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ADULTING! Things they didn’t tell us.. 😩 | Episode 69

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We all had a picture of how our adulthood would turn out to be while growing up. We couldn’t wait to embrace the word ‘I am an Adult’ so bad to enjoy the rightful privilege denied to us when we were kids.. Mom/dad would tell us “wait until you become an adult “ and that sentence lived rent free in our heads as we eagerly built fascinating stories about the hood! On the reals, now that we are adults and the reality of it has downed on us, there are so many things we wished we knew/taught before tapping into adulthood.
On this episode, shared a couple of them on money, careers, love, sex, parenting and general responsibility that comes with being an adult. Well, is adulthood a scam?
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@mercyndambuki7595 Год назад

Adulthood is more maintenance than destination. Facts

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Yeap! 💯

@wambuigorgeous Год назад

This is the truth!

@graciakinyanjui6937 Год назад

Adulthood is like looking both ways before you cross the street 😂and then getting hit by an airplane🤣

@manassehantonia5249 Год назад

The ultimate truth!!😂😂

@priscillah4831 Год назад

I love how Murugi accepts that she's flawed and even embraces it, the way she admits she'd hurt someone else if she's also hurt. Not many can say that out loud.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you hun. ❤️ It’s all about living your truth.

@queenluigi Год назад

Murugi, I’m a mum too and I only started fearing dying once I had my 2 sons. Every time I get on a flight I’m just praying the whole time because my greatest fear is leaving my sons and husband alone.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

I feel you on this. Let’s keep the hope alive. ❤️

@shammahnzaana214 Год назад

Murugi: What's in between healthy and toxic? Lydia: TOXIC😭 And that's the thing I love most about you two😂 You are true to each other and compliment each other soooo well. Glad to have clicked your first episode and besides when I'm at school, I've never missed an episode

@bluetick_officialkenya Год назад

I have been following you guys since last year December. 1st, I used to feel the girly vibe but I want to categorically state to my fellow gents that this podcast is for everyone. Good vibes all through. I love you guys

@tmipodcastke Год назад

It’s for everyone! 💯 Just big sisters vibes right here. Thank you ❤️

@kenmakau192 Год назад

Haha... me tooo

@themissedinfamoustruths2811 Год назад

That's very true, the older we get the more friends we are detached from due to circumstances

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Facts! 💯✅

@binaonderi9499 Год назад

Self awareness journey is humbling. Nothing humbles you like coming face to face with yout weaknesses

@graciakinyanjui6937 Год назад

The true mark of becoming an adult is having to call and make your own doctor's appointments. Like, how can I get on the phone and say I need an appointment?!? I need my mom.

@princessklv247 Месяц назад

Yoooo....my heart breaks everytime I have to do that

@faithmbogo8049 Год назад

I love how you girls like you are almost saying the same words at the same time. Am never on time to watch your show but I never miss to watch. Thank you for making us feel normal especially with this life happenings. Keep going 💕💕

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Love that! Thank you hun ❤❤❤

@carolnjo8629 Год назад

I made a call to my Gp to talk to a Therapist, my assessment is tomorrow. Lydia and Murugi, in this day and age of Mental Health. God knew we needed you, since coming across you guys l have realised how much crap l have had to deal with alone. God is definitely amazing because l have seen him first hand but meeeen do we all need a professional to talk to. Wish me luck guys. As for you two ladies, when l make my first million pounds l will fly both of you to a destination of your choice by private jet. God bless you always, you are doing amazing. Free Therapists

@sheilamarangu Год назад

Free indeed

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you Carol! This is our reason to keep going. ❤ All the best in your therapy sessions. We can’t wait to board that jet darling! 😅🎉

@Eddahtattooenthusiast Год назад

Balancing adulthood and motherhood is hectic , do they ever balance out really? I marvel at how people get time for family work themselves and still friends , I'm totally zoned out not because I want to but even creating time for myself is like once a blue moon , rarely!

@easytastyrecipes3212 Год назад

i do agree with Murugi when she says that there are people whos intentions are just to hurt people. Its not about corrupted chilhood, but they are real psycopaths. They dont have the empathy but their job is to see someone being hurt.......This episode am gonna re listen it.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Right? How sad though? 😢 Thank you for watching ❤

@Irenewk Год назад

My favourite phrase from this podcast is when Lydia says “…and here we are!” I have made it my mantra!

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Aww! 🥰 Thank you ❤️

@radebethando7799 Год назад

I’m working on encouraging the expectation that things will last. I had so many disappointments growing up that now that I’m trying to adult I almost always place a “dark cloud” over anything good. So, I’m working on allowing things to naturally play themselves out instead of trying to terminate things before their time just so I can “stay in control “.

@judynjoguover40 Год назад

I am so happy my daughter recommended that “I Must watch” this. 👏🏽 👏🏽

@katrinamwakamri872 Год назад

When all is said and done... it's the synergy for me.. I admire this type of friendship..it goes waaay beyond and above so many life aspects.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Awww! Thank you ❤❤

@Gathonination Год назад

Adulting gets much easier with competent partners but they are difficult to find because there's alot of pretence in the way people present themselves and alot of people also don't work or Don't know how to work on their issues, which always always present themselves later in relationships.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Sad truth! 😢

@virginiaheart6647 Год назад

They didn't really tell us that it is so easy to dream but not really get to that dream...like you will honestly want something and even deserve having it but it won't necessarily be yours😩and how being nice doesn't always mean only good things will happen to you😔

@sq6858 Год назад

Adulting indeed has no manual but we live and learn everyday as we embrace this perfectly imperfect journey. I’ve been listening to you guys almost daily and I appreciate the positive impact your content has on my life. Happy to see your growth, may you elevate even more 👏🏽👏🏽❤

@vanessajorgembanze8089 Год назад

I love this podcast with my soul 🥹❤️

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you.. we love you too. ❤️

@barbarakaranja3787 Год назад

The Simanis' minding their business "Lydia : You wake up at 5:00 AM and Shiv has already worked out, had his banana and fed mamba🤣🤣🤣 Murugi: And now Shylo is beating the dog🤣🤣" That part took me out 🤣🤣🤣 P for pressure!

@alanpierrers Год назад

My God me tooooo. I watch it over and over

@shery553 Год назад

😂😂🤣

@bs9286 Год назад

Lydiaaaa thank you for talking and emphasising more on privilege,alot of peope don't realise that literally jut being able to consume this content is a privilege by itself ❤❤❤

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Exactly!! 💯 you’re welcome 😘

@aphrodite1699 Год назад

Lydiah, some people are just bad as Murugi says. People have gone through worse and they do not let those experiences turn them into monsters

@meggyshikungu8355 11 месяцев назад

Wow! I like the parenting bit so much. I am a 24-year-old and I have always wanted my first baby/ babies in my early 30s specifically 32. I am so serious about this that I want to freeze my eggs as soon as I can afford it. So I shared this with my mom five months ago because I wanted her to be prepared to be my support system as I go through the process(I hate needles) and she wasn't for the idea. So the other day she met up with some ladies her age and they were wishing they knew they had IVF as an option, they really would have taken their time getting kids. Now she understood where I was coming from. Then hearing Murugi encouraging it made me feel like I am really making the right decision. And I also follow parenting pages like Lydia also...Just to be prepared. Glad to see that I am not alone and not weird at all. Keep up, guys!

@kawiramuthomi7259 Год назад

Hello ladies..looking gorgeous as always. I had to comment on this.On Lydia's point on adulthood seemed like a destination.So next year am turning 25 and I am so scared coz I feel like I haven't achieve as much as am expected to.I feel like am getting too old and everytime someone talks about age around me, I just shut.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Ooh hun! Release the pressure of aging. Just look at age as just a number. Be king to self! Embrace the uncertainty of times, show up every time and do your best! Everything else will align! ✨❤️

@abigailopondo5044 Год назад

Well done ladies on the Spotify grant. So proud of you guys 🎉

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you hun ❤

@zwad3423 Год назад

Murugi looking gorgeous in that outfit🔥🔥

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you 😊

@Carole.W Год назад

I found your channel 2days ago and I'm bingewatching your videos and I'm likeee WHY DID I FIND OUT ABOUT YOOOU NOOOWWW😭❤️.... I'm your newest biggest 19year old fan😂😂😂😂❤️

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Welcome sis! 🎉

@Carole.W Год назад

@@tmipodcastke Thankyouu❤️

@naomicampana Год назад

Me too, today haha

@scolamugi2031 Год назад

This episode was pure gold in so many ways 💖💖

@hayaashraf3404 3 месяца назад

This episode is really good... The friendship part is really good

@marrietakisaka Год назад

And my conclusion is adulting is not a scam but a reality and regardless it has to be lived accordingly...and this is what makes us human...25 year old me is glad Atleast I have you, you're preparing 26 yr old me..I appreciate it.Marrieta Kisaka a brand on RU-vid was here

@tmipodcastke Год назад

love how you have embraced your journey. Congratulations love! ❤

@Noni_254 Год назад

@cikanyoro Год назад

Watching you in this video made me realize I am very intentional on social media. I am not in social media well just you tube and am very selective about what I watch. Follow and watch about 4 channels faithfully. Also I never carry my phone over lunch or eat while using my phone.

@gracethuku4555 Год назад

Wooow i need to follow this

@tmipodcastke Год назад

If discipline was a person! 🙌🏾

@akuabaakuaba385 Год назад

Ok, i cannot hold it any longer! Thank you Murugi and Lydia! Your honesty and authenticity is refreshing. I always look forward to Wednesdays. I wish u the best in all ur endeavours. ❤️

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Wow, thank you! ❤❤❤

@_MK23 Год назад

Love the work you guys are doing. It's true adulthood comes with the privilege of a choice, but making the decision is hectic bcs of the consequences that cones with the decision you make.

@nyaradhiambo Год назад

17:15 😂😂😂😂 Not throwing shade, you're throwing the whole forest.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

😂😂😂

@Flourish_today Год назад

It's like marriage, you can only experience it when you get there. I was told that single people are the busiest people. They always have things to go to, functions, programs, parties etc. Apparently married people always have time.

@cinderellanakyira2178 Год назад

My brother and I are so toxic lol. Lydia said her parents separated when she was nine and we both looked at each other and lust laughed at the fact that we were much younger when ours separated. And just started throwing around jokes about our parents' separation and then he just says "I was born at a very young age and when I was seven months, my parents separated." 😂😂😂

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Glad you related! 😂

@anneadhiambo1255 Год назад

Murugi I felt you when you said, "people are going through a lot!" Kwanza hapo kwa fee...after a week of closing schools the new term begins. It's been a rough year.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Adulting as a parent is on a different level! 😪

@winniekariuki3099 Год назад

Ready to listen to amazing insights on adulthood 😍😍

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Awesome! ❤️

@aseasyas4cfro643 Год назад

Scheduled cry sessions are a thing! Get into it...🤚 Life is a lot sometimes!

@mercieandiema Год назад

For sure

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Truth! 💯

@mwamwarepublic7380 Год назад

Great episode girls! To the point on the responsibility of feeding the family especially when nanny is away, have him/her prep several snacks and meals to store in the fridge/freezer before s/he leaves for the weekend. That way, you don’t slave in the kitchen and instead get to spend time more usefully.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Oh yes! ✔️

@kenmakau192 Год назад

As a gent I'm addicted to this channel 😀😀😀

@Gathonination Год назад

The funny thing about adulting is that you eventually get used to it and ultimately appreciate it. Just wait a few more years, you'll see 🙂

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Sure! 💯

@LadyPosh_254 Год назад

Separating kids from their dad that’s the worst feeling ever, it makes women feel like they’re selfish yet it’s the best thing for everyone involved. Then a woman keeps praying that the kids will come to understand the reason as to why Adulting & parenting has no manual, you learn on the job

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Absolutely!

@sq6858 Год назад

💯

@DignaK Год назад

The reason I had not subscribed yet is because I’m just always absentminded 😂 I watch and then zone out! So today… I’m hitting the subscribe button and turning on post notifications 🔔. Imagine it’s that simple 😅😅😅

@joabijoux3664 Год назад

@lydia I also don't watch stories. It is so healthy for my mental health. Even on WhatsApp, I choose to mute all of them. I only open a few of them when I want.

@traceytina357 Год назад

This episode was amazing ladies...we are not helping you commit a murder Jo😂😂

@tmipodcastke Год назад

😂😂😂

@graceguya1682 Год назад

To paraphrase Murugi, "There are people who are just bad people, they hurt others for no reason. No matter how kind one is, some people will do one dirty. Just because one is good it doesnt mean good will be done back to them. Being good could lead to getting used" So relateable. Some people are just shitty human beings. They know what they are doing. They are toxic and manipulative. They are just bad and they get worse with age. They have perfected the art of manipulation. They conciously are shitty every day.

@joemnjuki8396 Год назад

''when are we going back to daddy '' lydia sign up for comedy 😅😅😅

@zipwangui Год назад

😂😂 Lydia on death is so me. You don't know you are dead, so live life and be kind.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

😅❤

@solitaire6162 Год назад

Now your child is wearing tissue 😂😂 got me

@tmipodcastke Год назад

😂😂😂

@immaculategem Год назад

Congratulations on your big news.. it's amazing and inspiring to watch you grow.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you so much!❤

@gracemimi10 Год назад

Another episode and another lesson learnt 🥳🥳I always look forward to every new episode I love it!!

@Spy_X744 Год назад

Adulting is the absolute gherro😂😂 I have surely learned a thing or two along the way while adulting. I have enjoyed this episode💓

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Glad you enjoyed it!❤

@dianajuma9098 Год назад

Yaaiy, finally subscribed 👏👏

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Welcome Inbetweener! 🎉❤️

@faithwaithera2330 Год назад

This is epic.....Bills,bills are exhausting I wanna go back home😭😭😭

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Shukishaaaa 😭😭

@laurahkags7001 Год назад

The number of times Joan has used "I feel like "🤣🥰

@jenniferodera598 Год назад

Lydia KM's TOXIC was soooo spot on and hilarious. Love her! Love her honesty! 🙌🙌💕

@tmipodcastke Год назад

So glad! ❤

@justinelove7816 Год назад

Great lessons learned especially the fact that life always moves on. I just need to pace myself.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

❤❤❤

@amandaakatukunda Год назад

I feel that cooking point deep in my soul!

@rosetumuti2442 Год назад

OMG!! I resonate so much with this episode my guka (mums dad) died last year in the morning of my birthday, and i cant celebrate it any more, because tell me should my mum be happy its her daughters bday or should she be mourning her dad?😪 i questioned God alot. Like why that day? Why not the day after or the day before,do you know what i mean?

@christmaslyzzekagwa9573 Год назад

I'm New here after Lynn ngugi☺️ & loving it ❤

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Welcome to the inbetweener family!

@immaculategem Год назад

Ahh. So i left my first comment be4 listening to the podcast... 🤣🤣 this is def my 11 11 moment of clarity message in a weird way.. thank you so much.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

You're the best! 😅❤

@adhoisacko354 Год назад

OMG Murugi talking about doom ! I relate 💯💯💯💯💯💯

@tmipodcastke Год назад

It’s now a luxury mahn! 😭

@sheilatuwei6805 Год назад

I am like Lyd..always good to people,can't hurt or embarass people..too bad it's always taken granted for..or find people who are the total opposite..be it friendships or rlshps

@tmipodcastke Год назад

People can be ungrateful! 😢

@mercykiaritha350 Год назад

Mamba was just chilling 🤣🤣

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Then boom! 😂😂😂

@paulinesayo6708 Год назад

I no longer wait for experience to be my teacher,I choose tmi to do it

@tmipodcastke Год назад

We love you 😘 ❤

@lornatwins9944 Год назад

How many channels do u have to shoot more than one video in one day, i only know this and i can't get enough of you ladies.

@edithmwangi1824 10 месяцев назад

I hope you see this because its 10 months later, but i would love you to do adulthood series for the guys taken abroad vs kenya.

@hildaalividza3461 Год назад

I 1000% agree with not having enough time to do everything

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Wheew! 😢

@nancykuria7525 Год назад

Love U girls... you are such an inspiration

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Aww! Thank you. ❤

@mutaicherobon6550 6 месяцев назад

Lydia:my man my man my man..yess❤

@kagureeva6942 Год назад

I think in regards to the letting your children see you going through life situations,it could be done child appropriate. As a mom I believe we are given the ability to know what's right for your child.so emotions can also be shared.can be scary at first but it helps your child express themselves.i have noticed my child become better in communicating since she knows mama understands since I saw her cry yesterday....more mature than her age emotionally for sure . Usiende kulilia mtoto hapo for an hour pliz ukitukana babake though😅😅😅kindly.

@lucianaokwiri Год назад

i love Lydia's energy

@muthonimaina7998 Год назад

long endless slog is more like..there is no structure in adulting, kids have more structure and schedule than adults, in adulting we are left to figure things out by ourselves, but for kids, we create schedules and timetables.

@abigailurey4614 Год назад

Murugi you are so right, just because you usually make decisions all the liability should be permanently placed upon you.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

💯💯

@agnesmaina2315 Год назад

🤗🤗❤️ to sit and listen to adulthood mmmmbecause weeuhhh!!!!😩😩

@mercyndirangu8903 Год назад

It's doing the thing, ey? We keep showing up though.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Masaibu ya roho! 😭😂

@agnesmaina2315 Год назад

@@tmipodcastke masaibu ya kila internal organ😫😂mara the pancreas sijui nose is facing sideways,,but we move🏃‍♀️💨

@mwanikinyakio Год назад

Am always waiting for a new episode, always learning

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you❤

@beloncekamz2821 Год назад

Wueh! ADULTING is Adulting. Sema T for Tuff😭. Lydia's top🔥😍. Hongera Podcasters👏🏾💐 #WCW❤️❤️.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Wacha tu! 😢 Thank you ❤

@yamikanindhlovu4803 Год назад

I agree with some friendships existing merely as a result of proximity.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Right? 💁🏽‍♀️🙍🏽‍♀️

@yolz555 7 месяцев назад

And that makes everything sick when changes happens😢

@radio.thearenafm24k Год назад

Yummy mummy and Lydia you are true warrior sister.much love from Radio.TheArenaFm

@happinesskipeja1334 Год назад

Love you guys so much , “ni maakili tu hapa”❤❤

@MissMagyy Год назад

Can't wait to watch this because ADULTING 🤦😭

@Spy_X744 Год назад

the gherrrrooo

@tmipodcastke Год назад

🥲🥲🥲

@drnjerikamau Год назад

😂 Shiv was just chilling.....

@tmipodcastke Год назад

😂😂

@norahmaina3608 Год назад

I love this, am just starting listening to it

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Glad you do ❤

@nyamburakimani3726 Год назад

Am hooked to this podcast,love it to bits

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you. 🙌🏾❤

@yamikanindhlovu4803 Год назад

Enjoyed this episode ❣️❣️

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you for watching ❤

@_PositiveMindset Год назад

Thanks for that, Nawapenda

@Bakedmugi Год назад

Definitely watching this again and many times

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Remember to share too 😊

@wairimuwaweru4039 Год назад

My fav fuckinnnnn podcast😭😭🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️i love yaahhh!!!

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you 🙌🏾❤️

@DaveNdegwa Год назад

the scheming at 52:00 😂🤣

@millicentnyaguthii3120 Год назад

This show is carrying me ooh🤣🤣🤣

@judithomondi2196 Год назад

Not Shiv and Mamba🤣🤣🤣

@tmipodcastke Год назад

😂😂

@Joyjoan800 Год назад

Nice one

@sarahnyakio1088 Год назад

So smart Lydia… We still dont have accessibility to the internet as a continent

@terryngatia Год назад

and now we are here ...Lydia ,should be a thing ,.😂

@miriammugo853 Год назад

You guys are amazing ❤

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you ❤

@MyMissy1979 Год назад

Murugi.. i love your fashion. Please be standing up we see how your rock your outfit.

@tmipodcastke Год назад

Thank you. Check us out on out Instagram page @tmipodcastke for this and more. 🤗

@ceciliamunga321 Год назад

What an Episode!!!!!