So OP justifies a wife not being attracted to her husband. The man should not have cheated, but I bet if he left she'd have still asked husband to cut it off. Meanwhile she's fine with her friend cheating. Shows her nature
Wow, YTA your friend has 3 AP and you have an excuse for every one of them. . You just justified everything your friend did, it is sickening and your husband has every right to be pissed but I think he's more disappointed in you. He should be questioning your moral compass.