How to Get Over a Narcissist AND Make Him Obsessed With You 

the way my jaw dropped when you said “maybe this is the one taking me out of my cave…no, no. this is just the one that’s gonna send you back to the cave in even worse condition than you came out”

I had a person say that I was a narcissist. I had a moment of clarity & "I said Narcissist should be loved." What I was basically saying on a spiritual level is, "It takes one to know one." You're not going to talk me out of my power. I like how you mentioned "taking turns," and I agree. We can all shine, but I am going to get mine.

I have chills watching this. So good! After just escaping an abusive relationship with a narcissist- every word you’ve said is spot on & resonates to my core! Thank you 🙌🏼💚

I could listen to you all day ❤ what a source of so much wisdom. Thank you

Yo this is so fuckin spot on. I absolutely agree - my last narc boyfriend would threaten to break up with me or say we needed a break and I would be like, yeah I agree we do need a break, cool! And he would change his mind... it drove him crazy! He actually told me "I have literally never chased anyone like this before". This was before I even saw your videos on this - you had an older one on IG I saw not long after I started to reflect his bullshit back and that just confirmed it. I used to be so codependent - and like you said, idgaf if someone calls me selfish, a narcissist, racist, anything... I will be like haha cool thanks! Sometimes I feel like all mythology including the bible is just code for our own psyche - Neville Goddard says Jesus is actually us on a soul level and God is the mind - "the all is mental"... but then there are also egregores so they gotta be entities outside of us too. Dude you are literally famous as fuck, I already know it. As a 1/3 projector, I have a talent for knowing what looks best and what works best - you are 100% the best spiritual teacher I have ever come across. I say you are famous now because you are! "Live from the state of having your desire now" (not in the state of wanting it to manifest which implies lack). I have followed your work for 2 years maybe and I wanna say I am so happy for/proud of you for overcoming so much fucking bullshit and look at you now. Amazing. ❤️

Someone referred your chakra video on Tiktok and I am so glad they did. I have literally been writing notes for two hours now. I used to go to a naturopathic perception reframist for years but for some reason your videos just click in my brain and I am so thankful to have come across your channel.

I appreciate you so much! I needed this ❤🙏🏻 Thank you for sharing!

This video is so amazing! Thank you so much for sharing this with all of us!!! 🔥🙏🏻👸🏻🖤

Hell yeah. This is a lesson I’ve learned and now your words are pure affirmation. A perfect spring board towards the next. Thank you 🙏🏻

Haha thanks you've explained what a psychotherapist was trying to tell me years ago when he said I am the same as my narc farther which was then my greatest fear. I still see my narc farther as so broken and insecure underneath though & the narcisim as a coping mechanism but maybe that's the lense of my co dependent. Thankyou for your incredible insight.

You are such a phenomenal story teller ❤ I claim you as my spiritual mamiiii lol and I love how this is shifting my perspective on narcissism

I love where you went with this. It gave me the strength to face my narcissist in court today. ❤️🙏

Lol ok I’m in tears bc of how much this opened my eyes, and most of these things aren’t things that I didn’t already know in my gut…but they are things that I needed to hear from someone else. Thanks for the video 🖤

I needed to hear this💯💯💯

This is fire honestly

Watching everyday for the rest of my life.

This was so entertaining, loved it

Best advice I’ve ever received

Best thing that ever happened to me as it did WAKE ME UP AND I LEARNED TO LOVE MYSELF and self reflect ❤

ily, sis

❤ I love this!

This was a very different take on how to deal with a narcissist - most therapist just say you should just run …

This is a different take and not quite the meaning of how people view narcissists now. Yes many aspects line up. However, it’s more the old meaning. More in the origins of it all, and for that this video is highly informative and valuable.

I NEEDED THIS LIKE WATER TODAY

So much 🔥here! 🙌

I like your take on how you should take control of your life and such, but I think you are talking about a person with narcissistic traits as opposed to someone who has narcissistic personality disorder. There is nothing wrong with adopting healthy narcissistic ways to life, which is what you're talking about. Being in a relationship with a person with NPD is a whole different animal. Never ever take back a person with NPD, it will never change and could be dangerous.

I scare off narcissists on the first or second date. So that means, I must be the narcissist of the relationship;)

I'm slightly confused by the message. Are you saying to stay with narcissist? What happens when you have these realizations and you work on yourself but the narcissist doesn't accept this and continues to abuse you? When do you take what you've learned and move on?

There is a huge difference between a person with confidence and a psychopathic personality disorder. People with NPD will go to the extreme of killing their children or partners and still not feel remorse. The person with NPD will be the eternal victim and will always find a target, confident or not, they will lever all their tools to do so. It is a rare person who can spot and be unaffected by a true narc.

So I guess this could work if you are trying to make it work with the narc. You bc a narc. I get it. And you are like pointing out the healthy qualities of a narc that could be beneficial to those who NEED to focus on themselves. I guess my question is this- at what point would you suggest this to someone? Like if they are not in a physically abusive relationship that makes sense- but what relationships like this that have gotten physical? What would be your advice? Listen, I went from new age/oneness to christian but you are definitely making me question stuff all over again so I appreciate your videos

God this is good

Holy shit 👏🏻

Do you think this will work with something that's diagnosed with ASPD?

You are a whole fucking VIBE

I think I just realized I’m a narcissist

Where is the cracking codependency?

You are a fkn G

I'm done with the cave

the end of this video is so toxic omg hahahahhahaha