Am I Fake? Nine Disturbing Signs of A Fake Personality 

I heard a clip of Bashar saying "you can't not like yourself, you can only not know yourself" and something really shifted in me. I didn't realize I'd been avoiding getting to know my true self all that time. I'm really excited about this year. Authenticity, Self Expression, and Creativity are my focus 💃🏽♥️✨🔥👑 great vid 🥳 you truly are real af

When it's all relatable and you feel your face getting hot and wanting to crawl into your skin and hide but you know hearing this is what you need.

Ppl tuning out when u speak is so real for me. I grew up soooo shy (the type of kid u can’t even look at because they start crying) and it took me forever to actually start speaking out loud. And when I finally did start speaking, I noticed this - people tuning out pretty quickly. OR - If in a group setting - I would start talking at the exact same time as someone else. It’s very difficult for me to communicate properly. I end up overcompensating or projecting this hyper confident version of myself. I’ve never had a genuine friendship. Now as an adult, I’ll do anything to avoid feeling like that mute kid lost in a haze of missed social cues. It’s the only emotional pain that truly floors me still to this day.

the point about using a different voice is so crazy to think about. in my last relationship we literally used an accent we made up to talk to each other. our communication was terrible. he never would listen to me so it was literally like i took on a different voice and personality to like appease him. we romanticized it like it was a cute thing for us but it was literally just THAT uncomfortable when i would try to communicate. and when he did it it felt patronizing. it was def exhausting after awhile and when i dropped the facade and tried to just talk normal he would say i was harsh and aggressive. 🙃🙄😒😒😒

All the dings. All of your videos I’ve seen are so drastically eye opening and I’m grateful thank you for sharing your wisdom.

I don't know what I watched and searched for that brought this into my feed but I really like it. Thanks for making this and sharing this!

This is resonating SO HARD. This kind of honesty is what I needed to stop bullshitting myself. Thank you 😅

Your energy is incredible thank u !!’n

Bjork's cousin!! 😅😇 I used to tell people I was Nikki sixx' illigitimate child lol and actually started to believe my own bullshit. That came from so much trauma and shame about who I was. A DJ at a strip club I used to work at said I looked like him so I just jumped right on that horse and rode off into the sunset. Great video!!

My husband was born with NO filter. He ALWAYS says whats on his mind or how he is feeling.

The part about perfectionism ❤️‍🔥. I’ve been having this hit for the last few days that “A mistake” discounts or negates all other bits of progress up to that point. Thank you for this clarity that this is a perfectionism pattern! I had an inkling but nice to see the reflection here ❤️

Heart your content Mami Onami! Thank you.

Brilliant and thank you for sharing and the insights! 🙏🌹

It’s crazy how I found you on tiktok and then found this video but I’ve been on this journey for a while and have been struggling with finding me the real me not the fake me!

So excited about the book! Thank you so much for sharing all your work with us! Also stared learning business so I can have more money and join your school ❤️🔥✨

May God bless you ten fold, a million fold - I love you so much.

I code switch all the time. With my parents and family I have a different voice and when I speak to the people at work. Like my whole dialect changes. My mother was super critical and concerned about my grammar when I spoke and at work im always the only brown skinned person so I felt the need to whiten up my accent. I hate it and sometimes I play around with my persona so much I forget who I actually am. I am so exhausted that I don't even care anymore and now I'm just alittle angry all the time instead. I kinda love my cynical and angry little self.

Brilliant. Thank you 🙏

wtffffff thank you i’ve been so turned off by content creators who have moved into selling marketing techniques & was hesitant to press play & instantly captured in the most beautiful waysss i feel like i was drinking fridge water and just found a natural spring 😅 muchas gracias !!! i was thirsty af

“If your skin is burning you’re in the right place” 😂😂😂

I LOVE that you know Human Design (w a lot of other stuff clearly too). 🤓

The people pleaser is a great point. I used to worry about being included, now even tho i have much fewer friends going into my mid 30s, every person around me, even though we are for each other, its not to please each other. But they know im here to say whats on my mind, and they can appreciate the fact that i will tell you how it is. If it hurts your feelings, to bad, it needed to be said, because its better to find out then live your life oblivious to your negative traits. And i know they will reciprocate it back because it comes from a level of mutual respect. I now understand that operating like this ensures a level of mutual respect and honesty to help better eachother, as well as come to learn our downfalls to inturn grasp a better understanding of ourselves and be able to to grow in a more honest, mature, and positive way in the world. I will say, its definitely not for everyone tho, but clearly those are the fake people

ding ding ding, mami!!

Love this. Love you. Thanks for sharing! It's neat that it's kind of a spectrum too. I can observe someone else and see how they might not be authentic and I personally grew out of a particular behavior I see in them. Hope everyone watching can be patient with themselves and others :) 16:50 lmaoo what the ** are you saying? What do you want. Honestly though.

Sooo good. I’m burning and I love it 😂

I love you.

Thank you

mujer, te amo todos los días 🌹

The second red flag about drafts. Currently I do this.

yes ma'am go tell it on the mountain

When l am serving tables and speaking to people in the service industry I notice my voice goes higher a few notches. I aggravate myself lmao

Me being currently obsessed with enneagram and this type of content im surprised I just found you now , found you from insta reels , your good at this , I needed this , I want to make content like this , do you do coaching? And lastly why do you have the enneagram tattooed ?

ONAMI SERVES AGAIN! I’d love some fries as a side to this RARE TRUTH! Yes sandblasted again! Shit! 💩 this is good shit! 🙏🏼🤗 thank you

MAMAA im melting i need moooarrrr 😫😫 but how do i know which one inside of me is the real me

Just bought fuckless, very excited

Dings babes

LMAO this is so accurate I'm dying laughing

So once you come to your authentic self and get to know the other people inside of you, can you purposely use the people inside of you? I have seen celebrities do this. Like Niki Minaj for example.

🔥🔥🔥

VERY ding ding ding for me

This one is for enneagram 3

Shes talking about herself i assume?

Just be authentic and come out and say you don't like neurodivergent people.

Hmmm, have you ever heard of mental disorders and neurodiversity? A lot of these things are considered copying mechanisms/issues for autism and ADHD and calling it fake is quite harsh. But considering that you are selling something that "cures" what you are trying bash, I can understand, but this is soooo LAME!! I am so sorry, you cannot teach being authentic, you either are or you are not... And you do talk a lot... lots of words....