During the #disturbed show in Milwaukee, frontman #daviddraiman became emotional as he shared a very personal story and also described how he misses #chesterbennington and #scottweiland
He lost his girlfriend as a teenager to suicide as well. Inspiration for his song "Inside The Fire". It's everywhere and it's ignored. Hats off to him for talking about this.
I had the same, and she was my first girlfriend. It completely and utterly destroyed me on a level that has never been matched by any other event in my life. I still think about her sometimes and it's been nearly 20 years since it happened...
Hearing the people in the crowd acknowledge each other after seeing all the hands raised….telling each other “I love you, I love you, and I love you, you are not alone”, was magical to hear. People need those moments
Maybe I'm biased, but metal heads are some of the greatest, most genuine people this world has to offer. Perhaps being in touch with the darker side of life and seeking outlets for aggression helps us empathize a little more than most.
What a MAN for standing and showing that EVERYONE can struggle with anything in life, but YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! If only more singers were this honest and spread the word, maybe we would all have a little more hope and support in our lives! The world is a hard place to live in for the majority of people, we just need to understand that,, speak out, and ask for help, as there are people out there in the same boat, and also those who can help!! ❤❤🖤🖤🤍🤍💙💙💚💚💜💜
David’s wife of 11 years, mother of their 3 year old child filed for divorce in February before V-Day (finalized now) and he lost his 14 year old Akita dog. I can’t relate to how he feels 110%.
Hi. @@isonation. I just last nite heard “Don’t Tell Me” for the first time and it really tugs my heart. I relate to it so much. I’m sadly separated from my husband for over a year. I just found out he has a girlfriend. We were together over 30 years, so of course I expected this to happen one day, and I truly hope he is happy and she treats him well. But omg does this hurt... REALLY bad.
Linkin park and disturbed music took me through my teen ages and got me forgot to my parrents divorce when i was 7, And bullying at my 10. It deffinitely saved my life.
It breaks my heart to see Draiman tear up like that. I can't believe he admitted to almost dying because of his depression. I'm very happy he's still here on this earth and as a fan, I hope he stays strong and continues to fight his demons through the power of his music. 🤘Stay Indestructible, Be Unstoppable!🤘
@@tracyannbielhy9794 I think David caught it way before covid, c'mon just look and listen to his lyrics I really doubt someone unbroken could do it no matter how crazy talented he'd be
I listen to David every day since the Sound of Silence. His powerful voice singing that song truly affects my mood in such a good way. Thank you David ❤
I've always been someone who suffered from mental illnes(anxiety, depression etc.) yet in these last few years after suffering the loss of my grandmother to cancer and more recently my 6 year old dog to acute Leukemia, my dog who dragged me through and helped me overcome the depression and overwhelming sadness of losing my grandmother to both cancer and dementia. I fear the emotional pain more than I do anything else, I fear being sober because I've more often than not drank most nights since the death of my dog, sometimes into complete avoidance and oblivion. I'm terrified of the magnitude and depth of my pain. Because it was already too much 2 years ago when my nan passed away and now it's unfathomable. I'm not coping at all, It's pure grief, isolation and loneliness every day, no matter how much I try. I suffer from severe social anxiety too so, I'm basically f*cked. Misery is me.
@@EmmaLouise91 It sounds so cliché but there's always help available no matter what and no matter at what time. I'm a very introverted person and I like keeping myself to myself and generally bottle my feelings up, I've also had I invasive thoughts in the past. I've found that there is immense relief in just making a small effort to talk to someone close. Whether that be a parent, sibling, work colleague, even a friendly neighbour, it doesn't matter as long as you trust them, and you _will not_ be judged or be perceived as weak for having spoken about how you're feeling. There is no shame in asking for help, the mightiest of warlords never won battles by themselves. You're here as a result of love and so you are loved. No one in the world is, has been, or ever will be as unique as you. You have your own sense of humour, dreams and ambitions, opinions and talents and a whole life to live full of experiences, love and potential. I sincerely hope you can find the help you deserve to overcome your feelings and live life to the fullest. Best wishes from some random guy on the internet.
@@EmmaLouise91 I can relate to you 100% and life becomes intolerable… But I have someone with me, who I have known since I was 27yrs old, and his name is Jesus… I had never felt peace in my entire life until he revealed himself to me at a church service one night. I didn’t even know He existed, after being brought up as a catholic and attending many catholic schools and my sister and I were sent to mass alone each Sunday. It meant nothing to me, as no one even approached us to find out why 2 very young girls were alone. I had been sexually and psychologically abused by my own father, and my mother wasn’t able to be available for me as she suffered greatly from depression, and at the hands of my violent father… When I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Saviour, I knew that He loved me, and He has been healing me little by little from the Complex PTSD and other mental health issues… There’s a scripture in the Bible that says “He came to heal the broken hearted and to bind up all of their wounds” and I’m a witness to that fact… We are all sinners, and this is why Jesus gave his life for you and me. He paid the ransom for our sin, so that if we turn away from it, he forgives us for every sin we have committed, and he remembers it no more. We have been promised a comforter (who is the Holy Spirit) who comforts us in our times of great sorrow. I can tell you that God the Father loves you with unconditional love, and he is there to hide you from the storm in His arms. He hurts when you hurt, and He wants you to call out to Him. He is closer than you know, in fact the Bible says “He is closer than hands and feet”. He also says in the Bible “Call upon Me in your day of trouble, and I will rescue you, and you will honour Me” He is a wonderful God, and has made all of creation (including our precious pets) just for us to enjoy and be awestruck by… I have nothing to gain by telling you all of this, but I truly care about you and your life… My prayer is that you would know who it is who created you, and will know the same joy that all of us who know him are experiencing. That you would have Hope in your heart, knowing that you are not alone on this earth. The Lord says “I will never leave you nor forsake you”, and may you know that too in your heart … God bless you precious one 🙏♥️🙏
Chris and Chester were preparing to reveal a web of sick corruption in the music/entertainment industry before their untimely death's. They may have died by the people who caused their depression and addiction, rather than the depression and addiction itself. Keep children away from the entertainment industry, too many are traumatized and abused by those who have power and influence. Some grow to be rockstars, while being handled and controlled by the same people who abused them. It can be hard to speak out, and we see what happens when you try.
I can't even describe how much respect I have for this guy. That's a real man. He's just a regular person trying to get through his life while still wanting to inspire and help others and being a good example. We are all with you David. We love you. ❤
Same here, David. Demons nearly took my life 5 years ago. I fought back. Got the help I needed. I’m still recovering, still fighting. I will not give up. Love you David.
It's especially nightmarish for men, because society wants to believe men don't go through that, and push men to shove it all down. I'm glad David came out about this, a high-profile male singer like him coming out about this is a huge step forward in visibility for men's mental health.
This. This right here is why I will always choose David and Disturbed. Their music, their relentless advocacy for mental health and their own vulnerability is what keeps me going❤
Me too. In fact It made me get a get an appointment with a rehab facility... Oh like the guy who filmed this I wanna say: Stay strong brother, I love you...
Last night i had the best conversation ever with my uncle. He's an older guy, and he is currently suffering from cancer. He's always listening to Aerosmith and the like, so imagine my surprise when sitting around the campfire he starts telling me about how he went to a Disturbed concert back in may. Me and the family were talking about music earlier that day so he had already figured how much of a metalhead i was. Never would've taken my uncle for one. We spent basically the entire night talking about Disturbed and Breaking Benjamin and FFDP. Never would've thought he'd be the guy to struggle with mental health, but he said to me that the speech David gave really motivated him. You are never alone!
"I'm tired of losing everybody I loved due to Depression and Addiction" I 100% agreed with you! 1:26 Everytime I hear Chester's name, I got goosebumps!
@Ott-ep7sl it's important for people like us to always be surrounded by loved ones. Unfortunately he was alone with his demons for too long at the time that it happened
I never had paid much attention to these guys, as I haven’t been into that genre of metal,but this guy is the real deal. From comforting a girl at a show, to this, and now I’m starting to really check out their music. I’m impressed, for many reasons, but most of all for his authenticity.
Tears running... Knowing that, without our son in our lives, my wife would probably not be around anymore... She dont get the help she needs with her sickness, no one in the healthcare listen. Yet, she fights each day, does everything for us and our son. She is the strongest one I know, far more of a fighter then myself. I truly wish I could take her pain instead, to give her a good life. Thank you for this, I needed it, to see and understand that we are not alone. I hope you all heal, feels the love you need. Take care out there.
People battling their demons so quickly and easily forget that they're not alone. What an absolutely profound moment when he showed everyone with hands raised. I've been a fan of this band the last 23 years and there's a reason and it's not just the music.
As a veteran, I have dealt with depression head on. It almost beat me a few times but I tell you, you can overcome it with the tenacity of fighting a war but it will test you and your resolve. David is right, we are not alone, we all are together in this war.
I don't cry easily but this almost brought a tear to my eye this morning. You are not alone. I will also add a line from a country song that I have a framed poster of: Every storm runs out of rain, just like every dark night turns into day.
Damn dude, it's crazy how everyone there has or knows someone with depression. That's actually a wake-up call. I'm not a huge fan of Disturbed, but David is definitely doing something real and powerful here and I respect that. Hope he is doing better now
I met this man in 2000 at revolution in ft Lauderdale. I tell you what. When he handed me his bands tape I couldn't believe how genuinely nice he seemed.
I’ve struggled with suicidal ideation my whole life, and Disturbed has been a source of inspiration and strength for me for many years now, over 12 years I believe. I’m going to see them live for the first time in Arizona for the Take Back Your Life tour, and the name of the tour and the timing of me trying to finally do something with my life is such crazy timing, and to tour in my home state as well. I’m probably gonna cry like crazy.
This really got me, I'm having a harder time than usual with both of those things and this speech really hit a nerve. I'm so glad not only did he give this speech, but he survived. So I'm just gonna keep my head up, knowing things will get better as usual. We have plenty of time to be dead, let's make the best of our lives! Things could always be worse! Don't be afraid to ask for help. If someone is gonna judge you for these problems, then their fuckin opinion doesn't matter anyway! Thank you David! 🤘😁🤘
I've been on both sides of this issue myself. David Draiman, you are so loved, and I am so glad you stepped back from that final doorway. You're a hero whether you realize it or not. You and the band have saved lives with your compassion and the messages you bring with your music and your honest openness. This world needs many more people like Disturbed's band members, now more than ever. The world loves and needs you. Hugs to all of you. Please don't ever give up. You're a shining light in the darkness that this world has become.
Tears are just rolling down David. THANK YOU for your very powerful, meaningful, and personal heartfelt message. In this country, and probably this world, the stigma that still lingers about both of these DISEASES cripples me. I have worked in healthcare for 20 years. It never gets any easier to see a human being suffering, trying to climb out of the hole, and finding they are forever stigmatized as "just another junky", or "just another crazy person". I abhor the terms junkie and crazy, and I only use them for the sake of this post. Thank you for shining a bright light on something that has been living in darkness for centuries. Keep the faith and never give up on yourself!
@@Realjoshturner. I'm doing great, David; thank you! You are very welcome for the love and support! It is easy to support an artist of your caliber. Your love and commitment to the creative process is inspiring!
His "wisdom" is nothing more than lackluster, platitudinous deepities proffered to elicit a sheep-like response from a crowd of sycophants. Addiction and depression, both, are entirely in one's control...even a minimal grasp of Greek stoicism bears this out, and conflating "addiction and depression" with what a child at St. Jude Children's Hospital has to endure is an idea that takes a special kind of myopic psychopathy to even entertain, much less utter to a large audience.
❤❤❤ So glad we didn't lose another one of my saviours Lost my mum to suicide 6 days before my 19th birthday. It broke me in all ways possible, I've cried out so many times for help and I've been saved but through all these years I've listened to disturbed and connected. Into the fire is a hard song for me and then in 2017 my daughter performed to a sound of silence (it breaks me) and then in 2019 I performed to a reason to fight...I cried the whole way through my performance, as I sit now writing this with tears, because my partner, my stepchildren and my grandchildren are my reason to fight and they saved me Now at near 42 years old, my life is the best it's ever been, I'm not rich or popular but I'm happy. So thank you David drainman and the rest of disturbed, you were part of what saved me And too anyone reading this all, thank you for taking the time, and just know you are not alone and you are enough ❤❤❤
We don't know each other but just know your words touched my heart and I want you to know you are not alone, you are loved by me also we are a lot alike ♥️ keep fighting the good fight my brother. ❤❤❤
As a recovering addict and dealing with depression and anxiety..and P.T.S.D..Sobriety is king...But we need The Support of the ones we love..Often judged instead of reached out to by a helpful hand....For those also suffering..This Too Will Pass...Stay Strong...There is Love out there waiting for you to except and return .❤Never give up!!!!!
I suffered from anxiety/depression and alcohol addiction many years ago. By the Grace of God I survived it. I am medication free now for almost 10 years. I have learned to deal with emotions without numbing myself. Life is amazing.
#youarenotalone. This band has aided many people with there music and lyrics. Sometimes we fans forget how difficult life on the road touring from one city to another without stopping to rest their minds and souls. Drugs and alcohol flow freely around this life style and it is some’s way of numbing the pain. I am so proud of him for speaking out about the pain it causes the ones❤ left behind. It leaves a hole in their world that can never be filled. Thank you to this band for giving so much to so many!❤
David, is the bravest and most humble frontman I have ever seen. He is the reason I am now doing a PhD in Psychology and Neurology so I can help others who have been through trauma so thank you David for your strength and I wish you knew how much your music and your amazing soul has done for me. A truly wonderful person. Know that you have helped save and change my life. I owe this band so much.
He's probably the most honest and real musician/celebrity that I know. Speaks from the heart and knowing that Disturbed's music has inspired many people to pull out of depression and/or addiction is so heartwarming.
Not to take away from what he was saying in anyway, but it's so cool to me that he has such rhythm even in the way he speaks. Every sentence sounds like someone reading poetry
The people at the end saying I love you to each other. Rock and metal artists and fans are a different breed dude. Much love everyone. I am also tired of losing the people I love to depression. Lets take care of each other.
For someone that huge in the public eye to admit that to the crowd took a Hell of a lot of guts we all deal with demons and nobody even the ones reading this right now are never alone
Their music, as well as Linkin Park’s and STP’s got me through some tough times. I’ve dealt with depression and I’ve known those who have, as well. I’m glad David is still here.
How many times can I comment on a Disturbed video how much I love David Draiman? So raw, so open. We are so lucky he has chosen to sing for us in his career.
Again he proves why he is one of my favorites! Thank you for your honesty, raw emotions...you and Chester are both awesome people foremost and awesome vocalists! Keep smiling, one day at a time!! We all love you!!!
im speechless. that was beautiful and honest. the people are sick because the world that we live in makes us sick. dont fight each other or yourself, fight the ones that enslave our thoughts and lifes. we all know who they are.
Wow! I have never heard any of their music before but I'm a huge fan of the people he spoke out about. I too suffer from depression and I've been in that place many times. That was beyond words! He's a HERO!
I am so thankful to see multiple bands stand up and say something, it helps me realize that the issues I have effect even those that are on top of the world.
Thank you David. My hand was up with all the others. For that moment, it felt so freeing, so peaceful. In that second, truly knowing you’re not alone. We’ve lost too many people and I’m so grateful you David, and those in the audience were there to raise their hands and share their hearts. 🙏🏻
David is incredible. He seems to really care. His heart comes out in his music. He sings with passion. That is an artist, above an beyond all this push button garbage we see in music today. This band has been around a quarter of a decade and still is going strong. Power to the real artists in the world.
Wow this is so beautiful to see. Addiction is hell, i am an alcoholic for 15 years now. Quitting and starting again. What this man says is so powerful.
God bless you and everyone from Disturbed!! Disturbed's music has help me through some of the hardest times in my life, and Draiman's voice has a very unique sound that will be very hard to duplicate. Every album you guys put out I get. Disturbed is the very 1st headlining band I ever seen, Mayhem Festival 2011, Noblesville, Indiana! Godsmack opened for you, and Megadeth opened for them! Waving our arms to 'Another Way To Die' was one of the coolest things I have ever been a part of! I want to see you all again this year. 12 long years since I last seen you guys. God bless all of Disturbed, and prayers for you David Draiman!! Keep your head up high and look for all those happy faces you bring to people's lives! 🙏🤘🖤😎🔥
David now I admire you more then ever. I deal with mental issues for the most part of my life and I won't give up. You should never give up too. Nobody ever should give up. No matter how tough it gets just remember guys that your win would encourage those who's struggling as well. Thank you David.❤
He is a good human loves everyone equally. May the positivity he spreads stay with him always..... stay blessed it not an easy thing depression its not only a demon but only you as a person can bring yourself out of that dark hole 🕳 all the blessings for 2024 from South Africa
I saw skillet live and they take a moment and deal with issues of addiction and depression. And the way skillet leads into overcoming issues is with their song “Rise” it’s really cool! Skillet puts on a great show and they’re an extremely positive driven band.
Hearing him say he almost joined them choked me up. It’s always going to be on my mental from now on. Wishing, hoping only the absolute best for him, his family/friends and to those reading this comment. 🙏🏽♥️ You are not alone!
So true about addiction and depression. I lost my sister about 9 years back to an overdose of opioid... I'll never forget the sound of my mother's voice when she called me that morning, I was completely devistated. Now more recently on May 27, 2023 I received a call from the Allegheny County Coroner's Office notifying me that my son Daniel had passed. Speaking with other family members, I already knew the cause of death, again an overdose, this time fentanyl. I miss my son and sister so much.
I was in tears as I watched this. You have so much to contribute to the world through your music and by just being you. Awareness is just the beginning. Thank you for sharing your story and your journey through it. ❤️
David is so strong here and it is also heartbreaking ❤️ I’m a 59 woman from Bristol England 🏴 and have nearly lost one of my children like this more than once as David’s talking about and he brought a light so bright to so many! I’m sorry for all your losses here, including my own family. They make us what we are when they leave us!
The crowd saying “I love you, you’re not alone” speaks volumes for this genee of music. You have a reason to fight. You have a reason to be here. Depression, addiction, anxiety, and everything in between are REAL! This goes beyond music, this is real. This is raw. This is life. Horns up, metal heads. We can fight the good fight together! 🤘🏻
I just had to cry... The end was very cute with the people telling them they love each other. David saying "you are not alone" was so emotional. Didn´t taught it hit me that hard.
OMG. Wow oh wow. What a glorious human David is. He saved lives with that speech. To know we are not alone, when we feel so alone, is so comforting, reassuring, we truly are not alone. Thank you, thank you, David. I am still crying. Your authenticity, openness and compassion are what the world needs. Don't leave us, David.
I lost my older brother to addiction last July. He was found dead on the sidewalk last July. Thank you David for acknowledging addiction and depression and reaching out to others. Much respect.
I did not think I could respect this man more than I already have for years. This did it. I knew we had something similar re "demons" in common. Your are not alone. Lots of love 🥰
Since 2017 I got diagnosed with anxiety. It is hard, because once you got this, will stay with you forever! But I got help from my family and doctors! The first step to be fine from something like this is to admit that you have a problem and you need help! 6 years since then, I got to manage it and I learnt how to keep the shit together! Im still doing therapy from time to time! This is like he says it too, its harder then cancer! It takes time to realise that everything what happens to you is only in your head. Its like your brain its your worst enemy! Stay safe y'all and ask for help! Its not something that shames you! Actually shows that you're brave and you know that there is a problem!
