Hey mom who drugged her kid here. Seriously that was my reddit post from forever ago, shes turning 9 this weekend. Thankfully, cps closed the case. Her dad and I are coparenting a lot better now and she has improved on her sleep. Its still super rough in the summer but we are doing okay. Thanks so much for the love and response to my story. It was really a trip to see my story on tiktok/youtube
It was never about the paternity test, which I agree should be taken at birth , the wife was willing to take the one he bought, and will have to take one for the courts for child support. Rather than take the L and just tell her that he gaslit himself with paternity shows and just needs the test to ease his anxiety, he instead made up a lied about her ex claiming their child wasn’t his, and making the test about her having to prove her innocence. The truth would have been funny, wholesome, something to tease him about , what he did was put his only feelings above hers. From her POV her ex somehow got her husband ‘s number and called him to put doubt in his mind about her loyalty, she has no way of proving to her husband that her ex is lying except with a paternity test. She thinks her husband has a valid reason to think that he not the real father. She’s going through this just to find out that this wasn’t to save her marriage from an jealous ex trying to break them up…it was from her husband not wanting to feel embarrass.
I love that younger people think and talk about not having kids. My children are the absolute loves of my life. Loving people who you have to protect and keep safe is horrific in this world. A lot of the things that come with parenting are definitely hard enough to make you tell others to think twice.
Okay, the person in that last story is AMAZING!! Gotta love how how the grandfather responded. All the other males in that family need to take the sticks out of their butts.
it sounds like there was a really funny miscommunication in the "drugging my kid" story; when the daughter said "sleepy gummie" the dad probably thought this little kid was taking weed gummies
I don’t think I would have been offended for the dad asking for a paternity test. And if I were to get offended, it would be more for the reason HE gave (that my ex told him I slept with him), more so that it was because of doubts after watching a reality tv show. Anyways, the only truly sure parent is the mom, so if there is ANY doubt of a father being the parent, I would want to put that doubt at ease, both for his benefit and that of my child. In addition, if he’s already willing to spend money on a dna test, I would suggest to make it fun and do one of those 23 and me type test. You would confirm that he is the father, AND get some other cool info in the process.
ueah tbh i dont get why people get sooooo upset abt it. like. i get that being accused of cheating really hurts, but is it enough to divorce them?? especiallt if u didnt even cheat and u still love them??
Hey, wanted to throw in my perspective since you're all childless and it sounds like you have never gotten an opinion like this before... I'm SO FREAKING GLAD that I had kids in my 20s. I had my first at 22 and my last (number 4) at 29. I'm 34 now and just really happy with my choice to start young because I know I get to be in their lives for a long time, and they are already so independent that I feel like I can see "the light at the end of the tunnel," if you will. 😅❤
