Hm, Elliot said he hates her, because she was involved in every part of his friendship with Kelly. And I had this friends too and can understand Elliot that its absolut destroying friendships when you are suddenly the third wheel in your friendship. It changes dynamics and friendships rapidly.
not elliot saying Ashley doesn’t deserve any equity in the house…i genuinely feel like the house wouldn’t have gone nearly as far without her. literally only watched the other roommates for her…..love herrrrr she deserves the world and nothing less♥️y’all owe HER her flowers
“Without Ashley really pushing forward and being enthusiastic about it, it wouldn’t have happened” quote on quote what Elliot said in their very first podcast. And yet he doesn’t believe she deserves equity. And I’ve only watched the other roommates because of Ashley 😐😵💫 this has been extremely disappointing.
True. I started watching everyone because Ashley joined them and I have been a supporter for a long time. It just hurts that she was used like this. She is one of the most genuine creators I've watched along with her family members and also Isa Sung 🥺
Ashley is an amazing person I feel so sad that she got the short end of the stick. Out of all of the housemates I love Ashley the most and her and Kelly's relationship didn't destroy Ur mom's house.
ever since i watched this video i kept thinking about THAT part of the pod episode. everyone was vital to this house, but can we please not act like the name is literally UR MOMS house like ://///
Ashley was the reason why I knew who any of you guys were, and I know that goes for a lot of people too. For him to say she doesn’t deserve equity is embarrassing because just like everyone she put in effort on the house and probably even more.
@@ad8775 Luke’s been friends with Kelly for a longer time if you watched Kelly’s vids they’ve known each other since they were teens. Kelly even mentions in this video how he’s known Luke for 8 years. And there’s so much more than being left for a girl if we watch this video, but hey, we’re just sharing our thoughts here based on what they are telling us but we really don’t know what 100% happened. 😊 so respect for everyone 😊
@@ad8775 he’s called Luke his best friend multiple times as well on his other videos :) seems like he’s a lot of best friends. I wish I was as outgoing. 😅
This whole situation really made me understand why as a kid I’ve always heard these 2 rules 1. Never start a business with friends and family 2. Never move in with your best friend This just proves that if you do any of these two things then you risk losing your relationship with your friend *remember that this is a general statement and obviously doesn’t apply to all friend groups, every friend group is different
i agree with the first one but YOU ALWAYS MOVE IN WITH YOUR BESTFRIEND (if youre a guy, i dont know how it is to be a girlbest fren so cant say about that)
Another thing I’d like to just say, if it weren’t for Ashley there would not be as many viewers as your moms house would’ve had. I only watched this content for her, as I’ve been following her for YEARS and it’s really really gross that he would try to just cut her out like that when she is such a core member. Like I don’t understand why he acted out like that (talking behind peoples back) very childish and disappointing.
@@annaquino3320 wow ur right I forgot she paid the most rent, and brought all of her furniture over to share with everyone. But she didn’t deserve equity?? Like the nerve. Ur moms house wouldn’t have happened without her fr.
he tried to convince her boyfriend (!) to basically exploit her. it sounds like short term thinking and egoistic or resentful behaviour. i wouldn‘t consider it as a smart business move
coming from a braille days kelly viewer and discovering the other roommates, i can say for me ashley definitely carried the content house through most of their time together. either through her solo vids or her appearances in group/duo vids. to say she deserves no equity is mind boggling. her brand was the biggest.
@wlndbeach in this video they mentioned someone else told them the equity situation and then they talked to elliott about it. its not just the three of them that know the equity situation someone else out there knows about this. if you want to believe its a he said/she said situation full of lies go for it. i find it crazier to think they would make this video without receipts but im not the one asking for receipts.
kashley didn’t break ur moms house up. what broke it was the dishonesty amongst so called friends. now that ashley has mentioned already being honest with them about her and kelly before signing the lease puts so much in to perspective. ashley even said she could’ve moved in on her own had they mentioned feeling uncomfortable. i feel sorry for ashley first of all because it just feels like she’s just been used and put in the dark the whole time just to get the most hate out of this. y’all are quick to judge and it makes me so mad for ashley especially to have been painted as the bad guy.
I agree now that we know the real full story, Kelly and Ashely don't deserve hate but of course people are going to speculate and make assumptions based on what they know when they aren't being told the full truth about the start up of the house and everything that went on. Kelly and Ashely painted this whole narrative that their relationship began to develop shortly after living together in the house when in reality they had been talking and thinking about dating before. This mislead fans to think no one in the house was prepared for their relationship and just had to adjust to that change when in reality everyone knew the deal and was ok with taking the risk of them dating. Kellys initial video of "leaving ur moms house" was extremely misleading bc fans were again left in the dark and had no idea the timeline and series of events that lead up to the ending of the house. All Kelly said was he viewed Elliots video (where he never mentioned Kelly or Ashely once) as an attack which again, was VERY CONFUSING and made no sense why he was taking the video personally and creating drama out of what appeared to be a simple video of Elliot explaining his struggles and why he was moving on. Bottom Line: Kelly and especially Ashely are both people who don't like to address sticky situations with their viewers which makes sense for somethings but not for something as big as this. And if you're not gonna be upfront how can you not expect backlash in these circumstances. If they hadn't gotten hate they'd feel no need to be transparent about the whole thing and none of us would have gotten the full story. Glad they cleared it up.
Tbh once Kelly and Ashley started dating you could tell the house wasn't going to work out cause it's hard to do group content when 2 people in the group will almost always agree with each other also you don't date your coworkers cause that never ends well, especially when you also live with your coworkers.
My heart goes out to Ashley the most. She exudes to be a very kind and beautiful person (inside and out) and was undeserving of the prejudice she received. I hope you all overcome this shortcoming, learn to understand each other and develop an unbreakable friendship again.
I feel like this is a common “in your 20s” friendship problem. Some friends expect much more from a friendship than the other person simply because they are two very different people. The person who expects more (usually a routine and scheduled person) starts to resent the person who doesn’t need as much from the friendship (usually the more casual person who plans things on the fly). What they expect from a friendship just doesn’t line up.
Agreed they're in the age group where friendships are challenged bc everyone's lives are going differently & I believe it didn't matter that Ashley is here currently, even if Kelly had a different gf, Elliott would not like her. . . Like imagine Ashley never living in the house, the end result would still be the same. Elliot would inevitably hate the gf
The only reason why I even watched your mom’s house in the first place was BECAUSE of Ashley so to hear Elliot tell others that she didn’t deserve equity in the LLC is beyond belief. If anything she was the one that brought in the most viewers, she deserves the equity rightfully so. It also seems like Elliot can’t seem to put his friends & work separately, the line between friendships & business/ work partners became blurred. Like he didn’t know his boundaries & expected everyone to drop everything for him.
Ashley came into the house with the largest platform. To say she doesn’t deserve equal share is insane. I had never heard of anyone else involved in the house before she posted her first video with them in it. They benefited from her and it suck’s she’s having to deal with this when she didn’t need the house for exposure to begin with. I’m glad Kelly is protective and supportive of her.
i appreciated this so much just to clear up confusion. I’ve supported Ashley for so long and so to see her get so much hate for something that she didn’t mean to cause made me so upset. im glad that the air has been cleared at least from your side. I think the hard part is people always say moving in with your best friends is hard and not a good idea but for content I think it varies. Also, I think these things with Elliot stem from trauma and family issues and they were projected towards you.
Okay I just got to the LLC part and first that’s so disrespectful in terms of you & Anne Marie being involved as well as you basically came into the house w such a large fan base you carried part of the popularity.
@@nathanngyn she doesn't know for sure, that's why she said "I think".... but honestly, I feel the same. in his episode of the podcast he mentioned not having a good relationship with his family, and you can clearly see that his family values are completely different from Kelly and Ashley's
Omg yes. I was just thinking the same thing. I went through a very similar situation a long time ago & I couldn’t handle the pressure if I knew millions of people were watching the whole thing…
I'm normally a quiet watcher but just wanted to say thank you so much Kelly and Ashley for sharing your side of the story and giving viewers clarity when you didn't have to. It saves a lot of people from making inaccurate assumptions which can cause hate too which none of you deserve. It really gives a lot of perspective when Ashley mentioned her and kelly being a thing before the house and it was such a commendable thing to clarify before the lease. I'm sure there were moments where everyone made mistakes but I hope Elliot reaches out to you guys again to understand the hurt he himself caused while he was hurting also. Such a sad ending to your mom's house but I hope your next chapters are much more positive. Lots of love all the way from New Zealand
I swear Ashley is the kindest soul ever. Even after all the shit Eliot said about her she is still being so understanding and sorry for him. It just goes to show how caring and understanding Ashley is.
i feel sick to my stomach watching ashley continuously empathize with elliot after he fully undermined her as a woman and a girlfriend, woman have always had to take more hurt and get less reward and just to see her continue to support him and speak about how she understands his point of view hurts because it seems elliot never did and would never do that for her. the amount of hate i've seen for ashley has been unparalleled compared to the other members and i just know she's incredibly strong but she shouldn't have to be and thats the bottom line
She’s such a sweetheart she didn’t deserve any of the mistreatment from E or his supporters. She contributed so much - her viewers, her furniture, cooking for everyone, helping E sell his merch!? - and he wanted to shut her out of equity? He’s such a disgusting misogynist and user
The last part about how Ashley could tell that Elliot didn’t like her and gave off vibes that he didn’t like spending time with her broke my heart. I know what that’s like and it’s absolutely terrible to feel like the cause of the off vibes and second guessing if it’s all in your head. You can just tell from how Elliot talked behind their backs and the timing of the video that he’s really manipulative and wants to control the narrative publicly and privately. I honestly think it’s a good thing you all parted ways
Wow I feel so bad that it’s spiraled into this. Kelly and Ashley don’t deserve this, but I also understand what might’ve caused Elliot to act like this bc I think I’m similar in this way. It sounds like he might’ve formed a false reality in his head and become paranoid and fearful about potentially being abandoned by his friends. Definitely a sign that Elliot needs to work on himself more bc it’s affecting his friendships super negatively.
I know what it's like to have a great friend find someone new, and I'm an instantly replaced. But feelings are feeling and if kashley love each other, it's going to happen.
Ashley was the reason I started watching ur mom's house. Ur mom's house is even named after ashley's username. So, she was a really big part of it all and the growth the house got
i have been under elliot’s position before coming from a similar experience with friends to dating relationships. Unfortunately, i definitely felt the same feelings that elliot felt; disliking the significant other and felt uncomfortable about their relationship, and it would bring me down because it felt like i lost a friend to another person or i felt replaced. but i learned that rather than being afraid of losing someone, being able to make the best of the time we can get together is what helped me accept the fact. i wish nothing but the best for both of you and a slow regrowth !!
I recently had the same experience. I’m not good with change so it took me a while to adjust and just accept that my friendships will look differently but we can still maintain our friendship through small acts of effort
elliots own insecurities should not have affected them though. u can feel sad and upset but ultimately if u let it result in hatred and bitterness *you* are ultimately in the wrong. no matter what elliot felt, it is no excuse for the abhorrent things he said about ashley, and he should be held accountable for it.
I'm always impressed with how mature Ashley is and how she tries to do her best to make everything work out, but not always everything works out, some things are to learn, after all, you both gave your best.❤
No hurt feelings or bad blood for any of Ur Mom’s House family. Life happens. Relationships progress. Work evolves. Home life is a balancing act for anyone who has lived with roommates. It’s not easy. You guys gave the viewers great content and enjoyed the ride. It is what it is. Time takes over and y’all will get past this. Rooting for each and every one of you and your futures! ❤
Yeah :( I get both sides where kelly had to be with his family and elliot felt alone when they left. The timing was so bad. I hope they get to talk things out
It’s truly sad because Ashley had the best intentions for everyone… she did little things that a lot people don’t do for their friends. People honestly get upset when you get into a relationship and Ashley is still being so nice about it wow.
it's no one's fault entirely but there were actions that resulted in the snowball effect of what happened. but it was unfair for some people in the community to place the blame entirely on you and Ashley. I've been following and watching Ashley's videos for around 3 to 4 years now and I know how genuine her intentions always are so I was taken aback when I saw people attacking her. I do hope that everyone from UMH finds what they're looking for and resolves this conflict over some period of time
They clearly said in the video everyone was okay with their relationship before they even moved in. It just seems that Elliot liked control and when he didn’t have it for the house his reaction was to disband it. Sucks but it happens. Elliot personality is to go, go, go.
@Don Yaya they literally explained in the video that ashley brought up them seeing eachother before they even signed the lease they knew the outcome and still wanted ashley to come live with them…
@@billythao8669 then that should’ve been said before getting a house ? a question possibly or even tried to compromise to make ts work ? even ashley said “i’ll find a place for myself if they didn’t want the relationship in the house”
my heart hurts so much for ashley and kelly, i know exactly what it’s like to consider someone a friend just to find out they “hated” me and were talking bad about me behind my back. i understand elliot feeling hurt about being left alone when he needed support but unless he voices his issues he can’t expect them to know what’s going on. ): really sad situation overall and ily both
I feel so bad for Ashley because she got invited by Elliot to join the house and then was left in the dark about Elliot’s hatred. She even got attacked so much by his viewers and she didn’t deserve any of it. Elliot literally created that video and basically framed y’all about being the problem when he’s been the problem all along… He knew what he was doing when he was making that video, if he wanted to protect y’all’s friendship he wouldn’t have done that. I hope you guys can heal from this and thank you for making this video and being transparent (even though you guys didn’t have to). Looking forward to your next journey! Also I’m so sorry Kelly that you had to go through all of this, especially because it’s so obvious how much you valued your friendship with Elliot. Losing a best friend is so tough, especially over non-transparency and misunderstandings. You honestly deserved better!
@@Yutsyumi you would want to tell people the truth when you’re getting death threats and people are soiling your character constantly on social media. Ashley and Kelly wanted to post normal videos to say goodbye, Elliot posted a vague video and his viewers started to attack them a lot, especially Ashley. They deserve every right to put this information out after what they’ve been through.
To be honest, when I have seen how free-spirited and laisses-faire attitude from Kelly I didn’t expect this depth and it was something I was concerned about for Ashley and your relationship but you have incredible depth Kelly. It’s wonderful to see. I also knew this would happen so this did not surprise me. You’re all still very young, finding your way through life, relationships and business. I think what Ashley said is true, that you will all learn from this in how to handle business and relationships with clearer boundaries in the future. It’s something I’m still trying to understand myself. Also Ashley’s is such a loving mediator, always seeking peace with compassion. You both have very sincere hearts and I see how your pairing is so good now. I wish every one of you success and I concur that one day soon, you’ll all be able to have some friendship together again. Keep dreaming guys 🙏
i’ve been following ashley for so long now & i can definitely tell she’s hurt by the situation. i went through a similar situation with my ex best friend and i related so much to this. i wanted to do everything i can to fix the friendship between us bc i cared for my ex best friend & i loved them. she went behind my back telling my current best friend that she resents me and she hates me. i tried talking it out with them but they never wanted to. so ashley & kelly, my hearts r with u both. im so sorry u have to go through this , i can’t imagine how u both feel!! love u guys so much, everything will be okay in the long run :)💌🫶🏼💞
Yea I really didn’t understand that, like i was so confused as to why ppl would just assume, like I get that Elliot’s video was trying to portray that message but I saw right through it. I knew there was more to the story and it’s so disappointing to see him act out like that… it’s not a good friend move.
@@Anaieseart Elliot’s video didn’t portray them negatively, he simply said it didn’t work out anymore and the creator house lost its original purpose - to create content together. Short and simple. Making a 38 minute long bashing video is not a good friend move.
i feel really bad for you guys because it has to be so hard to respond to dram without causing more drama. i feel like you guys have to super carefully watch what your saying because if you say anything wrong you're instantly cancelled it's not fair to you guys.❤❤
Because of Ashley I start watching the boys.. I don't care about them all I care about Ashley videos and her cooking as long as she didn't kill anyone 😅 no one will cancel the shit.. People should know that shit happen they're not watching a serie or a movie but its real life.. And in a real life always shit happens.. Always people try to turn something stupid to something big and it ain't worth it..
I remember when Ashley went to a different shop to get Elliot’s favorite drink I know it’s probably seen as a small gesture but that truly makes me believe she loves keeping things that people she cares about in mind to give the little happy moments back now I haven’t watch every single video but now hearing that he doesn’t think Ashley deserves equity is so awful I don’t hate him or anything but that’s an awful fucking thing to say to someone that genuinely saw you as a friend
not it literally being called YOUR MOM’s house and Elliot saying Ashley doesn’t deserve equity - you guys are such genuine and kind people and your community definitely sees that 💛
I respect both of you so much for doing this, i know both of you are not the type to broadcast personal matters online, and that's okay. Viewers need to understand that being a lifestyle vlogger also has its limits, it's literally a human right to have privacy, we cannot demand too much from them. I admire how you two can compartmentalize being a youtuber and being just Ashley/ Kelly doing other normal human things even though there's a thin line in between. And I really appreciate you guys talking about this even though it's hard for you. Thank you for taking us along with you in this roller coaster ride 🥺. I'm excited for what's to come. Sending big hugs to you Ashley and Kelly! 🤗🤗💕
KELLY, I’m so sad that the house ended but I’m so so so excited to see what’s next for your future. Your videos bring me so much joy and I love your content so much. They inspire me and push me in the right direction. I love the phrase “do what excites” and go by it all the time now thanks to you. I’m so sorry that this whole situation has been kinda of hard and I wish you best as you go into your next chapter
It's fucking stupid about the fact that someone is threatening to kill a random ass person after not being friends with someone that's not even really in their lives.
Exactly. It doesn’t make sense how people get so much hatred for people they see online. Like, why? Just watch somebody else if you’re that bothered 😅😂
Hearing they way you talk about Elliot I can tell you genuinely care about him.the fact that you acknowledge where he is coming from is so classy. I pray for healing where there is hurt.
if you hadn't released this video, Ashley would've straight up received the Yoko Ono treatment (being blamed for "breaking UMH" up). thank you for telling your side of the story. i've been subbed to Ashley for 4 years now(?), and she's one of the only creators i've been watching for so long this consistently because she genuinely emanates such warmth and kindness that i think few creators - people, even - possess. she's inspirational and makes me want to work towards my dreams and goals with as much passion and enthusiasm. to think she's been disrespected like this - especially when she so objectively contributed so much, if not the most, to UMH (viewership, subscriptions, etc.) - makes me sick to my stomach. people's actions/behavior toward you are rarely ever a reflection of who you are; if anything, it says more about them.
She did though. What you listened are only their view… so are you entitled to believe them? Elliot didnt tell really anything at all. They made a big deal out of it. Makes me guess just why… :D maybe to give the narrative.
@@bewatter3014 If they are really lying they won't mention others people's who told them about elliot behaviour and the big question is why can't he came and defend himself!
I'm so sorry you're going through this. What Elliot did seems pretty hurtful. The fact that you guys still try to look at things from Elliot's perspective and explain that you understand where his hurt feelings came from, makes me really respect you guys. You're good people. It's always rough when friendships turn sour.. I had to end a friendship a few times and it hurts man. I hope Elliot will communicate with you soon so you can either fix the burning bridge or at least gain some positive closure :) Love all you guys and will continue to support!
the right thing to do is post a video and expose your best friend and acted all innocent, oh by the way i'm Kelly i'm so perfect i like to throw my best friend under the bus.
You guys don't owe us anything but appreciate you guys giving us more context. It's very unfortunate how things transpired. You guys really tried to be a good friend. Hope he can come around...
also don't get why it's a bad thing that kelly is spending more time with ashley like she's literally his girlfriend. really struggling to understand when people are afraid of their friends being “stolen”.. is this a game or something? in what universe would your secure interpersonal friendships be shattered because of a girl.
It wouldn’t be a bad thing if they weren’t business partners. From Elliot’s perspective Kelly prioritizing Ashley doesn’t just affect their friendship it also affects his RU-vid content. Regardless of blame a working partnership of 3 with 2 being a couple is doomed to fail. The third person will always be outnumbered and you can’t expect the couple to be objective about one another
If as Kelly mentioned, Issa was a member for a bit, then it would be a 4 way partnership, Elliot could have been more communicative with the how he felt. That’s what business partners do in mainstream buisness no reason it would be different
He’s genuinely a pussy if he’s crying that one of his friends got a girl and the fact Kelly had to put time aside to just hang out with him it’s pathetic Kelly isn’t his baby sitter
it's so unfortunate to see your mom's house fall apart, although it's for the best it's just sad to see how it ruined the friendships between them. I just have to say i rlly respect Kelly for standing up for Ashley, and for putting his family first when they were going through hard times. i hope everything works out for everyone that was a part of the house and although they were hurt by each other i hope they can all heal with time and one day be friends again
Beef aside, this side of ashley that shows her maturity makes me proud to be a fan of her even more. Keep smiling ashley and I hope things go amazing for you :)
In my opinion this video was VERY needed. I get that you guys have done your best to not post any drama for privacy sake, but we as viewers could feel a lot of tension and a change in dynamic with the relationship in the group. It’s sad but I think a lot of blame was put on kashley even by myself but this is a good reminder there’s always TWO sides to every story. I’m rooting for everyone involved and seriously wishing the best for yall
Best friends living together is not a bad thing but it does put strain even on a friendship when you're seeing them 24/7. I'm glad that you guys decided to mutually give your friendship some space because space is much needed.
This is so sad. I told my daughter several years ago that to never, ever share a home with her best friends because it will destroy their friendship. Unfortunately, these guys are good example of what can happen.
I love seeing Kashley even after Ur Moms house 🥹 even though change is hard I just know you guys are going to be on to bigger and better things. It really is unfortunate that it had to end this way but I’m so happy you guys took the time to fully explain everything. We will always support you guys ❤
35:39 Ashley I understand that you’re sorry and you feel like you needed to reach out more. But friendships are a 2 way street, if Elliot doesn’t respond or reach out about how he’s feeling there isn’t a whole lot you and do, you can’t read his mind…To have a friend you need to be a friend. Try not to put so much pressure on yourself and feel like it’s your fault he feels and acts the way he does. Thank you to both of you for shedding light on the situation, I know it’s not easy.
It’s really sad to see a friendship crumble like this especially over things that could’ve been resolved if talked out with each other. I feel especially sad for Ashley because even though i’ve been a long time subscriber and tuned in to umh because of her, watching elliot’s recent video did plant some seeds of doubt over my original impression of her (sorry ashley! i shouldn’t have!). I can sympathize with elliot seeing that his actions obviously come from a place of hurt, but it was really disappointing to hear about wanting to leave out ashley for the llc. Like what they said in the video, the house wouldn’t have existed without all the members. And i even remember in the very early videos that ashley contributed to the house not only in content, but by providing most of their furniture (which all of the roomies acknowledged and were grateful for btw). I know it’s too much to hope that they’ll go back to being friends again, but I hope they can resolve this matter and move on leaving any bitter emotions they have from staying in the house. I also want to point out that no one person really is to blame here so y’all shouldn’t hate on any of them. The fact that they shared this with us does not make it any of our business and we should leave it to them to resolve the matter between themselves. As viewers, let’s just continue to support their channels individually.
It’s never a good idea to put any ‘beef’ between/among friends public cos that was supposed to be something personal. When you put it on social media, it’s messier and the collateral damage is just uncontrollable.
Elliot reminds me of my ex best friend lol. Like some people just have this separation anxiety, they're scared of being left alone and abandunt. If that energy doesn't match yours and Ashley's amazing dynamic then y'all need to put some healthy distance. You can't change how he feels, only he can do that. Y'all have done enough, now just live and keep making amazing content, people come and go and if y'all mean something to him, he'll come back and make things right again.
i feel like elliot’s lowkey possessive of kelly and that’s where a lot of the resentment towards ashley came from. he’s gotta work on understanding other people and their priorities and not expecting others to go with his flow
The equity part is just sick, from the start ashley was and still is the most successful youtuber out of the 4 of them, has the most subscribers, and brought so many new subs and views to their personal channels. Not to mention that the house is literally called URMOMS HOUSE which is ashleys brend and name, and yet still no equity for her???? disgusting
I feel so bad for Ashley, I have been subbed to her for the longest time and I know how sweet she is so this is so painful to hear about :( I hope you guys can find some peace outside of the house! Good luck moving forward
this is absolutely wild and no one could’ve EVER saw this coming especially Elliot hating Ashley 😭 so heartbreaking but I’m glad I’ve been defending y’all to this day 🙏🏼 knew y’all were too real to be the bad guys
the people that were blaming kashley for all of this is literally so dumb, i’m so glad u guys made a video to clear everything up. honestly kinda disappointed in elliot, and i can’t even imagine how much u guys had to go through, especially ashley :(
Ashley - you absolutely deserve equity & equal say in what goes on. I can’t believe that even has to be said. You have as much right to be compensated as everyone else involved. To say otherwise is completely ludicrous. Just wanted to make it clear to you that your efforts & contributions are valid & recognized
It’s just sad when a situation occurs and a close friend isn’t able to communicate and deal with the issue in a healthy manner and end ups using that emotion to fuel hate and resentment when an honest conversation and humility could fix the problem. I think this type of situation is sadly natural in life and in adult relationships and I just hope everyone can grow from this and create positive ways to deal with their emotions.
hurt people hurt people, and also very disappointed to see the internalized patriarchy piece with regards to excluding Ashely from equity. appreciate you all for being so transparent, looking forward to the content you both put out! also how can any human say "I hate Ashley" omggggg
Right! I’ve been watching Ashley since the dawn of time it feels. She brought me to the other creators. She’s an angel baby and I can’t fathom anyone hating her.
@Mohammed Mustakim ashley had over a million - she definitely brought in the most viewers so for him to say that she doesn’t deserve equity as if she hasn’t contributed the most to them as a group is so stupid
When this house first started I was so excited to see the content for all of them and now seeing the drama that went behind it makes me sad because things happen with friends. I genuinely hope this gets sorted out with you guys and everyone gets the help they need 💗. And I'm so sorry you guys got a bunch of hate for no reason because nobody deserves that.
Thank you for being open and mindful during this video. A friend breakup is almost worse than breaking up with a partner in my opinion. I hope you guys get the chance to talk and that comes with peace. I'm sorry you had to go through this. I wish you guys the best. Take care of yourselves *hugs*
It's so sad to actually see this happening. Idk why we as viewers project so much of our dreams and wants on other people's lives it's crazy. That's why we follow them like crazy and get sad when shit hits the fan. It's almost breaking a fantasy barrier between our imagination and reality. It's good to see they're humans, but it sucks to see their dream being bothered in a sense. Being a RU-vidr must be hard I'm not even joking and we here thinking it's shits and giggles all the time
Kelly is in his right to choose his family over friendship also the fact that the trip was for a very personal matter & Ashley is his gf that has been brought into his family, for Elliot to resent it and think he was left out was not cool because it wasn’t like the two were the only ones on the trip. I hope everyone just reflects on how things could have been communicated better. Sad to hear that Elliot in a way was petty to release the video when he repeatedly said he couldn’t get it in sooner thus controlling the narrative in the beginning.
Having seen you guys since before the house and watching the house come together and fall apart, this is quite painful, but also completely understandable from all perspectives. Hope everyone heals and feels better at some point in time ❤️
Sad to see the best buddies departing their ways. Really loved seeing Elliot and Kelly's bonding it was the most wholesome thing in UMH. Hope you guys sort out and have healthy relationship one's again.
i’ve been following ashley since way before ur mom’s house. it’s not fair how she was treated & what was said. “ur mom’s house” named after urmomashley…. how would she not have had equity in their business? anyways! 🙃
Honestly i’m really glad that you guys finally broke the silence about this issue and for us to finally know what happened in ur mom’s house. I’ll be waiting for Elliot’s response hopefully we also hear his side of the story. Thank you for enlightening us in what took place in umh. I hope you guys can resolve this with Elliot and good luck to your future videos.
this makes me so sad that they would even hate on kashley. communication is key, and just seeing her face when kelly said that elliot hates ashley really broke my heart for her. :(
I was Ashley‘s viewer first for years and to this point, eventhough I very much do realise social media content can clearly be curated, I‘ve never felt Ashley to be disgenuine. Her always having included her family in her videos is a strong indicator to me that she’s presenting her true self online, as to put on a show around your family for social media isn’t necessarily gonna work. As the heartfelt person i believe her to be, she truly does not deserve the amount of disrespect she’s experienced. Sadly friendships break by at least one party not being willing to communicate and reflect aswell as accept change. Our world is changing constantly and to hold onto things isn’t always possible. I hope all of you end up with an acceptable and healthy outcome from this situation.
No hate towards Elliot at all, i feel like for a while his emotions and feeling cornered in a way led him to explode and it had a ripple effect on the whole situation. I’ve been in a situation where my best friend felt like he was being “replaced” so to speak and it took multiple months to fully fix, i hope you all fix things and I hope that as hard as it may be, you come to an understanding. There’s definitely a need to have conversations and outline loyalties not to show that one person is more important than the other but more to show that different relationships have different obligations, some of which require more involvement and are more time consuming. Its all a matter of balance in the end. We love all of you, we only saw a fraction but it was easy to tell that you cared for each other and we’re all so sorry that this happened to the three of you. ❤️
Sucks to hear what happened. Drama in friendships isn't uncommon. I don't think Elliot is a bad person, and I'm pretty sure he'll understand when you guys talk it out. Despite Elliot acting on his emotions, I respect that you and Ashley are still trying to repair the friendship. I definitely wouldn't have the willpower to do so if someone talked behind my back or didn't support my decisions.
Honestly I can relate to this so much, I lived with my Boyfriend in a share house with mates and his best friend treated me the exact same as Ashley, told my partner he hated me, he would gossip about me and consistently made me feel very uncomfortable towards the end of our lease, I respect you so much Ashley your empathy and willingness to want to fix your relationship with him despite the difficulty of the situation and how he had made you feel! much love!
Frs frs thag part had my brain MOVING like why? Hmmm misogynistic? Hmmm idk But then boom that confirmed in my head HE IN LOVE WITH KELLY! Jk not really but like frs frs wtf 😅
@@loverboi9208 omg exactly what I was thinking but I didn’t want to say it cause maybe that’s coming off to strong, like I don’t wanna accuse someone of being misogynistic but like wow the nerve of him. The entitlement is crazy
This type of friendship fall-out is actually pretty normal in your 20s... what just really sucks is how public it became / having business involved with it.
Ashley didn’t deserve equity?💀 she got the largest following out of all em and had more engagement out of everyone. Yall literally cant lie that the following they have now is mostly from ashleys fanbase.
Bruh!!! He literally hated that cause he thought he would be the “IT” guy. What kills me is how inconsistent he was but also expects 50%. Is he OKAY???
