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Hardships with getting married, societal pressure, unreal expectations, comparison syndrome and losing hope. Sound relatable?
A Pakistani mother and her son approached Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan during a Q&A session at the Akhri Moujza program in Pakistan, during which they expressed their concerns about the hardships our youth face when trying to get married. They observed that some are blessed enough to find their partner during their studies, whilst others struggle for years to find someone. Why does Allah open these doors for some people, whilst others can't seem to catch a break? Here's some advice from Ustadh Nouman.
An important note from Ustadh Nouman:
Whilst I hope our viewers can find benefit from these short Q&A snippets, I wholeheartedly acknowledge from the multiple conversations I've had that this is a much deeper issue which requires honest, well-rounded discussions that are focused on practical solutions.
I do not claim to have the answers, but I hope to engage in fruitful discussions during my future trips to Pakistan, and grasp a deeper understanding of this problem from different perspectives with hopes of getting closer to a solution. Please do share your thoughts with us in the comments.
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@zuairk
@zuairk 10 месяцев назад
Oh Nouman bro, ya sheikh ya ustadh you have no idea how much we Pakistani people need someone like you. MA SHA ALLAH You're truly a blessing for this modern ummah, Salam to ur parents for giving us the best ustadh for this GENERATION specially in these confusing times. Alhumdulillah lots of love & prayers for u bro oh imean ustadh😅❤❤
@Febrisf62
@Febrisf62 11 месяцев назад
It is amazing how he separate the deen and psychology side of human. Sometimes ppl think that the problems are caused by bad knowledge of deen, while its simply just the way you think about the problem. May Allah bless you, ustadz. 🙏🏼
@anwarsaleem7283
@anwarsaleem7283 4 месяца назад
The whole Deen psychology
@BuddyBro86
@BuddyBro86 2 месяца назад
It will still boil down to not knowing your deen well enough, reason1: comparison is a foolish thing, everyone will go through their own Qabr, their own accountability call to deeds. Reason 2, destiny is written way before you came to dunya, dua and effort betters it and increase it, Qur'an itself says, do istaghfar your rizk will increase, rains sons will increase and wealth, so comparing wouldn't help, istaghfar would shukur would, reason 3: hadith says yani gist is, momin doesn't bother him/her self with things which aren't their concern, reason 4: whosoever backbites is like eating brothers dead meat, hadith says also that when you supplicate for your brother, an angel says ameen and for you too. Reason 5: inndaz zunni abdi bihi think good there can be other reasons too. But it'll be futile commenting such long, few words can benefit more
@shahidaperveen7701
@shahidaperveen7701 Месяц назад
I love to listen him. How balanced and harmoniously he replied. Islam has given shown us the reasonable and practical way of life.
@shabinaislam9598
@shabinaislam9598 11 месяцев назад
Again a gem.. I use to get in tears listening to you, that If I couldn't have reached out to you/ or your videos, the anxiety would have taken everything from me. May Allah be with you....
@umairkhalid8980
@umairkhalid8980 11 месяцев назад
Im astonished How I can relate to this.i work in an office. I was subconsciously affected by this thought That there's sth wrong with me. Today after listening this, I became conscious of that thought. And understood that Allah maybe decided another way for marriage, other than my office.
@GameChanger-vd6eb
@GameChanger-vd6eb 11 месяцев назад
See Allah has everything planned out for you! Just like the thought you were having, It was by the will of Allah ! And this video - the answer, came to you by the will of Allah ! Have Trust in him! He is the best of planner. He is All-Knowing! He completely knows what thoughts you have! He is All-Hearing! He listens to your prayers!
@eggshellsandyolk5746
@eggshellsandyolk5746 3 месяца назад
watching romantic movies and dramas at young age is also playing big role in this problem
@hamnamasood7994
@hamnamasood7994 11 месяцев назад
استاد نعمان بے حد قیمتی انسان ھیں. ھمیں ایسے ھی سکالرز کی اشد ضرورت ھے اللہ آپ کو سلامت رکھے استاد جی. آپ علم کا خزانہ ھیں. جیتے رھئے.
@crochetinn2021
@crochetinn2021 10 месяцев назад
He's a blessing for our current and future generation of youngsters. Al hamdu lliillah! A scholar with behavioral, psychological and cultural understanding can cause huge reforms.
@samkhan2303
@samkhan2303 11 месяцев назад
May ALLAH swt reward u brother, we truly need sm1 like yrself to explain the Quran to our elders, has well as our young ppl, break the circle
@abdullahfaisal5215
@abdullahfaisal5215 11 месяцев назад
آمین
@fightingdreamer8681
@fightingdreamer8681 11 месяцев назад
Ameen 🧡
@pixsal24
@pixsal24 3 месяца назад
I wish every person had a mindset like you. so many problems of society would be solved.
@sufiyafirdoush3615
@sufiyafirdoush3615 3 месяца назад
Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan is a blessing for us youth ❤️‍🩹, Alhamdulillah 🥹
@MyBilal19971
@MyBilal19971 11 месяцев назад
I wonder how my life would have been if I hadn't come across Ustad Noman.
@haleemai
@haleemai 11 месяцев назад
I’m Learning now as a mother of three children the eldest being a teen, it’s so important to socialise with others to ensure your children have them social skills and are part of community
@SamiawaheedSamiawaheed-cf9xx
@SamiawaheedSamiawaheed-cf9xx 3 месяца назад
Amazing استاد
@fizaezainab4163
@fizaezainab4163 11 месяцев назад
I am going through same situation and want to show this to my parents now
@shanjidashila8936
@shanjidashila8936 11 месяцев назад
Every family always puts pressure on the kids to get married and just looks for proposals continuously.And when marriage is delayed they become so depressed.These put daughters in so much pressure.I am not able to sleep or focus on anything properly for all this.I really feel helpless.😢
@arifanoor5144
@arifanoor5144 11 месяцев назад
Tens mat lo jo hoga jab hoga
@maheentoheed2481
@maheentoheed2481 10 месяцев назад
Ap relax rehain or Allah tala per poora barosa rakhain mera Allah jo chunti ko pathar mai bhii rizq de rha us nay ap kay lie bhi bohat behtar soch rakha ho ga wo janta hai ap perashan hain us se behtar kon samajh sakta ap dua karain or yakeen rakhain ke Allah nay deri mai bhi khair rakhi ho gi
@sabababintemaksud6463
@sabababintemaksud6463 10 месяцев назад
Facing same situation, May Allah bless us
@aneesfathima4581
@aneesfathima4581 3 месяца назад
Facing same situation Allah SWT hels all of us
@peace.n.blessings5579
@peace.n.blessings5579 11 месяцев назад
May Allah reward you Norman Ali Khan and your team. Invaluable guidance !
@SteevFernando-ok4dm
@SteevFernando-ok4dm 11 месяцев назад
this guy just became one of my mentors evcenthough i am not a muslim
@misszara786
@misszara786 11 месяцев назад
This subject is so important in our society right now. So many people are lost and angry at the way our lives are running on these types of mentalities and culture. I don’t know if I’ve missed your full talks on this subject but I request you to please make a full video or lecture on this topic. Also if you are able to come to UK and hold these talks in various cities. Very much appreciated ❤. Jazakallah x
@tatestherapist6958
@tatestherapist6958 11 месяцев назад
Reflecting upon the quran with a sound heart opens the door to akhlaaq. The Messenger Muhammad Al mustafa had the best akhlaaq among the whole of humankind. ❤
@DarkHorse-vu8xt
@DarkHorse-vu8xt 10 месяцев назад
Please always write Sallallahu alaihi wasallam with the name of our Prophet Hazrat Muhammad Sallallahu alaihi wasallam .
@tahiranaveed8108
@tahiranaveed8108 2 месяца назад
Waoo amazing I stumbled upon this ❤ so related
@ldeal_musalman1234
@ldeal_musalman1234 11 месяцев назад
Sir please come in India and spread your knowledge our society.I am from India,west Bengal
@ehtishamibnemuhammadstuden2135
@ehtishamibnemuhammadstuden2135 11 месяцев назад
Ma Sha Allah.. I am getting addicted to your videos Ustad e mohtram NAK ❤️✨
@nonihalan-e-islamcorner3821
@nonihalan-e-islamcorner3821 4 месяца назад
بہت اہم پوائنٹ کو اٹھایا سر نے exactly...need this❤
@mayabini1904
@mayabini1904 10 месяцев назад
Alhamdulillah. Stop comparison, and you will get a better solution, Thanks you ustadh
@muhammadshahzad342
@muhammadshahzad342 5 месяцев назад
Really you have deep knowledge of Deen and solve so complex problems in a very easy and simple way.
@amtulaziz8272
@amtulaziz8272 11 месяцев назад
Ustadh...You are transforming society ❤Listening to you gives peace to my queries and mind
@trustinalqadir2982
@trustinalqadir2982 11 месяцев назад
Maa sha Allah My Sir. I always learn new understanding based on our islamic society
@AR-kz4zg
@AR-kz4zg 11 месяцев назад
Ustad Nouman, if this comment ever reaches you, please do more series on this topic alone - I promise you this fitna is the root cause of all others - please make a full course on this
@hammadmalyaar3882
@hammadmalyaar3882 11 месяцев назад
I agree with you. He should
@REHAN_ShAikhh
@REHAN_ShAikhh 2 месяца назад
Mere Gharwaale hi meri jindagi ajaab kar rakha hai😢 Mujhe toh lagta hai k Allah mere gunaho ko maaf kar dega beshak Jo v mai jaane anjaane nafs k wajah se ki hai, Lekin mere maa baap, mere ristedaar ,mere aas parosi sab mujhe kbhi maaf kar sakega! Woh loh kbhi yeh baat Maan hi nhi rahe k I'm changed, yes undoubtedly I don't even care about their opinion about me, but kuch na kuch effects parta hai bhai . Itna toxic people k saath society me kab tak ignore krta rahu?? Kya ajeeb maamla hai dosto!!
@shehryarlatif1564
@shehryarlatif1564 9 дней назад
Nauman Ali Khan I am becoming fan of your personality, you inspiring me alot. Thank you for educating us and guiding us right path towards Jannah.
@qurashianjumanjum4437
@qurashianjumanjum4437 6 месяцев назад
Very very much,Allah aapko bhut agr de,Duniya or Akhirat me bhut ala agr de,Ameen
@nabeelurrehman
@nabeelurrehman 11 месяцев назад
Excellent answer! We must thank Allah for his blessings regardless of situation. Aameen!
@wajeehaasif5844
@wajeehaasif5844 11 месяцев назад
Allah knows how much these thoughts have haunted me till I watched this, it's so soothingly accurate I need my parents to see this video but I don't know how to show them!!
@tonikaku_
@tonikaku_ 11 месяцев назад
Masya Allah may Allah bless ustadz Nouman, the mother and the son who ask question. Aamiin
@HammadNajam
@HammadNajam 11 месяцев назад
Subhan Allah Just Beautifully explained.
@wnsabu
@wnsabu 11 месяцев назад
I love your question and answer session ❤. Great way of learning
@user-tk4lg4nv2y
@user-tk4lg4nv2y 4 месяца назад
MashaAllah.Allah will give you Jaza InshaAllah..
@IndianSumaira
@IndianSumaira 11 месяцев назад
I wish someone would have explained it so beautifully as Sir did this a decade ago
@kubraaaisha3327
@kubraaaisha3327 4 месяца назад
My favourite scholar ,so much wisdom
@farheenjebi8918
@farheenjebi8918 5 дней назад
Subhan allah ....jazak Allah khair ...sir
@wnsabu
@wnsabu 11 месяцев назад
MashaAllah always nice and learning by listening to you
@tajwarsultana7003
@tajwarsultana7003 11 месяцев назад
Absolutely. A man of Honour
@soubiakhalid2738
@soubiakhalid2738 11 месяцев назад
I am loving this question n answer session its Amazing may Allah reward u and your team abundantly ❤
@Xtermination1
@Xtermination1 11 месяцев назад
That was such a good question.
@guts1893
@guts1893 10 месяцев назад
MashaAllah.. Allah bless your truthful words, Sir. You are gifted with a sharp mind.
@BTSARMY-sb8sh
@BTSARMY-sb8sh Месяц назад
May Allah bless you Ustadh
@saimatauseef6728
@saimatauseef6728 11 месяцев назад
جزاك الله خيرا و احسن الجزاء في الدارين🍃💞🍃
@Anadilvlogs
@Anadilvlogs 11 месяцев назад
This session is so amazing...!! Ma sh Allah ♥️ jawab ik dm amazing ❤ma sh Allah
@Khushisaif-r5m
@Khushisaif-r5m 11 месяцев назад
This is the great answer to all our society because the generation of this time want to make it's future first
@ecomforks_official
@ecomforks_official 11 месяцев назад
My 1st and Most Favourite Mentor.
@convinced_muslim
@convinced_muslim 10 месяцев назад
facts....facts.....facts...May Allah connect all of the Ummah with Qur'an...
@mathpizzy
@mathpizzy 9 месяцев назад
I wish my parent understands this.
@ambreen4454
@ambreen4454 2 месяца назад
Asa. It is amazing .
@Fawzia87H
@Fawzia87H 11 месяцев назад
Thanks brother Nouman. All the way from Somalia
@ypesh
@ypesh 3 месяца назад
Really good answer at the end, parents do isolate themselves, really appreciate this video. 🎉
@faryalkhan6918
@faryalkhan6918 11 месяцев назад
Allahamdulilah for all the resources we have now to learn smallest thing about our religion.
@user-be7oi1lp4r
@user-be7oi1lp4r 27 дней назад
Exactly on the point....
@nasreenshabana1392
@nasreenshabana1392 11 месяцев назад
Be social , meet people ...in sha allah everything will be good
@rukhsananaz6838
@rukhsananaz6838 10 месяцев назад
Jazak Allah khair
@naseemshaikh1095
@naseemshaikh1095 11 месяцев назад
Learnt a lesson amazing answer ustad
@auycharxernaighn7893
@auycharxernaighn7893 11 месяцев назад
I love you for this Nouman sir ❤
@motivationjourney3599
@motivationjourney3599 11 месяцев назад
I love your content thank you so much for your valuable content
@furqansaeed6446
@furqansaeed6446 11 месяцев назад
Ustad! You are really transforming the lives of many. Plz give any reference that at the time of Sahaba (R.A), they used to talk to whom they wanted to marry, under the supervision of the family. Your answer will help us more in this regard. Jzk
@leonzaki
@leonzaki 10 месяцев назад
Islam me is par Shaadi se related ye highlighted hai ki, baalig hote hi jitna jaldi kardo to acha hai. Hamare Grand father aur grand mother tak ye sahi practice thi ki around 12-14 yrs tak ladkiyo ki Shaadi ho jati thi, ab Education ko itna importance dete hai Shaadi bohot delay hoti, society me Zina, extra marital affairs aur bohot si kharabiya spread ho rahi hai. Wo to hamare Mom Dad ne Education itna importance diya ke Deen ka ye Ahkam (Nikah) ko easy le liya. Jab ke ye Hadis hai ke, Shaadi ke Baad apka Deen Complete hota hai. Nahi young ho ya old chahiye DUNYA. Deen jo spare time me mil gaye kafi hai, baki Rasul saw ki ummat hai, jannat to mil hi jayegi, ye soch hai. ALLAH swt hidayat aur Amal ki taufeeq ata kare hum sab ko
@sadiaayyub9854
@sadiaayyub9854 2 месяца назад
I like so much your videos
@sahanajparvin1490
@sahanajparvin1490 9 месяцев назад
SubhanAllah ❤ Maa Shaa Allah ❤️
@sundusali6199
@sundusali6199 3 месяца назад
This topic is something that is needed to be addressed.Got some understanding from that: 🛑Don’t compare your life to other people’s lives. 🛑Focus on your own purpose. 🔵Our life’s purpose is not only marrying. That should not be “only “the end of cliff’s climbing purpose. 🟣Daughters are not burden. 🔘Parents should socialize more. 🟢Everyone’s timeline is different. Also 🟢People who could not find someone in their four year educational period, does not mean they are anything less,the reason may b their focus was different at that age.
@Windtorment
@Windtorment 10 месяцев назад
Very important lesson here. He's totally right! May Allah bless him. Ameen! Edit: btw, this part made me chuckle 😂😂 0:20
@ayeshakunni6908
@ayeshakunni6908 11 месяцев назад
JazakAllah khair
@mauroofsultan6887
@mauroofsultan6887 11 месяцев назад
Jazak Allah brother
@marianaaz354
@marianaaz354 10 месяцев назад
Every one please 😢 pray for me that may allah grant me good health.aameen
@zeenatkhan9060
@zeenatkhan9060 11 месяцев назад
very well said n explained sir really amazing we rly need to understand this n need someone like u jo in baton pr khas raushani Dalton smjhaein 👌👍
@user-hj4ue6pq7r
@user-hj4ue6pq7r 11 месяцев назад
right Absolutely ❤️
@faryaarshad9846
@faryaarshad9846 11 месяцев назад
Amazing MashaAllah
@ymujawar4368
@ymujawar4368 11 месяцев назад
JazakaALLAHA khair ALLAH aapko hamesha khush rakhe Aameen
@user-cm8ks5iu5n
@user-cm8ks5iu5n 11 месяцев назад
Ma sha Allah tabark Alhumdulillah
@rizwanzualifqar7030
@rizwanzualifqar7030 10 месяцев назад
Amazing ❤
@anonuser3332
@anonuser3332 10 месяцев назад
where can i find the full video?
@sadia.38
@sadia.38 11 месяцев назад
❤💚🤍 Beloved Ustadh Nouman💚
@shamsa.K2345
@shamsa.K2345 11 месяцев назад
Assalam o Alaikum ustad muhtram. Abi aap n shaba ka zikar kiya kindly guide books about it
@hafiahmed9260
@hafiahmed9260 11 месяцев назад
Sir i want to talk with you, i have to ask something important regarding the issue discussed in the video,,,,, how to approch you????
@ishaqibrahim123
@ishaqibrahim123 11 месяцев назад
sir plz Ap apne baki saare lectures urdu me b upload krwaden ?
@durdurdikir4021
@durdurdikir4021 11 месяцев назад
#Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan Intelligent With Sincerity it's Call #Delightful 😊❤
@MahiMahi-xn8ub
@MahiMahi-xn8ub 5 месяцев назад
Real diamond for youth. ❤
@fizaezainab4163
@fizaezainab4163 11 месяцев назад
The moment he said , " Maybe family is isolated , maybe family is not social " this is the root cause sometimes. Sir please do another session on this particular cause "daughters are not married because family is not social or maybe their priorities are different , maybe their priorities are attending religious gatherings or maybe spending time with nephews and sons, maybe watching dramas or maybe cooking or maybe playing games on phone, or maybe they gave up because out of 3 daughters 2 mentally disturbed and confused them with their demands so the third one suffers too, or maybe the 3rd one had any minor physical deficiency that's why they gave up.
@shamimaranawaz1102
@shamimaranawaz1102 11 месяцев назад
SubhanAllaah ,my brother , May Allaahu Swt bless you, Aameen
@shaistashahid8943
@shaistashahid8943 11 месяцев назад
it's so realistic and this is happening every where
@natalismi7084
@natalismi7084 11 месяцев назад
About the "Bayyinah" app. It's very important for me. Does this app translate into Ukrainian?
@sumbul123
@sumbul123 11 месяцев назад
Please answer me, is car insurance business Halal
@shabananiazi9083
@shabananiazi9083 11 месяцев назад
Ah I love your videos and they way they are covered and edited..!Hats off to you and your team MashaAllah❤
@sulaimfatima4989
@sulaimfatima4989 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much sir 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@nahidabaten
@nahidabaten 11 месяцев назад
Where can I find the rest???
@syedaummehumaira3081
@syedaummehumaira3081 10 месяцев назад
Nouman Ali khan Allah save you every time and every day and every years
@BTSARMY-sb8sh
@BTSARMY-sb8sh Месяц назад
Does anyone know that where do these events happen in Pakistan, like which city & how to get in???
@maliksami5448
@maliksami5448 10 месяцев назад
Dr shb you are great person Love you
@Tippy257
@Tippy257 11 месяцев назад
I loved this!
@norarharissi9109
@norarharissi9109 11 месяцев назад
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thank you.
@Snowlily01
@Snowlily01 11 месяцев назад
How much does it cost to attend this event in Pakistan? I know it’s already happened but I wanna know
@hadithoftheday3858
@hadithoftheday3858 11 месяцев назад
Sahih al-Bukhari 6436 Narrated Ibn `Abbas: I heard the Prophet (ﷺ) saying, "If the son of Adam (the human being) had two valleys of money, he would wish for a third, for nothing can fill the belly of Adam's son except dust, and Allah forgives him who repents to Him."
@nosheenkhan2457
@nosheenkhan2457 11 месяцев назад
Allahumma Salliala Sayedina Muhammad❤
@sabasaleem8330
@sabasaleem8330 11 месяцев назад
Sir . Aap bahut Acha Kam Kr rahy hain.you just pick the nerves
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