witty mo how u explain things how it works sana marami pang gaya mong future father out there
Nakaktuwa! I remember how you used to play with BabyJu. Now you have your own baby na. I am a mother of three, been through a lot as well when I had my first child. But I thank God everyday for all the challenges we've been through dahil yun tlga ang mag mold sa atin to become who we are and might become in the future. More blessings to come and protection to you and your family. ❤❤❤
CAN I JUST SAY THAT IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU 🥺 from seeing you appear in Baninay’s vlogs to seeing your nongnong era in tiktok to now finally having a child of your own. I’m pretty sure your child will be raised in such a loving home. Happy for you, Ben. 🥺
I continued watching because it was super late last night. Now, I cried after seeing the baby. 😭 I want to see myself in that situation as soon as possible, but my vision of my future is so blurry. 🥺 I am currently going through an existential crisis and feeling anxious about what lies ahead. I’ve isolated myself, and I don’t know how to emerge from this cocoon. The pressure within me is overwhelming.
sorry for the long-ass paragraphs ahead WHAHAHAHAHHAHAH whenever someone asks me who's my all-time favourite RU-vid vlogger is, it'll be and always be u, kuya Benedict. for 5 years that I've watched ur vlogs, waited for ur uploads, witnessed ur journey from a hundred thousand to a million subscribers, u just continue to inspire, give joy and amaze not just me, but almost everyone who watches ur videos (minus the bashers WHAHAHAHHAHA). I'm beyond proud when u actually showed us ur vulnerable sides, from getting burn-outs and most importantly overcoming depression. I feel like we're on the same boat (for the most part) and seeing how u manage to conquer all of those problems, even tho depression may forever taint our minds, but despite that u still got back up, it gives me hope that I can (from I Kent, pun intended WAHHAHAHAHHAHAHA) do it too. also, can we just talk about how u embody what a real influencer should be?? most people who calls themselves an 'influencer' just base from the fact that they gained a lot of followers, when in reality, that entitlement of being an 'influencer' bears a heavy responsibility to act and do things that would positively influence ur viewers/target audiences. as the saying by Uncle Ben (pun intended or coincidence??) "With great power, comes great responsibility." I really have so much to say WAHHAHAHAHHAHAHA (nahiya na siya LMAO) pero I just wanna tell u, thank u for existing, thank u for always inspiring me to be hopefully, to become a better version of myself, so so proud of u and good luck to this new journey of urs, fatherhood yipee (pwede ako maging ninong ni baby xialongbao, wala pa naman ako inaanak para 1st inaanak ko siya yieee WHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA)
Im genuinely happy for you Ben. 🥹 Sure ako na Im one of your first few subs nung nagstart ka ng YT mo from my other yt account. Not really updated sa mga life nyo, but knowing this kind of life update sayo is nakakahappy. Looking forward for more contents with your baby. Wish you happiness Ben. ☺️💛
as a 25 yrs old na undergoing quarter life crisis, grabe super inspiring and motivating ng life mo. been an avid support since 2018 and beyond happy on where are you now kuya ben. congrats po. looking forward to more blessings, growth & success along with your fam
omg, congrats ben!! 🤍 I feel old na talaga, I was an shs student when I first watched you sa vlog ni Baninay. Now, working na ako, and to know about na you have a son na... omg, HAPPY FOR YOU, BEN!!
I've always been a silent Benpire since nung nag collab po kayo ni Ate Baninay and grabe, I'm just so happy for you, Kuya Ben and your family 🥹🙏 nakaka-inspire talaga mga videos mo everytime I catch up to them, you've been doing great sir! 🫡💖
I've been your silent viewer/fan since you started your vlog kuya Ben, I have already seen your different sides through your vlogs and now seeing the other side of you as a father makes me so happy and proud of you kuya. I know that you will be a good father to your child. Congrats kuya and I hope more vlogs to come.
Seeing you holding your son with too much love and adoration in your eyes melts my poor fragile heart 😭 congratulations daddy Ben! You very much deserve this!
Congratulations!🥳 your vlog is very timely especially to those who feel lost. Cheers to us who constantly feel confused about the path we should take. We may not know yet, just be courageous to try new things and we will get there! Thank you for this very inspirational vlog Ben, you really did a good job❤✨️
Hala naalala ko pa nung first time kong nadiscover channel mo tas pinanood ko yung 25 random facts about you, ang tagal na pala noon. Hindi man ako religiously nanonood ng videos mo dito pero every time na nakakapanood ako ng videos mo, ang therapeutic and soothing. Congrats sa new chapter ng life mo!!! Nakakainspire itong video mo ❤
Couldn't watch you actively kasi busy sa school, but I've been a fan since highschool🥺💛 and I'm so proud of you!!!😭 One of your dreams is to become a dad, and look at you now🍉 Baby Baobao is so lucky to have a dad like you
Kaya pala kahit Chinese ka the way ka mag salita may pagka konyo yung pwd ka dalhin kahit sa mahirap na lugar kasi pala dumaan ka rin sa lowest part ng life nyo at gang naging maganda na buhay nyo ang Galing mas lalo ako napahanga at nasa pamilya nyo na talaga ang pagiging masikap God bless
Kuya Ben!!! Cingratulations! you are now a father. I'm literally crying while watching you smile looking kay baby. Nakakahappy na malaman na tatay ka na. Naguumapaw happiness ko for you. So proud of you kuya ben. Can't wait to see baby pag pede na 🥰🥰🥰🥰
You on Baninay’s vlogs is still vivid memory. 6 years just flew by like that. Happy of where and what you have become now Benny! Congratulations and will surely here for you, always. 💙
As soon as the baby appeared my tears came out unexpectedly. Congratulations Ben. First time ko manuod ng YT Video mo.. Good luck sa fatherhood and God bless sa family mo ❤
Super delayed ko na ba? This is surreal but definitely roller coaster feelings while watching this vlog of yours make me so proud of you. You're such a sweet, good and responsible father to your son. You're so amazing in everything you do, I am so happy that until now you're still so thankful and grateful for everything you've done. How I wish to God that you and your family are blessed him a lot. 💜😊 Stay safe and healthy! Take care always.
Dati seed ka lang na hindi mo alam kung saan ka tutubo, madaming pinagdaanan bago naging halaman, daming pagsubok bago ka yumabong at naging PUNO, ginawa mo ang lahat para mamunga, sa pagtitiyaga naging mabunga ka, at now SIR BEN, mayroon ka ng SEED na aalagaan, na alam mo kung saan itatanim, na iyong gagabayan sa landas na tatahakin, at maging successful na PUNO na gaya mo din, CONGRATS AND GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.
I don't know what to say Benny, this is very timely. As a working student na magtatake na ng practicum. I can't really sleep last night. This is just very timely. That's all what I can say.
I finished the whole video and I must say he’s very inspiring and I do found myself the same way he does with all what he’d been through, you’ll be a good father Ben salute!
HALA!😢YUNG IDOL KO DADDY NA!!😭😭 pero,masaya akong makita kang masaya kasama si baby🥲God bless you and your family Ben..basta mag-upload kalng ng videos okks nko!!😅
Quarter life crisis was my turning point. Now, I am happily married with 2 wonderful kids. I couldn't believe I am going back to school to get my masters so I can get to upper management position in a huge hospital system with a goal of retiring early so I can enjoy life with my family. I get to have balance between life and work but still, retiring early while having a good amount of investments and passive income is much better to me. It's just so rewarding to look back on the things that happened in the past, your choices, your heartaches and realizing how strong you are that you made it through. Here you are now, better, bolder, wiser and still with a big heart ready to love. Now I know why people say their wife/husband and their kids are their everything because it is true. Congratulations! 👏
I’m so happy for you kuya ben😭🫂 I’ve been watching your vlog since high school and now I’m a college student na I was shocked but at the same time I’m so happy to see you that finally you have your own family na.. Congrats kuya ben❤️🥰
I don't usually watch lengthy narrative vlogs like this, but you just told your story with such wisdom that I never thought of changing videos. I only watched you because of Baby Ju. Glad that you're so happy to have your own son. God bless you, Ben.
your content saved me, and am happy that you seem so happy again. thanks for sharing this with us Ben :) we love you! and may baby Ben be filled with grace and love!
Being one of the benpires, I'm genuinely happy to see you doing so well in life now. We may only know your struggles based on what you share on social media, but we know for sure that you've been strong enough to get through and surpass all of that. My happy crush since day one of your contents here up until this day, you've been an inspiration to me ♥
Congratulations kuya ben! I've been your subscriber from the very start. Nakakatuwa sobra yung growth and passion mo throughout the years. Nakakaproud po. 🥹💖
I'm so happy for you, Ben! I'm happy you're happy and just wanna say thank you for giving us encouraging words. You may not know this but you help me grow and change my mindset too.
gosh ben kahit nung vlog buddies days naten baby na yung gusto mo so happy for you :((((( And nanood rin ako ng series para maging magaling mag english hahaha daddy era
Lagi kong napapanood ung pag aalaga mo kay baby ju so doon palang mukhang magiging isa kang mabuting ama, kuya ben. Kakaiyak, isa ka nang ganap na AMA🥺
Whatever it is, remember you are entitled to feel and valid to feel that way . But more than anything I know your baby is a manifestation of God's blessing to your life. Hugs 🫂🫂
Why I am crying watching your vlog Ben? Been your low key follower since pandemic. Geniunely, Im happy for you and proud of what you have experienced and what you have become now.❤
I know that one day your child will watch this, And i'm 100% sure that he's so proud of you. So happy for you daddy ben! Dumagdag nanama ang inaanak ko 👉👈
I’m one of your silent followers and subscribers. I’m sooo happy with all your triumphs in life! Congrats, Ben! God bless you and your new bundle of joy! 🤗💙👶🏻
