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People should adopt because they feel called to do so. These children aren’t some consolation prize. They need parents emotionally and physically prepared and capable of caring for a potential child with complex trauma.

The neighbors are acting ridiculous. If the woman had made any effort, she could have made a friend. She chose a difficult path for no reason.