Addison Tells Amelia to Stop the Spiral - Grey's Anatomy 

Only Addison could've had this conversation with her. No one else shares as deep a history with Amelia. Perfectly done.

addie constantly saying "and" and emphasizing it is actually huge that's a way to talk taught in trauma therapy to validate the person's feelings while also giving stern advice just like addie did I loved seeing that

I was cheering for Addison because this conversation is SO important for her to hear. Addison said "I love you AND" When all Amelia has been hearing lately is "I love you, BUT" Big fan of big sister Addison

Thanks you Addison. Finally, someone to give Amelia some tough love, and tell her that she wasn't abandoned.

It takes a good friend to call you out

I deeply appreciate Addison's use of "and" here, because as someone who deeply relates so Amelia and spiraling, sometimes you need that. People using "but" never helps. "I love you, and..." is so much more helpful than "I love you, but.."

Without over explaining we can tell how well Addison knows Amelia and it’s why Amelia was so quiet in this scene. When she saw Amelia yelling at Yasuda she saw the same person who was yelling “what do we want drugs when do we want them now” in that intervention returning. Meredith and Maggie are good sisters but they can’t have a conversation like this with Amelia because they don’t understand her past the way Addison does. Arguably I don’t even think Derek can

i’m glad Addie is there for her right when Amelia needs her most 🥹

I think Addison/Amelia’s relationship is such beautiful proof that family is not blood, family is simply the people who love and accept you unconditionally. And if you think about it, Addison is the only person in Amelia’s life who genuinely does that and always has.

I can't thank you enough for bringing Addison back ❤

I really loved this scene. Addison is trying to create a safe place for Amy in order for her to understand that she is drowning. And she has to ask for help. And of course, to stay sober. No one abandoned her, she still has people to love her, to support her. Yeah, each one of us is trying to survive. That doesn't mean we don't love our people. I love you Amelia ♡

Bring Addison back as a series regular !!

Dear lord, just give her a hug!

You gotta stop before is too late, amelia! You have to listen. Love addison being around ❤❤

Anyone who watched Private Practice knows what Addison went through when she rebound

I LOVE how Addison finally said something unlike everyone else who was just letting Amelia walk all over them, even Richard saw how she was going off on Yasuda and didn't say anything. I know Amelia was feeling abandoned, but that doesn't give her the right treat everyone else shitty.

I love Addison. I’m glad she is here

She spitting facts. Amelia needed to hear it! I hope Amelia gets better 🥺

This has to be the best scene of this season.

I love Amelia, but she can be so selfish sometimes. I love that Addie gave her a coming to Jesus meeting.

I loved that speech AND I think that Addison should have ended it with offering Amelia a hug. She's in a low place right now and can't regulate on her own, so she needs close relationships and touch, to help her co-regulate. It's the simple science of the nervous system 🙃 Words alone are not enough.

I love Addison. Thank you for coming back. Amelia needed this conversation, I was worried for her, and I hope she listens to Addi.

Damn, she was really spiraling. Poor Amelia. I’m glad that Addison intervened with love, because it she was really getting on my nerves, and I understood her reasons, lol. But still… Lol! She needed to be stopped!

Everytime she emphasizes “AND” my heart just pulls. LOVE LOVE LOVE this scene. IYKYK ❤

Yhup, only Addison or Charlette could have this conversation with her TBH

Last night I wrote down every single word Addison said in this conversation ,before I saw this was posted here because it was so what Amelia needed to hear in a way she could hear it without putting it in the thats is what people say just before they abandon me. Addison , thank. you so much , I may need to borrow this speech some time - for my Amelia moments and some of the Amelias in my life that I love,.sometimes people can't hear it but what I liked is there are sometimes I need to say it anyway to protect myself. Just loved it . thanks to those that explained why the AND was put in.

Poor Amelia! Wonderful Addison, I hope she stays and becomes one of the main characters.

Derek would be proud.

I don't know why but at first I was angry with Addie for what she said but she sounds damn right. Amelia needed to hear those words although I really symphatize with her.

I wish we would have seen Addison helping Meredith after Derek’s passing

Addie serving facts 👏

Such a great, well scripted scene. Wow

This was awesome!

Addison repeating I love you AND… such good writing

Sure she could have hugged her but addiction affects both sides, family too. This is hard for her too. Honest but made sure to tell her "I love you AND..." as the end of the convo. I really get why Amelia feels abandoned though, I would too 😢. Addie should stay with her a bit and then gradually wean her to being all on her own. Meredith and Maggie just left at the same time just like that, poor Amy.

Amelia is not alone, as Addison will always be there for her and Meredith will return at some point. What per What a strong character Amelia Shepherd is and a great character. It still has a lot to show and I love to see it. Long live the queen of neurosurgery. ❤

Addison repeating 'I love you!' to Amelia, was ❤ and necessary, given her history.

Thank you Addison

I swear to God, this is why I absolutely adore Addison Montgomery!!

Not everything is about her but this is her life. 2 sisters and a significant other fell in love with ALL left. She doesn't have stability. She doesn't have a rock. She is alone. What she needs to figure out is how she will add stability or purpose back into her life.

Best sisters

What's the ep?

Season and episode please

Amalia and Adisson are the best and they understand each other so well because they belong to the same famille : the Shepherd ❤

This gave me private practice vibes

"I love you and" instead of "I love you but" showing her love isn't conditional

I love Amelias "broken" side! It shows so much power! Sometimes I wish, I would be a little like her! Not the Addiction Part, but being more poweful after overcoming a struggle!

Wow. Addison. Is. Trying. To. Hep. Amelia. Stopped. Drinking. Berfore. It too. Late. For. Get it good. Addison is. There. For. Amelia

Wa episode is this from the uk

I love doctor Amelia Shepherd and Addison Montgomery

Wow

What episode is this

Good job Addison 👏

Espero ver mais de Addison em ação com Amélia/Carina/Miranda e Jô..... 😍❤️😍❤️😍

Quem teve a oportunidade de assistir Private Practice acompanhou essa amizade em vários momentos entre elas.....foi uma pena seu término......família...é o que elas são!!!!❤😍❤️😍❤️😍❤️😍

I so badly want to send this to my Ameilia and let her know I will always by her Addison 💜💜💜

Além de linda, a atriz que faz a Alisom é ótima atriz, aliás ela não é linda, ela é belíssima!, e a que faz a neuro cirurgia, a Emília é ótima também! ❤😉😘👏🏻👏🏻🇧🇷

Episode?

😢

Who was the first on the show to say I love you AND? Was it Bailey? I don't remember but I'm pretty sure this is not the first time someone says this!

Me alegra que Alisson este ahí para Amelia, ella necesita a alguien que la jale y la devuelva a la realidad motivando la y ese alguien es Alison .

THIS IS WHAT TRUE FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE LOOKS LIKE. COMMUNICATE

I didnt watch the episode. Why does Addison talk about " the world on fire " or " the worl is already broken" whats happening in this episode ? Thanks

She’s definitely self absorbed right now

I hope Amelia grows and learns from this. Amelia treated Yasuda poorly. Out of line. Amelia should know better

Addison is much more chatty than Meredith, but she has the same careness like Mer to Amelia, regardless what they have been through in LA.

❤

Amelia makes everything about herself and she needs to chill and stop coming off so needy all the time. Stop blaming other people for people in life moving on to new opportunities. No one forced Kai and Maggie to move.

Amelia needs some tough love, and some therapy and self reflection.

July 27

Amelia clearly needs therapy more so then anyone else in the group but the writers just expect her to deal with it and lash out on interns who just doing their jobs

WE NEED MEREDITH. She's hot and she's the show's namesake.

"You gotta get off the damn ride before it's too late" Resilient Amelia will grow, make amends, stop the spiral... and prove that actually the carousel CAN stop turning. You can pull the lever and make it stop. You can jump off while it's still spinning. Or you can stay on, stay stuck in a cycle... But either ya got choices. It's not too late

Amelia always screws it up... I mean she had this beautiful life ahead with her baby but she always has to abandon good things and move on towards destruction

Literally this character l and shos is how I got my name

Only private practice viewers understand this ‼️ Well done Addison 😭

does Addison know about Amelia's brain tumour?

Does anyone notice you never see Addison's husband or kid in this season? If you have seen Private Practice, you'll know Addison got married and adopted a baby.

Amelia needs to grows up and act like an adult. Get over it.

As nice as this speech might be meaned: This won't help. Amelia isn't this way because she wants to be this way! If you are, everything you want, everything you wish for, is to be like every other "normal" person. To not feel the pain of not being that 'good', anymore. No one who doesn't fight these demons him or herself will ever gets it. How it feels when you struggle and can't cope anymore and the painful, extremely hard and unfair knowledge that ONCE AGAIN you will have to be the one who needs to step up for yourself, AGAIN, and try to get your head above water. Because there are people who had nice happy homes and people who care about them, who teached them how to cope with tragedy in a healthy way, who are having great support systems of friends and professionals... And then there are those who don't. Who don't be that lucky, no matter how hard they try, how hard they fight, how hard they paddle to stay above the surface- every time. No one should judge Amelia who's not been in her shoes. Here are no words of comfort, no reassurance, no "I will stand with you. I'll help you find someone who will help you." Like Alex was there for Jo. So - thanks for nothing.

Amelia loves to be a victim

Is Amelia drinking or what is this about?

Honestly, I stopped watching grey’s anatomy when Amelia and Link broke up. To me she is the worst character and I got tired of her none sense. I got tired of her hurting other people and I just disliked her character. If she ever leaves the show, I may watch it again . Nah, I’m lying, I won’t.

End this show. Its way past time.