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A Tale of Two Men - Wanja Gikonyo 

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When Wanja got married, there were 2 important men with her. Her father who stood by her side and who had guided and nurtured her to become the woman she was, and her husband-to-be who held such promise for her future. Life, however, threw her one curveball after another. From losing her dad to cancer, struggling to conceive a child, to enduring an emotionally and physically abusive marriage. She shares her experience through this dark cloud and how she found her silver lining. #Engage28 #ShiftHappens #EngageAtFive
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@fredgori8510
@fredgori8510 4 года назад
Oh Wanja, your speech is about a painful story yet it is so sweet, well narrated. I am just here hanging on your every word. The best is yet to come.
@godisgood2675
@godisgood2675 4 года назад
Amen
@johnkimina8363
@johnkimina8363 4 года назад
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@africanqueenmo
@africanqueenmo 4 года назад
Smart lady. Fantastic orator. These are the women we need in the media. Such talent. Wanja Kihii may you and your baby be blessed. Daddys girl. May your dad Rest in Peace what a blessing he was. Your unfortunate violent marriage is now behind you. May you meet a loving man one day.
@godwins6961
@godwins6961 4 года назад
It takes a lot of strength to get the courage to share such depth and painful experiences. I upload you mummy. May the Lord keep strengthening and healing you. He is your loving Father. He has you 100%
@lilianchybire9610
@lilianchybire9610 4 года назад
Woman, you are great! Victoria is blessed to have you as her Mom. May your Dad continue to RiP.
@kaninikioko1635
@kaninikioko1635 4 года назад
Congratulations for picking yourself up. You deserve to be happy. You owe yourself love, peace and joy. And, now that you are a mother, your choices will leave a legacy of strength, joy and love to your little angel to always look up to. Be blessed in your journey Wanja.
@godwins6961
@godwins6961 4 года назад
Well said dear. I totally agree with you 👌👌👌
@dharkknight4747
@dharkknight4747 4 года назад
Ghaaad she's so BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!! EngageTalk oughta have an EngageHOOKUP button! LOL!
@godwins6961
@godwins6961 4 года назад
😄😄😄 I so feel you
@n.d8001
@n.d8001 4 года назад
This is what a strong woman looks like
@chrisomollo3376
@chrisomollo3376 4 года назад
Great command of the queen's language.
@omwerirobin5009
@omwerirobin5009 3 года назад
....two men I loved. ... my dad told me I couldn't depend on him for advice since no two families were the same! All I had was my husband and the four walls.... Indeed families have own challenges.
@qerolsilas617
@qerolsilas617 4 года назад
😭😭😭 I can't stand onions .Such a beautiful story of pain and victory . God does not waste away our paun
@anne-mariekosh5010
@anne-mariekosh5010 4 года назад
Experience is so relatable. I am glad you finally found the strength to leave your abuser because your life is more important than marriage.
@246Violin
@246Violin 4 года назад
Wow...Beautifully told with all emotions felt. God give you strength.
@kainegariyo6054
@kainegariyo6054 4 года назад
Such a moving story told with eloquence and grace. I am sure your Dad is proud of you. May he continue to rest in peace 🙏🏾
@rachelayieko3560
@rachelayieko3560 2 года назад
Honestly!! I am encouraged. And truly God answer's prayer. Wanja you incredible . And a great Mommy. Wow! Am so encouraged.
@claudinekimani3514
@claudinekimani3514 4 года назад
this the the Kenyan TED, thanks much
@godwins6961
@godwins6961 4 года назад
Totally true 🙏🙏🙏 very grateful
@tushyranx5860
@tushyranx5860 4 года назад
I have to admire your command of the queen's language
@MK-gi5cc
@MK-gi5cc 4 года назад
Tushy Ranx she said “seeked” instead of sought. That notwithstanding, she is such an eloquent speaker.
@tushyranx5860
@tushyranx5860 4 года назад
@@MK-gi5cc sure
@jenniferkinuthia2516
@jenniferkinuthia2516 4 года назад
The best is yet to come - one day at a time - May your dad continue RIP
@richardgaya3965
@richardgaya3965 4 года назад
Eloquence fantastic. Delivery superb. Subject matter most thought provoking should be of concern to all because it does affect many a person!
@musaukelvin2401
@musaukelvin2401 4 года назад
A warrior you are! An emotional piece with good lessons
@davidmuriithi
@davidmuriithi 4 года назад
Loved the talk. Loved the honesty. Loved the healing. Love you. ❤️
@carolinegitongac.9995
@carolinegitongac.9995 3 года назад
Thanks for sharing your story....I loved, I'm here to tell you "God answers prayers "....
@stevechege3324
@stevechege3324 4 года назад
The power of a father
@pamelamubuta
@pamelamubuta 4 года назад
Indeed, God does answer prayer. It doesn't matter how long it takes, His timing is ultimately the best. What a beautiful story!
@monalisawm
@monalisawm 2 года назад
Firstly I hope you got help especially emotionally and mentally you are very strong well done.. The law didn't protect you from day 1. It's sad that even after going to report domestic violence with visible signs and this police dude took her for violence of tea really.
@nalirecheal1219
@nalirecheal1219 4 года назад
This made me 😢 Buh thanks for sharing dear wanja
@breenyambu1088
@breenyambu1088 4 года назад
you are amazing. you are beautiful. you are enough. you are strong for picking yourself up.
@wamaitha.B
@wamaitha.B 4 года назад
I relate so much! Domestic violence! Sigh 😔
@onejikospeaks
@onejikospeaks 8 месяцев назад
I have related to her story so much except that I have never experienced physical battering. I miss my dad so much.. may his soul keep resting in peace.
@dorothyjuttner1720
@dorothyjuttner1720 4 года назад
Nobody can Stop you apart from you. Keep going Mrembo😇😇
@mislulu8366
@mislulu8366 4 года назад
Wow...such a moving story and so well told
@mutisyastella4410
@mutisyastella4410 4 года назад
Inspiring story Wanja Gikonyo....you r doing your dad proud.
@TheLavoga
@TheLavoga 4 года назад
Very moving story ..... You are strong. Keep going
@balancedviewpoint7418
@balancedviewpoint7418 3 года назад
Such authoritative and fluent eloquence with a sense of humour 👌 You real loved your Dad and unfortunately you landed in the wrong hands of doom. Just wondering aloud though! At 4 yrs your daughter was curious to meet Guka? What about the 👨‍👩‍👧 that never was? Today the daughter is 10yrs. You mean she has never curiously bothered or nagged you for her father despite what happened between you two or what did/ have you told her about her dad? What is his role in her development/providence and now that you divorced in between a child in your womb did you bother to tell him you were carrying his baby despite his despicable act of abuse? I am not into anything specific but the plight of an innocent child vs the intolerable absentee father. How do we handle the mix? Anyone please?
@evelynelilian1972
@evelynelilian1972 4 года назад
Sending hugs 🤗 you are a real warrior
@margaretkamundia8802
@margaretkamundia8802 4 года назад
That's a worrior right there. Thanks Wanja
@loisenjeri7379
@loisenjeri7379 4 года назад
I am sooo glad that you finally got thay baby!! I can relate.
@florencemawanda6374
@florencemawanda6374 4 года назад
so eloquent - really nice talk
@keithole575
@keithole575 4 года назад
Your dad was a great man.. may he continue to rest in peace. Happy for you finally, God answers prayers. Be all for Victoria..
@odorolydiah4848
@odorolydiah4848 4 года назад
Such eloquence you are strong mama
@Chings001
@Chings001 4 года назад
Oh hugs. I know, months down the line but hugs. You're a strong woman.
@justmo6896
@justmo6896 4 года назад
Heeeey namesake☺that's really bold of you 👏
@langatrobert905
@langatrobert905 4 года назад
Good command of the queens language n what an experience. What you did not tell us,did the OCS end up snapping you up after the divorce to become the father to Victoria? Just curious.painful story but beautiful ending.
@chuonkyi
@chuonkyi 4 года назад
It was a joy listening. Well told.
@priscillamathenge9245
@priscillamathenge9245 Год назад
Story well narrated. Good grammar. Pole to the loss of your dad. Rip
@isaacgichuki4044
@isaacgichuki4044 4 года назад
this is the Kenyan story so replete you would think it's normal ..... sigh... I have felt it...
@sheilamaina8641
@sheilamaina8641 4 года назад
God be with you Wanja.
@johnkodhek1
@johnkodhek1 4 года назад
Damn..... Sad. But I'm happy it came out good in the end. Now,, when I go to report abuse to the ocs, do they just keep a record and life goes on or what the actual....was happening there?
@malkiadebbie
@malkiadebbie 3 года назад
There’s only so much they can do when it comes to domestic violence 💔
@njerikimiri9601
@njerikimiri9601 4 года назад
You're awesome Wanja..... super awesome
@gladysyiga3149
@gladysyiga3149 2 года назад
You need to break the soul ties with your late dad and know he was a steward. God is your real father. May He guide you in everything concerning your life so you can soar.
@kenwrickwairagu
@kenwrickwairagu 4 года назад
Thanks for sharing...
@abrahamsonlewis7871
@abrahamsonlewis7871 4 года назад
Very powerful..
@MishiKhalidW
@MishiKhalidW 4 года назад
you are amazing
@Ladyfaithke
@Ladyfaithke 4 года назад
We love you and wish you all the best !
@wilsongatibo9851
@wilsongatibo9851 4 года назад
How do you get people talk at engage?
@dennismwangi2045
@dennismwangi2045 4 года назад
so eloquent.
@fenikjaheda8326
@fenikjaheda8326 4 года назад
Great!
@nimuyreemu3723
@nimuyreemu3723 4 года назад
Our God has a real sense of humour...he had to wait for her to reach her end,for Victoria to come...God knew!!He always knoooooows...
@tigisthailu9801
@tigisthailu9801 Год назад
Beautiful! ❤️❤️❤️
@EngageTalk
@EngageTalk Год назад
Thank you! Cheers!
@winnienotthepooh4272
@winnienotthepooh4272 4 года назад
I love your story Wanja. I hope you find who sees how beautiful you are inside and out. Coincidentally I share a birthday with your dad.🤔
@justmo6896
@justmo6896 4 года назад
Hahaha Winnie not the pooh
@rosemarymumbua9346
@rosemarymumbua9346 2 года назад
I feel like you are talking to me
@kelvinmuthoni196
@kelvinmuthoni196 4 года назад
💗
@mosesngatiah6365
@mosesngatiah6365 2 года назад
I'm eager to hear one woman who will say how she contributed to altercations? Many men react with physical battery when they cannot contain the verbal and psychological abuse. Unfortunate but true!
@MiloMyriad
@MiloMyriad 7 месяцев назад
But they can leave!! No child should witness physical violence.
@mosesngatiah6365
@mosesngatiah6365 7 месяцев назад
@@MiloMyriad I agree, but that's for an ideal person who can control his emotion. Truth be told, some can't, and it is there fore the responsibility of all to not endulge in any form of abuse. Emotional, psychological or physical!.
@minevagachomo7206
@minevagachomo7206 4 года назад
😔
@matovuabu5215
@matovuabu5215 4 года назад
A story has 3 sides...Men are abused by their partners a lot more often than you. Less say no to domestic violence.
@winniem8115
@winniem8115 4 года назад
Agreed
@matovuabu5215
@matovuabu5215 4 года назад
@k chebet No one is perfect. Am sure she annoyed him also.
@wambsmie
@wambsmie 4 года назад
@@matovuabu5215 which annoyance pushes a grown-up man to assault a grown-up woman? And by the way if you listened attentively she said the fights were being caused by the lack of a baby.. No three sided story can justify his action.
@matovuabu5215
@matovuabu5215 4 года назад
@@wambsmie open your clogged head. Be rational less also hear from the man so that we compare and contrast. Remember, a story has 3 sides.
@wambsmie
@wambsmie 4 года назад
@@matovuabu5215 your choice of words tells me more about your character.. I repeat again nothing justify a man to put a hand on his wife period!
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