A Father Does Something Drastic When His Family Become Strangers To Him // Viddsee.com 

“I rather leave for good then stay in a place that doesn’t belong to me.” That part really hit hard.😔💔

He didn't make the right decision, he made the perfect one

Remember to love your parents...We are so busy growing up, we often forget they are also growing old. :'(

a salute to this father!!! i respect his decision. why stay in a family that can --- eat their food at a reunion without u , the head of the family ? shed tears for ur absence, rather than go out n search for u ???

People are like that, when they are they, we don't want them, when they are not there, we started to want them. Cherish the present one is what we need to do now

Taking others for granted is sad, because they can go away. Appreciate one another.

That's why we should always take care of our parents, elders, grandparents even in small things, whether they did something bad or good.. they didnt leave nor forget us when we are still small.. we shouldn't forsake them when they're old.. I was not a good son in the past either, but I'm catching up now..

At the end you can see him start to cry about his choice of leaving them but he knows he did the right choice.

Thank you for sharing. Grandpa did the right thing, if he is not respected and unhappy, he should move out, why should he stay with these blokes. As for the family if you don't care about grandpa when he is around, why should you care about him when he is not around. I go my way you go your way, no hard feelings!

My dad in Heaven, I miss him so much.

When I watched this movie , I miss my dad very much, I hope he is in peaceful now, we must always love our parents as well as they are still alive, because life is very short

is anyone here crying harder more after pa said "Maybe i dont belong to this fam. anymore"??

when he got that call,he was like:oh,NOW they care -_-

This makes me realise. No matter how much abuse my mom has given me. At least my dad has always been there to provide me with things I need.

Family IS A GREAT HOME.....We must treasure our own family.

Thank u for remind me to love all my family,i want my family is together. Nothing will leave or miss it!! Im getting cried

And this is one of the many reasons why we have homeless elderly living on the streets...

We must always love our parents. They raised us with love and now that we had grew up, we should repay them by giving them some love. Love you Mummy, Love you Daddy

Never take your loved ones for granted

There is no happiness without our parents. They were the backbone of the family especially if the father fulfilled his duties during his early days to give comfort for the family. It would be nice if he is treated well when he is now old. Having like him is a luck to a family. He is not like other father's who spend his earnings to himself, or go gambling, spend for other vices like liquors and paid women.

this short film shows that some people just don’t cherish you but only when you are gone. by then, it is too late.

This is what it means to be taken for granted

Y can't I stop crying this is so sad. We, I, you always have to be respectful to our olders. 😭😭❤️❤️

People rarely appreciate what they have. Happiness will rare to find. When it’s gone, they cried where their precious gone

Guy's you have a lovely family and you should never forget that they love you as much as you love them

As the day passby I see my maaa and paa getting old ,but instead of caring for themself they care for me and for my brother .I am addicted to there love soo much tht ,I can't live without them , I'll only wish them too be healthy and stay with me .now it's time for your children to fulfill maaa and paaa's dream.

You're so lucky you have a father like him

just found this clip, and it is the same as my life except I am doing alright financially and still getting all the emotional trauma. the phrase about not staying in a place where I don't belong is eye opening..

This may be just a short film but it does happen in real life more than we would like to admit. People do change....even your closest loved ones...those who you initially thought were the only people in this world that really matters to you. Sometimes our own loved ones can hurt us more than anyone else with small gestures, like in the scene when the big bowl of soup was placed directly in from of the father thus restricting him from easy reach to the other dishes. Their intention may be good towards the little girl but, in doing so, they neglect the feelings of the father. It makes him feels as if he is not an equally significant member of the family (regardless of whether he has a "longer hand" or not than the girl, as the wife had so insensitively said). It is not so much about the food but to the fact that no one else at the table (except for the little girl herself) had shown concern that the father may have difficultly too in reaching the other dishes, if the bowl of soup was placed directly in front of him.For us Chinese, the act of eating has a more profound meaning than just for eating sake. It can be used to symbolize how we feel about the other person or how concern we are to his/her welfare. That's why we Chinese, at times, when we meet someone who are close to us, instead of saying "hello", we asked him " li chiak par buay" (Have you eaten yet ?). So, the fact that all the adult family members at the reunion dinner table were totally oblivious that he may not enjoy the dinner with that bowl of soup right in front of him, speaks volume to the father. I can feel his pain. Don't really like the ending as it was rather sad. But I hope (if this is in real life) that the father does manage to find a better and happier life for himself elsewhere in his twilight years. That last sentence that he had said, when he was leaving home, brought a tear to the eyes and a pain to the heart......" I would rather leave than stay in a place that does not belong to me anymore and start again outside to complete the last stage of the journey in my Life ".

Get your tissues ready. Made me and my bro cry😭😭😭

It's sad that that's exactly how I felt with my group of friends. We were BFFs for 5 years. In 11th grade, I didn't feel like I belonged anymore and did exactly what the the dad did: left. I had a similar thought process too. :(

Our parents is the one who make us arrive in the world.our parents is the one that love us the most.our parents is the one that let us grow and learn and our parents will never forget us

I am so fortunate because I treasure most of the moment with my parents until passed away.

2:05 I loved how he said he can eat plain rice but instead he didn’t say I don’t want plain rice he made the right decision

Great Vid! Every Vid from Viddsee gets me to think deep and i really like it. Thanks for your Videos

I luv my father and my family a lot....this made me cry a lot...

Im crying bc when we grow up we forget about the things we cherish about but when you loose it you start to regret and wished you cherished what you have lost more

My dad will always be my best friend.

How busy you may be, always reaerve a portion of your time from the person who strive hard to make the family comfortable.

My grandma is now overseas next Monday or Tuesday she is coming back.... Im always crying as im sad she will leave without me beside her.... I really wish no one will die...

Human relation are like oxygen. When they are there no one realise. When they are not around, u suddenly realised how important they are.

If you don't understand this, then you're in another world. This almost made me cry until my mother had to call me for lunch -_- but, atleast almost is enough, this is a great touching film for families out there.

May God bless our parents forever😊 When my patents got COVID-19,I felt like my whole world is a mess.I cried and ptayed to God.😟So that He heels them for any of my good deed.At last they are fine now😊

eye-opener for us, children of our old, very loving parents. thank you for reminding us.

In life simple things matter, we tend to forget the little things our loved ones did for us. It's not too late, as long as we realize this, do something to let them feel that we appreciate them.

Thr house is good eating well living nicely he is doing his job nd his son he was doing good he was stable To Help his parents especially dad! The most heart breaking part was the soup bowl placed in front of him nd the reaction of everyone was so lame

I can’t stop watching these sad videos

Wait so that's how it ends? So sad...but makes me really think about my own family...my family is nothing like this but makes me realize that I need to show my parents I care, respect, and love them more

i wish everyday that you keep making stories like these... :) thankyou viddsee :) Lots of love from india.. :)

I like your videos Viddsee, make us think of the way that we walk as a society, greetings from Mexico

I couldn't stop my tears from falling... I will never do like this to my family

lol did anyone notice that the son said get my secretary to arrange the meeting? what the secretary got a secretary ah lol

That story will be for me down the road, I already seeing from my kids, but at a mother I always will give the love and always will be 💖

这就是人生.演亜公.很好👍演出动人的角色！

Thank you for reminding me to care about my family.And happy new year to all of you.Stay cool forever.🙂

i will share with my family and my friends and all people to have to watch this because we have to love and care our family

Yes it is true. If your family dont show gratitude or value you. Then it is better to leave than to be treated badly or ignored. The Vedas says it is time to prepare for your next life. Well taken movie.

Its sad he feels like he is a burden to the family, at least his grand daughter cared for him , the rest just didnt care about him at all...its so sad i cried, if i have a father like him i would appreciate him a lot...well my father is not with me so i missed the fatherly love from my father i had 7 years ago

I've been away from my family (mother and siblings) for over 15 years. Things have changed so much. I'm not anymore part of that family except as a source of money. I quit my family for 4 years now and I feel relief.

It was until this day that i didn't realise pa was always there for me ....

My uncle has just recently passed away...... really sad .....felt like I didn’t get to talk much with him....... Shalll He rest in peace

So much love for this uncle

My eyes flowed with tears

Very meaningful. Please reflect yourselves, youngsters. And if you're a Chinese, do not forget the Confucius values.

I cried!! It was so sad

Am literally crying 😫 😫

Miss u my dad always think abt us .... i love u very much

Being physically there and being there are 2 different things though.

Be tender with your words !

Amazing Acting skills by 辉哥 and the fellow actors.

watching this many time.. still cant handle my cry😭😭 it's so damn hurting me

Just love your family

who’s heart broke when the flashback started playing :,(( edit : been one year now. i didn’t know i even watched this hahaha. i scrolled through the comments and found mine. welcome me back guys! 😂❤️

This is such an amazing channel and a great video. Viddsee nice videos all of your videos make me think really deep thank you for making this channel and these videos

This is actually like us we become more addicted to technology that we forget what is happening in reality

hi iam in India .world's mostly beautiful times is spending our familys .don't miss anybody in yours life.this is that first ahevement in life. other ahevement is next. love family. live with family.

Sebenarnya itulah orang tua ketika di dekatnya kadang terasa kesal padanya, tapi ketika kita kehilangan baru terasa, semua sudah terlanjur, hargailah seseorang yang selalu ada untukmu karna ketika orang itu sudah tidak lagi disisimu kau akan merindukannya.😢😢😢

I'm gonna share this to people who are currently in this kind of situation

Never mind it was very touching Love my Papa

2019 here anyone wants to get viddsee to make a part two of this video?

please do a part two i really want to see if he came back or never ever came back

Shed tears. I lost my dad 8 months ago.

Yg Kesini gegara Tiktok Gajelas itu Part Partan Like👍❤️

It makes me think if I was born into the right family

Why no happy ending?? Cause it's the reality?

I literally cried...........😥

Henry thia so good at acting 😍😍😍😍

Unfortunately, it's not just a Singapore problem but worldwide. People, if not physically, mentally checking out because they feel they no longer belong. It's sad how societies everywhere have narrowed their scope instead of broadening it towards their fellow human being. And the deepest pain comes from when it's your family!!!

What do you mean " in loving memory of polly loh" Do you mean this story is real?

This short film was really well done. A feel minor problems with it tho, in some scenes, such as 5:44, there was no white balancing, resulting in a sudden change in color and making the scene look warmer. The scene where the wife was consoling the husband had continuity errors, the husband seemingly stopped crying in what I assume to be the master shot, and continues crying in the medium close up shot. However, the audio was great, and most of the other cinematography of the short film was alright to me. I liked the narrative, and not to mention the acting as well as the moral behind the story, that is to appreciate your loved-ones. Probably one of my personal favorite short films from Singapore, and having Henry Thia in the cast just made it so much better!

i feel so sorry for the old man

I strongly support his drastic Decisions though having an extremely filial granddaughter

My grandma was poor and she was Chinese she worked day and night and she had a sickness but she lived I'm just happy she did

First time I've seen hui ge act in a serious role!

Usually mother will spend more time with child and make father like never exist in the family when he is busy with earning money for the family expenses.After finished watching this vid, i used to recall my dad always buy me most of the thing i want when i was child and now i am still love him so much in all ways, even i am not speaking too much to him but i can feel the distance between our heart is zero. Dont forget to love our dad, and mom, always, always.

The father left as he felt unappreciated by his family. I think being the head of the family, he could have set things right from the beginning by asserting more authority on his children and work out a mutual understanding with his wife to be more supportive. He probably gave them too much leeway to do what they want.

This video makes me very sad and take care of your parents when they old

this made me cry

Being the bread winner of the house.. Due Respect and Care should be given be it from his wife or children Proud to claim that... Throughout my 25 years of marriage.. I always serve 三菜一湯+水果/糖水 for my family on daily basis。。 I single handedly settled the house chores with 5000sf house too.. 🎉

does all the sad shit always happens to asian families? cuz i've never seen a western videos like this one