"There comes a time.. when you REVEL in your willingness to experience that loss. Because in that LOSS, there is the creation of a GAIN that when you rendezvous with it, will be BETTER THAN ANYTHING YOU THOUGHT YOU HAD before you lost what you thought you lost" Releasing the attachment to what you think you can't be without is the key. If you're someone who finds it really difficult to let go and detach, it might be because have an 'Anxious Attachment Style' which stems from a deeper subconscious fear of abandonment. If you want to find out more about attachment styles you can take the quiz -> bit.ly/love_bonding_quiz
omg, this was so perfect! I always hated the notion of having to distract myself from the thing that bothered me. Of course going general is the permanent solution! Thank you for this!
@@ms.dentist It means that you are stepping away from the subject a bit and that you are looking at it from more of a distance. For example, if you're impatiently waiting for your crush to text you and you're really focused on how he is not texting you you could go more general by thinking things such as: "He'll probably write eventually.", "I can do other things right now.", "He's probably just busy." etc. It is quite hard to wrap your mind around that at first but if you continue to listen to Abraham more you will get a better sense of what it means. You can also check out the Abeforum (google "abeforum going general", for example) - it has some really amazing and helpful posts around everything that Abraham say. I hope that was helpful - lots of love! ❤️
I think she's talking about looking at a lost/gained relationship as an experience you have now, as well as one that you decided to have. There's both agency and value in that. Looking back at a "loss" is often about the person, as well as your experience being with them - the "specific". And I think she's claiming that going general relates more to how we make sense of a lost/gained relationship with respect to ourselves and the clearer sense of direction we can get from that about the "love" that we are, express, and seek to connect with. Loss or no, we are always connecting with ourselves, learning and growing/becoming through this more "general" view.
I really like some of the hateful things that happened to me that make me experience the value of love and with these things that I don't like I parlay what I do want into more heights what I do like into more heights and because I'm so clear of who I'm and how im supposed to feel
I am understanding now the importance of going general and building the emotional grid, I feel so releaved when I am in a unfavourable situation and use the going general method
I think she's talking about looking at a lost/gained relationship as an experience you have now, as well as one that you decided to have. There's both agency and value in that. Looking back at a "loss" is often about the person, as well as your experience being with them - the "specific". And I think she's claiming that going general relates more to how we make sense of a lost/gained relationship with respect to ourselves and the clearer sense of direction we can get from that about the "love" that we are, express, and seek to connect with. Loss or no, we are always connecting with ourselves, learning and growing/becoming through this more "general" view.
Make general feel good affirmations to yourself....all is well, everything is working out, I know this too shall pass. Affirmations on the stream of wellbeing, love, gratitude etc..
I started watching the abraham hicks video and i like the teaching but it bugs me that she always interrupts the people and dosent give them the opportunity to speak.
Well the reason is abraham wants to take charge of the frequency in the atmosphere and the conversation. So sometimes she will do that, and as a teacher is right to do that.
@@priyamvadam4928yup, I noticed she did that when I first started listening but it’s mostly to get the people back on track and not to sink back into the negativity that they have started down, she’s just saying “no come back this way” and I learned it’s nothing personal, it’s just a gentle nudge, like “hey don’t go back that way, come this way”
I get sooo many signs, messages and synchronicities about this man since we connected as he has been in a guilt-induced but apparently self-deserving relationship of toxicity but always says he is not happy there. It continues to happen to me... signs, messages and synchronicities... we have so much in common, cut from the same cloth, we are like home to each other but he needs to trust that he deserves my unconditional love. How to proceed??? Even my beloved son says move forward with him. The birds even come to my open window with energy that directs me to him. Is he my purpose??? 18 months, I have waited. He has a fear of vulnerability. How to proceed???
@@cecilesuperfree1042 Thank you so much for your compassion and wishfulness for my healing. I must remember what Abraham-Hicks said about Jerry. Esther connects with him strongly when she aligns with his pure energy as he is now not how he was when he was in his Earthly form. She must be joyful and stay positive. My son wants me to thrive and also to be in a nurturing relationship. So, to work towards joyful living honors him and me. I do have my meltdowns, here and there, but I really do feel my son and channel him. My son is in my life. A strong presence. It is true as Esther says! Amazing! It's a new reality and requires mindfulness. I send you many light-filled blessings, Sweet Soul. Thank you, again. 🙋💖🕊🕊🕊
What does she mean "go general"? How do you go general? For example when you want someone to write you but don't want to be thinking about that all the time or don't want to be expecting... How would you "go general"?
You 'go general' by removing your focus on what you're struggling with onto something in your life that feels good. For example if your relationship is what has you stuck you turn your thought and attention from that to something in your life that you feel good about. Maybe it's your relationship with your friend. Your kids, perhaps you love your job, is there a hobby that you love doing. ANYTHING that makes you feel good when you think about it. If nothing comes to mind go as general as how much you love your dog or cat. The home you live in that you love. The fantastic meal you ate in a restaurant last week. You are looking to up your vibration and to do that you must take your focus from what you're struggling with. It might look like this... 'I love spending time with my kids,now they're older we have a real connection. I can talk to them. We laugh, we share ideas. I love thinking of all the fantastic memories that we've created etc etc. Hope that helps.... Try it. As with all things it gets easier with practise and as you focus on one good thought another will come to join it and another and another. Before you know it the thing that you were struggling with just doesn't seem at all important. Let how YOU feel be the most important thing to you.
