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My father worked hard for his entire life Never had a 5 rupee's Tea outside to save money Now , he have money but now that saving attitude has gone in blood Can not spend a single rupee on him , Everything is waste of money for him rather than comfort
Excellent topic 👏 This was an eye opener for me, people sabotage their life and invite unnecessary challenges to have that feeling of "there was a struggle which I overcame" instead of, being grateful of not having those basic challenges
AAG Video as always Sir.. 1. A big struggle for all: When no struggles yet in life, how to live happily ever after? 2. We need to use money to make our life easy. Taking happiness from money is also an art 3. For the youth of today, rather than physical issues, mental issues need to be addressed 4. People need to buy time with their money. e.g. hiring a cook, driver etc. Smartly spending money will make your life easy, save your time and give you happiness..
Please understand that there is an omnipresent fear of old age and how much money is enough - no social security, children may not take care, may be abroad, end of life care is expensive, medical coverage may not be enough. This uncertainty alone is enough for people to not spend even if they have seemingly enough. We don't take well to uncertainties - be it dying young or living too long.
To have certainty requires safety net, medical support from the gov, good public hospitals like in the West. Otherwise it's impossible for middle class to bear big expenses in old age like a cancer treatment, serious injury, high inflation, etc.
I have seen a phenomenona where so many families accumulated a lot of wealth was created. But due to a bad generation all wealth was destroyed. After seeing them many more families hesitate to give a very comfortable life to next generation due to fear that "baccha bigad jayega". I see a lot of pain there. Please give clarity onit
Bangalore ki paani ki problem ke baare me video banaye. Metro cities ka concentration se hone wale issues ke baare me bole. Flats culture promote karte hai aap toh in issues ko deal kaisa Kiya Jaa sakta hai guruji. Isme margadarshan kare.
Excellent topic and explanation, Sir. Same observed with my parents. And now if I also want to spend my money on myself, either they declare me as guilty of spending money on myself or I doubt my action. Thank you for highlighting this topic and clarity.
I m a big fan of u ..guru ji.....I m 45 years old ...on my 23 anniversary me n my husband went to Andaman and Nicobar islands....and on this 24 anniversary we went to kerala n Tamilnadu.......really paise se sukh lena bhi ek art hai
It is so good,unaddressed issue being brought up by you,live exact example i have seen in our circle,it creates so much anger , frustration, anxiety , dislike, irritation, negative vibes in that family,their own people feel so unfulfilled cos of this attitude ,wo dekh ke lagta hai sukh bhi sirf paise se nahi akal aur ishwar kripa se milta hai,thanks for raising this topic
Sir, please make a video on " what to do in free time instead of using phone and social media , for people who are so used to stay busy and they get bored in free time/weekends"
There is a proverb in kannada " kottidu tanage bacchittidu pararige " rough translation is if u enjoy the money u have in a fulfilling way in a good way for yourself for your children or u donate money for a good cause that brings u happiness in some way or u will achieve happiness and contentment in some way , or bcz you spent money for a good cause u will reap it's benefits..instead if you keep stacking money and not utilise it , one day some one ( some stranger ) will come and take away that money " phew long explanation but that's the brevity of proverbs 😂.but the point I mean is ur video was Bang on sir I have seen a family exactly being this type with lots of money but stingy , the daughter in law of the house is suffering bcz of this attitude 😢 I loved this video will definitely share it
You have hit the ball. Curtain raiser topic. I am in my 40's Your style of conversation is good and funny too. Keep making curtain raiser topic. Greetings from indore
So true sir. People stay stuck in past struggles even if the present and future is great. People find unnecessary reasons to stay unhappy. It’s like they don’t want to let go of generational trauma. Thanks again for an excellent factual video. I think you should also get recognition and an award for being this eye opener on you tube. I am sure you will reach your goals of creating widespread awareness very soon. God bless you and continue to be your guide and strength.🌈🌈🙏🙏
You are absolutely correct. Previous generation want to map the situation at their times on the present generation. I heard my father telling my mother arrogantly that I didn't have to make houses , because of which I am able to be better than what he was at early 30s. Background : my father is an ex govt officer, I have been educated in govt school (around zero fees), govt engg colleges ( state govt college and masters at old IIT where fees are all total less that 1 lakh)
Imagine whatever academic achievement you made, your father had decided not to expose you to all that. May be just that he didn't like to spend his money, however hard or easy he earned it.Where would you be now. Be grateful. Baap baap hota he. Beta beta hota he. I am not trying to make personal comment on you brother. I just want to make a general statement. I too had such thoughts in the past, everyone does, but we should get back to reality asap.
Why forget the sacrifices childrem make, especially girls. @@dipinnair6003 Any struggling middle class house which has a girl aged 10 yrs or above doesn't keep any maid. Girls are the chhotus and Ramus of the house in young age and mothers to siblings, in a little advanced age above 17/18/19 yrs, handling all house affairs, cooperating in small businesses or freeing moms for small businesses or savings or saving fathers money by not spending or utterly stingly spending or by cutting their needs. Parents later forget their contribution very easily, rather just they are not noticed even..
Paise so sukh lena sabki kala ni hai!! So true! Money can buy happiness, you just need the right talent for that. It's the things like these I admire this person. You provide solution to hard and raw truths of life.
The cycle of money that people don't know about you need to EARN > SAVE > INVEST > SPEND and spend in a way that you feel Happy at the end of it. Whether you donate it, buy cars, buy houses, travel you need to get Happiness out of spending money...that is also an art.
Good video and excellent observation.. although the question is how to overcome the fear of the future and not lose that safety net. Middle class people still live in guilt to spend and that voice at the back of the mind keeps taunting if we indulge sometime on something and some time later we need money for some other genuine reason or emergency.. we are not very comfortable with abundance and still live in a scarcity mindset, fearing the future..
If you get it's answer pls let me also know I think solution is Financial security , stability and independence through multiple passive income streams
Also amazing observation n great knowledge sir 👍👍,apke videos sunkr kaafi misunderstandings clear ho rai families ki or purane chlte aaye myths saaf ho rhe 👍👍
Very nice video and thought Sometimes we all need reminder to enjoy life and our resources Sir when you put hunour in videos it’s so entertaining 😂 MAG
Marne ke baad Jo Paisa bank mei reh gaya woh humari fizul ki kamai thi... Isiliye yeh sahi baat h ki jiyo to har ek pal aise jiyo jaise ki aakhri ho... Aache se kharch Karo aur khush raho...bahut jyada savings k peeche pagal mat bano
Very nice video...pls refrain from taking names of others...u may call them xcel wale....or chetna jagaane wale or their pet words, 1 chote se consultant ( main hun ) ki yeh salah maan lein .
ID For once in my life, I really feel GREAT about my own thoughts as a very common person who has the same thoughts as you when it comes to money and enjoying it!
I come from lower middle class family, father passed away when i was 13. Mom worked hard and raised me giving good education. Now I there in marriage proposals, many people are rejecting cause of no money in len den, even some people think that after marriage they will have to take care of girls mom. So sometimes i feel anxious...what will happen...
Guruji, there is some progress on this issue in the South. Elders love traveling, particularly within the country. When visiting Gujrat you will see majority elder traveller's from South. And surprisingly, from Bengal. This was our experience.
Sir I'm 30 pta nhi kyu mujhe kisi bhi relatives ke ghr ya unse milne ka mn nhi krta reason poochte haun kya kr rhe ho paiso ka dikhawa krte hain kyunki mostly govt. job wale hain isiliye mai bhi ghr walo se bolta hu mt bulao kisi ko or humne bhi bahut km kr diya relatives ke ghr jana khaskr meri family mai mene bilkul bnd kr diya hai mn he nhi krta
Mind blowing sir…I always think in the same way. But u just tell us how can we make our parents to learn these things. They don’t want to spend money on their own Stuff, travelling & especially on servants.
As usual you are right but this is not a new problem … this can be observed already and even before … the mental conditioning of the society is to save for emergency which was a phenomenon of the generation of early independent India … now people can’t really come out of this mindset that there are instruments to take care of the emergencies and life can’t be lived just for saving (rather than waiting) for the difficult times and making yourselves able to tackle those … life is to live every moment and by ‘LIVE’ I actually mean ALIVE
The only company who can sustain long growth is the one who is funding maximum to current government.. then you will lose all your fear of losing business...
