a deeply honest get unready with me + skincare routine | cutting off friends, therapy, self-hatred 

really enjoyed connecting with you guys on a deeper level today. what are some other topics i should tackle in future sit-down videos??

Kaiti saying she hypes herself up in the mirror shocked me cuz i thought that was something stupid I did but NO. IT WORKS YOU GUYS.

“you only have 24 hours in the day. why would you spend it with people you do not vibe with?“ SO. MUCH. YES.

kind of *ironic* that you said you wouldn't be friends with yourself from 5 years ago bc she didn't see value in herself other than her work... being kind to yourself includes PAST, present, and future. 5 years ago Kaiti had some room to grow BUT she was still trying her best and becoming who she was meant to be. don't get me wrong I totally get the feeling of cringing thinking about our past selves, but give recognition where recognition is due! 5 years ago Kaiti can be cringey AND so worthy of love. present Kaiti will be past Kaiti very soon and guess what? she'll be worthy of love too

let's admit kaiti's skin is LITERALLY GLOWING! imagine being so pretty ahhh! - getriya

I’m here for the vulnerable, real talk and that adorable clementine pen microphone. 🍊✨

can i jump through the screen? the atmosphere looks so relaxing.

You just set off my Alexa. So now we both have a 15 min timer.

obviously not the only aries that wants highest quality with minimum time spent CUZ MY MIND IS EVERYWHERE

I really love how you describe what therapy is, that the therapist isn't there "to give you the answers to all your problems", they are there "to unpack your thoughts from an objective perspective." 🌱 You described it perfectly!! Through therapy, I have discovered and realized a lot about myself, my past self and experiences, and how they affect me in the present. It's also really nice to have someone understand that what you're going through is totally valid, because everyone around me (especially my parents) have a hard time believing that I'm depressed because I never went through a huge traumatic experience and I don't have a "terrible life." For me, it was just a lot of micro trauma that has been built up ever since I was a little girl and I eventually exploded and broke down, and no one could understand why because I "seem fine" and that "nothing happened to me." I just want to remind everyone (if anyone is even reading this far lol) that *DEPRESSION DOESN'T DISCRIMINATE* You don't have to have an "excruciatingly difficult" life to be depressed or be struggling with mental health in general. Sometimes, the person who may seem to "have it all" or have "no reason to be sad" may be the person who wishes to never wake up in the morning every time they go to sleep. It just really sucks that everyone doesn't understand this, especially older generations. Being mentally ill is like having a deep scar in your heart, but it's hard for people to understand because they can't SEE it. When you're physically hurt, for the most part, it can be seen. Like if you have a broken leg, people can see that and be mindful and considerate of you because they can clearly SEE that you're hurt. But the scars in our hearts can't be seen, so no one knows and you can't really "prove" it either (not that it should be proven though) or be like, "hey, please don't be mean to me, I'm hurt." *WHAT YOU SEE ISN'T EVERYTHING, it's not even close to 50%* I just wish that everyone would just be kind to one another. Living really is so difficult, and the last thing we need is someone making it harder for us. Wow. This comment turned out to be really long 😅😅 didn't mean to write this much... haha whoops Thank you to anyone who even reads this whole thing lol and I genuinely hope that you can discover your happiness 🌱

So true! I didn’t realize how much trauma I had until I started therapy, I can’t speak for you but at least for me and a lot of other POC a lot of our pain especially in childhood is dismissed and invalidated because our parents and relatives “had it so much worse” and we’re told to kind shut up because less pain/trauma=no pain. Also intergenerational trauma is real! All the racism we face and our parents, and their parents, etc. A really good book I’m reading for my class that unpacks this well is “Take Care of Yourself” by Sundus Abdul Hadi

Her voice is heaven

Ngl, when i had to cut off my friends, it hurt me a lot,,, to the point where i felt like shit and kept on asking myself if i was doing the right thing,,, but when i took some time for myself, i finally saw how i was doing, and saw the improvement

i've always hated change i wasn't in control of. thank you for sharing your perspective and advice kaiti!! i really enjoyed this video and your vulnerability

this feels like a deep chat with the random person i meet at a spa

As someone who went through child sexual abuse and didn't have a good enough friend/family support, I fell in love with my boyfriend and think its absolutely fine to love someone else before you love yourself. Maybe not allowing yourself to have a relationship with someone before you love yourself works for some though. He's been a loving and supportive s.o. He encouraged me to go to therapy due my past trauma and I'm glad i didn't let that sentiment ("you need to love yourself before you love someone else") get in the way of me meeting him!

What youre talking about triggered me for real 😭 I’m struggling with self love, mental health, and being certain about myself and my skills. I’m in tears, love the tips.

also, the things you talked about in this video are SO important, I needed to hear so many of them 😖 feels like chatting with a bestie in a sleepover or smth

the burnout it so real. thank you for being vulnerable with us 💜

Yes being your own hypeman is the spirit of 2021!!! EVERYONE GO LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND TELL YOURSELF YOU ARE SEXY 🙆🏾‍♀️

You are SO talented. This editing??? Are you kidding ???

6:49 yes thank you!! there’s a lot of stigma around therapy, and whether you “really need it.” NORMALIZE GOING TO THERAPY.

i want to be your bestfriend so bad 🥺 youre so mature and introspective and wholesome

girl you are GLOWING

Loved the initial question! My answer is no, I am so different now I can barely recognize myself, and luckily in a good way! The old me was a useful version of me, helped the new me, but it wasn't enough and was way too negative, scaring away people. Now I finally love myself and I have found my inner peace! And the ones around me appreciate the new me!

OH HEY YAITI KOO I LOVE YOO

when kaiti started with saying she cant be friends with herself 5 years ago, I already knew this was going to be a relatable video edit: finished the video and I was right. this video hit me so hard🥺 even the questions hit hard

I feel like I’m at a sleepover and we’re all just having deep conversations with eachother. I’m living for it✨

Omg skincare talk but we can always count of Kaiti to make it extra entertaining! ❤️

also kaiti your editing is SO AESTHETIC! thank u for being do inspiring for my youtube channel!

I really have been liking these deeper sit down videos, I've been struggling a lot myself lately, it feels a lot better to watch videos like these from you ❤️ we're not going through it alone!

Girl all your videos are bomb and the editing skills *chief kiss*☺️

Normally these kind of vids aren't my favorite but with Kaiti everything is entertaining

KAITIIII I LOVE YOUR PERSONALITY thank you for being you

on another note, i am super glad that i could buy your box set and hopefully give you some form of commission with my purchase! if not, i would still like to think that me buying the box set gets you that traction to continue the amazing collabs you've been snagging recently! the world is continuing to show its dark side, but it's people like you kaiti yoo that show us how to keep moving forward as we realize how imperfect the world is GOSH I HOPE THIS WASN'T DEEP LMAO IF ANY OF Y'ALL KNOW ME IRL PLS KEEP SCROLLING

this was so comforting I loved this video. it was so raw and real and that’s what I love about kaiti yoo 🤩🤩

Kaiti whenever I listen to you.. I feel like I'm listening and laughing with my best friend!!! You've been a really great gift that I've got on RU-vid and all of your videos really leave a lasting positive impact and I'm living for it. Thank you for everything ❤️❤️

love the metaphor on loving yourself to the max then loving another person

THAT HOUSE ANALOGY AT THE END IS PERFECTION!!

Omg the lighting and editing is so top notch! Loving your videos every second!

Her voice tho! So calm to my soul

you are so pretty and funny, your videos always light up my mood when I'm stressed out 💕 and your skin is glowinggg, I'm taking notes!

I neverrr usually watch grwm or unready videos cause i don't do makeup, but this is the first video of this kind which I looooveeeeddd ❤❤❤❤❤❤ You talked about these serious topics in such a light hearted way❤

your editing is amazing i’m never bored-

This is one of the most relaxing videos I've watched today. Thanks for this.

ahhh the way that i totally LOVED this!! merged the skincare routine and the questions/answer so so well, totally getting the big sister vibes from this video. thank you for sharing your knowledge and energy with us, and would love to see more content like so!! 😭💕

I literally live for kaiti’s videos! I’m glad I’m not the ONLY ONE going through it!

you're that older sister i've always neededdd

I LOVE THESE KIND OF VIDEOS, especially the self-reflection💞

YES love this vid ! 💛 when you said heck no to being friends w/ yourself, I felt that

I loved this video so much, thank you Kaiti!

Kaiti, Unnie, you absolutely have no idea how much I desperately needed this video.

your skin is glowinggggg omfg 😫😭 I love the twinkly lights in the back btw

I'm LIVING for these chill videos💖

shes literaly Glowing the entire video LIKE WHAT!!???

i love your content! the quality of the video, personality and thumbnail is to die for🥺❣️

Hands down my new favorite youtuber!

plz make more like these! i love when you talk deep shits like these

ok but can we just appreciate how she's glowing thru out the video like daayum kaiti

YES YES YES this video was so relatable🥲 i def agree abt the importance of change. i’m currently going through a lot of personal changes and even tho it’s rough, i know that it will make me a better and stronger person :) LOVE U AND THE VID KAITI😃

can't believe how I jumped at the notification, kaitee you're making my day better at midnight ✨

love this new style of editing Kaiti 🤎

Thank you Kaiti for this! I’ve been struggling a lottttt lately. College is kicking my butt, thank you for this video love ya 🥰

loving the cool tones

I really needed this right now

lov u kaiti 🤧

love this type of videos!! she’s so pretty

I agree that every failure takes you to something greater and you can also learn from it and grow

I really needed this😭 you’re basically the big sister I never had

Girl your editing game is literal goals

Spending my day watching your vlogs. ❤️

This video came at the perfect time. I honestly needed to hear a lot of those affirmations about everything being able to work out in the future because all i think about is how I’m about to graduate with a degree I’m not interested in and have no idea where to start new to move into a career I want

I loved this video relaxing getting deep it was a relaxing and calming video thanks for sharing Kaiti thanks for being here for us those who feel alone and are going through it so thanks for your wise words love u

I’m in love with this video, 100% applying that house metaphor thank u angel❤️

absolutely loved this and needed it more than I knew. thank you

The way she is absolutely GLOWING gives me LIFE

Thank you so much!! This is such a chill video and I really resonate with the part about change!! So deep yet insightful!! Its so cool that you're partnering with wishtrend now bc klairs is my all time fav brand so i'm glad you're a klairs lover too!! 💖 As for what other topics you should tackle in future sit-down videos (PLS DO MORE!!), could you talk about some study tips or ways to study smart? Hehe

also "I literally see videos of myself from 2 weeks ago and I hate the person I was there" got me !!

I clicked so fast I freaking love you! 🌟💕

Omg yessss kati 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👑 Love your videos queen 💞

thank you so much Kaiti this video was real

LMAO I HAD to subscribe LITERALLY 30 seconds into the video...your energy, your vibe...immaculate ;)

this came up at 9 pm and it’s a perfect way to end the day

i loved loved this (v much straight to the point and raw and just lovely to watch :)) ) love u

One question in and I already love this

I love seeing this side of you! ❤️

Thank you for answering my question! I truly appreciate the advice and I hope you have a great day today! Love you see you in your next video!

Kaitiii please do more of these self-love, real talk, get unready with me videos. I love your vibes so much and these questions were so good. I would love to play with you 'We are not really strangers'. Like it would be so fun with you or make a video with these questions idk but as always love iiit Greetings from Germany xx

More self love, confidence chatty videos pleaseeeee 💕

These products look AMAZING! Just got my box, can’t wait to try them all ☺️

This video made me happy thanks kaiti😘

Love what you said about self-hared. I've had problem about hating myself for the last 26 years now (since I was born)

U BE GLOWING

That first question was so deep, I was not ready. 😪 No warm up, straight into the heat.

Oh yes i m so ready for this

QUEEN I LOVE THIS

So excited to waaaaatch this! 🤘🤩

this video was so calming

Dude, no I luv you. Dis is so real

love this so much :')