A Man and His Wife | Doug Wilson 

I think that’s a really common male view of masculinity. My husband has also described a similar thought process of it. And I think it’s really the church, and the fathers job to teach young boys what the truth is according to God. But when the church and the parents fail to do so, it leaves young men feeling sort of confused and floundering once they are married. And the same for women of course! The church and the parents together, are supposed to raise the young women up in these ways. And the most interesting part to both roles, is that it really does take both sides participating in the correct way, for it to flow well. But one spouse can also do their role, and prayerfully hope for their spouse to join in. 🙏🏽

@@jaquirox6579 Amen

@@quickattackfilms7923 Thanks brother! 🙏🏽♥️ I take it you can relate to my comments then? Once we get ourselves all straightened out, we have to be extra fervent to teach the kids ourselves too! And maybe not just our own. Like how can we help serve our church in this way too? Food for thought. 🙏🏽

@@jaquirox6579 Yeah you’re definitely right

Don't worry about getting a membership, Jesus and His disciples never ever taught that you had to become a member at any earthly temple of sorts, but rather Scripture instructed us to be In Christ, if you are in Christ then you are a member already, enrolled in heaven, the kingdom of God, by being born again. Church membership actually promotes division among the body rather than unity, we must seek unity with all brothers and sisters in Christ.

@@Jazzygoodtimes I think that you ought to review the Word. Hebrews 12 is a great place to start. Elsewhere you will find that the elders job is to discipline members for their sanctification. It is a good thing.

@@theauthor8901 Im not telling you that the elders job isnt that, but on the contrary the congregation is exhorted to rebuke leadership in sin 1 Timothy 5:19-21 Discipline is good and is a duty of God, according to Hebrews 12 and is a blessing, but once you can show me that church buildings are supposed to have a membership process in order to be included as a Christian believer through Scripture then I will hear you on that matter, but I have been through the bible several times and still havent found the passage condoning it, rather I find Jesus going house to house having intimate relationships with people rather than setting up a mega church in Nazareth or even picking disciples from the scribes and pharisees. Yes, rather, He chose from the lowly, the base of people untrained and uneducated men as we see in Acts and other places.

@@Jazzygoodtimes I did not suggest that church membership and salvation were a package. I wrote, “I am seeking membership at a local chapel that teaches biblical wisdom… “ I had already written beforehand that I am a new Christian. Therefore, I clearly understand that one can be saved and not a church member. Please take the time to read and digest what customers write before you take the liberty of offering them advice, I’ll-conceived or otherwise. I suggest that you watch more of Pastor Wilson’s videos and read your Bible with greater care and attention to detail. Goodbye.

@@theauthor8901 Well this is a public forum and public expression is encouraged, if you dont like that then that is on you. If you are a new Christian then I encourage you to listen more and speak less, you are giving more glory to "pastor" Doug Wilson and by default diverting glory from God who will not share His glory with another. Point people to Jesus, not men. Even Jesus Himself said not to call anyone teacher for you have one Teacher and you are all brothers. There are Shepherds biblically but we are not to exalt them above others. Jesus addressed this when His disciples began bickering about who is greatest and He told them the one who desires to be the greatest must be the servant of all for even the Son of man didn't come to be served but to serve. He led by example even washing their feet. Good day.

Thank you. That's a very good message for others. I'm sorry you lack that leadership in your marriage, and I hope that your husband is awakened one day to take his rightful leadership. I know you will continue to be faithful to the Lord.

Haha, I agree!

Imagine if he wasn't calvinist?! He'd be on fire!

Why do you care if he is a calvanist or not? He is a Christian.

@@christopherneedham9584 Because some Calvinists preach stupid, arrogant, prideful and unbiblical messages…. That’s why. Calvinism in its ideology is disgusting. Doug Wilson however is great! 👍🏾

@@jesuschristsaves9067 and a variety of a whole host of denominations have their own pastors which preach their own versions of heresies. How is calvanism any different?

I'm on my 3rd time through. There's just so much good stuff.

Did you find a husband yet?

@@BornAgain223 no, but weirdly not long after that comment I started dating a man who I’m still with. Strange looking back at this right now. We’re not in the same state and idk what will happen in the future, but right now it’s going well. Thanks Corry.

@BB maybe that's your future husband :) thanks for the update! God bless you 🙏

@@BornAgain223 you as well.

So….. how does that play out, if u believe He has a physical body? I haven’t heard anyone say that before. Interesting!

The father does not. The son, after the incarnation, does. Jesus states the former explicitly to the woman at the well

@@jaquirox6579 Hello! I think the Son was created in the express image of His Father, to do the will of His Father and in His name (as His steward and representative on Earth.) It doesn’t make sense to me that a vibration created all these varied, specific, physical things for no purpose whatsoever for or relating to Himself. Children (like us mortals) are created from the mold of Heavenly parents, just as we are copies of our parents. Jesus was directly from God, and we all are more generally via Adam. We are all brothers and sisters!

@@horrificpleasantry9474 Exactly.

@@itsHeatherKay The son was not created, he is God Almighty and has always existed.

You have every right to correct her.

That's a good observation. Sure, the popularity of bdsm shows that basic innate need for authority and submission. That is true between men and women, and also true more generally in society, which needs ruling authorities. We are built for relationships, including vertical relationships, and we are fulfilled in them. People robbed of normal authority and submission often intentionally go looking for it elsewhere, at times in the rather artificial structure within bdsm.

Can I ask why u decided to ask her to wear it? Are u American?

Yes we are. American women used to wear headcoverings in public, the bonnet. Baptist, Presbyterian, Catholic all. In public too as they took 1 Cor 11 to mean praying wherever.

I just like the tichel style better

@@tesseract535 Oh yah I study quite a bit of history, so I’m familiar with head coverings many uses in the past. I’m just curious what spurred that topic up for you? I picture you going about your entire life with no head coverings, then u suddenly decided to ask your wife to wear one. So there was probably something that spurred that idea, right? And I’m just curious what that was. If you wouldn’t mind sharing it with me? It’s not very common now, especially in the US. Culturally, even within the Church, it’s quite rare. So as a man who has chosen that rarity for his family, I’m super curious why, or how u got there. God bless, and thank u for chatting with me btw. 🙏🏽

We heard about it through friends of friends in Apologia and decided to look into it.

That's something close to herasy, because no-one can take anothers sins (except christ)

That's BS and for that matter bothers me whenever you say so, to some degrees RadFems are, but even they are not at war with feminity, they are all at war with the notion that femininity is for men or submissive. They want femininity to be womans, no men involved.

And also not universal, rather some woman are not-feminine, some are.

For one you represent why feminism might still be necessery

If only it was directed at your line of thoghts, not geberal social problems made into issues of gender

Sorry that happened to you. I hope you don't quit on God using that to throw God away is like saying you'll never eat vegetables again because of vegans. Your experience could be a powerful testimony that will give glory to God and help other people.

If you're from Idaho, it's "let's go Brad Little!"

Explain your Baselss assertion

Marriage is a terrible idea for narcissists, indeed.

It just means that you dont love God.

I don't really understand what you're saying is a terrible idea. Maybe a scripture reference would be helpful?

"If you want to find out how selfish you are get married." -- Hawaii pastor

How terrible to live with a man who never blames your for anything, even when you're totally at fault. Just the worst.

The context of Galatians 3 is clearly our salvific standing before either the law, or Christ. It has nothing to do with gender roles. You can have one foot in the world, and one foot in Christ but you'll be greatly injured by straddling the fence.

Nonsense it’s you who doesn’t understand that passage

Ironically egalitarians are experts at disregarding context of scripture, and have to do so to justify their faulty ideology and exigesis.

Lol! You don’t know who his daughters are. Obviously.