I'm 37 and I still wear punk and metal style. When I was a young punk all the older punks were my age and taught the younger kids like me what cool music was and how to dress and everything else. Style never ages ❤
36 and a metalhead/punk. I still listen to the music. I still go to the shows and concerts. I still go in the pit sometimes, so I’m not wearing my work attire to the show if I don’t have to. I didn’t hit my 30s and think everything needs to be beige and cream tone. I didn’t hit my 30s and wake up saying ‘nah, cold play is as heavy as I can take now.’ I get told I look the same as I did in college when I’m not dressing professional, which I now only do if I feel it will get me more money from a client, since I mostly work for myself as a freelance artist. But otherwise I’m gonna keep wearing the clothes I’ve had since I was 20, as long as they are still wearable and don’t need a new patch.
I don’t usually see parents dressing up so brightly and freely after having a kid. I love to see people like this still enjoying their style and not caring about what others think is correct.
Yeah because when you have a kid your behavior reflects on them too. She doesn't care if other kids and people bully her kid over her actions. You don't get to not care what other people think of you when you have a child. You have an OBLIGATION to your child and a responsibility to care about what other people think in order to protect them from the cruelty of other people. The world is hard and mean enough as a kid. Why would you go out of your way to make things harder for your child? We do not and will never live in a perfect utopia. Her kid will be bullied and judged for her actions and behavior so she has an obligation to act accordingly. Her happiness is not as important as her child's anymore. Don't have children if you can't handle that. Some people are too selfish and self absorbed to have children
@@WhitneyDahlin last I checked children don't get bullied for wearing bright clothes but I live in the real world so maybe you should try that some time.
@@WhitneyDahlin pretty sure like most non-brainwashed by TikTok kids would think their mom is so cool for dressing so pretty. Also, you don’t know if she wears these clothes around her kids or her kids friends.
@@CRAZYSQUARESand how is it the mom’s fault that OTHER kids are jackasses? Maybe the bullies should be disciplined instead of you blaming the victim or someone associated with the victim.
@@WhitneyDahlin maybe she feels her obligation to her child is to show them that they can be authentically and fully themselves no matter WHAT others think, as long as it hurts no one else, and not to bend yourself to what society has decided is normal. Maybe she wants her child to grow up knowing that joy at any age is possible. Y'know, so the kid doesn't grow up to be someone like you.
Fr if u gave birth or if ur large or any other size as well as 30 u can still literally so young ig anything I think you should stoo wearing croo tops in early 50ths because ur not gonna be as wild in that age@@HelloXrancidkitteh
You don't suddenly lose your creativity when you turn 30. It's because of people like you that world is a little brighter every day. Dont stop doing what you love.❤
as someone who has never had kids, i think mom bods deserve more hype. you grew a WHOLE HUMAN in there and then pushed it out! that's amazing and you should rock that.
I think it’s amazing to see parents still dressing how they want to. Usually, when you have a child, everybody thinks you’re meant to just wear sweatpants and a gross shirt. It’s very refreshing to see a mom still expressing herself through clothes.
Oh yeah, because you are not supposed to teach kids that they can be unapologetically themselves. Or is it so that it is just moms that are not allowed to do that? Once you become a mom and it is just messy buns, no makeup and sweatpants with flannel shirts, got it.
I bet your kids will see you as an inspiration, you don't care about haters and continue doing what you love. Hope i had a mother do carefree like you and not an overthinkin family that cares too much about what elders r gonna say
I said something about posting things for sale on Facebook Market and this 21 year old dude told me "oh yeah, i forgot you're old" i dont feel and or look old, people, especially men, like to say if you're thirty or approaching thirty then you're old
I just turned 43, 3 days ago & still wear space buns on the regular along with “quirky” outfits when I go out. I survived stage IV cancer & refuse to let anyone dull my shine. Life is AMAZING. Wear what makes you happy.
@@I.luv_hyein Thanks! Worst of it is it’s my own dang fault for smoking. I’ve now devoted my life to trying to educate people who think “it won’t ever happen to them”. I only smoked like half a pack a day & now I’m permanently “disabled”. Tobacco is a killer.
I just had surgery to remove two giant cell tumors in my upper tibia. Its been really depressing because i havent been able to work or leave the house much because my bone was so fragile. But now i can be up and about, you know what? No more boring clothes!
why do some people think your 30's is old? you're still considered a young adult, for one, and secondly, as someone whose just turned 35, it feels the same as it did when you're in your 20's. I'm SO glad you didn't let that judgemental person stop you for being you and expressing yourself. I absolutely adore kawaii and decora fashion, its SO cute and colorful!
SERIOUSLY THOUGHH. Considering it is very possible for people to live somwhat over 100 years, thinking that being not even Half that age is Old is absolutely wild. And even if someone is around 100 years old and wear decora, that's literally just rad and inspiring, everyone deserves their own version of joy.
It's not really about people thinking 30 is old. It's about poeple thinking that maturity can't come without restricting yourself from a lot of things. Plus a lot of fun things that aren't and shouldn't be age restricted are seen as childish.
While I agree that 30 is not old, it definitely does not feel the same as it did in my twenties, not for me anyway. There's a sense of wisdom and Womanhood and maturity that I have fortunately gained in my thirties that I definitely didn't have whatsoever in my twenties
My mom iz amazing. 4 the 17 yearz I've been alive, she'z shown me I don't gotta stop being me az soon az I turn 21. I'm glad I have her az a mom, & I'm glad this RU-vidr'z kidz have her az a mom.
i just wanted to say, you showing your mom bod has absolutely made my day. i have a two month old and the body dysmorphia has been hitting me like a truck. i have stretch marks and loose skin now and i haven’t felt comfortable in my own body, but seeing someone with a body like mine be confident in it helps me feel so much better. genuinely thank you
Stretch marks just show that you carried a whole damn human in your body, which is absolutely amazing in itself!!!! There was a comment on here that said that they think of stretch marks as a sort of scrapbook of your experiences and life! Congratulations on the baby btw!!!!❤
i remember as a little girl when i first got stretch marks due to puberty and a certain medication that made me gain weight, my mom sat me down and explained to me that stretch marks and scars and wrinkles and birthmarks are like a scrapbook of our travels in life, and that we shouldn’t be afraid or ashamed to tell our stories and show off our ‘scrapbook’. I’ve always tried to hold that mentality with me ever since that day. So to all of you who may need to here this, our ‘imperfections’ are nothing to hide or be ashamed of, they are simply a page in our scrapbook that we display on our bodies to tell our story. Your scrapbook is completely unique to you and should be shown off to the world!
I love your mom for that, she seems kike she sees life through a very beautiful and kind lense 🥺 but fr, i love my stretch marks! It's like we have our own sick tiger stripes, or lighting bolts :)
@@ImflippingoutI have never seen her mugshot but I def know who she is😭I was just pointing out that ofc someone with an ayesha pfp would know who lindsay is
yall i know her kid gets so happy everytime they enter this room 😭 as a younger kid (and now honestly) i would have gone crazy happy entering a room with that much color
this is probably one of my favorite outfits from you! I think the midriff "break" in the decorations and colors is what ties it all together and makes it look perfectly balanced
@@anomonomous1432 It's actually a combination :DD The colours are definitely Kidcore. And some of her accessories are toy like or have nostalgic characters on them. The Decora part is her overload of accessories. Decora can be any colour. Wether it's black and white, or rainbow doesn't matter! :D
@@Jisungbeabay im sorry but i dont understand what you mean by that can you explain because kid core and 12 yr olds arpt saphora are in my mind the exact opposite 😅
Guys. Just because you wouldn't dress like this, doesn't mean she can't. Personally, decora isn't my style, but if someone else is wearing it, then I'm like 'good for them' and I get on with my day. People should be able to wear what make them happy.
YOU LOOK 16-20!!!! Omggg thats what you call a catfish,so pretty and colourful. Many 30yr olds are busy (or whatever) and always wear shades. Like black or white. You are beautiful!!!
You can wear anything you want regardless of gender. Just make sure you’re happy and comfortable. It doesn’t matter if you’re a 25 year old man wearing a dress. BE FREE XD
@@ElectrayyI agree as a gender fluid person but I do wish their were more tutorials of ppl who dress like this without the skirt bc I still want to it lol
Listen.. Im 27, and was told because I was bigger i couldnt wear dresses and colours, and spend my early 20's wearing black and white, with the only pop of colour being some blue jeans and maybe a flanel shirt... When I bought my first "everyday" dress and put it on, I felt so cute, feminine and loved looking at myself in the mirror for the first time in years, and I have never looked back! I love colourful dresses, i love cute overalls, i love flowers and fun and i smile when i open my rainbow closet! I spend my days looking like an art teacher or a cute little gandma, and it makes me so happy! Its about how it makes you feel, not what makes others comfortable. Lets make it another 30years, and spread colour and fun around the world, we can only be sure we will be here once, lets be happy for us❤
I’d be embarrassed to have her as my mom as a kid, but she would be one of the people I’d show off as an adult. I feel like having this is good for the development of your kids because it shows that other people’s opinions don’t matter as long as you feel confident in yourself
Dang, I was gonna say that’s mean, but I wholeheartedly agree. I tell teens that “true maturity is embracing cringe”, because I feel like I missed out on so much trying to act “too cool” for something when in reality, I was just stopping myself from doing things I enjoy.
This style is how I imagine a lot of kids with “beige” parents will dress when they’re adults lol. Jokes aside, it’s so wholesome to see you living life to the fullest extent!😊
You’re a mom? I hope your child is beyond proud to brag about you to friends! You are totally rad and it makes me happy to know you’re spreading the color on ❤ Edit: WOW! That’s a lot of likes in a day 😳
That’s why adulthood is such a touchy subject because it scares teens like me 😭 if I’m going to work till I’m old and weak, atleast let me do it in style. Adulthood doesn’t have to be dull, bring some color into your life.
And this is my pov as well. If I'm gonna be miserable working and paying bills till I die then at least let me have fun off the clock with my j fashion
WOW! You are a mom?! That's so awesome!!! Your child is lucky to have a mom as cool as you! And also you have a perfect bodyshape, like I'm not exaggerating your figure is awesome, there's NOTHING to be self conscious about! Your style is adorable and your is personality is one to match🌈
Her look screams hard nostalgia for me, it was peak trend for many who was born in 90s that fishnet, was a must. Layered colorful clothes. Punk , emo etc. We were wild experimenting new fashion styles
It’s not my aesthetic personally but you seem lovely and I always admire someone presenting fully authentically to them no matter what a few people think. They just wish they had the confidence to be themselves fully. Being a mum or 30 is no reason to give up your identity!
I'm 30 and this is soooooo cute!! I LOVE IT, and you look great! Not only you look SOGOOD in general, the look makes you seem so happy and fun, isn't that what fashion is about? YOU NAILED IT!!
I can't belive your a mom your kid has to be the luckiest kid ever not only your sweet kind and fun but olso stylish pretty and so precious and you olso give off this like chill and nice vibe!!!Love!!!❤
SO GLAD I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL!!! happy to see people open to sharing their “mom bods” too many ppl are weird about it when we have the opportunity for amazing outfits like this like wtf
I can barely see any stretch marks, be proud of your mom bod! You rock! You pushed out a child and gave someone life, that's amazing, it's the miracle of life! God bless you 💕
This may not be my personal style, but it genuinely makes me so fucking happy seeing you wear this! It’s bursting with life and personality and I love seeing people unapologetically wear stuff that expresses themselves wholeheartedly!
Enzo is so lucky to have you as a mother. You are so cool in sense of style, and you have such a sweet smile and personality. The outfit looks great :)
