@@AllThingsFitnessandLifestyle Actually I do. There's a reason why she hasn't formed a lasting relationship by the age 28. She's gonna hit her 1st wall quickly in 2 years at the age of 30. This is where the marriage rate drops by half for women for women to 20%. She will hit the 2nd wall soon thereafter. By age of 35 the marriage rate drops to almost 0 for women. For black women the marriage rate is about half all the way through. Asian women do the best. Nevertheless she is a 100% responsible for her outcome.
@@vanaphill2454 He will definitely have to find out before the Wedding Night,if they go 1 to 3 years without Sex and she’s not saying why then that relationship is doomed
Its not a bad thing,I rather get with a Virgin over a Girl that sleeps around with so many Men,this Virgin Girl is more attractive because she’s not poisoned by today’s Society by having 50 or 100 body counts by different Men,Im sure she will find someone that appreciate it and that would Marry her,she will only scare off the Men that wants to sleep with her and leave
To a real man a woman’s value is her purity, loyalty, femininity, humility, honesty and dignity. The dumb hoes commenting here are proud of themselves for squandering their value. Virgin women are far more likely to be satisfied with marriage, be happy in marriage and stay married. Young hoes have no self-respect and throw their dignity away. During their 30s they are shocked to find out that no real men want anything to do with them anymore. Women like you die alone.
It not weird or hard to stay virgin until you get married. It's all about discipline and the environment the person grew-up in. Many cultures/religions follow these rules for both genders. Imagine all the diseases and unnecessary filth you can eliminate from your life just following this simple rule. Much respect to her.
Ya there's not that many men that respect it... they might say they do, but aftr so long of holding out it's just f'ng weird!! It's not like it's that sacred. Or maybe it is to you... but it's just to you!!
@@gNOme_5 You don't want the guy that thinks it's "weird." He's just looking for a fling. It's only cool if you're doing the same, which obviously you aren't if you're saving yourself for marriage.
It was rare even 40 years ago to find a woman with such moral tenacity. Proud of her and my respect is given to this lady. I would have been lucky to have met her.
That's nothing! I'm a 30 year old virgin! It's never strange that u are! You're pure and beautiful! Don't let anyone make u feel less than. You're actually ABOVE!! You're gods pure angel 😇
Good for you lady 👏 don't tell any guy otherwise they will try to convince you to lose it. Saving yourself for your husband is always worth it. I truly wish I had stayed a virgin, too many creeps out there.
If I knew what I know now, I probably would've been a virgin to at least 25/28...maybe 35. In the USA, the average man gets married between the ages of 24 to 38. While I'm happy that I lost mined to someone who was also a virgin ( we dated for 3 years) it's the guys after him as to where I went wrong. 😬🤦🏾♀️I ended up marrying someone I've known for over 20 years.
John, she just told everyone. I have seen some guys antennas go up, because they want to be the 1st (and not because they care about the lady.) She needs to watch out now, since she put her business out there for all to know. "About right there right now" comment was comical. Steve is a mess. I am sorry he is no longer on the air. I miss his talk show.
I have the deepest respect for this young lady. The fact that she is saving herself for the right man demands respect and I mean absolutely demands respect for her and her values as a woman as a lady as her cell kudos to you young lady God bless you.
Why does it demand respect? Sorry, but it's not that big of a deal one way or the other. I guess it is to a select few... but it doesn't make her better or worse than anyone else.
Only through hookup culture have i realised how valuable and honorable gift your virginity is to give to your spouse. Like it doesnt make me feel bad that my apouse had people before me, or I before them. But how freaking special would that be
Do what you want (or don't want) to do. Just know that it's no guarantee that you ARE with the right man. For that you get no guarantee. Life's not a fairytale and there are no knights in shining armour.
Amen Steve, good for her for waiting for the right person and when you do find the right person you will know because he will be patient and love you for you and the relationship will be based on love and not sex. I am 53 and have been celibate for 11 years. I am in no hurry to put myself in another loveless relationship.
My daughter is a virgin, and is saving herself for marriage. I am 50, and I have been celibate for about 9 years, too, because I wanted my daughter to see that it can be done, and I also am tired of loveless relationships.
She’s pretty! It’s clearly a choice. I think, the truck is just not to tell them. Obviously embrace being a sexy, sensual being, and don’t let them pressure you into compromising your boundaries! If you go in a date, you don’t owe him anything. In fact, he may pursue you harder if he thinks you’re just hard to get… once he proves he’s a good person worthy of your attention after you’ve told him you want to take it slow, then maybe you’ll decide to tell him how precious your sexuality is to you… but only after you trust him to protect it. If he leaves after THAT, you dodged a bummer cuz that’s not what you’re looking for anyway
Woah woah woah. Advice ends at "you don't owe him anything." If you're about to force a guy to constantly chase you, you're scum yourself. You have a boundary, don't turn it into a game.
@@WholeHeartily He might pursue harder or just give up and ghost her. 🤷🏽♀️ I've been ghosted by men for not have sex, so it greatly depends on the guys mindset. I've noticed that the more attractive the guy is, the faster they ghost, because they're use to women giving them sex whenever they want. Guys with less options are more willing to wait because not that many women are saying yes to his advances.
@@MrsNicolas oh I totally agree!!! And that’s kind of the point I was going for. If a guy is a 10 in looks, but he’s impatient to have sex, then she might not even get to the point of explaining she’s a virgin because he made it clear that waiting isn’t even a possibility… and this is just a generalization of course, looks are relative and don’t determine a persons character. If he ghosts her, she didn’t lose anything. If anything, she should CASUALLY date multiple men at once so she doesn’t become too emotionally invested. This is made safer by the fact that she’s not sexually involved with any of them. Depending on her boundaries, she might not even be kissing them, so volume would play in her favor at this point. Ideally the men would weed themselves out and anyone truly interested in who she is as a person would want exclusivity and that conversation could lead to an explanation of what she wants/expects from a man… then he could decide if he’s the right one for her
Every respect precious lady, wise decision in this sexual era. I pray that you meet the right person for your spouse. It was the right decision for me.
There are men out there who still open doors, talk on the phone for hours, bring flowers, write letters, hold hands, and give forehead kisses… I know because I have one. (The catch is that he’s white and has a pretty sexy dad bod and we HAVE had issues… not a single person in this world is “perfect”, but some relationships are worth fighting for) Your sexual boundaries are not something you compromise, but you may want to be flexible with age/ethnicity/income/“dealbreakers” etc…
That's still a huge risk to take, to say I'm gonna save myself for my husband. They could take that as an advantage and then change their minds and say they arent ready.
This is admirable. Need more like her. A virgin is what guys will wait for. Not some woman with 2-3 kids that claims she's waiting until marriage to have sex again. Problem is she's late 20s and needs to focus hard if she wants children before it's to late
@@HB-wl3nv Its not admirable. The guy/guys before didn't have to wait so why should he. No guy that values himself or worth anything is gonna wait until marriage to have sex with a sexually experienced woman. Especially bringing all that baggage. You don't know men at all.
@@byronmartin1840, what despicable manner of morals have you! You are extremely judgmental to infer that a woman who has had a child is somehow of lesser virtue than another woman. So if we go with your insinuation of such, would you also indict a man who has had sexual relations prior to meeting a woman to be of lesser virtue than a female virgin? Would you say that he would be deserving of such a match? Are you asserting a double standard that it is acceptable for men to not be as virtuous and to be regarded of high value if they have have been sexually active prior to meeting a woman than a woman to be of lesser integral value because she has also had sexual relations before meeting a man? Please tell me you recognize the grandiose hypocrisy here!
@@HB-wl3nv Miss you are so out your depth idk where to begin. YES double standards and different expectations exist. It's nature not me. You don't see men walking around saying why aren't women providing and protecting for them. That's a role for a man and men don't value that. Women do.A woman's value does not drop as a human being having multiple children but certainly does in the dating market. No other animal or beings on earth takes care of offspring that's not theirs. Not only that the less sexual partners a woman has the more likely a man can trust she's carrying his child when she becomes pregnant. When a woman gets pregnant she knows she's the mother. Yes a man's value in the market decreases as well when he brings outside children just not as much depending on his resources. How can you imply a woman can have as much sex as she wants with multiple children and still be considered virtuous?
She don't have nobody else her family or friends to speak to no therapist . She got yo get on national TV and ask Steve Harvey really. Since when is he the authority.
Its not every dude’s business. Most don’t care and may see it as a challenge. I was a virgin until this age before I got married (later divorced but whatever lol) I never regretted my decision because it’s what I wanted to do and how I felt at the time. I think of all the guys I dated before then , looking back now, I personally would have regretted sleeping with any of them. Things have changed after the divorce (I mean 😏…you know) but I still prefer one partner in that aspect vs giving myself, my energy and my space to multiple people. I like it like that. I don’t think it’s an issue to wait. It’s not all it’s cracked up to be. I’ve probably had two that I can say were amazing in that regard.
Your advice is so helpful. I’m 24 and can sometimes have anxiety being that I’m a virgin at this age. It just makes me feel like it’s never gonna happen but I chose to wait. Its too many diseases out here to just be doing it with anybody.
The reason why he said she's about there is nothing to do with social standards. It's got to do with the fact that her reproduction system has already reached its peak in its own its way and decline. The longer she waits to have children from this time on the more she's going to experience complications and both the embryo and the birth. If she wants to have children she needs to do it soon rather than later. Unless you got $400,000 to free some eggs and don't wait until you're 41 years old there ain't no eggs.
Amen, to that Steve. Ladies and gentlemen we all should hold our minds, body, and soul to a good standard. Everything is not to be shared with everybody. I hope the young lady Stay strong.
She might want to get serious about finding husband material if she wants to have children, but other than that, she deserves a man that respects that. Shoot, I might look for a match maker, not some BS on the Internet, but a real human that helps people connect.
I was 35 when I gave myself to my husband no shame in my game because the Bible told me so. It's no shame to do what the Bible say to do. You don't have to be like the crowd because it's popular. You will be rewarded by God in the end.
Im 35 years old and a virgin.Its tough,but I know Im not giving it to anyone until I know they want a child with me and commitment.He has to put a ring on it if he wants my garden.
Too funny, after watching TikTok, I was wondering if my daughter was the only one who is strong and has standards. She is saving herself for her husband. My daughter is 19, and she is waiting until marriage.
You have to instead ask her an even more serious question. Does she want kids and have you considered the idea of freezing your eggs already? By age 30, 90% of a woman's eggs become inert and by age 40, around 98% of your eggs are gone. The longer you wait to have children, the more you are opening the door for birth defects and miscarriage. A woman is most fertile around the age of 21 so, even though it is a less and less likely scenario, virgins should be considering to freeze their eggs around that time if they wish to later have children.
i thought my options would get better with age but it hasnt. Honestly and incel culture is getting worse, im am so scared of getting into an abusive relationship that i am being extra cautious. Dating apps are f**king awful for women so how the hell do you even date today without being harrassed? My virginity doesnt define my self worth, but rather my self- respect does. Im worried about telling people because of the weird crazy assumptions people make and also the weird fixation men have on virginity, like i feel like it puts a target on my back. Im terrified of being sexually assaulted because i dont want to have a bad painful first time and the idea of it being violent is just hard to even think about. It feels like there are no decent men left in my side of the world.
Wow she is so beautiful. I think she’s got it go’n on! Her parents raised her right. I wish Steve wouldn’t have said @ her age might be a strange age to be a virgin…😔
She's very pretty and seem too be a good spirit; it's my belief she would be a great wife. My suggestion date with a purpose and put herself in line with a man who qualify to be a potential husband. Other then that she seem to have life under control🤷♂️
Nothing wrong with being a virgin,actually wish more people would be. I do wonder though is she doing this for Godly reasons? It’s kinda hard to convince guys who are sexually active to wait on her. I think she should try to find more men that’s abstaining until marriage themselves. Or find a guy that no longer wants to have sex until marriage. It’s one thing to say she never has to tell a guy.Then it’s another for a guy to be invested in her who is typically use to being sexually active not aware of this.
What a delusional thing to say. Maybe you are so clueless because you are one of those women who thinks you’re entitled to full access of a man’s wallet at Hello.
Just say I am saving for marriage, the other info is TMI. Don't do kissing as well bc temptations kick in so either you loose or he gets confused and angry which is unfair to him. Kissing is another window into you. Kissing is a sin as well before marriage.
My dear dear sister broaden your horizons. "You bout right there right now" is a kind way of saying youre looking for the right things in the wrong way. Open yourself to new, different, safe experiences that are 180 degrees opposite to the life you are living.
