Abraham Hicks 💓 How to increase self-confidence 

I used to think this way. What I found is that it’s more about how you feel. Not about what you’re thinking. On a day to day basis, What’s your overall mood? Only you know by how you feel. It’s like, people say they want more money but they don’t attract it. It’s not the words, it’s the emotion. So if you say you want money but don’t feel you have enough, the not enough becomes dominant. Also, Sometimes you need to go through something uncomfortable to find a better situation. Maybe you can start your own home based business. There are many options and you’re limiting yourself through your one place of employment. I hope that helps. Be well Robert.

@@NickHazletonMusic - Exactly. It's not so much the words as it is the vibration. Are you guys familiar with the law of assumption? Also, when you feel like you're always 'getting the same' (same challenges, same situations etc...) - maybe it's the Universe's way of teaching you. There's perhaps something you keep doing over and over again, resulting in circumstances you're unhappy with. So maybe it's about changing your approach/actions/reaction in order to achieve different results 💛

I agree with what the others said and I would just like to add that maybe there is someone or something that will help you go further than you could without the information or person you are attracting. Keep at it and it will work out, I’m talking to myself as well!!

I think sometimes our underlying thoughts that mess it up are in our subconscious. Also, bad things happen in order to move us on to better things.

Read Ask and It Is Given, there are plenty of processes there

Since everyone is on a different journey and wants things for different reasons there isn’t just a single one size fits all step by step instruction. You have to find it , ask the universe (source) for guidance and make our own path. Following steps someone else came up with would be following their path not yours . what steps might work for you may not work for others because even though both may want same thing again.