Its my first time commenting ndingumxhosa mna but inyani ithi uCc shes not fair yes thina singama Xhosa asikholelwa endodeni ene jwabu thats our culture its not like yi culture yomntu wonke mna ndibona ngathi uCc if imhlupha indaba ye Jwabu labhuti ncono amshiye lets not forget ukuthi amagazi wethu ayathetha kungenzeka uba njengoba ubhuti esaba ukusika there bight be something bad that may happen to him my advise to you bhuti please follow your heart dont feel the pressure its not the end of the world
Hay cc usavelaphi umntu onga circumsizanga,,, bayenza nase sbhedlele klk,, nathi sijola namazulu kodwa asikile, for the sake yezifo maan nezinye izinto kodwa ngalesikhathi kuhle ukuthi wonke umntu ayisuse lento
YAZI SINGABANTU SESITHANDA I SOCIAL MEDIA LE MEKUNGAMELE NJE IZE IFIKE LA NO GUYS WHY SEKUNJE NEZINTO EZIDINGA NINA KODWA USINGAZE UZOPHONXA UMUNTU WAKHO KANJE ANGIVUMI MINA 👏👏
Am a Xhosa myself but she’s very disrespectful and if she doesn’t want to date someone who’s not circumcised, why she doesn’t stick to our Xhosa guy. Like mna ndimthanda nabelungu and there are not circumstance and I don’t have any problem with that,this man should date another woman 👩 and please don’t think about money you spent on her,just let her go and there’s lots of women out there that will love ❤️ and respect you dear,don’t let her control you please
This is the first time I comment on such shows. Ndingu mxhosa I know and understand the differences between cultures. Watching this video, the girl does not love this guy. Usebonile usisi uba uthandwa kakhulu ngubhuti, and she is taking advantage. My fear is that ubhuti enze lo sacrifice and do this thing and still the lady dumps him; because looking at the way she speak to him, she is capable, and she doesn't respect him.
Bro the sooner you get out of this relationship the better. Akuyena umfazi lento. Ayikho inhlonipho kuloSis. Her tone and the way she addresses things USENKINGENI BAFO. This is just a wake up call, Imagine having a child or children with such a woman. Qhubeka at your own risk.
I am a Tsonga man circumcision is our culture but as people we must not disrespect others who are not but the reality is that circumcision is a must in this day and age we are living in.
Circumcision is important the foreskin carries a lot of bacteria it can infect your partner with cervical cancer I am not judging anyone because I am circumcised but I am telling the truth research about it or go to the local clinic and ask a doctor you will see what I mean
What this lady is saying is very valid… it’s just that the manner of approach. And as umzulu, we can’t be using our culture not to circumcise. I have brothers and they have all been circumcised… it’s actually a health issue not a culture issue. We can’t hide ngesthupha all in the name of culture. ALL MEN SHOULD BE CIRCUMCISED!!! It’s 2024 and honestly we can’t be debating over that, we really can’t!
I'm a Xhosa man. It's true what my sister says!!! But very disrespectful approach. You'll enjoy your manhood after the cut. You've not been embarrassed my brother. You're a great guy. Ultimately, one wishes a marriage between the two friends, before a child is brought into this world.
Intombi yomXhosa ijwayele ngamapipi asokiwe, awanawo amajwabu amadoda yamaXhosa. I like the lady cause she's straight forward to what she wants and she loves her boyfriend. Sisokile sonke asinankinga😀
This lady love this guy ,thinake MaZulu sinenhlanhla yethu nje yokuthola abantu abasithandayo .Cha ubafo akasuse unjwabu edle umuntu strong bebe nabantwana nakhu nathi siyaphila sawakhipha nje futhi angikaze ngagula kubalulekile ukusoka guyz akusilona usiko lento if uzithanda nje as umjita susa lento.
Mara Sisi why not leave him alone. Dont impose your culture on him. If his culture doesn't do initiation then rather leave him. Don't embarrass him telling him in public yikwekwe😢...No sisi.
Ewe mntase as for aba bathi akathethi kakuhle mna ndibona ngathi ugirl uye abone ngathi the only way to get through his thick kukuba abenoburhabaxa ayadika nyani amadoda neenkani zawo and mna ndiyaziva izizathu zikaAsemahle
People are sayig this girl is embarassing the guy yet uGirl said ut to the guy when we spoke about this at home, he gets furious regarding this matter. Thats why she went seeking for help to talk to his guy about his issue
@@mduduziMavundla7242 true that... Naye if akafuni, akasho so that uGirl will stop putting pressure on him and asking him to get circumcised and decide whether to continue with him and his foreskin or dump him... Simple as that... Manje he seems like he's undecided or don't know whether to do it or not
i agree with u girl.....yes u wrong to bring the guy to this platform, but her points are very valid.....so much can go wrong uma unga sikanga... i dont think it should be about tribes, cultures and everything else but personal health....muncishe wena girl until asike...its for your own good health...
If you didn't go through something you'll never understand.... I've been there so I understand u sis, I once dated lo guy unejwabu, i tried several times uthetha naye ndimbonisa ubungozi balo but wayengafuni umamela. Sasiphela sililwa ngalondaba. Kwakungekho lula ukumyeka kuba ndandimthanda, problem yayiyile yejwabu..... Jwabu has nothing to do with culture, ufumana izifo sana
Nah its no zulu culture, i would advice ubuze next time before ukhulume into ongayazi..mina ngumZulu phaqa and im circumcised angikwazi uhlalaphi kodwa awuke uthole iNhlalisuthi bey'khona oyaziyo uzofunda lukhulu ungahambe ukhuluma into ongayazi
Firstly this lady is confused why can't she find love with a Xhosa guy secondly you can't forced someone to do something that you need to know our culture are not the same😢😢
When did circumcision have to do with culture???Asemahle you go girl❤❤❤Stand your ground.UngumXhosa uyinzule it doesn't matter.Circumcision has to do with personal hygiene.
He should do it for health reasons and for cleanliness. He should just do it and he😊 will get the benefit at the end Maybe the this lady approach is the problem.
Yhuuu hayi noko bethuna ayikhole sisi khawuzihloniphe bingekho enyindlela bunothethangayo kubhutiza ,Bhuti gqithela komnyumnyango uvuliwe for wena akanambekolo😮
Big up to the girl for standing up for what she believes in. She went an extra mile & necer gave up. Thanks bro for ukvuma ukboniseka . Uyindoda mfethu. It takes a matured man to listen to the next person. This a big step. Show host, you're very matured my man. You always try your best solve the problem. This show is always about helping the couple. Bravo bro
I wasn't imagine myself ngisokile..but in my age the day I been ask by very young lady kuth why are you keeping this hmmm..by the next day I went straight to the clinic and cutting same day...the way I was disappointed by being ask with 2k
On my side this lady really loves the guy that is why she decided to tell him,,, yes I know the guys will think that she is embarrassing him but as far as I understand this matter she has done it well
a Very humble guy at the end of this......Asemahle sis funda uthetha lungisa ulwimi lwakho beside Being a Xhosa funda uyilungiselela intetho ngengomntu onengqondo blood is running through your veins as a human ngumntanomntu naye lobhuti
I started dating a Xhosa...she told me uyazi ujwabi it's a total turn off...but according to some research cutting is ujwabi is healthy and keeping yourself clean.
