Am I Really A Healer? | My Experience Healing Others As An INFP

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INFPs are often referred to as the 'healer' type and even though I don't really think of myself as a 'healer' there have been one or two times throughout my lifetime where you could argue I healed people in some way. Let me know your thoughts in the comments.

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21 окт 2024

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@radishraven9 3 месяца назад

Your first story made me cry actually because i would also have hidden in the closet if a drunk man was acting like a werewolf and would have felt so comforted and safe if someone had been kind like you had. 😭 reminds me of the movie The Square. I really don't understand how you survived your childhood and teen years with such outrageous stories. I would have been traumatized for life. I guess you're made of tougher stuff than me. I was just thinking about Fi empathy yesterday as i was thinking of how i comfort my Fe friends. My friends would know what to say and i would flounder...but then realize i did know what to say, because i could get so deep inside their shoes. The outro is really good, i love your stone throw with the CS rap, very cinematographic! 😂 Anyway thank you for your healing presence here on youtube, your videos always cheer me up, and your lava lamp is very soothing 😊💙

@vondelpete 3 месяца назад

@@radishraven9 Thank you! Also thank you for the film mention because that sounds interesting to me now haha. Yeah hm that's the feeling isn't it it, not knowing what to say and floundering, but then you learn one day that that's okay. Or at least, hopefully Fi users can come to peace with that fact, that it's more about allowing someone to open up. Ha thank you, it made me laugh making that little outro lol...and as usual I'm happy I can have that effect :) 💜

@alanauram 3 месяца назад

Sometimes you just need someone to be there and offer comfort, so it's great people like you exist. I'm very bad at consoling with words, I never know what to say, and I don't think I have a comforting presence at all. In fact, yesterday I was telling very bad jokes and making terrible puns, and I jokingly told my friends, 'I don't understand how I was never the class clown', and they very seriously and very immediately hit me with stuff like, 'It's because you're too quiet', 'You're so serious when you're in class', 'You give off a very terrifying vibe', 'I wouldn't have talked to you if you hadn't talked to me first'. Imagine someone like that trying to console you! 😂 So yeah, thank you, comforting and healing people of the world, your good vibes do not go unnoticed

@vondelpete 3 месяца назад

Thank you, I mean it's a bit strange how quickly your friends hit you with that! 'A terrifying vibe' hm. Then again I was told I had that vibe in high school/university. Maybe it's a good thing though. I sort of aspired to have that vibe, although who knows in the end...

@sicparvismagna1294 3 месяца назад

Hello Pete, First of all I like your new haircut / hair style. I don't know if I'm a healer but it warms my heart that the people who know me closely told me that they somehow feel that my presence in their lives is comforting. That's quite a story there and it shows some aspects about you. I have weird stories about consoling people... It was nice seeing you again. The outro is really something! Who was that ( I mean the voice) ? The words are yours? Anyway it was nice to see. Take care Pete

@vondelpete 3 месяца назад

Thank you about my new hairstyle. That's very nice if people are saying that about you, you even sounds that way in my comments section. Hopefully one day I will hear more about your weird stories consoling people. Ha that song at the end, it was a joke AI song I made to make my friend laugh, really. I guess all of it was made by prompts rather than myself...

@gorvo31 3 месяца назад

Hey Pete, Very nice new 'do' on you. Some wild though beautiful stories here! I believe we all have a certain, individual 'tone' to our being, and yes, some may have more of a healing tone that could be set by just being present with the other person, saying just the right thing in the moment beyond the practical or expected. Sounds like that was definitely the case with you, so you must have that ability to heal and make others feel safe in a sense. 🙂 -Carm

@vondelpete 3 месяца назад

Thanks about the new 'do', I will see how long it lasts haha. It's back to my old 'do' before I randomly decided to grow it long when I quit my job years ago. I think this is the key, the healing tone being someone who is saying something beyond the usual 'practical tips' that I think a lot of people are taught to provide, but I don't know, don't work for me or many others. :)

@MichelleMy_Unwell 3 месяца назад

I really like your new haircut. It’s very tousled. Rockstar hair. All you need is a vintage band tee and a leather jacket and an electric guitar. You need a little “punk” style in your life now. I think it’s very sweet that you missed your birthday to make your friend feel better. I think it just shows how well you can cope when things around you are crazy. It also shows where your heart is and how you knew your friend needed someone when they were scared and being unfairly villainized. Aw I’m sorry your birthday party was disrupted like that. ”Ten” is a special year too…it’s double digits.

@vondelpete 3 месяца назад

Hm I do need a vintage band tee and leather jacket. I wonder if my audience will go with it. Probably. Thank you! I mean, I guess it was to make him feel better but I think I was also avoiding the entire thing, I was required to invite people to my birthday but I only had like one or two friends and I remember being forced to invite 20 people, ugh. I didn't show up to my joint 21st twin birthday either which upset family actually. Oh well. There's always my fortieth...

@MichelleMy_Unwell 3 месяца назад

@@vondelpete Ugh yeah. That's what sucks about having a twin. Especially one that is extroverted. That's really funny that you didn't show up. That's the benefit though! You have a twin so the party wasn't fully wasted!

@brocklytodd5317 3 месяца назад

Yeah INFJ's are also called healers cuz we try to cheer people up and try to solve their problems with advice that no one follows.

@vondelpete 3 месяца назад

That sums up the experience pretty well.

@jessbeee_444 3 месяца назад

Loving the hair cut!! Weirdly, I also got a hair cut the other day! And yeah I’m the same as you, I don’t know if I’m the greatest with practical advice, but people often say they feel safe around me and can be themselves and tell me anything, which to me is much more gratifying anyway. I think because I’ve been through my fair share of pain and hard-to-understand struggles in my short time here on Earth so far, I want to be the understanding comfort blanket for people that I didn’t always get. Plus I can be too empathetic for my own good haha. Although my next door neighbour definitely fits the healer archetype. I’m pretty sure she’s an XNFP and does sound baths/sound healing for a living, so for sure fits that stereotype. And wow that is quite a story! As a nearly 19 year old myself, I don’t know how I would’ve reacted in that situation, but probably would’ve done something similar to you. Keep the story times coming by the way, absolutely love the way you tell stories in such an immersive way!! :)

@vondelpete 3 месяца назад

It's the season for INFP haircuts I guess! Thank you! :) I often think about what you said, when you've been through your fair share of pain and hard-to-understand struggles, there are really two directions you can go in, and the proper and positive direction is to want to be an understanding comfort blanket to others. (Since there are definitely people who take a different approach to that!) Also I love hearing anytime someone enjoys my story time videos because they're the most enjoyable thing for me to do and to hear that others can enjoy them too :)