This man is the cause of the whole challenge. 1. He doesn't listen to his wife. He's selfish. 2. He thinks he's right. His wife has a point. 3. Good communication can ease or relax their minds and bring them romantically close. 4. When romance happens, her mind and body will be ready to engage in love-making. 5. Ultimately they will enjoy it without pain.
I see lots of people knocking umfethu lana for ulaka ne nkani. But we all a product of our environment. I know many men like him. Your background plays a part in how you view the world. He needs times, patience and some elders he trusts to set him straight. May God and the ancestors help him and his wife find a solution.
I professional counseling idingeka ezintweni ezinje. Psychologically, uMapholoba was not aware of what she experienced, her first experience was a disaster, and she cannot open up about it. Her mind needed to be prepared, she was not ready. The husband didn't prepare her, he's a bad listener.
The lady is down to earth 🌍 Good wife material. The man is wild. He must reason like a human being. He needs to take Care of this beautiful wife's side of the story also
We men are broken finish and klaar. More services need to be offered as a group session or something cause this guy has had something that has broken him. He can't even listen to his wife, his own demise will come to him, get him a counselor if you can😢😢😢
There is as much wisdom in listening as there is in speaking and that goes for all relationships, not just romantic ones. The art of conversation lies in listening
Thank you to the Presenter for standing up for this beautiful young Lady, she maintained her inosense as a Virgin and gave it to Her husband which is such an honorable thing in this day and age. This man is a Bully😮 His wife is not those truck stop girls he rides like a Mule eMpumalanga, she needs Foreplay Passion Love and Respect. Hai Lowo ungumnqundu wendoda. I Hope and Pray shes alive in the next few years because if he cannot contain his anger in public how much more when hes alone nomfaz endlini. You are Beautiful Princess ❤❤❤❤sending you Love
Just when I thought I would side with the guy, then he messed-up, he doesn't want to listen. My wife was a virgin and I still remember when i broke her, it was painful for a couple of weeks, maybe one or two. Then it was paradise from then on. I had to understand her body for those one or two weeks, slowly working with it. This man needs to listen to learn.
@@NonzalisekoMashiyiShe's traumatized, when she thinks about sexual intercourse all she remembers is the pain she felt. When she tries to voice out her concerns he doesn't listen and he's rough with her.
I love my sister you so so humble be patient he's going to be fine by listening to other shows a nd advices ❤❤ mphathi wo hlelo unesineke big up much love ❤❤❤❤❤
Bhuti tofatofa umuntu wakho aze athambe abe utamati. Ungavese nje ungene omile umama kubuhlungu ndoda yenza kahle, umuntu ufunda aze afe. Try it my brother you will see the difference. I wish you all the best, tofatofa imamas 😂😂😂
@Aunt Thokomhlongo uyitshayile ekhanda .We hope he will updated us after trying uforeplay .Do not just jump to the journey wanting to reach the destination on man side .Ladies are like the diesel engine .U do not kick start then travel gear .
Ubaba is very obstinate, he came to this show for help so that their marriage should flourish but his anger and his traditional beliefs are hampering his understanding. I'm not a counselor but I think they need that. All I'm saying change is difficult and not easy to accept. But one thing I commend is the wife's calmness and thoughtfulness. Come on bra this is 2024. Allow yourself to experience love at another level.
Akachaze mekukuthi wakewahlukumezeka losis angyizwa lento ngoba once baku break varginity uyayeumthande lowomuntu angyizwa lena kusho akamuvulanga kahlr bhuti
No it is not THE PENNIS SIZE.....SHE WAS A VIRGIN BAKWETHU I SEX IBUHLUNGU MAUSACALA KUYENZA UNTIL AZE AJWAYELE CUZ IKUKU AYIKAJWAYELI UCANSI AND UBHYTI UHLALA EMPUMALANGA ATLIST ABAHLALE NDAWONYE UZOMJWAYELA NAYO IKUKU NOMZIMBA WAKHE UZOJWAYELA UMYENI WAKHE...FIRSTIME HAVING SEX ITS PAINFULL NGISHO NOMA UNGAFAKA I ROMANCE.....NOMA NGATHIWA.IPIPI LINCANE IZOBA BUHLUNGU NJE ..ABANYE BAZE BAFAKE OR BASEBENZISE NO VASELINE
Siyaba ne "girls talk"singabesifazane,bese siyelulekana,uma ethi omunye kubuhlungu uma umuntu wakhe engena kuye,besesiyalulekana ke ngolwazi,ngoba siyashiyana ngezigaba nolwazi,kaningi ke makezwa ubuhlungu usisi,isiluleko kuba wukuthi yi "Romance"kudlaliswane before kungenwa lapha!kakhulukazi uma owesifazane makesanda kuphuma ebuntombini, Kubuhlungu!hhayi ngoba engafuni okanye ef#ba
Just when I was about to take his side, Zulu boy just had to mess it all up! If Zulu boy doesn’t want to learn, he risks loosing a good woman. But I fully understand where his frustration and anger is coming from. I pray they find common ground bcoz they are a cute couple. Sifuna abazukulu thina.
This young beautiful woman looks traumatized and unhappy. If this guy doesn’t want to compromise akaphindisele ingane yabantu emuva. He is selfish, is more concerned about omakhelwane, akafuni ukuzwelana nomkakhe. Wayeziqhenya ngobuntombj bakhe kanti buzothathwa yindoda engenasineke. If he doesn’t want to listen to the pleas of his wife, this relationship is doomed. He is aggressive, loud and seems to have anger issues. Angalandeli ingane yabantu izifo njengoba ethi uyathenga nje. Uyothini ke nenkosikazi mase iphumela ngaphandle njengaye? Uphoxa amaZulu nje lo. Watching from the United States 🇺🇸
Awuuuu maZulu akithi niyasiphoxa yini nje lê I’m happy my man is a very understanding man I just thank God Jehovah 🙌🙌🙌ngaze ngazwelana nawe gal akusiyo Indoda lê
Uyahlekisa ubhuti bft u cc shuti qkamzwanga ukuthi uyathenga manje sorry shemu cc bazokusuza obhuti bqmeluleke kwezothando nakuba nje efuna ukumudla ushoti uma ephawula tyooooh sengiphelile ukuhleka 😂😂😂❤
This is what scares me to be in a relationship where my voice is not heard. I so wish to meet someone who will hear me out, not listen to defend himself. 😢 I give up emjolweni. 😢😢
Wow to the Host You handled the situation well ...what a stubborn man who refuses to understand even the obvious. eish so was the lady sort of violated on her first time😔she says it was hurting for an entire month afterward now she's traumatized I can imagine.
Soo true kwaleyo yokuthi omama bayojonga amasheet igazi lisho kona ukuth ungena ngendlov'iyangena yi abuse le useyathenga manje ekubonisa kahle ukuthi udkala nje ngengane,ufundiswe wuban ukuthenga shuthi kudala wakwenza
Ya yihlazo yiqiniso elimsulwa lapho!.but Baba nawe handle her with love and care uyeke ukumthethisa sengathi uyingane yakho encane, she is your Wife she loves you.
