@@KayTalkNYC Its not about being judgmental its about young people doing stupid, useless, and even dangerous things just to get into sororities. After graduating from college (if they even do), there is no more use for sorority life, it won't get you a job, it won't get you into grad school, it won't get you an apartment, it won't even get you any status once you go on inactive for not paying dues, Honorary members cannot even nominate a person for new membership, grad chapters offer even less than undergrad chapters. Its all just ceremony. You are just buying friends to hang out with while you are in school. And these AKAs, much like the rest of them, are delusional if they think this stuff matters for anything.