Your videos are such a gift Hitomi! I only press play when I know I’m feeling ready to expand my mind because you have such powerful words. It’s never just mindless consumption like most things online these days. Thank you ❤
p.s. the artwork with the questions is amazing! also could you make a video discussing osho’s book ´love, freedom, and aloness’? i’m reading it right now and i’m curious what you think of it!
For the libido/sexuality part, I want to add a recommendation. Education! Watching videos and reading about how desire, attraction, arousal etc. works, about how it works differently for certain people or genders helped me immensely. I realised that my experience was not unique and also not weird. It gave me confidence because it was not longer a riddle or this secret thing I was trying to uncover. Women oftentimes experience desire kind of differently than men. So in heterosexual relationships there will most likely be confusion as you would expect the other person to sort of work like you and then they ... don't. What you were describing Hitomi, sounds like responsive desire (as opposed to spontaneous) and its very common for women. Learning how my desire works made a massive difference for me! Recommend!!!
I do! Mind The Gap by Karen Gurney is a wonderful introduction into the topic of sexual desire! Also, I get a lot of inspo from the creator/sex educator Hannah Witton here on RU-vid. :)@@sarahathaway1881
Tantric sex for men or tantric sex for women by Dianna has been amazing I read the one for men and women so I can understand from a man's perspective as well as my own
"I just want to honor your heart" 🥴🥴🥴 been dealing with harsh feelings of being led on in a somewhat casual dating scenario due to lack of honest communication, not knowing how to navigate honoring my feelings while also not villianizing someone I love. it's a constant practice. thank you for making me feel seen in this season. hope your heart feels held and safe, too
Venus going into retrograde at the same time as Mercury really put some intense energy into the universe. So many people are going through breakups. It is divine timing to me. me and my partner of 3 years broke up, as if our relationship changed overnight. But it has opened a season for me to really tune into myself and take time for ME again, which is something I would recommend for anyone who is going through a break up❤
Sending warm love right to your heart ❤️ breathing deep with you through the heavier moments and dancing with you through the light ones. I’m so proud of you for growing through this
@@HitomiMochizuki222 You're so sweet 😭 I actually might cry. I will remember these good vibes as I wait to get approved for a new apartment. I am sending you love and warmth too. ✨️🥲
@@HitomiMochizuki222hitomi thank you so so so much for your content! i’ve been watching since high school and i’m going back to college rn, this channel has always resonated and is such an amazing space to return to online among the daily chaos🪐💌
"These practices are truly just meant to help us return back to this experience of oneness" I love this phrase bc I always struggle to define what spirituality and spiritual practices are for me. But it really is as simple as that, whatever makes me feel whole and experience that feeling of oneness. 💖
you are so wise Hitomi. For most of my life i have not had a female role model but i can confidently say you are now one of my biggest inspirations for how i want to approach life and carry myself. Thank you for sharing your time and knowledge with us
I love you and your content so much. You and your videos are so healing. You inspire me everyday to be more spiritual, intentional, and adventurous. thank you.
I cried during the part about libido differences since I am in that situation with my partner right now and I am having a really hard time communicating about it. Thankyou for breaking open this topic ❤
I went through your old videos recently and skipped around through to the present. It was refreshing to see that you have always been the same person in your heart. I just appreciate you so much as a person and wanted to see your evolution. Thank you for always being true to yourself and sharing the results with us.
The way you mentioned your prayer style with the Universe/God was so similar to mine. I'm muslim, and I always start by first referring to Allah swt with His beautiful names. And then I move on to pray for the Prophet pbuh, and then my family and friends. And then I express gratitude like you. And finally, I ask for what I want and seek forgiveness for my sins. I found it beautiful that you talked about prayer in that aspect. It is beautiful.
hitomiii i’m starting university tomorrow and have been watching your videos all night to stay deeply rooted in the knowledge that i can always come home to myself! you are a beautiful soul and inspire me to hold more space and compassion for myself in my day to day ❤️ sending you continuous love and blessings
Weish to have a life partner like you? I am alone and single life 33?My education graduate? My life need a woman accepted me my life as a life partner? My life wait a woman as a life partner? You are accepted me my life as a life partner? I am thankful to you full of life?❤❤❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏
hitomi, this brought so much light to my life. thank you for loving yourself and having those hard moments and years enough to be able to share this love with everyone that surrounds you and us. thank you so so much, sending love.
I love that you own being ambitious. I am also ambitious. Sometimes I feel like depression and ambition go hand in hand and they can be really beautiful partners to walk with through life, complementing one another
I’m also going through a break up. Your advice on realizing that your vision for the relationship, wasn’t actually reality, has helped me a lot. We were together for 11 years and I think I lied to myself about what was happening. Anyway, thanks for the video. Good luck with this next phase in life ❤
thank you for sharing your light with us. kind of different but i went through a friendship breakup this time last year and felt like i would never recover from it. this was my soul in human form. i woke up everyday for months dreading my life without her. daily panic attacks for months. this year im dealing with a lot of the bruised edges that the wound caused. i feel very achy all over again, despite the fact we've reconnected, the difference between what we were and what we are now is stark even when i have faith in us. "no matter what comes or goes, god stays". i wish i had this video and its treasure when i genuinely could see no hope. but i am happy for the people who can relish in the safety and comfort of ur words in their time of need. seeing u take the beauty of life so eagerly while simultaneously holding ur pain so tenderly gives me so much hope. thank u Hitomi 🖤🖤🖤
hi hitomi, as someone currently in the field of psychology with a great respect for social work: i just want to let you know that currently, the mental health field does not draw from freudian theories, and his ideas are largely viewed as problematic, and unable to be empirically validated. i just wanted to let you know that in case you were still considering psych! you will learn about his theories (kinda like a history lesson) but they won’t shape your practice in any way. social work is still amazing though and i agree that it is more holistic! anyways thank you for this video i really enjoyed it
Psychology student here as well that going to have my bachelor's in December, can confirm. Every pscyhology professor I've ever had disagrees majorly with Freud's work.
ok but there are neo-freudians and other psychodynamic theories that draw from him. At least in Europe these theories and especially lacanian psychoanalysis are still "in"
Oh my god, i needed this video today. Idk how i am feeling lately and altho i used to practice self talking and grounding i don't do that anymore.. I recently moved to a different country for few months and i was feeling suddenly lonely and unfulfilled, and felt like i am choosing things that would farther throw me off balance from my life. Cuz it's just easier to submerge in the spiral than actually trying to take any actions. Thankyou Hitomi for inspiring me again to look at the current life in a more positive way, and taking new steps to feel better💜
Sending so much love to you Hitomi! ❤ I went through a very difficult break up last year so I resonate with your proccess of sadness and healing but I am so incredibly excited for what awaits you when you come out of this cacoon of growth! So many beautiful adventures, experiences as well as spiritual evolution in store for you 🦋
so many people in my life have gone through breakups lately.. I love the advice you share here, even though you're healing too. how beautiful! you are such a lovely soul, Hitomi xx
You’ve been such an inspiration for my own videography pursuits and natural lifestyle - especially when I feel discouraged on my path. Sending you so much love and light ✨
Loved this and your vulnerability! I am also going through a healthy breakup. So many emotions, all over the place. I try to see it as an invitation to go within and tend to the tender parts of me. This was comforting and inspiring. Lots of love ❤️
I really can’t believe you are sharing all your wisdom with us for free. I hope you deeply feel how many good things you are doing for the community. I appreciated this video a lot 💕 I wish you all the best and lots of love
From the perspective of an ace person, this video is very helpful. We might struggle with intimacy due to our sexual orientation so I think it's a valid point the one you are making here.
I am an asexual Lesbian and finally found true love which I thought would never be possible. I always wished to for an intimate relationship (just wth the sex part) ; spending the rest of our lives together, growing old together. Society puts so much value on the sex part I just always felt completely alone in this not thinking I would find people alike
you gave me strength to break up with someone who isn't giving me as much happiness anymore. its the worst thing i realized and the hardest thing i ever did but it was really necessary.
Somehow very often when I am anxious or stressed in a negative way, the flow and vi rs of your videos and amount of self love calm me down and really comfort me. To surviving a hard week and rough week end! Thanks and sending broken healing heart vibes back to you.
Hitomi! As a clinical social work student who wants to go into direct practice but loves to under stand theory, philosophy, and policy/macro work, I couldn’t help but feel excited that you said you want to study social work!!! Your reasoning (the emphasis on the person + environment) is exactly why I changed from psychology to social work and decided to get my MSSW. So excited for that journey if you decide to pursue that :) LOVE YOU AND THANK YOU FOR THIS
sending so much love to you.🤍 your wisdom is so inspiring and i wish you so much healing and i just know you’re going to come out of this phase even more radiant ☀️☀️
Thank you Hitomi 🩷 Super happy to share this Earth experience with a beautiful light like you. I went thru the hardest break up around 10 months ago but I still learned something from this that I will be able to carry with me through this life. Your life represents such a unique sense of love and I know the most beautiful experience of romantic love will come into your life again. Happy Existence!!!! ✨🥰
I love you so much, you’re giving me big sister/bestie vibes, it’s so cool to listen to you and “hang out” virtually, it gives me such good energy and stimulating thoughts. Thanks !!
Hi Hitomi! We're the girls you saw in the Barcelona's ✈️ 🥹 still at this time I cant even believe to hug you and have you so close!! You are so magical, but at the same time your so real. I forgot completely to give you THANK YOU 🪷 you make us stronger and better in each video 🤍 we love you
I’m so proud of you. Even though it was your choice I know it was a hard one and definitely comes accompanied by some grief. I’m sending you so much love and a big HUG 🫂
I got super interested when you said “meditation masturbation sessions” Coming from a religious family, any kind of self pleasure has always had shame around it and now in my adult years, I’ve been trying to really hard on that part of my life and that it’s okay to feel pleasure I think it would be really awesome if you could do a video talking more about that:)
I love your opening. That you have to surrender to the reality of what wasn't happening... Between therapy and self help stuff, I've learned to love someone for who they are now, not their possible potential that you think they have. ~💖~
you’re so cute boo, everything you say normally resonates but these video feels like it was made for me lol. it’s comforting to know we all have the same tribulations in a way, feeling a lot less alone.
Hey, I'm a new subscriber! I accidentally found you Pinterest and all I can say is what a happy accident that was! I'm deeply grateful to have found you and I hope that I can continue to abserve and absorb all the wisdom you have to offer me on my journey of spiritual alignment 🙏🏽🙏🏽
hey girlie! As someone who works in the social work field, its not sunshine and rainbows, at all. Its extremely hard and fully connected to the broken system. My case managers are put through so much with these kids, i'd love to hear how you consider it to be more holistic, as there are branches of psychology other than Freudian.
Thank you for holding space for our hearts even you yourself are under water right now . Your Might is nurturing as the Earth and the Water. Bless your Soul ❤
omg please consider starting a podcast! you are truly inspiring and i'm thankful i found your channel. i started watching your videos a year ago and you helped me grow so much.🥰
