Abstinence; let's talk about it | The Unpopular Opinion 

This was well executed ladies. I was abstaining before marriage. My reasons were faith based 🙏 and they were further reinforced by the fact that most of the girls who were sexually active went through depression or very low moments when the relationships ended. I think if we are to speak in generalities, women tend to have sex hoping for commitment and exclusivity. And yet a man is capable of sleeping with a girl just for a release. The 2 genders attach different value to sex( generally speaking.)Claire said it well. Make your independent decisions but if I were to advise a girl out there, delay sex as much as you can so that by the time you have it, you are old enough to deal with the consequences that come with it. Allow yourself to be a child, to have an innocent childhood. There is plenty of time to be an adult. Being a child with adulthood problems leaves you with scars.

It's the hair for me❤️ Y'all have great hair Sending love from the +254🇰🇪

Love the diversity in this trio. Married, cohabiting, single. I think almost 90% people can relate to at least one of you! Kudos ladies. Love and light. 🤎

Here after Murugi Munyi landed in UG! The Kenyan fam is here to stay ♥️ New subscriber ⭐✨love and light✨

If you are single, abstinence is power!

Everyone's hair looks beautiful 🔥

I feel Fiona when she says people claim she ain't real ...I mean!! It's her life. Everytime someone principled does or says anything, pple call it kajanja and kwekoza🙄🙄

15:44 I think people generally feel intimidated or judged when they are around people who are not like them in terms of choices say, drinking vs non drinkers. Sexually active vs abstinence etc. Whichever choice you make, own it. Live it loud and proud and that way, you will be able to co exist with every one without judging them or feeling judged.

Our generation really fumbled through puberty and adolescence. Very strong points ladies! It would also help if virginity (especially for girls) is no longer perceived as something to "lose". When you phrase it as "my first sexual encounter" instead of "when I lost my virginity", it takes away the shame and expectation that you shouldn't enjoy it.

Murugi Munyi sent me here, Kenya's in the house Hii ❤

Claire I loved your look from hair,lipstick and the color of the dress.Today just appreciating these great minds. Thank you darlings!😍👌

I love how y’all speak! ❤️ I appreciate that you speak from the heart plus you are making my weekend! 💥

I love that you all finally share the real stories and it helps so many of us not feel alone in these streets lol 😂. On a serious note I feel sex doesn’t make you lose your value as a woman and when we are brave enough to have it, we shouldn’t call it falling short. In the end we’re human and strength isn’t measured by how many people you never slept with or finally slept with. We mustn't make virginity and purity the source of strength or confidence. I’m learning this each day..

i really love the fact that am 19 but am just aiming on this like it's part of kind of guidance to the way am moving on and emphasis my real me and desires and being decisful

I came across this channel while scrolling my phone, I love the topics you ladies are discussing we need this.

The way Puusi critically looks as someone explains 😂😂😂

I love the authenticity in this conversation. I'm rooting for y'all all the way 💓.

I love love Prim's realism.

The conversation is so real ,I like your choices of words.I mean the whole talk show is amazing.Keep up.

Thanx ladies for sharing d different views ranging from Single, cohabiting and married…..meaning everyone has gotten an answer. Inspired

Wawu you gals are looking so beautiful , it's the new looks for both of u for me 😍 I just love how prim explains everything so real , I have really liked today's topic so much , am abstaining tho not easy 🏃 so I have even learned more dt I didn't know about abstaining , thanks ladies.

I am super addicted to this program. These ladies make my dayyyyyyyys✋❤️always refreshing listening to them.💗

"When i consent i dont feel like you used me" prim nyonyozi put it on a tee🔥🔥

You guys look great🧡🧡🧡the hair ,the accent ,am jus in love with everythg And thx for discussing this topic🤗

Eish! This is so wonderful for me and for the rest of learning real matters that apply in all every days of life...I really like you GUYS... so muuuchhhh... i will be always staking on this UNPOPULAR OPINION'S podcasting! Be always blessed!

Wow....you guys indeed have unpopular options about life. Thank you for all the knowledge and time invested. Much love ❤

Prim!! Priiiiiimmmm!!! I'm here for Prim!! You're so honest girl!Good job ladies! I'm here to stay. Sending you love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

I love the way you ladies are factual it's actually the right way of life than someone else who bits around the bush😊

Guys keep up the good work just subscribed to your channel, and I'm loving every minute of it.

Claire glows more everyday, girl you’re doing the work and it’s paying off

Loved this! As Africans we totally need to have this conversations...especially as young women...New subbie

For sure abstainance is Wonderful, best thing that has ever happened to me and it's faith based, ebya feelings nga bakukyaaye tebikuluma nyo.only challenge is judgement yoooooooooo! But thanks for these.

I love the vulnerability, it is a double edged sword, to share or not to share. Like they say, to each their own

I love u guys u all speak truth wow been looking for u now that I have watched u guys I can’t stop

Ladieeeessssss... your hair is on point. Y'all look dope!

Love the realness,relatable topics.....much love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪❤❤❤🥰🥰you are all awesome

I love you guys.so far you are best in Ug speaking respectfully

Thank you ladies, your doing agreat work.

Abstinence in Uganda is a trip... My experience having been in Uganda for 8 months now is truly book worthy. God bless all of you guys partaking in the Abstinence struggle.

This conversation was awesome. I love the realness. Prim you gave awesome real sister-sister advice. Love you for that. Everyone gave great advice. Claire I’m in the same boat as you. I’m open talking about sex but my husband is more conservative. So I have to be mindful and also speak with him about what his boundaries are with me talking about certain aspects of it. But it was known before our marriage that I did not want to sugarcoat the topic with outsiders who may be looking for advice

I think people feel validated when they have similar experiences with their peers. So when they are not the same/you don't relate, there's a natural thing to compare yourself and subsequently jugde yourself or the other person for being different

Question to Fiona: You took the step when you were ready. How did you reconcile that with your beliefs/faith (assuming they had not changed at the time).

This is powerful . Thanks Girls♥️

Real ,Raw and Saying it ALL

😂😂😂😂🤣😂nahhh this episode was too funny “let’s go and lose them this weekend”. That one sent me

I love these open conversations about sex, bring some more. I talk candidly about sex and think people should have these exchanges more often even as couples. Sex is such a personal but also spiritual thing in my opinion. We receive and give it differently as individuals. But no amount of preparation gets you 'ready' for that first one because it's so different for everyone. My 2 cents to any virgin would be, just make sure that you actually really want to do it at that point and there is no external influence, the rest you won't know until it's done.

Love the trio, the insight is good.

Btw am a single mom and abstaining. My son will be 10 in October and i chose to abstain from sex since then!

Prim on counting toes and fingers 🤣. Kindazi is my spirit animal

I like how you guys are so real

First of all, your afros are popping. You look amazing 😍

Kemi , your hair looks amazing. Wow.

Awesome work ladies 👏🏾👏🏾

Just got home from the amazing live show to relax in bed on this episode😅😅 Thank you guys❤️

Thank you guys for this

Interesting episode..here for it

this trio is so real

The numbers are numbering and I love it for you ladies.

Great Show ladies, interactive & informative, good show.

Just saw your feed today...i love the show..its like am seeing my sisters chat.Fiona raising the single flag...wuuup wuup..claire you are my sister... Prim you are my alter Ego...

Thank you Claire 🤗🤗🤗

ALL YOUR HAIRS LOOK AMAZING!!!!!!! : D

Actually am prim😂😂 being so open and i never get ashamed about it, but all in all i love you all gorgeous ladies 🌹❤️

People judge no matter what decision you choose to make. It is honestly exhausting and unnecessary to say the least.

I love your hair ladies 😊 y'all look beautiful

My dear your right if ur abstaining u need to get some one on the same path those of al trying me personally almost lost anstaining bcse of let me try n its difficult wen uve gone for some good time love has grown soooo if some one aint commited u loose

I really like you guys what I go through is what you talk about Thank you 🙏

First one here….I have been waiting for this one😆😆❤️

Love the episode! I'd love to know your take on abstinence that comes on later on into a relationship that wasn't initially abstinent. Also, hair goals.

It's been 9 months of waiting until marriage because of my faith and am loving it ! I honestly can't say it's been hard because am very intentional and cautious about my decision.

You guys speak my mind a million times. How I love you😍😍😍

Still at work but when i reach home and i give this video time i will know why nyonyozi is giving that look🤣🤣🤣🤣this girl is so funny 🤣

Real is hard to come across , and you guys are so real, Carry on

Ladies you look awesomeeeee...Claire that lipstick looks amazzzzinggg on you..👍 The topic is very much needed. Thanks ladies. It's always beautiful to watch these conversations...

🇿🇼 Loving the content.

A few of these comments mention being "principled". Principles are an "each to their own" type of thing. If ones principles stand elsewhere than yours... then they're principled in that regard. I feel it's important for people to understand that

Also just saying, could you please do a vlog on why men should have as many contraception options as women

Like ur program, thanks for ur information

It’s the new hair styles for me😍

I'm obsessed with you guys, you are the big sisters I never had, naye banange, Ugandan men can make you feel like giving them sex is an obligation, and think that abstinence is pretence. I love you guys, your talks and advise are doing a great deal in my life.

Fiona….my fav person. I’m motivated to keep going by you. Kudos 🤗

Gorgeous Ladies in the country, the future is already blooming❤️❤️

Mbu banyankore men hahaha😆 its actually that video that landed me on this channel and i had to watch all of your videos

Not Prim counting toes and fingers to 50 guys 🤣😂🤣. But y'all looking amazing and I love y'all hair 👌

This is a reality inside talk the society misses and elders avoid with their young ones

Prim, that is a nice hairstyle. Different and nice. 6:12. Y'all are looking hot 🔥 😍 That was an hell of a hilarious story. What a pact 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

😘😘😘 love the conversation

The day I watched one of your videos on this channel, I subscribed immediately. I rili do love it here. I love you gals.😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰

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All experiences are part of our journey. I am thankful for all the fun 🤩 moments and will still have them 😂😂😂

Shame stems from where we were raised. Home, faith backgrounds and now society takes its entrance. Now women we control sex and for whatever decision you have made its okay we are human and learn to ne wiser while deciding

Prim, my name is Prim and I would so love to be your friend for your boldness confidence and openness. You donot mince words!!! Ladies, Kemi and Clare i love you just as much. Great content

19:59 I think what those people are saying is they don't do hookups, one night stands and the like. They prefer to have sex with someone they are in a relationship with. So yes, there are levels to abstinence 😂. Fiona is at the level of I will abstain till marriage. Another person will abstain till they have known someone for atleast 3 months, 6months, name it.

Fiona🥰..... Am Fiona too but for some reason I relate to your opinions always. The decision to abstain or not is a personal choice especially for adults. The person to consult is surely your God Netflix and surprise 🤣🤣🤣

Besides this nice conversation, all of you looked BEAUTIFUL! I love to see it😊

Here to remind you…. Y’all are stunning 🥳👯‍♀️

The hair is hairing you all..looking gorjus😍 Thanks alot for the talk. Love from Rwanda🇷🇼

Kemi you remind me of my friend I lost but liked😃but I feel like your such a nice person

I am encouraged to bring back the word abstaining, been saying am celibate & this just make the guys want to know how far they can go & yes to sound fancy🙈. 23 year old virgin. Thank you for this video.

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