Story #1: George's life basically started to fall apart when his punching bag was no longer there to be the recipient of his abuse. Mommy treated him like he was made out of gold, but when the adult world hit him, he learned that he was just a rock.
so the brother saying he change but got annoyed that op walked away from him the first time and called her a "little bitch" yyaaah sure buddy you def change and deserve forgiveness
"I wish I had been there to see the look on my mother's face when the police informed her that they couldn't retrieve me from my marital home" damn yes op!
story 2: even if that chick thought he was just blackout drunk, that doesn't make it any better. anyone who's that drunk can't properly consent. the fact that even he thought it was cheating w/o info is still sad
@@Chubbasaurus I see that kind of thing on reddit pretty often. When a man is the victim and a woman is the perpetrator, reddit leans towards blaming the guy
that's is sadly the way is it now a days no matter how drunk or drugged out of your mind you are as a man your consent doesn't matter but if a lady regrets it later on in life its rape...
Renember... no one is entitled to forgivenes and no one is obligated to forgive. George can go rot cause he has not changed at all and their is zero benifits of OP letting him back into her life.
S2 i know if it was a girl talking about getting blackout drunk and waking up in bed with an unknown woman everyone would be screaming rape but its just cheating cause he's a guy he still got taken advantage of no matter his gender
Reddit is like that. Always seems to lean towards "woman was right, man was wrong" this was literally r*pe. You can't consent when blackout drunk. Doesn't matter if a man or a woman. But to reddit, a man can always consent, even when drugged and r*ped. They think it's still consent. I swear if that woman had posted this story, they would be telling her she did nothing wrong and he probably enjoyed it
Story 1: would have juat responded with a picture of the scars , and maybe words about “until all the scars are gone, there’s no forgiveness “ Of course, after hearing about how George is raising his daughter to be a psychopathic little AH like he is, I might have included that too.
To the friends in story 2 who are divided on if it’s wrong or not should tell them how about they get drugged the same way in a random day whenever another person wants and you’re not expecting it while he’s trying to get you to break up with your gf 😂 what kind of lunatic does this?
This is why parentification in the United States was made a criminal act. Your 18 and can leave there are women's shelters that will help you both with a place to live and the legal aspects of having your mother put in prison for a while. As for using your kids credit score that is a felony and she will be put away.
Story 1: OP should have just forward with the email with the list of things that George did to her as a child and pictures of at least the physical scar to George’s wife, and say this is the man you allow around your daughter.
S2 comments accusing her of cheating bc she stayed calm is crazy/ bots or incels. They would judge her for going off on him but she was calm and still judged . SMH i hope they end up alone.
When I was younger, I never put myself into the situation where someone could slip me anything in a drink and I did not get so drunk while out that I lost control of myself. The only time I did was when I was with my now husband because he would stay sober enough to look after me. He was extremely vigilant about other men around me. Protective. If I got too intoxicated he would pick me up and carry me to the car and take me home and put me to bed. I had no worries with him. Anyway I would only drink when out with other friends to the point that I felt tipsy because that’s the fun part anyway. Everything else is just spiral downward into barfing 😂. Once I hit the tipsy/feeling good and fun stage, I’d switch to a soda or whatever non alcoholic until I leveled out again. Then I could have one more drink and get tipsy again. That worked so well for me. I kept my wits about me because there was always some creeper around waiting on one person to become too drunk to stop his/her advances. Never fails, there always is one shady dude or chick in a group looking to score for the night. And I would always carry my drinks with me, not set them down, and not let anyone else hold them. My chosen father had a niece get roofied at a club with friends and her friends had to drag her out of the club and take her to the hospital. They tested her, and yep-drugged.
story 2 : makes me just sad... bc if he were a woman no one would have called it cheating... and see it for what it was directly.. but bc he is a men people only think abot he is the a-hole that cheated and being mad at him bc he cryed telling it to his girlfriend .. Heart breaking
Wow what's with Josh's being garbage people, i had a similar situation with a friend after high school named Josh. He wanted to help get me laid and I told him no I wasn't cool with the woman he wanted me to hook up with, he said cool then later dragged my blackout butt into her room. Didn't report the next day because I had no memory of what happened the previous day, it didn't come back until weeks later.
Yes if the dead person asks for one. The second part I don't think is the case. If you're in the will, you're in the will. The writer of the will can make some demands, like if you don't attend the reading, you don't get anything. But some courts, I think, can overrule truly outrageous demands. A good attorney should guide a client away from being a dick but since they pay the attorney, only so much they can do.
2sc story people needs to stop blaming alcohol for their cheating no I really don’t believe you’re story because a lots of people say they been d*ugged to escape consequences doormat gf
Story 1 she should tell the brother "You want forgiveness get religion" Story 2 the best thing op can do for his gf is break up with her after giving her the most sincere apology. Take accountability for what he did and never comtact her again, wish her to be happy with a man who is faithful to her unlike op
Op in the first story is such a push over, she basically ran from any real confrontation, wheather it was her mother or her brother or her father, she just ran and ignored her family problems
I mean, I did the same thing. Left in the middle of the night with no warning to avoid confrontation. It's not cowardice, it's a self-preservation tactic. People like that will say and do anything to control you. My narcissistic Mother used to routinely k*ll my pets and put my Dad in jail once so that I had nowhere to go but her house. Showed up at my high school so often that they banned her from it. Tried to take me off of life support once in 2020. You can't reason with somebody like that. Confronting them is based on the idea that they're rational and willing to listen to your viewpoint and change for the better. Some people aren't like that. I also ran away in the middle of the night. You don't really understand this mindset until you're in one of these situations yourself. (By the way, this happened in 2001 and she's still borderline stalking me lol. WE DON'T EVEN LIVE IN THE SAME CITY ANYMORE. 😂)