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@@demekaray8255 More than likely out cheating on my girlfriend back then. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hey, i did not say I was perfect. I married the one person I did not have the desire to cheat on. It's been 20 years strong, but I take this relationship like an alcoholic, one day at a time. I'm not planning on cheating today, but I'm going to have to pray on tomorrow. I barely drink, I don't gamble, and I don't smoke. But, I love me some women. However, I love my wife and child more than my one temptation.
@@vonhapsberg Cheating before marrying a particular individual is a "clue" that infidelity will rain in on the intended monogamous relationship. I don't know where you internet English Language correctional officers are popping up from lately...… 🙄🙄🙄🙄 I think 130 people understood what I was conveying before you threw piss on the fire. 🤨🤨
Here's the thing with the cheater: You don't just "accidentally" meet someone at a bar and go home with them. That takes a series of purposeful decisions that go against the relationship. A healthy girlfriend or boyfriend sets boundaries so they don't make a monumental mistake like this. Kissing someone in a bar might pass as an accident. Going home with someone is not. Find a new girlfriend.
@@m.a.1874 obviously you didn’t read that he included boyfriend/girlfriend in this comment, and wanted to change this into a man issue, when he’s not saying it’s one gender who cheats
How the heck do you accidentally kiss someone? I am a dude but no way in hell that I will kiss a random girl at bar you just do not know where their mouth has been.
She didn't make a MISTAKE...she made a CHOICE! A mistake is done unconsciously without knowing. A choice is, "I know I have a boyfriend and I know this is wrong and it will hurt him, but i'm going to cheat anyway". She got caught and now she says it's a mistake. I call BS.
@@gregthomas3953 you cheated huh: lol Man everyone can and do change at some point. This cancel culture is evil. Everyone has done something wrong, so does that mean the thing you done wrong you can't change absurd
I thought this was strange because my husband does this too lol. He is kind of a homebody anyway but when he needs to change his schedule he always gives a heads up, like where, when, with who, when he'll be back, calls while there, like without being asked...I thought it was too much and I was not used to it because I was in a TERRIBLE relationship before where I was always investigating 🙄... went to the ex's house unexpectedly and YUP found out why. Left his sorry behind and now I know it's respectful and builds trust when your partner checks in.
And when the second man don't want them((those woman)) they will back to the first man they are saying it was a mistake!!!! Cheater always are acheater
As a woman I will just say no you can’t trust her. Sorry it sucks but she probably is comfortable with you and doesn’t want to be alone. She will leave when someone she has stronger feelings for comes along. Sucks but in the long run save yourself the heartache and rip off the bandaid.
@@SteveTVShow Yes it’s possible. As for cheating, it isn’t a mistake. You must have put yourself in that position to cheat. You’ll willingly cheat especially when a woman cheats. They do it with their emotions. So if you cheat that’s the end of our relationship
My ex cheated on me and I never looked at her the same again. No matter how much I tried to forgive, and make it work out, I just couldn't get that image of her cheating out of my brain. So after some years of trying I walked away and never returned. The trust and love was no longer there.
I’m glad Steve told that first guy to get new chick. Why?? When someone is forgiven for something they know they shouldn’t be forgiven for, they repeat it. Even children do that.
Sorry but I believe if the tables were turned and a woman said the same thing about her boyfriend coming out of a bar with another girl, Steve would say that she should give him another chance. It’s still a man’s world.
@@virginiaboone8163ah watch other episodes where he's asked a girl to walk away or if the cheating man came to him, he simply said that he can't expect a girl to forgive over night and it may take years to forgive if she actually decides to stay.
@@mobilepsycho spoke like a cheater. Always justify their nasty behavior. If you don't feel loved you can easily leave instead of taking the dishonorable route.
Steve don't play no games! He tell you straight like it is and I love him for that. He say the women just plug their self into the equation. Most of us do that. I don't because I run from relationships but I'm trying to change but not for the worst. I am an action person. I have to see actions with men and not go with words. I'm glad that I've learned that over the years. Every word that they do speak a action has to follow and every word has a time limit on that action coming. Or deuces! 😊
Steve just shattered that girls dreams at the end😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀. Serves her right for assuming she will end up with him and that he wants to be her life partner
@@terrywade3696 so I guess it's right that that ladies don't give cookies b4 marriage, coz if they do, the guy might be stringing along not being serious and there's no way to tell if his serious if the cookies alrdy been given out
Yup no doubts about my SO he told me a week after we met we’re gonna get married like he just knew not “ I want to get married and have kids someday etc.” he inserted “us” into his future immediately and still does constantly and he backs what he says he’s gonna do with action. I never understood how people can be in a relationship for years and years and still wonder? Like if you have doubt, get out. Why should you have to invest that long to still be wondering?
No you can’t trust her she cheated if she cared, loved you and respected you she shouldn’t have cheated too busy wanting another to share a bed with someone else that’s disrespectful and shows no love in my opinion.
Don't deflect. If she was unhappy with that, her ass shoulda left a long time ago. Fact of the matter is this: she was in the wrong, she's a cheater, and it was a choice...not a mistake.
I.don't do second chances not in this case the trust is broken things will never be the same it doesn't matter how many ways you try and work it it's over.!
Love how Steve in the back being quiet when he himself was a cheater to his first wife. The person’s question brought back so many memories to why he’s with Majorie now
Could you imagine havin a man like that, who love you, work hard, and wanna spend life with you, AND HE HANDSOME? girl if you gonna cheat on that then the streets callin yo name.
Women do all the time. It took him four years to see if he wanted to marry her and a date with someone else isn’t sleeping with them. She’s exploring her options since 4 years is a long time in the dating world.
@@queenprincess4life the man said that she admitted that she cheated. It's deeper than looking for options, she should have stood up for herself and left.
It would be different if she told him instead of getting caught, that would be more believable of it being a mistake. The fact that not only she cheated but he had to hear it from someone else isn’t a guilty person. Cheating is an act of selfishness. Love isn’t selfish, if your not satisfied in your relationship then that’s a reason to leave not cheat. The fact that this happened before he proposed and said I do, is a blessing. It’s hard to see because of the pain and disappointment but later on he’ll see the bigger picture. It was a exit door provided.
My opinion about this is.... Even if they are genuinely sorry, and want to try maintain the relationship. You can't put toothpaste back into the tube. That trust is broken, and may never come back. It would take a lot of hard work to keep that relationship going. Which in the end probably isn't worth it. So if someone cheats you just have to let them go. Not worth it.
A women usually admits to cheating but a man will always deny it even with proof! She wasn't meant for you move on and find someone who really loves you.
Just one thing to remember if someone cheats on you is…. A leopard never changes their spots. Which means that they will never change or even want to change until they get caught so it’s time to move on and up! That goes for men and women!
I agree it Is practice until the ideal partner comes along. Not a complete waste cause both parties often need to grow up, but often someone is gonna get hurt one is often more committed than the other. Also sometimes what starts off as a great match is not!
@@ladyofspa Im a Muslim ! so no relationship before marriage because marriage is THE relationship ! if we like eachother then marriage is the goal ! otherwise it's just a waste of time especially for the girl!!but the west culture makes marriage hard and divorce harder so men are afraid of commitment !
cheating is more like a choice than a mistake, or at the very least a deliberate mistake, not an accidental one.. if that's the case, it's only a matter of time before that person makes another _mistake_
It’s tough man. My EX left because she had another man. At first she said she is just leaving because she needs space and figure things out on her own. Asked me to wait. As innocent as this is, I accepted and she convinced me that this will be great for us. So I didn’t think too much about that but then 2 days later, I caught her out on a date with a guy. Confronted her and she said, well… we are not together anymore and the next day she confirmed to me that the guy is now her boyfriend and tried again to convince me that they just met the day after she asked for some space and I was supposed to believe that just two days later they happened to be in a serious relationship. Girls are just so manipulative and idk if I can trust another girl again.
That third one, the blonde with the musician boyfriend is exactly what's wrong with women they only ever want to be at the finish line not be there for the whole race, women if you want that famous man understand what it truly means to be ride till die
Funny Steve tells women to give men a second chance when they cheat, but when a woman cheats get rid of her immediately, the double standards makes me vomit.
Yes! Who says ‘then something big happened’. It sounds like a tv show narration. In this case, I hope we’re right and that yet another person was not betrayed in this way.
