Why Didn’t My Parents Want Me? | {THE AND} Hitomi & Laura 

nicole alejandra same

Sameee

ME TOO

omg me tooo. i was like "she looks so much like hitomi - .. wait"

dkd da she’s a youtuber! her channel name is hitomi mochizuki

mariam khalafalla and it’s cute

❤️

And eyes

And teeth

Chantaya It says in the description they are biological sisters, siblings don’t always look like each other especially if they come from a mixed background.

Hana Mei I agree!!! I think people gravitate towards who their EYES enjoy more...a lot of people really don’t feel another’s SOUL....but you do 😌💫🖤

I think it might actually just be because many people allready know Hitomi from her channel :)

Yes 🙌🏼

it's because hitomi is more physically attractive

I don't think it's because Hitomi is "more physically attractive" I believe it's because alot of people commenting actually watch her RU-vid channel and has prior insight on her as a person, like myself. She radiates positivity like no one I've ever met in my life. I would be her best friend in a heartbeat, people like her are rare.

I love her RU-vid channel

So lovely 😊

@@desereewetzel6826 what is her yt channel??

@@jenni_davis7655 it's hitomi mochizuki 😊

Both of them are? 😊

fashionstyled inside of a person how’s adopted: sometimes it is hard, but then you remember that you have a family how chose you and loves you. Then the fact that you’re biological parents gave you up becomes less relevant

Mathilde Sørensen and some don’t get any support at all.. even from adoptive parents

Lacy Lane then you have all the support from me! And why did they have you? if you don’t mind me asking (sorry but I’m from danmark and the rules about adoption is wary strikt)

fashionstyled I was thinking the same thing too. I think she’s so brave. Especially since her Mum then went on to have other children and, another family. This breaks my heart even though I know neither of them.

I am crying my eyes out here too. Sad Sad Sad. I didn't know my parent too until I was a teen. I am still carrying the Wound in my heart even though they are part of my life now. I don't have any kind of connection with my bio mother and father. I am very disconnected at 45 years old.

They have the exact same nose!

They look nothing alike to me, are they half siblings?

get got they have different fathers

@@Emmasadtler aah

Lol I thought the white woman is her mother! The Asian girl is super pretty.

I love you and you are more than perfect for who you are. Who cares what others think. People will always hate but you need to love yourself as well. You are perfect and I accept you and so will many others and God. You are wonderful and wonderfully made. Keep your head up love don’t let your crown fall

Look in the mirror and love and accept yourself. Once you really feel it, anyone else will just be a bonus.

You’re perfectly imperfect, just like everyone else. We all have flaws and amazing, radiant qualities. Your own unique and similar qualities to others. We all look in the mirror and think similar things as each other and we express and crawl back into our shell sometimes. I love you and accept you for the human you are! We’re all just human, another type of animal, another part of nature! You are loved and accepted even when you tell yourself you’re not. & those who don’t accept you, don’t accept themselves either.

I would too.

I love you and I accept you for who you are. Truly.

That's what I was thinking!!

I think maybe she meant in the sense of asking questions and getting answers that she may not necessarily be emotionally ready for? At least that's how I interpreted it.

Could have been rape or something sad

Salma Abdullah she still deserves to know :-/

I said the same shit to myself lmaoooo

Sam Martin I connected my 70yr old formerly childless uncle with a 37 yr old daughter he never knew existed! She is one of 12 of her bio-moms but was put up for adoption, her bio-mom isn’t mentally stable and battles addition. She only kinda kept a couple of the 12 kids, they endured an entire childhood in and out of foster care. Her adoptive family, very beautiful people who gave her an amazing loving home, also lived in the same NYC neighborhood as generations of my family, so I know of her from the area. She probably passed my Uncle, her dad, on the street hundreds, if not thousands, of times without ever knowing they were father and daughter. He moved to FL 10 years ago though. She popped up on my Ancestry DNA shares matched as a first cousin to me and I did the deductive reasoning to connect her to my Uncle. It also helps that now that I’m looking for it, it’s obvious, she’s his twin!!! They’ve met and bonded immediately, even with his wife who loves her as if she were her own daughter by blood. It’s been 3 years and they are all closer than ever, extended family too. I’m so grateful to have been a small part in ending her lifelong search for her bio-dad. It might have been impossible without Ancestry DNA. Her bio-mom gave her a fake name, I honestly don’t think she remembered who the dad could have been and the fake name to to save herself from embarrassment. It was the late 70’s and the time of free love, they only had a one night stand. My uncle had a drinking problem back then for a lot of years upon his return from Vietnam, he does not remember this one night stand but knows he had many during that time in his life. DNA doesn’t lie though, it forgets nothing LOL He got sober many years ago, so I think their meeting happened exactly at the right time. She’s a great addition to our family, we love her like she’s always been one of us. I mean, she was always one of us, only we didn’t know until now ❤️

You have a kind heart, so you didn't get angry at your bilogical parents?

I’m so happy for you! I pray you all get to share the rest of your lives making amazing memories.

Damn you have a huge heart. I could never forgive my birth parents for putting me up for adoption and never trying to be in my life. Good for you

11 kids? why were you put up for adoption??

Who is she?

Same nose and eyes

@@adeolawalsh7240 RU-vid

Adeola Walsh she’s a RU-vidr! Mainly does fashion/lifestyle/videos about veganism, last I checked.

Ikr!! I'm so surprised to see her here😆

@@yanisaortega9537 I was low-key hoping to see her here because she's friends with Chella heheh

who is she

@@ephascus8974 she's a youtuber

Most people swear it's the same shit and I just sit there like ...😬

YES

@Tycell The Hun isn't ethnicity about relating with an ethnic identity? Aren't you talking about race?

Storai I same happened to me at work , I asked this older man with a beautiful accent what his nationality was and with a straight face he answered “ I’m American “ I felt so embarrassed 😩 n uncomfortable. His wife kindly answered me and said Germany. After that it thought me lesson to not ask that question because ppl get so offended.

LISTEN UP BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE Nationality: Where you live/where you were born Race: Group of people so like black, race, asian, pacific islander Ethnicity: Like race, but more into depth so if you were for example born in the USA, your nationality is American and if you were Chinese your race would be Asian and your ethnicity would be Chinese.

It depends. I suspect my biological father whom I haven't spoken to in 10 yrs has more children. However, I really don't give a shit. I have 0 interest on looking for them 😂

@@seaofroses8888 totally not the same thing. You are speculating about a child of a parent you don’t have contact with.

@@memvanas1983 I am speculating. However, if I found out it were true, I still wouldn't reach out. Also I'm like 90% certain these children exist(long story). I'm not the type of perso to feel robbed by what could have been

I'm adopted as well and i also question sometimes if i have any bloodrelated siblings

@@seaofroses8888 do you feel like you’ve always had a family?

She does she really does

i agree with this!!! i found my paternal grandmother recently and so much of my history was unlocked and questions answered... i cant even really put it into words. ripples through your spirit is right x

@@ericajosephine1714 l

Maybe it was an age thing, my parents were parents very Young and I suspect my oldest sister they thought of giving her and then with maturing they never thought of doing that with the other children. And you do something like that, maybe there is a guilt and sadness involved that is difficult for the Mother to reconect

This is all speculation but there can be a bunch of different reasons why someone would want to give up their child. Age is one thing. Another thing is if someone falls pregnant after being raped. and on and on. Imagine if you were raped, had the baby, and then every time you looked at your child you would see the sperms face, and potentially be back in the situation due to PTSD.

Hitomi grew up with her mom, and she has been hurt by her. Laura didn't. Makes sense.

hi i know we don’t know each other but u deserve to know your siblings i hope you find them one day 🥺❤️

I adopted my son right after birth. Well he was born in our house. At 16 his bio father contacted him through messenger and so my son connected with him. He got connected with his bio mother too. Both have families of their own by the way. That was 2020....after over a year, my relationship with my (adoptive son) was ruined. I can't quite understand if he prefers me or his biological parents. It hurts so bad.

@@almacastanos3245 hey! Are you back in contact with your adoptive son?

@@anovi1031 he's with me all the while. It's just that it wasn't like before. We were so close then.

Kim T. Underrated comment

I don’t see the resemblance.

I think she was actually unattractive in real life...she didn’t look like a Disney character..

Kim T. You mean Disney presents Pocahontas?

She looks nothing like the real Pocahontas nor the Disney Princess. She is very pretty though.

Check out "chella man" yt channel! They did a video with Hitomi in which she is talking about her whole life

@@anovi1031 thanks!

Thank you for watching ❤️

Hannah Maldonado that’s confused me my whole life cuz my parents are from America but I was born and raised in Japan ... yet on my passport I’m American

Hispanics is your ethnicity. Mexican is also a nationality just like American

No one is telling you that your nationality is Mexican, they’re telling you that your ethnicity CAN NOT be Mexican because “Mexican” is a nationality not an ethnicity. What’s not clicking?

Oh Day - it can be both

Natallz14 I wish it was that easy here too.. but in Japan it’s really like you’re either a Japanese person or a foreigner. And cuz I look like a foreigner they can’t get passed that.. You’re really only considered Japanese by blood. So even an American person of Japanese heritage who cannot speak a word of Japanese and has never been to japan is considered more Japanese than someone like me. To a lot of people it doesn’t matter that I’ve lived here all my life and speak Japanese as a first language , have Japanese mannerisms and opinions ect... because people judge just on the outside. Only people who’ve known me for a while understand that I’m Japanese ( not race , but by culture and ethnicity). It’s been such a struggle to grow up a foreigner in your own birth country. I don’t even like talking about where I’m from , I just say I’m from the city I was born in , but then a whole flood of questions ensue. Sorry to rant

i dont know you but i am sorry you had to experience that, just know that you are loved

Very sorry that you had to go through that...you have better people in your life and they love you immensely

and then a gringa walked up to you and said " pequeñita, Che pasa ! "

@@PHlophe 😂

Man I tried looking this up in translation but sumthin aint right! Not fair, I wanted in on the joke :-D It about small and it passes right?

@@Elhastezy888 the translation would be "hey little girl what's wrong / or what happened" ( bc I said I was crying) but it's spelled incorrectly on purpose, and in the "joke" the statement was said by someone caucasian. (More than likely bc the word gringa was used) [that's how I interpreted it, but only the other person who said it can give a definitive answer] 🦋🧚🏿‍♀️💗😀

+Zory Alvarado :-D Jeez then whatever I was getting was way off Hahaa Thats too cute. thank you so much for tryin to help out a chica blanco. Espero que tengas un día maravilloso

I watched hitomi's instagram and apparently they are 4 beautiful sisters from the same mother but all different fathers. Laura is the only one that was adopted.

probbaly because she wasn't cute, or was a troubled child, or the mother had a bad experience with the father that made the mother think of the father every time she looked at laura, people are pretty simple tbh.

Maybe she was young, troubled, homeless, not financially stable at the time. Maybe the father of the child or her own family made her. Maybe the father was already married, Maybe nobody knew she was pregnant, maybe she didn’t want a baby then. Endless possibilities.

@@chiaravischi i think she has 1 stepbrother also

Thank you so much for sharing this with us and for following our work :)

Love how you said it.

I hope you find each other ❣️

Hitomi has also been through quite a lot to be that happy and smiling person

i feel sad that you view Hitomi in this light. i really think you should search up her channel, you will understand her more. she has expressed feeling very minimal love from her family- although she wasn’t put up for adoption, the grass isn’t always greener

hitomi actually went through a lot of physical abuse in her home life :(

Hitomi's home life wasn't the best with the family she grew up with, she's explained she was abused and she probably has mixed feelings about wanting to have grown up with her sister and not wanting her to experience what she herself had to go through 💗

Klingt hart :(

😀😀😀😂

Typical Arab men

I so agree.

Have you ever seen one of hitomi’s videos? she’s blessed, yes. All of us are blessed in some aspect. Im sure she had love but doesn’t mean it was the kind of love that she needed and protected, not necessarily, im aware she had abuse in her life with one of the men in her life and other experiences that put up plenty of guards and insecurities towards men that’s she overcome. You’re right in the aspect that everybody commenting is capable of such love and compassion but it seems that she developed these traits out of lack of them. Seems that she wanted to give others and herself the kind of love and warmth that she desired. Circumstances have everything to do with your growth but to continue to be a product of current environment is completely up to you. It will take work but the human potential for any environment is expansional. Have a beautiful day✨

She also dealt with cutting herself and many attempts on her own life and all the thoughts that come with that mindset and she wouldn’t have been the loving, compassionate person she is now with the self loathing she experienced and overcame.

Definitely not the case in how Hitomi grew up

@@floweringpeach1049 Definitely reminds me of the video of Hitomi with Chella Man.

It's absolutely not true. She is all those things in spite of what happened to her and how she has been treated. She's a RU-vidr, it's easy to find infos on her life and not lie on her name.