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@@Primeaka Because Dame had power in the industry when he had Jay-Z on his side. When him Jay parted ways Dame lost a lot of his power because he didn't have Jay as leverage anymore and people started to call him out for his poor, condescending attitude and behavior when Roc-a-Fella was on top.
Men Are perceived as threatening because physical violence is seen.Women are seen as non threatening because emotional and social violence is not seen right away. The damage is felt over time.
There was a recent paper highlighting how there are many more female psychopaths and sociopaths than previously thought because the assumption was always men and the measure was always physical violence. When considering women, who are still human and humans collectively are a violent species, exert their violence in different ways (verbal and emotional abuse, conniving, etc). Given this new perspective the takeaway was they're equally as many female psychopaths as men.
Issa Rae is actually doing the things that Amanda Seales says she’s doing. And She hates that Issa Rae is doing it better and differently than Amanda would have
That’s how I sort of observed Shahrazad Ali’s response to Kevin Samuels name dropping her and her book so many years after she was lambasted by the media. She had some pretty disconcerting words to share on how he chose to promote her. He didn’t use religion, like she, but still got his point across. Seemingly more effectively than she.
I thought the same thing when I watched the full interview. Said to myself "In all these people...all these hosts of witnesses...she is the common denominator. Not willing to realize that reeks of NPD."
Fun fact: females are less likely to be diagnosed as autistic, in part because they blend into groups better. This often results in them running into roadblocks later in life.
I said the exact same thing. That woman is literally a textbook case of narcissistic personality disorder. I picked that up about her about 3-4 years ago.
“This” and “Say it Louder” or “Only a black woman could understand this” Bro, we’ve been in trouble. The amount of BW who agree with her and constantly live in that victim mindset is startling. Nothing is ever their fault. Highly educated, yet lack introspection.
@kingtchala6832 there were also a lot of sisters calling out her BS tho. Bc Women understand women and know each others manipulations, however they will circle the wagons around each others manipulations if it goes against men, that's what makes them diabolical. The interest part is, women love her haughty rebellious spirit until it's aimed at them, then yall see them say "ion like her" 😆. Duplicitous hypocrites lol
@@kingtchala6832not highly educated though. Highest enrollment, but lacking in graduation. This has been true for a decade or so. Basically they're living off the truth of the past generation.
I remember the Jonathan Majors tape leaked of him talking himself up and people had no problem calling him out -Despite the reality of him standing at the precipice of becoming the focal point of one of Disney's biggest franchises.. ..but Amanda Seales gets to claim all the excuses for her behavior no matter how many blown opportunities to redeem herself 🤦🏽♂️
Coming from a woman who has dealt witg women from the side of women, narcissism is def underrepresented in women. This is why i do not just trust anybody
The problem with Amanda is her consistant lack of self accountability. One of the biggest issues we have among individuals in society is that most people lack accountability. They dodge it like the plague. Could she have ASD, sure, but because ASD is so generally defined, one could presumably make an argument for everyone to exist somewhere along the autism spectrum. We also live in a time where theres a clear overpathologizing over natural human behavior. So we wont overlook the convenient timing of this "diagnosis" nor will we overlook the fact that shes certainly smart enough to weaponize it in order to covet favor from those who also display antisocial behaviors while also seemingly disarming her critics by placing her in a "protected category". In the end though, whether she has ASD or not, everything cant always be everyone else's fault. At some point its still incumbent on her to own her "diagnosis", the world owes her nothing so she needs to stop acting like it does. Respectfully.
One of the first things I thought about was how she often talks about how educated she is, and referred back to what you’ve often said and many men agree, about how men don’t care about that if you’re often condescending, etc. and have the type of behavior/demeanor she has. She even said in Shannon’s interview how she’s not a “hugger” and isn’t affectionate or openly, or something along those lines. Combine that, w/ how she comes off, sprinkle in the constant victim narrative she keeps going, and there you have it. 40+, no relationship, hardly any friends if any, and still saying every one else did her wrong.
I'm a very forgiving person but I'll never forgive her for trying to ruin that black doctor's career for simply rejecting her, romantically. She exposed her disgusting character and entitled, fragile ego by attempting that on the innocent young brother. I refuse to support or feel sorry for someone like that just because she's a woman.
I can remember how many times, when working with young people, and I hear about domestic abuse and I'm the only one to ask if it's mutual/bilateral. Most people just assumes it's him, and she's granted the benefit of innocence. You're Obi, I have strong reservations about the word "narcissism" but you hit the nail on the head with this one.🤷🏿♂
12:13 it's not just you. Years ago I observed that the very behavior attacked in men by feminists are considered normal and defended or tolerated in women. So it's basically a gender power tussle. To a degree it makes sense and points to the fact that men and women cannot be equal as we do not socially operate the same way and are not socially tolerated the same way. So it's not difficult seeing how this (in today's strange world of equality) double standard can also reflect in the medical world. It definitely reflects in the judiciary world. Women are known to be given lighter sentences than men for the same crime (tolerance). No man should get offended by this reality. Simply understand the power you carry and why it cannot afford to be tolerated in the same chaotic state like a woman
It's worse than what you just said ... she thinks she is the world's punching bag, when she SHOULD be is rightful ruler .... because she is so great.... but still a victim.... a superior victim if you will 14:59
I was looking at a clip of the Shannon sharp interview and in the comment section so many women were agreeing with her take. It was such an eye opening view into the physiology of today’s American women and the victim hood mindset. And I believe your right a lot of it has to do with absentee Father’s
The 2nd greatest trick the devil has ever pulled was convincing people that he doesn’t exist. The greatest trick was convincing people that she, was a he.
I said that on another post. As women, we love to call out men when it comes to narcissism but we rarely call out women and even make excuses for it 🤦🏾♀️
@@nlm3223As a man, I agree that narcissistic men are more dangerous because men are more prone to dominate people. But women narcissist can be really deadly as well. Imagine her being a CEO or being in a leadership position. 😳
I think the biggest concerns I had for the interview and reaction to the interview is that Amanda Seales was not formally diagnosed with Autism. She did not go to medical school, is not a clinician of any kind. She’s reading symptoms online and thinking to herself that they describe her. There are tons of people who can identify with individual symptoms, but the overall picture of the disease or condition does not apply. I find it very strange that people not only glossed over this, but came down on Shannon Sharpe for even questioning if she had been formally diagnosed. She then comes out later after the interview saying she hasn’t been formally diagnosed and that she wouldn’t pay thousands of dollars for a diagnosis (despite the fact that it would not cost that much). Honestly, I’m surprised given our culture of awareness and sensitivity that the act of claiming a condition without a formal diagnosis isn’t seen as disrespectful to the communities that live with the condition. I get that clinicians are human can misdiagnose or fail to diagnose, but to not even pursue a diagnosis that you think to be true seems ridiculous. But, maybe that’s just me. The other issue with Narcissism. Part of me wants to diagnose her with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, but, ultimately, I don’t know this woman. I can’t say that with 120% certainty that she’s a narcissist. I would love to based on interviews I’ve seen, but maybe that’s introducing a sampling bias. But I do agree that it seems concerning that she upsets people no matter where she goes. I’m glad that she stands up for important issues when people are too afraid to do so because of politics or their platform, but, I don’t get how she makes enemies practically no matter where she goes throughout her lifetime and seemingly takes no accountability in any of the situations that arise. I think accountability is the most important part. We all make mistakes and misjudgments throughout our lifetime. We aren’t perfect and mistakes are often how we learn and grow, whether this is in academia or in social situations. The interview with Shannon Sharpe seemed devoid of that introspection and growth.
I would say it’s Amanda seals CONSISTENCY. She consistently tells the same story in every situation, so she consistently gets the same results in every situation and bc she’s is consistently non reflective, she consistently has the same victim hood responses. It’s like Amanda is in a loop. Or she is a tornado. Tornado Seals
Yep, vulnerable narcissist. Introverted, high anxiety/defensiveness, victimizing, and is hypersensitive to criticism. I see all of it in the interview.
Wherever "Bruce Banner" goes, there seems to be an altercation where he gets angry and turns into the HULK. Well, you know Bruce, maybe it's not them, maybe it's you. 😂
awesome video man! I lived with a female narc for 7 yr and when I found out, I became obsessed too. I concur; it’s 50/50! and society is actually encouraging narc traits to women in general so it may become lopsided
Society has been encouraging and promoting narcissistic behavior in men for centuries. If women are taking on more male centered roles; it is no surprise that there are more ppl complaining about narcissistic traits amongst women. The issue is that narcissistic behavior is manipulative and problematic but when men do it ppl just deal with it! Is the issue the narcissistic behavior or is it that women are now exhibiting these dominant behaviors and it is intimidating and off putting to deal with?
Thanks for sharing the Nigerian sayings. This is one of the primary differences between the West and other parts of the world. In the West women are seen as these delicate flowers, but the rest of the world is aware of their capability for evil, hence why you have societies that are strict on them, because they are aware of the potential for damage.
@@amateuroverlord8007 Then you lack the understanding that human beings, regardless of gender, have huge capacity for harm and evil. Perhaps you've been read too many fairy tales.
How did you get so good at randomly conveying your thoughts. I have thought about doing my own podcast because I have so many different political views and I have great conversations but at the same time once I get on camera alone, I can’t talk.
You have to get comfortable vocalizing your thoughts, its something I've struggled with when I've hopped on live streams here. In my head they are so thought through and organized but since I never realize vocalize them its hard finding the language and you end up stumbling. Probably help to get more organized. Notes and clear objectives for discussion.
Was the word you were looking for grandeur? Like delusions of grandeur? I think that’s related to her being an only child and lack of oversight or discipline. I’d be interested in learning more about her mom. I’m surprised a West Indian woman produced this. As they are known as strict, overbearing, emotionally distant mothers. Moreso “children are to be seen not heard.” Did her mom work a lot or something?
@@wnttalk I like this format. And I agree with you “narc” and “autistic” are the 2020s buzzwords. I have to think what the buzzwords were back in the 90s? ADD before they added the H? 😂😂
It's crazy to see her garnering this much attention. The only time I believe she was genuine was during her time on Nickelodeon and I remember she was also in a movie called "Cop and A Half".
She is just like every high functioning person on the spectrum i have ever encountered. I have multiple family members on the spectrum so i have found myself at a lot of setting filled with people on the spectrum to various degrees..... it reads as narcist (or what people imagine it looks like) but the reality is they have extreme tunnel vision and simply do not pick up on the small nuances most people without their style of cognition operate with. Funny how most of the actual therapists and professionals who saw the interview and did research seem to think she is on the spectrum.... Truth is a lot of these male youtubers and people on the panels are also on the spectrum but nobody wants to go there... Actual true narcissism is not that prevalent but its a popular insult to toss around...
What a beautiful, pro black, intelligent, talented, black women, who will waste such not building family because she is so broken. These are the women that are the saddest to see because its such a waste
Amanda Seales definatelty has all 3 traits of the dark triad. I think she scores high in machiavellianism. To her, the ends always justifies the means. She's demonstrated, especially with the Myron Rolle situation, that she is willing to do, or say anything to further ends. She doesnt care who she has to destroy to achieve them. She's demonstated willingness to lie, decieve, shown little to no morality, and cunningly( to those that dont know any better) manages to flip ever narrative to make herself the victim. All of this traits of are pilliars of machiavellianisn. It could also be argued that she is a meglomaniac as well
Thoughts about that but I care most about minimizing steps so the fact that I can post directly from my phone is a huge deal in addition to not having to buy another piece of equipment.
Sorry bro, I'm a bit behind. Most of the time I've listened to Amanda Seales it's been a lot of her claiming how she is owed flowers for taking a stand on issues or subjects that people were already involved in, or subjects so obscure no one ever asked. As far as her mistreatment, it seems that "Black Hollywood" has chunned her because of her ability to be erratically verbose at inoperable times towards her peers. They seem to have had enough. That's on them. But also find it hard to believe that they are just "getting her wrong". Listening to her talk makes me think of Donald Trump. (Without political considerations involved the man sounds like a malignant narcissist when he speaks.) 🥃 Cheers.
I always enjoyed your content. A word of advice if I may. I think it comes off as less than serious when you smirk and scoff at your own points. You make great points and you are highly intelligent. I think it comes off like you don’t take your own points seriously. I understand this is not the reality or intention but it is a bit off-putting. I loved how Kevin always remained serious and flint faced in the face of the cynicism his points received right to his face, he’d often say “I don’t see anything funny I actually think it’s quite sad”… #ripKevinSamuels.
Fair critique, however, I am NOT Kevin Samuels and have a very different general disposition. Additionally, I laugh and smirk at times primarily because I’m generally uncomfortable in front of the camera and am often actively organizing various, sometimes contradictory and comical thoughts simultaneously. Hopefully, my work prior to having to draw attention to myself speaks for itself and how seriously I take our plight.
The words of someone who refuses to seek help. Or they think their crystals, zodiac, reiki or whatever new age gives them the power to figure out their issues in their own. Black girl lost.
I agree.. People often miss this one. Borderlines are "failed narcissists" according to specialists. It looks like If because it's part of cluster b...
@@lemiphil2388 I guess it’s just either you have it or not . The Honda alone makes him corny. Then the seatbelt as well. Naw he’s a good dude. However he’s corny .
@@mikedionr yeah or get stuck by the seatbelt when you need to exit . Which is way more likely to happen. However keep buying what the gov. sells. All the while your car only has 55 airbags . I get it .
I expect more from you young man as a Father. I have observed your channel for awhile and this instance your critique is no different than Aba & Preach ( two men with no kids particularly a daughter). The bigger picture is I am observing black platforms go in on a young lady at the end of the day Amanda Seales love melanin people…I wonder if the individuals who pass judgement on her LOVE BLACK PEOPLE.. You are much smarter & wiser. Peace.
I do not see how her love for melanin people has to do with anything. Just because one of us portrays themselves as being passionate for is does not make them immune to criticism. I remember when she defended Jessie smolett's hoax because it brought attention to real acts of racial violence. He did this during a time where there were already similar incidents being publicized. He just used the social and political climate to get attention.
@@chewdoom8415the real question is why her? Out of the people who are treating people unfairly and abusing people using their power and wealth on their own kind. I get it people don’t want to hear a sermon. Some people put wealth at the top of their list she isn’t one of them.
@@terrenceevans726 She is trending due to the her interview with shannon sharpe. Her past controversies were discussed and it put her and those controversies back in the spotlight. do not think she is a terrible person, but she was very vocal in comparison to those who should be talked about. And as sad as it is, deep discussions about those who deserve do not Garner much views when they have not done anything to Garner attention recently. Personally, I think all the fuss about her should be done with by now. I just wanted to say something because of the OP
BM PSA - please let's define "our women". Because much of the self delusion is in the very language itself. For example, the Miami Dolphins is "my team", but it only means I favor them. I have absolutely zero equity and mean absolutely NOTHING to that team. "Our women" hates no other race of men EXCEPT us... by their own words and deeds. These are just rational observations that CANNOT be dismissed by emotional responses to an empirical conclusion. Even more than that, our oppressors for centuries are the BAWs redeemers and liberators... our captivity and utter decimation "saved them" from us... their greatest enemies, also what they say and express. I don't pose these ideas, universally known by all other races of men, EXCEPT us, is the disdain is real and the idea of "our women" makes us fit the notion of intellectual deficient. They are only biologically related to us... but in heart/mind/spirit, they are the pink man's most devoted soldiers. Peace and patience... our redemption is near, and our restoration will be EPIC.
