For the month of June we're going to be doing a lot of webisode orbiting around men. This is our first installment of A Man Who's Interested Will! Part 2 is on the way
Don't ever call or text him first, especially if he wasn't the one that didn't reach out initially. Don't let anyone tell you more then once that they don't want you. Most men are not verbal, but them not saying anything at all is saying everything that you need to hear.
I tell you!! When I met my husband he told me to take his phone number because he didn’t have a pen and paper. I told him “ I don’t contact guys first” he switched up real quick and was like let me go get something so I can take yours. He called me that next day and made his intentions known within the first week that he was looking for a wife not just a partner. He said he was looking to date for a year then be engaged and married in 6 months. This might be so fast for some of y’all but we both had mad boundaries with each other. The biggest one being NO SEX Before the wedding. I didn’t move in until the wedding night and throughout out courtship we both made our wants and needs known and our communication skills were on point!
@@RaqMor13 This is awesome! Praise God!! This is where I stand today. And I'm still standing. There is one Father has just for me who has boundaries as well!!
Listen!!!! I learned that 10 years ago while dating someone. I used to think that was the sign a man was serious (I mean, it USED to be). But it was one of the best eye-openers for me.
1. A man who's interested will pursue with a destination. A Godly man provide clarity, a carnal man spurns confusion. Clarity and confusion are both destinations. - You'll need enhanced Godly discernment. Don't catch feelings before catching prayer. 2. A man who's interested will make time. - You'll never have to beg a man to do what he really wants. 3. A man who's interested will inform those he trusts and loves about you. - Keep it private until it's permanent. 4. A man who's interested will listen and observe. - He will desire to learn you. - Godly men look for attributes, carnal men look for avenues.
🤣🤣🤣 Well not all the time... It could be he also isn't proud of you or he is cheating you or just experimenting to see if he can get into the draws and leave ASAP.
Tell them my brother you have to be a godly leader in your house first before any women to follow you respect her worth and than she will follow know body wants a carnal man or carnal woman living in these dark times in Jesus name 🙋🏽👍🏽✋🏽❤️
Here is my philosophy: If it quacks like a duck,and it looks like a duck , believe that it’s a duck .Translation: If he doesn’t call,doesn’t ask you on a date ,doesn’t try to check up on you , texts you 6 days later ,girl drop him .Cut it .Quick ! But they made some valid insightful points .The problem is that we have some individuals who don’t have discernment.Something I learned to have after my mistakes .And also knowing your self worth and your value.Now that I’m single as a Pringle I have something many people don’t have ,and that’s peace . I’m so content .Let’s go Part 2!lol
I say this all the time. Peace is more valuable than money cause your spirit is not disturbed in any way. Alot of ppl are inauthentic and like the way things look vs how they feel, and they spirit will be tore up all the time fighting the truth. There's nothing like peace in life, people don't know what they missing.
Ima gone ahead and screenshot this ! This guy I have in mind when we talk we talk for hours & HOURS about God and we relate mentally about allot. Every blue moon he’d mention something about me being his wife. And it’s weird but it’s like he sees ME, he’d mention that he sees a higher me like a me I haven’t unlocked yet. Its weird a little lol he said I’m pure & rare like rubies. I mean it’s like he can SEE ME like my best self.. even though I’m not the best me just yet. He’s even told me what attributes my future husband would need to properly care for me tailored to what I’ve been through in trauma. It’s been 5 years, & he’d disappear for months & he’s horrible with texting back I mean like getting a text back within 2 weeks or never really .. But he’d always call every so often , more on the side of every blue moon to check up on me and try to keep the connection by reassuring me that he cares about my well being. He’ll mention to me jokingly everytime that I forgot about him and that he’s always the one to call & check up on me.. and he’s right b/c when I don’t hear from you for a hot month or 2 I forget about you.. bc 1 I’m not going to chase you and if you really wanted to peruse me, why has it always been a little headache communicating .. He’d come to my photoshoots when i ask him & he’d make time to come (He’s a musical artist, a Christian music artist, performing @ shows & all) but I feel like the friendship isn’t truly going anywhere. I hve mentioned hanging out but I get a feeling he doesn’t really want to. It would spark a interest but idk. We haven’t hung out as far as a one on one “let’s catch a dinner & just talk in person” instead of over the phone for hours. He does mention that when he’s dealing with something he doesn’t like to be around people, he doesn’t want to be around individuals when he’s not his best self. So rn IDK bc I really like him & I feel like we have allot in common mentally &etc but I don’t know how to move forward with this & ask him how do we contribute to eachother even as friends when the communication feels like a one time contract sign to just communicate every 5 months.
@@TheKianaRoe Hey Sis, I'm going to be straight up with you and tell you to block this man. He is a time waster and he throws breadcrumbs. What I mean is, he'll give you just enough to keep the fantasy going. He'll pop back up when he needs an ego refueling. I've learned through trial and error not to give a man too much time on the phone. This builds false intimacy and you "think" you know him, but you really don't. Iniating contact and asking to hang out is pursuing, which is out of order. Men pursue, women choose/accept. He is in his feminine energy with you, like he's the prize. And what happens if you "catch" him? You'd spend your relationship pursuing him, which sounds exhausting. You deserve to be courted and pursued by a man who recognizes you as the gift from God that you are. You deserve to be SURE. Like Pastor Jerry said in the video, confusion is a sign that you are not being pursued by a godly man. Block him Sis so that he doesn't distract you from who God has for you. Best wishes to you.
And when the Lord reveal things to you. Don't try to paint a different picture, and yes if that's the only time he say he love you. He simply mean he only love it. Women we need to stop making excuses, and stop settling. And we need to stop dating based off of society's ways of teaching us how to date, or the toxic ways we have seen our dysfunctional family members date. We get mad at the opposite sex, when we are supposed to be learning from the experience. And choosing to be better, and move and operate differently in a healthy way after that experience.
I didn’t listen to the Holy Spirit about a guy and my heart was broken this year. And while it was a lesson I didn’t need to learn through disobedience God still was good. It was a blessing in the mess. And I learned all of this and now am moving forward with only wanting to be with a man who pursues me, is intentional, clear and authentic. I learned I’ll never have to guess with an intentional man of God!
At a young age I learned the when a guy wasn't interested and now that i'm in my 20s I changed my approach. I allowed the men to pursue and even if I had to walk away and I didn't lose anything in the process. I gained wisdom and knowledge from the lessons that I learned and the actions I would or wouldn't do again. I no longer press a situation instead I go with my flow and observe. It feels good to sit back and not have to worry myself whether a guy is interested. Let him do the leading and if he isn't then you can respectfully make your exit.
THIS!! I'm divorced and currently in a season of singleness. My desire is to remarry and have children with the godly man that the Lord provides and shows me to. Because a man who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Thank you so much for posting this video. This has brought so much clarity to me. God bless you guys! 🙌🏼🌺
This why I started my RU-vid channel and help women heal from toxic relationships. There’s so much we don’t know. Just wrote a new book called: He Doesn’t Love You If...on Amazon. Thanks for sharing.
So good! This is helping me strengthen my 'no' because I have to turn down a guy I think is good, but God is telling me 'no' on. I truly believe God put this video in my path so I could see this. So good!
Mine too. I didn't realize I had come so close to danger and destruction. It shook me, and I'm still recovering after five years. I'm a lot better now, but I looked over my shoulder many times.
@@tasheenalewis-everhart3871 I think about God's kindness all the time. I'm surprised that I never discerned just how kind the Lord truly is. God bless. Stay safe.
Can I add that there is a third kind of man? The man that has no idea what he's doing and how to do relationships? Like he isn't trying to sleep with the girl or anything, but he also has no idea how to lead. All intentions are good but never executed well.
Yea ...and he isn’t intentional ab pursuing you even though he isn’t intentionally trying to ruin the relationship ...he aint ready...or he immature...or maybe he is not where he needs to be with God to even pursue you. He aint even pursuing God as he should. But he wasn’t intentionally trying to hurt you or lead u astray
Okay, this is where I believe I find myself. He doesn't mean to lead you astray but he does. He can't pursue because he isn't exactly where he needs to be with the Lord so he can't lead me in the way I need.
Yes, I think in today's society, this also happens a lot. A man who's not a user, but also not a king... I think in that case, when we meet a man who's well-meaning but unable to provide the guidance and leadership we need in a relationship, we should gently lead him in that direction (or tell him what we need in a kind way) and simply not expect too much of him right away and continue taking care of ourselves. If he can't or won't grow into the man that he needs to be then we may need to gently let him go and simply say that we hope we'll meet again in future (or something like that).
Thank you Jesus!! I’m so glad I heard this. I shot my shot and dude started talking about sex. Oh nooo not here. I’m waiting. God keep showing me. 💃🏽💃🏽
My parents taught me, counterfeiters learn by studying REAL currency! I apply that to relationships: single people spend too much time on fake examples of love. That’s why they complain so much about past failed relationships. Start focusing on the REAL, good examples, including the positive aspects of the previous failures. This will help you “discern” frauds immediately so you don’t get involved. I also believe it will help you attract the real mate right away. Because you’ll recognize them when you see them.
I really like the two of you working together for God’s glory, I aspire to have this one day. Not seeking it out but trusting God to bring it to pass....
The only thing that saddens me is that there aren't many godly men of maturity who help other men. And in my own experience, there is not one person I know that I really trust, because we are living in evil times. I just take everything to God because I know I can trust God! And believe me, I've searched my entire life for elders and those that would help teach me in the right way to go. I see pastors and teachers who love being praised in churches and rarely ever have time for you or really care about you. You can't have enough decrement from God in these times! I pray to have a husband that seeks God daily with his whole heart too! If you do have a good godly pastor or friend that cares and wants your best and will point you in the right direction and correct you in love, you are so truly blessed.
I had to constantly pause this & take notes. I haven't started dating yet, but I definitely am ready. I've already set boundaries years ago & I've been abstinent since 2017. I'll be weeding out the carnal men quickly. My husband will find me whole & happily single. My husband is already on his way. Love you all & stay blessed. 🙏
@@mslady312 listennnn! Them heifers Jezebel, Delilah, athaliah, lillith, and the queen of heaven (2nd) are no joke. The old testament jezebel spirit has nothing on the The New testament Jezebel in Revelation 2:20
Been there with counterfeit...every single word they said...and the thing is I’ve been following there ministry and the season I don’t register for wife academy....the enemy comes in with a counterfeit....and yes I was under a spiritual attack...in my sleep. The thing is I saw everything...and thank God the Holy Spirit pulled me back into his presence and told me... “no more”this season of my life is over with! I’m finally walking in my newness and seeing clearly as ever...I’ll never be the same...i so look forward to what God is doing in my life. Waiting hits different now. 🙏🙏🙏
SOOOO GOOD Y'ALL...THANK YOU PASTOR AND FIRST LADY FOR HELPING US TO BE AWARE OF COUNTERFEITS AND TEACHING US WHAT A REAL GODLY MAN IS AND WHAT HE PURSUES!!!!!!
OMG absolutely!!! This is meat! Hallelujah! I agree! I experienced the same! And now finally have been found by a KINGdom Man! Thank you guys so much for this.
Wow I asked God for confirmation that I made the right choice to let go of someone and this video really showed me the truth. God is amazing. He really loves his children and sends you Warnings
“Our blemishes proves our authenticity “!!! I’ve had braces twice to get rid of my gap and it came back both times , I’ve decided that I look beautiful with my gap and it defines a part of me
I PREFER counsel from someone that has BEEN where I'm trying to go...not from jealous competitors who are trying to lead me to failure...instead of to God's vision for me...so THANK YOU Pastor and 1st lady Flowers!
Godly men PURSUE with a DESTINATION. Godly men bring CLARITY. Discernment will give you the ABILITY to see BEYOND presentation. And he will MAKE time. Counterfeits try to learn to gain ACCESS a open door. Stay WOKE!❤
Iam not gonna catch feelings before catching prayer. I need to pray...i can't see behind this eish this is🔥🔥. * He will make time for what he loves. *He informs those he love ls and trust about you. * He will listen and observe 🔥🔥 this is great wisdom right here
Mrs.Flowers you look beautiful!! la la love the purple earrings!!! this was good for me, although i am choosing to take time to learn to love me and allow God to heal me in this time in my life. I love to watch your guys videos it helps me see in the lens of a kingdom perspective and also to help me with the problem of lusting after a relationship i am currently dealing with. I am learning to respect myself to wait and do it the right way in purity the way our heavenly father says in His word!! Thank you for your ministry to help me see the kingdom standard!!! Bless you flowers!! #notperfectlybutprogressingly
Thank you Jesus for your word that has just delivered my soul from the darkness.Thank you Jesus for yours servants that brought the word.Bless Mr and Ms Flower and theirs children forever and always in Jesus name,Amen ❤
Y’all are definitely hidden gems. The Lord is saving you for the right time but baby I’m here not just for you sir but your wife. #speakingtruth #speakingfacts thank you for this video!
Ohmygosh!!! I love this channel...this power couple.. yes!! And Amen!!! I had a man show some interest.. I was nervous around this man. I was attracted and felt interested myself, but as attraction made me nervous(bad marriages).. I kind of ran and somewhat ran the other way. He stopped. Now I feel like I ran off a potential good man.. I see him daily and there is defiantly still attraction but he has backed off. I've prayed and prayed and the lord has Only to told me to "wait".
