09:07 When I heard this, I remembered the words of Prophet Muhammad. He once said : “The strong man is not the one who wins in wrestling, but the one who controls his mind when angry" .
Exactly I don't know the exact book or reference where Hazrat Muhammad S.W.A said but I learn in many books and also in Quran Allah said about anger ❤❤❤❤ sübhanallah ❤️
@samikshagoyal7707 but they are only fictional gods .......wake up to reality and make it your belief that there is no god except Allah and Hazrat Muhammad s.a.w is his last messenger
If would my frnd or teacher then I would like to listen her 24/7 and I don't let her go any where. Listen several types of stories from her can change my mind and my whole day with super power. After watching this video it will helps me a lot in my life. Now I am over the moon☺️
Excellent. Solitary Criticism may be largely ignored. If it comes from several directions then we need to focus on it. If someone lob insults, the sandwich approach is good instead of becoming a cannonball. Thanks for your great insight. Be blessed.
Dear Alina, ma'am,😊your video has boosted my confidence again. Now I can definitely know how to reply to someone insulting me with patience and love, not with anger like most people do. Thank you so much for sharing❤such valuable content with us. I must say, today you look so cute in pink.🌸💘 I loved all three points. The way you connect with real examples is superb. And humour is my favorite too.😂👍🏻
You are one of the best teacher I have ever seen the way you speak I think it makes english more easy and fun to learn thanks q so much love to see you like this hope you will guide us future ahead 🤗❤
I think it is very difficult to.cntrl anger for me but yes i am trying ...bcz i think my emotion should not depend on others .. i should be calm and should not bothered about that all person who poked me or insult me
Yes you are right mam i face it many times, and yes i don't have any answer in that time i still confused how i react in thath moment if say anything than what think other people about me so next time used ur idea thank u so much mam😊
But the fact is that you didn't mention how to handle it when somebody is on direct on our face talking all good things and suddenly say something cheap targeting us ........and about Steve jobs this kind or response even not gonna to work because people are in general not gonna to understand that kind of reply.......and if we keep quiet ourself for this time they get a hint that this person is not gonna to reply and keep commenting without hesitation
I didn't quite much understand the Jobs instance honestly about how he really came back.. may be I'll have to dig deeper to understand. By the way, Aleena, thanks for creating your channel, and thanks for all the videos you make. They're very helpful 🙂
Hiii... I am here to know if I wanna switch a Govt job to a private or corporate one, What are the questions may I get in an interview??? Looking forward to hear you on this...
8:45 , I scored bad in my maths test 4/15 happened last year in tuition for circles chapter , I was in 9th standard. And when my mam was giving my test notebook, she asked how did I scored so less as I was topper in her batch of 14 students. I told her I don't know what happened I couldn't attempt much questions, then I started crying hiding my face with notebook. It was so embarrassed moment for me and every one had got to know that I'm sensitive.
Mam you always taught us great and useful things with the help of you I can speak in English❤❤ you are a great influencer of everyone, I watched your every video . Mam can you please say my name in the starting of video = hii Arpita, then it is a great influence for me please mam ❤ please, please please please please ❤ you can't do this for your student 😢..... Thanks mam for everything I hope you read whatever I wrote there 😊
Its my humble request to honourable Aleena ma'am please answer me. I think that either I am over humble or I am weak personality because many times I have seen that all people and even my juniors , insult me(not talking about body shaming) by मेरे मजे लेकर (not knowing exact word for it) or by making fun of me. 😟They do not do this anyone else but with me only. How to deal with this. Is this is because of my personality or communication skills flaws, if yes , how to improve it. Because of this even many people don't value me and disrespect me.
This video seems to be for people suffering from low self esteem, who don't have anything better in life than to just keep thinking about preventing and responding to insults 🙂
I m very much connected with this Ma'm...One of my colleague who is very close to me..He helps in a lot of wrk. Tats hw we gt connected.. .Bt he smtms hurts lk by using such insulting comments . When i mention i m getting hurt he says i m being too much sensitive. Smtms when he knws i m nt feeling ok he goes and cracks jokes with others. Wtever i do well in my job 1 mistake hppns nd he comments. My self esteem is getting lower. Bcoz i m attached to him i fear of losing him as a frnd. So i keep on going back. Nwadays i m feeling y i m doing ths....Y cnt i be strong nd stand alone instead of going back to such ppl. Bt the pain tat i feel wen he insults s nt going. Dnt knw hw to deal Ma'm. I cnt keep on forgiving his mistakes. It hurts a lot
Same happened to me and in my situation i also helped her alot she was my junior and still she humiliated me,she is very calculative,manipulative too but i distanced myself from her snd now i made it clear that we are not friends by my behaviour and she played back by behaving as if she isnt talking too me...but now i know she is player,selfish,have no limits , and its her karma.
What if we found some situation is insulting .xyz took us granted and misbehaved. And we told this to xyz tht we felt bad on so and so situation. But xyz didn't bother abt it and thought tht we r insulting them(xyz),rather than understanding the original situation when they misbehaved with us
Hello Mam , can u please also make a video in hindi , bcoz i liked it very much i seen your session with sandeep maheshwari and i loved it where you very beutifully talked in Hindi .
I clicked on the video to find a bit solace for myself. I wasn't in a good state of mind as negative thoughts are continuously comming on my head. I'm really trying hard to improve in my career but after I finished my breakfast I come out of my room and in drawing room my mother and house maid indirectly taking about how bad their fortunes are because of their children. I often hear my mother discussing about me with the maid and the maid says harsh words about me and my mother never reacts to them. She is okay when someone says dirty about me. It hurts. I told her not to discuss about my personal life or my preference with others but still she does so and others got a chance to say ill about me. I'm done with it. I don't know if you will see this comment or not. And if you have any way of share how to handle such situation.
Hi ! When you are talking about not doing anything when someone insults you - aren't you giving the opportunity to them and to similar people observing the situation to do that to you again and again? This has happened from my experience.
Hey you are doing so well but please make a website like where I can practice with AI and also if I do wrong in sentences he correct me as you made one ai in you paid courses make another one as you made for grammar checker please make by making that you can only help me
Could you please give examples of using the third way (humour) in real life? I would be grateful if you give some instant lines that can be useful in daily life.
This time, the topic of your video was an intricate one, perhaps one which people do not discuss a lot but time and again, we keep on getting into some bothersome situation or the other. Therefore, this idea of yours would benefit us a lot ma'am 📬
