I am so sorry. I am also contemplating putting Annie down. She has spinal arthritis and dementia and doesn't want to sleep at night anymore and roams the house destroying things even though we have lots of drugs from the vet.
My Leo had exactly the same issue, eventually it went really bad to the point that he was just suffering every single night. I had to put him down, it was a painful decision. 😢
I had been trying to keep my almost 16 yo AussieX comfortable for months. He had weakness in his hips, pain and then in April of 2020 he started losing weight & his appetite diminished. The vets were closed due to Covid, but in June I found a mobile vet, had her come and confirm that the kindest & best thing for him was to pts. She watched him move around and confirmed he was in pain and probably losing weight due to cancer. This dog lived in the house and went literally everywhere with me, even work. I feel your pain and I took comfort knowing I rescued him from a “high kill, only kept dogs seven days” shelter and he was loved and given the best life I could provide.
My 18 year old kitty died a few months ago. I was shocked by it. It took me three days to even absorb it. Of course I cried. I hate not having her around. Sweet as can be!! Healthy to the end. Had her almost as long as I've been married. These are painful milestones in life - markers if you will. Give yourself time to heal and don't feel badly about reduced stress. End of life is stressful. I didn't experience that with my kitty but I have with some close friends who died of cancer. 😢
I have this dog for 12 almost 13 years and I’m shocked he’s still going because he’s been with me since 4th grade and he has lived through every other dog so far and he moves just like a puppy like he’s really young when he’s not, He’s been with me through most of my school life
I am sorry for your family. Furbabies are babies too. My fiance' is preparing to put his older cat to sleep. He has stage 4 kidney disease for over a year, pain, arthritis, and now is unable to get a surgery to improve because the vet says he won't make it. We love our pets and do our best. I can tell you and Scott are great owners. I wish all pet owners were loving and cared like so many here in the posts. You have a loving and supportive community. You and Scott are darling. Thank you for posting but please put your health first. Your community understands. So much love in the comments.
Thank you for saying the quiet part out loud. I had felt horrible for feeling a tiny bit of relief when my elder dog passed and thought I was a garbage human for feeling it. I bawled like a baby watching this video. I lost my boy a year ago in March and the grief still comes and goes. Thank you so much for being vulnerable for the world and posting videos like this. I know I'm not the only one that benefits from these videos like therapy. I've been struggling with my 2024 News Years challenge to myself the last couple weeks and your videos are always motivating! Even the sad ones... Fall off 101, get up 102.. Thanks Amanda and Scott and condolences for your loss. ❤
Do not feel guilty about the realization and the benefit of the stress and anxiety no longer there. Now you know. I had 6 cats (rescues) until my #1 cat, Max, died a few weeks ago from an obstructed bladder. I did not have over $1,000 to save him and he died at home in my arms the next morning. I was destroyed. At least all his house mates got a chance to say goodbye. He was always a high-anxiety kitty and within a few days of his passing it was very noticeable how the whole energy in the house changed. I was very surprised. All the cats were more relaxed and even more playful. I noticed that I too was more relaxed without always worrying out him. All Ryu's life you poured your love into her and now you made the right, loving decision, and she is happier and healthier for eternity. Thank you for your videos. You are an encouragement. Thank you to Scott too.
I’m so sorry for you dear, I understand your pain. My Mom and I have a Maltese that’s 15 yo if something happened to her I would have to take off work.
So sorry for your loss, I know it’s so hard! Hang on to the fact that dogs don’t have the same life span as humans, so you gave her a full life, with a tremendous amount of love! Hang in there!
She wants you healthy!!! She is and will continue to be so supportive of you as you heal. “NO WORRIES”, she says, I can confirm what you’ve heard from her.
prayers for you! I’m 60+ and pretty much have always had a dog or 2 or 3, so I have gone through so many times and it gets easier or at least for me. They are family!
I´m so sorry....take care...remember her everyday, she´s in your heart forever. We lost our dog 2015...I miss her every day. I wish you all the best, you are a stronger person now then before it seems, think of her and remember every moment with her. I admire you. Wish you and your family all the best 🥰
You are an amazingly wise woman at age 33. It has taken me 70 years to learn some of the things you talk about. For those of us who have lost our dear pets, our hearts are aching for you and Scott. It is also true that your stress will be reduced and that is a completely normal human reaction for which you should feel no guilt. Your journey has inspired me and I wish you happiness and peace.
Oh dear I am so sorry for the loss of your pet. Our pets are part of the family. She will be waiting for you when you get there. Praying for you. Just keep going you have got this.
Child … Have just said a prayer for your beloved dog and for you!!! You are in our heart and thoughts. Think good thoughts!!! Until your next video and beyond, happier trails, best wishes, take care, be safe, and God bless!!! Chuck Knight from Atascocita, Texas. ✝️👨🌾🐩🙏
Heartfelt sympathy for your loss. 😢🌷 💔 Trust and pray 🙏 that you'll overcome your sadness and that you're going to remain our lovely online friend, full of smiles and good advice always. 🤗🌻🌺 Lots of love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️ 😘
So sorry. We're going through the same situation with our dear huge friend, Hummer, who is 15 years old now and has all but lost the use of his back legs! It's very difficult to help him get around, but he tries so hard to be a good boy!
Ryiu knew you loved her - you cared for her in a loving and considerate way (taking her in the stroller so she didn't feel left out or left behind, chiropractic visits, etc.). I can imagine the relief - one could see the resources you were spending on her with time, energy, emotion and finances (I can very much see the stress on you, and I am sure on Scott with his care fore you). Hope with her peace, you can find some, too, without guilt. Blessings, Amanda and Scott. Glad you will have a new season of enjoying Olive and Sadie and on your hiking and biking adventures! May your memories of Rosie and Ryiu grow less painful and more peaceful with the thanksgiving of time spent with them.
I just lost my 17 year old chihuahua in April 2024. I feel your pain. It was time for me to let her go. Was it easy? No! I’m lost, but she’s out of pain and I’m no longer wondering why she couldn’t eat. Take care of yourself. You are loved! ❤
There is always some relief in the ending of suffering, on both sides. I had a 25 year old bruiser of a cat named Bud. I moved from Canada to Mexico and his ashes came with me. It's such a hard decision to make, and such a loss. Our four legged friends are such heart felt companions. She had a wonderful life with you. No sentient being could ask for more. I wish you comfort and lovely memories of your dear one. 🙏
So very sorry for the loss of your pup. It's hard because our pets are part of our family too. You gave Rio the best possible life possible. You'll always have the memories.
We had to put our heart dog down in October suddenly after he had sudden anemia. You’re not alone. My heart goes out to you big time. I’m glad she was able to be with you and to pass peacefully. ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've had to assist three of my precious fur babies across the Rainbow bridge and there are no words to describe the heartbreak that ensues. Praying for you and sending you♥
I'm so sorry you lost your dog. I could barely watch your video, it is just so heartbreaking. Our Big Boy, only 7, has just been diagnosed with osteosarcoma and I almost can't bear it. So, with empathy, caring and love I send my deepest condolences to you and your family.
All my love to you and your family. My dog hurt himself last night (tore a nail and bled) and I have been a mess so i cant even fathom this. Much healing to you, dear.
Me sincerest sympathies to you and Scott and your Sister and anyone who's lives your dear furbaby touched. From one furpaprent to another, I know the sorrow. Sending up prayers for healing and strength.
I'm so sorry. You really did give her a great life. In my opinion, the only loss greater than losing a beloved pet is losing a child. I've not lost a child, thank God. I wouldn't ever get over that. Lost my heart dog about eight years ago and didn't think I would ever come to terms with it. It's been a couple of years since I can talk about him and not lose it. Take extra good care of yourself. And Scott and the other doggos.
I’m so sorry. The loss of our fur babies is devastating. Dogs do go to heaven. Don’t believe they don’t. I do believe that they remain beside us everyday. They give us so much love and everyday is a blessing. But there is the hardest day…the day we say good bye. You clearly gave her a wonderful life. Do not feel guilty for feeling relief from stress. Hang in there girl.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your furry family member. We have taken in animals that have been dumped for years and they are always part of our family. With that comes losing them at some point. Praying for you all!
She had a good life with good family❤ so sorry for your loss. Such a sad time when we have to say goodbye to our pets. Unfortunately us pet owners have to do this many times due to their short lifespans😢
I completely understands. Three years ago we had to put down our family dog. He was 21 years old. I believe he lived longer because of the care we gave him as he aged. Still miss that pup and I buried him neath a mulberry tree that I can see from my back porch window. Tell him hi every time I work outside. Happy memories will temper your grief, it takes time. Take it slow. Take care.
We had a person drop off an elderly cat, no teeth and starving. We kept him for about 6 months, but he wouldn’t quit bleeding out of his mouth, and wouldn’t gain weight, so we made the hard decision to put Jake down. It was a sad day for our family.😰🥹I understand everything you said about the whole process. I was so stressed about him on the daily. We miss him.❤️
I have been following silently, but I had to reach out, hang in there😢 My dog just got diagnosed with diabetes and congestive heart failure all within this past month-my heart is breaking he’s 9 years old! I am also new to carnivore diet, so glad you have shared❤ It helps to know no one is alone. Prayers as you work through this, “boulder” in your path, and we (your channel friends) learn from your example. Thankful for your husband, Scott, too!
My heart goes out to you. I know my hubby and I will be making that same decision in the near future for our almost 17 year old pup Moki. It's so hard. We love them so much. Praying for you and Scott.
So sorry to hear that you've been having to contemplate having to put another dog to sleep. We've been there and know how hard it is, but even though it's hard you know that you've done the right thing. 🙏❤
So, sorry for your loss of your beautiful old dog . I know the devastation and heartbreak 💔 in losing a beloved dog , have been there many times myself . 😢
Oh honey I am sending you big hugs. It’s the hardest thing to give them this final act of kindness. I have a 17 yo papillon and am cherishing every minute of every day.
You didn't put her down, you gave her the last act of kindness with love one's around. Now she's pain free and running around playing with Rosie. She thanks you and Scott for the best life she could have. Take care of yourselves. ❤❤😢
I know the daily inner struggle the parent of a beloved animal feels. It is an impossible situation that we feel trapped in but somehow we conjure up the strength to act. It is an ultimate final act of love.❤ I am so sorry.
So sorry to hear about your sweet critter!! We just lost our Brisco last Jan.29/24 and it was brutal to say the least. I still cry everyday. The only peace I have is that he is not suffering anymore. May our babies rest in paradise!!❤️🌈🌹
God bless you and Scott! It is so very hard to give up a member of your family!! Our dogs are so loving and caring and I miss the compassion from the ones I have lost!! I'm 71 and wanting a furry companion again, but with inflation and living on social security, I need to think a little more. I want to be able to afford whatever that baby would need!! Praying for you and your journey back to carnivore! You know that will also help the stress and anxiety!! So sorry for your loss!! Enjoy the ones you still have!! 🤗🤗🙏🙏🙏
I'm so, so sorry for her loss. When we love our furbabies, we put them above ourselves. I believe that all of my babies will be waiting for me when I go to heaven. Yours will be there, asking for treats the moment you show up.
You have my sincere sympathy. Many of us who have been where you are right now know what this sorrow feels like. We gather around you in spirit to support you as you grieve.
Im so sorry, it's a family member you have lost & its natural to grieve. I have just found your channel and watched the first few and can see how well you have done. I know you are feeling stressed but give all your love to your other dogs now.
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how devastating that is. Been through that with 2 rotties & 3 cats. I can't do it anymore 😢 Much as I love the campanionship, I can't deal with the sorrow. Thier spirit is with you always.
I completely understand. I’m still missing my Mimi cat, our youngest of four cats, who passed in December 2022, due to peritonitis. Hugs to you and Scott in this difficult time! 💜💜
Losing members of our fur family is hard. We had a dog for 14 years and she was a handful and a challenge. When she passed it was a real mixed bag of emotions. I was relieved to not have to worry about her with our other dog, our cats, our grandchildren, and then the guilt of feeling relief. She was the smartest dog we ever had and the most challenging .It was also the first time I could hug her properly after she passed, which still makes me cry. It's been 2 years. We do our best for our furry friends and that has to be enough. Take care of yourself.
I'm so sorry for your loss! I understand. I still miss all of my beloved friends, both dogs and cats. They each left a paw print on my heart. Ryu was lucky to have you. ❤️💔❤️.
I get it. My condolences. It's a heartbraker. Went through something very similar. Dolly had cancer - went into remission, then returned. Lots of meds. Lots of tests and checkups. Then the suffering and pain was too much. She didn't have the quality of life a dog needs to thrive and be happy. She was 15 and she'd had a good life. We let go knowing that the pain of grief was the price of love. I had lots of tears, lots of grief, went off my keto diet. But life eventually returned to normal. Give yourself as much time as you need to grieve.
So sorry for your loss . I just ran accross this and my heart ❤️ feels for you. My poor girl was abused so much when i got her at the shelter her back hip in bad condition. We have been doing our best everyday for her pain. I can relate. All your feelings are normal and valid.
Been there several times. It is so gut wrenching. Sending you prayers and hope that your beautiful memories make the transition a bit easier. The grief is real. Dogs give the most unconditional love, and people who have not experienced it will never understand. Remember to breathe! HUGS.
