Aba and Adam22 Discuss How Sleeping With Tons of Women is Overrated 

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U guys really falling for the act? If u have to remind people that u are humble and have integrity. Chances are u have none

@@KaluArt Facts, people are really naive and fall for virtue signalling. Most people are not bright enough to see through the virtue signalling

@@tss8735 💯

I said what i said lol

shit happened to me bro

F- cking around and realising that you're just a body for the women you f with and nobody to talk to or cry in their arms is just depressing.

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb bro foreal!!! I had to stop

Damn straight bro

It def gets played out , for me women are just too time consuming

Most down to earth creators.

Think you forget Pewdiepie. Mans is on the highest pedestal and still has the humility to look at others as if he is the one below.

Hell no

I wouldn’t go that far... 😂

Yes

Yea I realized a while back I had a eureka moment where I figured out that worthless sex is just a form of self harm just like alcohol and smoking or drugs.

I agree that bragging is stupid. Doesn’t help yourself or people around you. However you are wrong about “ sex is meant to be significant. It’s meant to be a connection”. If what you’re looking for is settling down type of thing then sex yes is meant to be a connection thing. But if you’re looking for sex and sex only, then going on dates makes zero sense because to get to know someone just for sex seems so irrelevant. Like yes or no do you wanna smash and you smash. You don’t waste any emotional time by going on a date to “ get to know someone” that only increases the chances of a connection forming which is dangerous and not what you’re out there for.

@@e.cforest5422 interesting. So I’ve never had worthless sex. My sex is great. I keep healthy, I’m in shape, I’m fantastic in bed so if you’ve experienced worthless sex I would either say you want something more then sex or if you don’t then work on yourself. The complete, gym physique ( athlete physique) read books, develop your own psychology, study men and women and biology, sex and all those things that will make sex feel great. it’s not about connection. It’s just whether you’re good at it or not 😂

This is lame.

We all live alone and die alone. Your wife wont be there with you when you fade out

That word "insecurity" is key! If u wanna ve a hoe, do it bc you WANT to do so not bc you feel you NEED too for whatever reason.

What is the difference between want and need?

@@sla1746 a brain

@@sla1746 you may want too cuz you feel you can, it’d be beneficial, it may better your life and you can deal w whatever it comes w. If you feel like you need too, you feel like it may better your life and you’re going to pursue it no matter how detrimental it may be and or even if u can’t handle it.

@Donald Trump *watches vikings once*

why you talking like were in medieval times and shit shut the fk up

This man is speaking alternative facts. Sleep with as many women as you can. I bet you he still looks at attractive women and wonders would it be like to sleep with her.

@Donald Trump You become what you practice.

Thou art valuable than the even more precious of all metals

F&F highlight the true character of most western women while A&P teach value

FnF are just regurgitating red pill talking points. No nuance with them.

@@daizenmarcurio what wisdom you gonna get from finding out the true character of most western women? absolute waste of time dwelling on that type of shit, you also risk developing a false sense of trust because of your tendency to mistrust seemingly degenerate people. I'd rather stay away from that and just focus on myself and develop my trust with the right kind of people instead of being overly-cautious all the damn time

@@actuaryjohnny4993 honestly they do it in such a rude way. plenty of ways to discuss those topics without being disrespectful to anyone

@@adonisssss2197 I agree, I wouldn't want to develop a false sense of trust and miss out on a lot of meaningful relationships and experiences

Thank you for appreciating that! It's a shame because there are few spaces for us men to do just that, and the one's that are out there have been told to shut up shop or to get a female on the show. Smh that would defeat the purpose.

It is very interesting to hear men’s stories. However when communicating we must come from a place of understanding what was and what is. Saying sex is worthless is just incorrect. “ based on my experience this happened and that happened, however it may feel or be different for people”

It’s nice to see a man hold other men accountable!!

@@raymondotoole2600 with multiple ppl it is worthless, u constantly adding bodies to your list is hoeish.

@@D.T_ it’s worthless for you 😂 not for me. Speak from individual experiences not for everyone in the world.

to me it always seemed disguisting and i noticed it early on when i was like 14 lol it felt cheap then and feels cheap now

Because it is and leaves you empty

it's not worth it, focus on ya goals and finding the right women

@@darthwicket PREACH. i bet having someone to come home to is MUCH more fulfilling

you should feel ashamed

@UCFCJMJf-5LEGPz1LpkHo0qA finding the right women shut the fuck up lol

@Cayenne Captain No you don’t. Some people just don’t have high sex drives, and others it just wasn’t a thing for them. Neither to say alcohol, partying, or whatever else wasn’t in place of sex though. 😭

@@user-hs1nr4he1k And some never had the option even if they wanted to.

I feel like you don’t have to go through it to no it’s not satisfying lmao

being with one women forever gets boring and old lol stop lying bruh

From what you’ve said and by the way love the honesty👏🏼 but did you ever include some sort of moderation. Like when you felt the shift in excitement for sex decease did you take any healthy breaks ?

100 percent, i messed up opportunies with high value women cause they knew my past of sleeping around

Lol no. Women like men who are “preselected”. A man who is promiscuous shows that he is a winner and women sleep with the winners.

@@ilikepancakes2368 nope. Bad women like men who are promiscuous. Good women like men with self esteem that is not dependent on how many women you sleep with/get attention from and self control with your desires.

@@MrBigdul that’s your fault, you told a woman your body count truthfully and she got turned off. as a MAN you gain no benefit telling a woman how much you slept around.

I don't think that's true. Women love a reformed "hoe". A men that knows how to talk to women and what to do in bed.

Of course not

They aren’t.

They aren’t.

🤣🤣🤣

They're not, check the view counts on the popular videos & what's in the titles that draw attention. Bullshit

You have someone here who’s rooting for you I know you will get your life on track never give up on yourself much love to you

@@goodvibes5420 let go of the Alpha mentality. It puts too much pressure on you and I'm not sure if it's for the right things. Your goal should be to do right by you and be a decent human being.

@GVISTA let go of the alpha mentality my friend. Aim to be a man nothing more nothing less. Aim to be comfortable with hard work and comfortable with yourself/your insecurities. Even though nothing is wrong with homosexuality, measuring your manliness to others/based off others and giving it terminology is kind of top/bottom homosexual/female talk. Be well my friend

Get a life bro, if ur focused on your purpose you won't have the time or motivation for that shit

@@Rory695 this is facts, the shit really is that simple. Addictions become the strongest when you’re bored and have nothing else to do. Keep yourself busy and you’ll end up not wanting to do that shit

You must not watch alot of smart people

@@504gucci4 stfu F&F meatriders mane smfh, get your nose out of their ass, yall the most biased community ive ever witnessed on youtube

@@504gucci4 he probably only watches no jumper interviews and kid shows

Also, isnt it funny that men always preach about holding women accountable for their actions, yet always defending other men for their behaviors, just like women to avoid repsonsibilities. After reading the comments here, i realize that some men( not all) will never hold other men accountable. Its as if accountability is their krytonite or something lol🤣

Right

He was already pretty famous on degrassi

Drake is kind of a simp though. I do respect his hustle and grind.

@@samuelvelazquez8834 How is Drake a simp?

@@RS-ti7bz Renting a stadium to get a girl on a date. Lmao, that’s just one of the ones I can remember. Also not saying making love songs makes you a simp but Drake does sound like he weeps too much for love.

It's actually the saddest thing ever. You are so alone.

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb I “was”

@@tjackson2411 Oh you found somebody.

I would argue it depends on the person I quit dating at 15,that was 8yrs ago.I love being alone and just being with my goals and dreams.can't picture the relationship life

@@drew230 there’s not many like you.

Giggity

weak

At least your not quagmire

How are you now ? I struggled with this for years. Long relationship ended and turned to being a player. Maybe 40 bodies.. idk, lost count and dont remember 60-70% of their faces or names. Now im engaged, getting married in 50 days and the trauma from all that finally caught up .

@@jacob11b how do y’all feel after smashing a whole bunch of women ?

Very true

@@zakh1579 Yes, I believe men who've gone through this phase will feel more comfortable settling down, because they played the field and knows that the one he picked truly is the one.

@@pistolen87 Sounds like you're just justifying your hedonistic promiscuity. Casual sex is tantamount to recreational drug use. You're eliciting a dopaminergic response in the brain, you're not getting anything out of it other than ephemeral pleasure. Some people are genuinely too low IQ to even understand this. They think sleeping around adds some actual value and significance to their life when in actuality it's a form of addiction.

Well said

@@zakh1579 Every guy should indiscriminately fornicate with a multitude of women they have no feelings or care for? What is that supposed to teach you lmao? Like I said, it’s a form of addiction and you getting so aggressive and throwing out excuses is indicative of an addict denying his vice. Sex is fundamentally intended for procreation, when it’s solely associated with pleasure is when you descend into degeneracy. Just look at how depraved pornography is today. Do what you want, I don’t really care, but don’t espouse moronic theories on the web, perniciously warping the minds of young men who would otherwise be above your insecure, animalistic, sex-addicted nonsense.

Or perhaps ask the right people the right questions stretching across age groups.

@@andile5945 never heard this William Blake quote before m8 tbh lol

This is so true. Once you have too much it’s easier to step back, realize your excess, and trim it down to levels that are appropriate for your well-being.

@@andile5945 exactly. Real wisdom is learning from the mistakes of others

@@Michael-vl7ey “By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.” - Confucius

True that

You were just weak

So draining

I feel that it started to hit me at age 27. I. Almost 41 and its still a struggle with lust but I AGREE🙏🏾

Having sex is human nature. I feel it funny that Aba himself has a high body count but wants to now act like its over-rated 🤦‍♂️

@@thetruth997_ he was saying how it's not it's all cracked up to be and learned it from experience. He's not being a hypocrite lol

Exactly 😂😂😂 he needed to hear it the most. Meanwhile he’s like… me and Lina got a new sex tape with a groupie this weekend for onlyfans

Oh you know who he is?

Ur corny

@@SouthBayLA1310 yeah aba and preach they're chill

@@onit413 you only speak negative man jus lighten up a bit, no hate here

@@colewalters3491 u just speak so scripted ur a robot trend addict “we never knew we needed” “big facts bro pray hands” ur a corny ball get unique robot

I appreciate this input, it airs out insecurity and disgust without being judgmental. I can agree that bragging about exploits isn’t great for a number of reasons; it’s when people start saying that those with a promiscuous past should be written off altogether, that my soul starts to sting a little.

unfortunately both genders are capable of this. ive had male and female friends who bragged about who they ran thru with no regard to seeing their sex partners as an individual and just another number.

Alpha shit 👌🏽

Girls should be the last thing on mens list

@@dualwield1841 because a dick is at the top of your list huh jk lol

That's fucking cap ass fuck. I be grinding in that gym for football and stuff like that. And not one girl or hot girl approach me trying to fuck. Get that bullshit lie outta here

@@theguy7878 I’m not saying that if you chase goals etc etc that women would be crawling to you instantly. Focus on you and along the way you’ll find them or they’ll find you.

Lmfao you weakling

@@PlatinumHustle that shit wasn't fun bruh thinking about it now with all the bullshxt that comes with lots of women at once. I got homies that happily live like that tho and niggas be married and got GFs

I smashed 3 in one day well it was actually over a 24 hour a period and that was 5 years ago, it was cool tho in a week probably 7 but nowadays I’m happy with just one that I love, love is better than anything I realized it too late tho

@@kingofnara where you pick up those chicks? 3 in a day via daygame or online dating.

@@ifeelhalfnaked484 the More the better so the answer is both

Being raised religious in the current west is really telling of how much we rely on others around us to gauge what is success and what isn't. The culture tells you that multiple women and fucking around is being the "man" but when I look at my Pakistani parents they actively encourage me to wait till marriage and commend me for not giving into the hedonism around us.

@@ablebodied175 man your Pakistan sisters were out getting smashed like nothing else Bhai 😂🤣 I've seen them lies their asses off to their FOB husbands where not 6 months before the wedding they were getting abortions with some trashy guy they were sleeping with

Except money.

@@ViolentMLG you don't need billions to live comfortable and the pursuit to make it will drive you crazy

@@ST19890 I gotta agree on that one, you should make enough money to where you’re comfortable

@@ViolentMLG Not even that. The people who have all that money have people under them that want it and will do anything to get it. Plus people who have the most worry the most about it because 9/10 they don’t have many genuine people in their corner to just love. They’re always gone. Money is what keeps that fake happy flame alive.

@@ViolentMLG that too. Sometimes people become cornballs cuz they got money

That is so true..the contrast between how I feel pre and post nut is glaring! That blows my mind

@@eddiemarin2984 I believe that feeling is what they call LUST. It’s crazy how it happens

Yup

@David Batista Just an idea: Be with someone you love who enjoys sex as much as you do… and do it as much as possible!

@David Batista Mediation and purpose helps with focus- I completely understand. Don’t give up!

Same

Respect 🤟🏾

Exactly. I’m glad you told your friend to grow up. I have told mine to stop crying every time your boyfriend you chased hurts you

What’s his body count

Your future girl will appreciate it SO much too.

Nice profile pic

Everything swings like a pendulum

i was thinking this

I was looking for this comment. The only thing I kept thinking as I watched the video is like how rich people say that being rich isn't going to bring you happiness and deep meaning in your life, but I'd rather be depressed while driving in an expensive car and living in an expensive house than being poor and depressed. Same goes with this. I'd rather have the ability and the opportunity to have sex with a lot of women, but I can't. I don't have the people skills or the physical attractiveness to do it, just like I don't have the skills to become rich.

@@Hooga89 living an average life will make you the happiest, you just need goals, hobbies, and people around you which care about you.

Nah man it's overrated, sex and masturbation and all that shit as a whole is overrated what like all that to feel that nut that lasts literally 4 seconds then instant post nut clarity lmao

Women so foolish that they expose themselves by agreeing with this. They want womanizers and players to think like this like they didn’t do everything already. It holds no merit coming from Adam or the other guy

quality over quantity

Man i was exactly like you at 21. Right now in a 3 yr relationship. Because of that pressure i was swiping on tinder just like dude said. I’ve came across women giving me their snap, app and proceeded to show me nudes unexpectedly, you might think nice but tbh it’s fucking disgusting. Take your almighty time, i wish i still was that “shy” guy smoking my weed, bumping some good music, gaming or watching soccer in my studio with no one else. Don’t get me wrong i appreciate my partner but looking back at the shit i went through for pussy.. NEVER AGAIN. Having tons of pussy comes with a lot of fucking trouble. I’m good.

I was believing you until the last part You sad because you can’t get any You simply lack the confidence work on it it will help you in so many areas of your life

Factsssssss.

@fortheautwint It’s one thing to understand another viewpoint and another to adapt it as if it’s your own. I would say “I see where you’re coming from” And then share my personal thoughts on the matter being as genuine as possible for me.

@fortheautwint thank you.

As usual

That's what happens when you don't have any first principles.

It’s natural

I mean its not anyones place to shame someone for wanting to fuck. Once you start fucking as much you want, you really start to realize how empty it all is and a waste of time & effort.

@@gjjijji some men will stick their D in anything even when women is not even their type , no standard no nothing .

@@kenfern2259 ok and?

@@gjjijji no discipline .

A smart man learns from his mistakes, a wise man learns from other’s mistakes.

Exactly.

Actually men find promiscuity attractive because it's not easy to sleep with every woman. Men enjoy conquest, and how easy is it to place your flag on the moon?

@@eastwaters4082 That still goes into what Lachlan said; you said that men find it attractive because it's not easy to do that. So when men do it, they are pursuing and enjoying their conquest -- satisfying their egos because now they feel validated and sure of themselves.

@@eastwaters4082 it is very easy to sleep with many women

I find promiscuity attractive because I find many women interesting. If I thought most women were undesirable or trashy, I’d probably be much more driven towards monogamy.

Yeah normal content is straight up degeneracy

I knew a guy in the navy that caught his fiance cheating on him at 26 and he is now 40 and has had 300+ partners. He says he gets laid and then drinks himself to sleep on a regular basis, doesnt even remember their names. It was so sad lol

@@branflakee4257 damn, sad thing is some kiddos say that's "based" until they actual become that person themselves

I feel you man, Ive been with hundreds of women and also lack those fundamentals to keep women because I can easily get another one.

Lol damn over a hundred?

Over a hundred is not hard to do. 1 partner a month for 10 years and that's how you easily have a large count. Now remember for women they can do this times 1000.

Wifi with god ohhhshiit Lululuul Also at the same time Theres is no fathomable distance one can be from god God is so close to us It is us So close that there is no distance And beyond even that itself

Wifi with god 😂 that’s some real shit lol

Basically the connection with the higher self or creator

You lost me at that God bs 😒

@@native307 be respectful of other peoples religion please. You can disagree but don’t call it bs no matter how much you think it so.

What interview? Send me the link please. Thanks

@@celticman9474 I believe the Oprah one.

Flight.... 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

If I chick starts acting stupid in my crib I’ll kick her out and if she doesn’t wanna leave I’ll call the cops

True but it really depends on your goals at the end of the day. You have to be secure and satisfied in yourself to share your time and effort with someone else

True, i always valued having a partner that shows the same effort i do, but once I slept with a lot of girls i started to value that even more

❤same

This is true

Not everybody yearns to get married.

@@persistentlydriven9390 yeah I’m 35 my hoe phase is over , don’t do clubs or bars, look fairly young so no prob nabbing a chick ten years younger but …. Yeah man it’s all player out …. Having peace is better than getting pussy

@@persistentlydriven9390 I'm not married.

Mid-30s isn’t old, dude. I would love to settle down with a woman by my 30s but if I’m not, I wouldn’t consider that ending up alone. You have a lot of life to live.

Facts they are god send

He's a hypocrite because he admitted that he slept around in his early years and advocate paying for box. Everyone, eventually will settle down and sleeping around doesn't destroy your soul.

@@kenpachi465 that's not hypocrisy that's growth he did it and found that grass isn't greener on the other side and is saying why.

@@Valentine179 why does he advocate paying for box if grass isn't greener on the other side?

@@kenpachi465 he’s talking about in excess

@@kenpachi465 excess. Learn what that is. You can occasionally pay for box without being gluttonous about it. What he warns against is gluttony because it can ruin you.

Bruh have you no discipline?

@@nadinegomez8858 discipline? Well I won’t say that’s a horrible comment but I am actually extremely disciplined and have told many girls NO ... but I also considered it as a science experiment many times .:. And study their behavior facial expressions many things and simply I was bored and they were 99% cute or I wouldn’t do it ... and it’s simply a debate I had within many times .... rather it’s right or wrong ... I never forced anyone and it was and has been a good experience... I was a athlete many years im very diclplined if I want to be ... and as I said I told many girls no that I would say most men. Would not say no too ... but the fact I have so much free time ... never having a reAl job is a HUGE part of it ... and a man of my nature enjoys his adult entertainment and I’m not one for movies or talking ... so it’s not so easy to answer your question.... it depends on the perspective and angle you look at it but anyone who knows me knows I’m extremely picky with girls and diciplined like a soldier in many aspects of my life ... I have had only 4 REAL GFS ... total of maybe 16 years of relationships ... I’m 41 ... and again I don’t “ talk about things “ I do them anyhow I can only say I’m disciplined if I want to be and definitely ... growing up my dreams were never to be married ... i. Had “ man dreams “ football figgjting gangster stuff .... for the most part I loved them ... it does become a “ empty feeling “ and I do desire to have a 1 good woman ... but she must DESERVE IT AND EARN IT

You got married? Simp

@@PlatinumHustle This ain’t it bro. There’s nothing wrong with that. Specially if you get married through a religion.

@@PlatinumHustle bruh it be the people calling people simps the biggest ones 🤣🤣. Y’all be so gay judging men all day

@UCIOqiYs3He6-mAdgRMOGkeQ shut the fuck up loser u have nothing better to do than call a random across the world a simp. just because u haven't kissed a bitch doesn't mean u can be a dickhead to other guys

@@chorn1k0t lmfaoooo

You said nothing but the truth man. I'm watching this with a confused face like don't I see Adam and his girl bang other girls on their onlyfans everyday lol People in this day and time live double lives nobody really knows who they are anymore on onlyfans he's a pornstar and in front Aba he's a wholesome father and husband Lol yeah OK

True, but its scientifically proven that it effects women psychologically much more compared to men.

@@Fizzy332 that i can 100% agree on but still. Yall men gatta stop bring so damn loose with that snake dangling between yalls leg

It won’t

You’re defining your connection based on what you look like. Biggest red flag of all. You deserve to feel you’re looked at for who you are not your physicality, choose you & leave him for your mental health

@@damnib4722Thank you for taking your time to reply, first of all. I think it's more a mistake on my side rather than his because he doesn't base his love on what I look like. In fact , I did choose to take care of my looks myself and during the relationship way more than before . He tells me everyday that I'm beautiful and that he loves my soul and doesn't care about looks so I'm confident that he's truthful with it. It's just that I'm really insecure myself and the fact that he's had so many experiences with so many beautiful people just hurts me and makes me think I can't satisfy him in the same way. Something tells me I need to be on that level or do better. I think way too much about this and it is really toxic for my mental health and self esteem.. Really I'm just trying to find someone who's going through something similar or maybe get advice on how to deal with these thoughts or get rid of them..

@@Vs-ci8sx Leave him and find some guy who has respect for himself. A guy who had that lifestyle in the past will never recover and be there for you as he should, at least in his mind. Its pathetic how you can still be with a guy like him. There are a lot of good guys better than him outside. He doesnt like you, he just says what is better for him to say.

@@goncalomendes1512 Hi I appreciate you replying and sharing your thoughts but then why would he be with me in the first place ? I don't get it ..

@@Vs-ci8sx After a while you get tired and simply want to settle down, but if the person had that lifestyle it is very very hard to change, and to be honest the ones I know like that, when they stop and get in a real relationship with a woman, end up doing it due to some particular reason such as: -the woman being toxic just like them, with a past that makes them not trustworthy at all and they cant support having a good non-toxic relationship; - The woman making the guy somehow forget someone who hurted their feelings, which won`t happen 100%, creating latter problems; - The guy spent a lot of time f"ckng different woman and it destroyed his mind, and now he has the need to feel love and true affection to fulfill the void in his mind but it hardly lasts as it should, at least in a healthy way.

And not red pill.

kind of sleeping with many girls until find a legit ones lol, trust me the girl who likes you so much will stick to you till the end

@@ifeelhalfnaked484 100% facts. Soon as my fiancée came along, my entire outlook changed. 1 good woman is worth more than a million thots.

Lol you're amazed? Don't you screen before hookups?

@@Iamhimbutyouarenot don’t get married bro, even if she seems like a woman being married to, still don’t do it A man getting married is like handing over his nuts to a woman and she can crush them anytime she wants for the rest of your life, don’t get married

@@realtruth1448 Nah, depends on the country