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For Men Only! | What Your Dad Did Not Tell You. | Please Tell Your Sons 

Dr Charles Apoki
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@Odidi_Bee6ix
@Odidi_Bee6ix 23 дня назад
I'll never be poor button🙏🏿
@illvminated
@illvminated 21 день назад
💸💸💸
@AsANigerian
@AsANigerian 21 день назад
A button wont change anything, go and make money
@giftij
@giftij 20 дней назад
​@@AsANigerian A button made you type a comment, pls park well 😂
@AsANigerian
@AsANigerian 20 дней назад
@@giftij you sound like an idiot, what's your point?
@JensVanDeAarde
@JensVanDeAarde 20 дней назад
some people are so poor the only thing they have is money
@JohnnyDLaw
@JohnnyDLaw 23 дня назад
“You can feed a woman for 50 years,but if she feeds you for 5 months the whole world will hear about it”
@Canadianlove
@Canadianlove 23 дня назад
Because it’s the man who is responsible and meant to feed the woman not the opposite
@jimone732
@jimone732 23 дня назад
That's the realest line ever heard
@ancientwisdom-ty4nb
@ancientwisdom-ty4nb 23 дня назад
Lies. I know many women who stand by tgeir men during hard times. But pursue your money and don't complain when kidnappers want same money. Useless advice.
@xsatudarah1388
@xsatudarah1388 23 дня назад
@@ancientwisdom-ty4nbthat’s not the majority🤡
@afrobeatlyrica
@afrobeatlyrica 22 дня назад
I really hope young men don’t destroy their relationship and marriages by believing this. It is well sha
@mariohinds4113
@mariohinds4113 22 дня назад
Never underestimate the wisdom of a old black man
@user-fm2ef5bu5u
@user-fm2ef5bu5u 22 дня назад
True talk but not all old black men
@RozayMalikOG
@RozayMalikOG 21 день назад
❤🤝🏽💯
@MrJ183
@MrJ183 21 день назад
Big difference between a African-American and a African
@danieleric4850
@danieleric4850 21 день назад
Not old black man has wisdom . Out of 100, only 60 has the wisdom
@god563616
@god563616 21 день назад
He is African, Nigerian precisely. Being old does not bring wisdom. God does.
@Steve_IkI
@Steve_IkI 13 дней назад
"I will be rich" button 👇
@captainchaos1741
@captainchaos1741 15 часов назад
I had to hit the dislike cos I'm gonna be broke till the end of days
@Iwillwin88
@Iwillwin88 3 часа назад
Amen
@Iwillwin88
@Iwillwin88 3 часа назад
​@@captainchaos1741I understand this.
@dredre6553
@dredre6553 24 дня назад
If you don’t have money don’t get married simple don’t let anyone put you under any pressure
@Thebest-wz7uf
@Thebest-wz7uf 23 дня назад
exactly
@ohyouloveit8599
@ohyouloveit8599 23 дня назад
Facts
@ancientwisdom-ty4nb
@ancientwisdom-ty4nb 23 дня назад
I disagree. I had a room mate on campus poor as a pagan rat. His girlfriend stood by him. I told him if u don't marry this woman don't invite me to your wedding. They happily married today. Catholic women for some reason hav d winning formula and protestants should learn: meditation, self sacrifice and a mindset of surrender is what is missing cos fear of God lost years ago. Many women singing praise Jesus would hav been far from hm if they lived in his days on earth. Cos he king now with riches to give right? Learn from the catholic woman of meditation and decency
@otobo7641
@otobo7641 23 дня назад
@@Thebest-wz7ufBingo
@adeolaoke4165
@adeolaoke4165 23 дня назад
@@ancientwisdom-ty4nb That is the way it should be ….. I hope the man’s extended family don’t surface when the money comes to push the wife aside, recount to the wife and the whole world the story of how they suffered with the man growing up and turn the husband’s back against her using every means…..
@newtonarori7344
@newtonarori7344 23 дня назад
I was dumped over brokeness. Singlehood is surprisingly peaceful
@catherinemlughu4666
@catherinemlughu4666 23 дня назад
Very true... single wood is very peaceful
@nuhu7354
@nuhu7354 22 дня назад
Your “sin” was dealt with very harshly. Keep grinding, you’ll surely get to the top!
@newtonarori7344
@newtonarori7344 22 дня назад
​@nuhu7354 Thank you brother
@TruthTriumphs786
@TruthTriumphs786 21 день назад
Very peaceful
@abdulrasheedibrahim382
@abdulrasheedibrahim382 21 день назад
Don't celebrate it; get angry, make money and find a better love.
@prachetasnayse9709
@prachetasnayse9709 20 дней назад
When a poor man acts like a crazy person, we call him insane. When a rich man acts like a crazy person, we say he’s weird/eccentric.
@JustChill-zd4ib
@JustChill-zd4ib 19 дней назад
Nonsense. I call them insane both times. You must be really dumb to do that. Wrong again.
@bensheard3969
@bensheard3969 19 дней назад
Never been treated more like an animal than when I was living out of my car
@Nathan7041
@Nathan7041 17 дней назад
When a poor man travels, he is a wanderer and a lost soul. When a rich man travels, he is cultured and open-minded.
@a.m.4154
@a.m.4154 14 дней назад
Basically what media says about some guy who bought some platform by the name of a bird and called it a letter of the alphabet.
@user-ql5mv2uw3e
@user-ql5mv2uw3e 13 дней назад
ahh perspective
@ChristianAbr
@ChristianAbr 13 дней назад
As a young man with little money I can tell you forget these girls and keep your money 🤣🤣
@cynthiadickerson5403
@cynthiadickerson5403 12 дней назад
I told my son the same thing!
@user-mn9xx4yt2q
@user-mn9xx4yt2q 10 дней назад
@@cynthiadickerson5403 ❤😘😍😂💕🤣🌹
@victormarcus6951
@victormarcus6951 9 дней назад
😂😂😂😂
@oluwaseun3771
@oluwaseun3771 8 дней назад
You are a wise man
@VincenzoCrawford
@VincenzoCrawford 6 дней назад
Dat is it
@MrUnfamilia
@MrUnfamilia 18 дней назад
This video didn't come to my recommendation by chance, The World is telling me something
@dennismwangi7260
@dennismwangi7260 17 дней назад
true
@joyifeloa3317
@joyifeloa3317 16 дней назад
😂
@Mukhtar-tube01
@Mukhtar-tube01 16 дней назад
❤❤❤
@swymbss
@swymbss 16 дней назад
The world doesn't control itself for it to tell you something.
@reallhoxhoes8935
@reallhoxhoes8935 15 дней назад
You’re not special bud
@mystykalmn4434
@mystykalmn4434 28 дней назад
If you're wealthy and have a good health you're living heaven on earth
@ngaronero4691
@ngaronero4691 27 дней назад
wealth and heatlh
@saidmeku707
@saidmeku707 26 дней назад
@@ngaronero4691 Health is part of Wealth that is. And there are other three parts which makes up Wealth.
@nanfwangdabiring1520
@nanfwangdabiring1520 24 дня назад
😂❤
@ancientwisdom-ty4nb
@ancientwisdom-ty4nb 23 дня назад
U saying there are men out there who don't think they need money and need u to remind dem? Jesus said beware d deceitfulness of riches. Isnt it sad you know your wife respects your money not u? Your society is in trouble so don't blame poliand kidnappers chasing money by all means. Sad really for an old man to make a video teaching what David and zlatan sang in 5 minutes. When u 90 years old remember this useless post old rich man
@kofiduku934
@kofiduku934 23 дня назад
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯😎
@ekeminiekpikot7502
@ekeminiekpikot7502 23 дня назад
This man can convince any man to behave well and invest 😂😂
@ancientwisdom-ty4nb
@ancientwisdom-ty4nb 23 дня назад
Speak 4 yourself.if he is right d wives of rich men will never cheat. But they do. See how easy it is to wind your mind. Fear God. Find a good woman. Good women usually have few friends cos they on d straight and narrow path where few people walk.
@THABO-wc1cl
@THABO-wc1cl 23 дня назад
😅truth be told
@kofiduku934
@kofiduku934 23 дня назад
He had me glued😂
@Brazen_knight
@Brazen_knight 22 дня назад
@@ancientwisdom-ty4nb so at least you have the money to help comfort lol. Any women can cheat. And that’s not the point here
@Yaruandromedano1111
@Yaruandromedano1111 21 день назад
@@ancientwisdom-ty4nbTrue 💯
@ifeanyigohard3054
@ifeanyigohard3054 21 день назад
“You start introducing yourself to your wife 🤣🤣🤣
@user-lj9cl8mr1b
@user-lj9cl8mr1b 21 день назад
😂😂😂Lol 😂😂
@philipmawira
@philipmawira 21 день назад
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@thealchemist1951
@thealchemist1951 17 дней назад
😂😂😂
@thealchemist1951
@thealchemist1951 17 дней назад
😂😂😂
@Thebest-wz7uf
@Thebest-wz7uf 17 дней назад
😂😂😂😂😂
@apextrona
@apextrona 6 дней назад
Am crying right now...for the young ones coming from a poor background, please let's make money but through decent means
@JossueND
@JossueND 15 дней назад
If I ever get rich, I won't let people know and study how they treat me. I'll know who's real and who's not.
@megabuilder2861
@megabuilder2861 11 дней назад
You may just discover that no one is real.😢
@Zlatan..
@Zlatan.. 11 дней назад
No one is real bro Only God and your mom Know this and know peace 😊
@homodeus8713
@homodeus8713 10 дней назад
Then you have understood nothing.
@Bob-fj7lr
@Bob-fj7lr 10 дней назад
I lost my job a few years back and was really struggling but I put my nose down and I've actually seen years of my hard work pay off. I'm not rich but I have a leadership position in a tech company at a young age, but all of those people who said they were rooting for me and all of that jazz, they did not fucking smile or even congratulate me after years of knowing I struggled and years of supporting them even when I was broke.
@disisaz
@disisaz 10 дней назад
Moms aren't equal, mine is my mortal enemy ​@@Zlatan..
@hunterxcobby
@hunterxcobby 15 дней назад
there are millions of languages but this man decided to speak just facts
@TiagoRVMarques
@TiagoRVMarques 14 дней назад
Underrated 👏
@TrancEndingMedia
@TrancEndingMedia 10 дней назад
Only couple thousand languages but yeah..man on FACTS!
@hunterxcobby
@hunterxcobby 10 дней назад
@@TrancEndingMedia as a programmer I have rights to include the other languages 😂
@JmanDidit
@JmanDidit 8 дней назад
Be original this comment is over played
@NostalgiaforInfinity
@NostalgiaforInfinity 5 дней назад
Well, aren't you original.
@MASTER_SIMON
@MASTER_SIMON 6 дней назад
money is not always good I made a lot of money from blood of others and to this day I still have nightmares about it a man blinded by the desire for money and profit ends worse than a poor man living on the streets in the end we end up in the same place, 3 meters underground
@DrCharlesApoki
@DrCharlesApoki 6 дней назад
There were other people who made legitimate money and are happy, negative people always do negative things and think negatively. Jesus can still forgive you. Hold yourself accountable not money.
@Gtpharouq
@Gtpharouq 3 дня назад
Money is ALWAYS good. The good news is you came a long way but the bad news is you went the wrong way😂
@ththim7785
@ththim7785 23 дня назад
As a man who don't have money, you should not be looking for a woman. Money answers everything. Not love. Period!
@mogomotsimalepe7348
@mogomotsimalepe7348 23 дня назад
🙌🏽
@crazypkm
@crazypkm 23 дня назад
Money can buy many things. Love isn’t one of them.
@Joshmanb1
@Joshmanb1 23 дня назад
Money is useful and necessary for a good life but love is more powerful than money. Some millionaires committed suicide and some people go in schools and shoot innocent children. what do they both have in common? they are deprived of love. Money is necessary but LOVE is a Non- negotiable and Mandatory for life.
@kofiduku934
@kofiduku934 23 дня назад
💯let those who’ll argue argue
@ththim7785
@ththim7785 23 дня назад
@@kofiduku934 Ecclesiastes 10:19 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-bv1zMZV-H4s.html
@vantage0
@vantage0 20 дней назад
“You must enter her gates with something in your hands… and there will be thanksgiving in her heart…” 💀😂
@P8860
@P8860 18 дней назад
Gem after gems
@carltonwashington2779
@carltonwashington2779 15 дней назад
bars
@orapelengrakaru401
@orapelengrakaru401 15 дней назад
A true poet✨
@user-rm4ql2vx4i
@user-rm4ql2vx4i 6 дней назад
If a woman says you owe her something - never interact with this woman again.
@31Lhord
@31Lhord 11 дней назад
'If you dont have money' HAVE MONEY!!!!
@DrCharlesApoki
@DrCharlesApoki 11 дней назад
Simple
@LeporidaeanDream
@LeporidaeanDream День назад
The underlying message is to grow balls and brains, watch your economy so you don't waste and fight for your place in the work hierarchy.
@patrickibeogu7400
@patrickibeogu7400 24 дня назад
I saw hell when I came back to Nigeria after my masters... i could barely manage a relationship past few months...God willing... I own houses now...I don't wish poverty on any man... its hell on earth
@fullmetaltheorist
@fullmetaltheorist 19 дней назад
Poverty is the worst thing a man can experience.
@JustChill-zd4ib
@JustChill-zd4ib 19 дней назад
Sheep needs their grass to not feel sad.
@KYLETISZAI
@KYLETISZAI 17 дней назад
How did you get wealthy??
@magicmysticman
@magicmysticman 8 дней назад
​@@KYLETISZAII have the same question
@MultiBillionHeir
@MultiBillionHeir 4 дня назад
That church was vibrating very low.
@megasg75090
@megasg75090 23 дня назад
My grandpa used to say "Poverty is a sin."
@TheLocalStandard
@TheLocalStandard 22 дня назад
Sorry to say but your Grandpa is not wise, as it will imply poor people are sinners and even more. Poverty is a process, a legitimate source of wealth is honorable.
@megasg75090
@megasg75090 22 дня назад
@TheLocalStandard Many children inherit the sins of their parents and foreparents. Many times, our parents and foreparents don't share all their dirty deeds. That man was wise as a fox.
@elethumatu
@elethumatu 22 дня назад
a very big one.. root of all evil
@Kayskinooo
@Kayskinooo 22 дня назад
@@megasg75090 so if my parents did bad things can that actually effect me like this is 100% real?
@RaptureHead1993
@RaptureHead1993 22 дня назад
Ima have to check the law of Moses for that. But then again I’m not bound by the law. My sins are washed.
@CollarID
@CollarID 8 дней назад
“When a man has no money he has no respect from his wife.” 👏🏾👏🏾
@EmauelTaylor-er8vh
@EmauelTaylor-er8vh 4 дня назад
YOU GUYS ARE 🤡 THERE IS NO MONEY ONLY DEBT FIAT MONEY COLORFUL MONEY BACKRD BY "FULL FAITH AND CREDIT"OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA"WHICH IS A CORPORATION..
@potatokaiyote
@potatokaiyote 8 дней назад
I want to believe that we live in a world where money doesn't a play a factor in finding a partner but the first thing they ask is "what do you do for work?" 😂
@thewatlingtons6047
@thewatlingtons6047 21 день назад
Ive been married 13 years..the first 3 i was so broke. For ten years now i have never cooked, cleaned, or prepared my outfit for the next day. I am blessed to have my wife. I am blessed to be able to provide amd maintain. Thank god! I am by no means rich..but as a young man at 37 years of age..you have to find a livable income!
@JensVanDeAarde
@JensVanDeAarde 20 дней назад
Golddiggers everywhere
@Keitumetsemulaudzi
@Keitumetsemulaudzi 20 дней назад
Fr
@-John-Doe-
@-John-Doe- 19 дней назад
Ironically, women always compare themselves to the wives of wealthy men, and wonder why they cannot find a wealthy man. They never consider the wife‘s role in their success. They were together before becoming wealthy.
@Ammut6
@Ammut6 15 дней назад
Damn bro. Help your wife out once in a while lol.
@E2Gtube
@E2Gtube 14 дней назад
Ur not a young man
@futurefarms3440
@futurefarms3440 27 дней назад
If you were born dead poor like me and understand that struggle He is talking about gather here....The one of Temper is very True...
@nnakauchenna4647
@nnakauchenna4647 9 дней назад
very true 😂. Glad I came across this video.
@EmauelTaylor-er8vh
@EmauelTaylor-er8vh 4 дня назад
MAYBE A MAN WITHOUT "MONEY"KNOWS WHAT YOU DONT KNOW IF U THINK FIAT "MONEY" IS "LAWFUL MONEY"IS REALLY DEBT NOTES.AND HAVE NO IDEA WHATS REALLY GOING ON
@EmauelTaylor-er8vh
@EmauelTaylor-er8vh 4 дня назад
ONLY THE CHOSEN ONES EXPERIENCE STRUGGLE,HARDSHIP,ETC CONSIDER YOURSELF BLESSED NOW GO READ THE BIILL OF EXCHANGE ACT OF 1882 and NEGOTIABLE INSTRUMENTS TO START PROMISES ULL LOVE THESE THINGS
@trapfitbk5980
@trapfitbk5980 День назад
swear
@aprilhottinger
@aprilhottinger 4 дня назад
The Bible says the poor man is hated by his neighbor
@user-fd7ju5sb6b
@user-fd7ju5sb6b День назад
But that’s a load of BS, though. Who cares what it says.
@videoremix6629
@videoremix6629 3 дня назад
I am rich but not wealthy. This is why I plan to remain single. I don't want no woman to disrespect me.
@glantedavid9728
@glantedavid9728 28 дней назад
Dr. Apoki. Today's video is very deep. Even the dogs in your neighborhood will disrespect you when you are poor. I will watch this video again and again. Thank you.
@DrCharlesApoki
@DrCharlesApoki 28 дней назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Even the dogs😂😂😂
@CharlesOnikosi-ql5sb
@CharlesOnikosi-ql5sb 28 дней назад
Quite true with the dogs; they try to assault a rich person. They would squamish instead of attack. The story of wives frustration over unsuccessful husband, is due to her not sharing her knowledge, and communicating with her husband to be successful together. This culture is prevalent with Nigerian society only, and not a general opinion of human state of affairs. A loving husband and wife are supposed to build metrimony wealth together, if that makes sense. I wouldn't want my partner to be in poor condition, with time to develop money making projects. Mind you, unlike Nigeria, in comparison to the rest of the world, is the most extroverted commercial society in the world. Rich Nigerians, prefer to acquire wealth with foreign friends, than their own country citizens, it appears to be a custom that needs changing. Women shouldn't fear rich men,it's always a pleasure to have a rich woman as a friend of rich men, both academically and business moguls or magnates.
@someoneelse1895
@someoneelse1895 23 дня назад
😂😂😂😂
@kofiduku934
@kofiduku934 23 дня назад
The word hit me hard in my heart and I subscribed 😂powerful. Looking forward to more inspiring and encouraging messages to ginger is out of poverty 💯
@JustChill-zd4ib
@JustChill-zd4ib 19 дней назад
Those who value wealth above everything else will lose their soul if they already did not. Those are not human but sheep eating grass their whole life having nothing else behind their empty eyes. Repeating the same nonsensical thing over and over thinking it will make it true somehow.
@LiliansGardens
@LiliansGardens 24 дня назад
This is advice for men to work hard in school or other training and pray while theyre young
@TonyLevon
@TonyLevon 23 дня назад
Right
@saddingtonmangena1241
@saddingtonmangena1241 22 дня назад
True
@marothimahlake7458
@marothimahlake7458 3 дня назад
If only… School does not create future wealthy people just good workers. My former high school teacher gave me the best real live advice ever: “who you know is more important than what you know”, network guys. The parties will continue even when you’re not there prioritise being close with valuable people: “you’re the sum of the 5 people you spend your time with.” … It’s good to learn valuable skills I’m not bashing education just don’t over glorify the education system it’s a scam for most
@EnvyJosef
@EnvyJosef 27 дней назад
4:45 he said they will marry what is available. not who is available. 🤣 wiseman🤗
@dushibeats
@dushibeats 24 дня назад
i liked him forshoo
@kofiduku934
@kofiduku934 23 дня назад
💯truth
@nqobilenyathi7699
@nqobilenyathi7699 22 дня назад
what is available not what you want
@nkosikhonafanaphi7480
@nkosikhonafanaphi7480 20 дней назад
That line killed me😂😂
@EnvyJosef
@EnvyJosef 20 дней назад
Great Minds sure think alike.
@jasonwells3643
@jasonwells3643 4 дня назад
Moral of the story dont be broke
@thecongo8505
@thecongo8505 20 дней назад
Someone once told me this: Without money, a man ain't a man but a child.
@JustChill-zd4ib
@JustChill-zd4ib 19 дней назад
And you believed them did not you? That's why you are really a child. Real man checks everything critically and does not just accept someones nonsensical words as facts. But that's too hard to use ones brain is not it? Let's just trust someone who has 10 selfish agendas behind their words to use and abuse and manipulate others for their own benefit. Stupid... And trust me you can have all money in the world (you won't) and you will still be stupid kid thinking in status figures instead of intelligence and understanding.
@seto5855
@seto5855 18 дней назад
That s a foolish word and world
@MG-ul3mi
@MG-ul3mi 17 дней назад
pretty stupid. so are war veterans that are homeless children? are children therefore defending you and your freedom. You can see how this is quite the idiotic statement
@ItsThreeSixty
@ItsThreeSixty 17 дней назад
Whoever told you that lied to you
@thecongo8505
@thecongo8505 17 дней назад
@@MG-ul3mi No need to be abusive. We can expess our opinions without using abusive language. Have a nice day.
@damarcuz1
@damarcuz1 10 дней назад
What a terrible world we live in
@DrCharlesApoki
@DrCharlesApoki 10 дней назад
That's the reality.
@sandgconsults
@sandgconsults 22 дня назад
This video is too deep, comical and extremely valuable at the same time
@anttt13
@anttt13 21 день назад
I never respected someone simply because they had money. The ability to provide for a family is respectable, but it’s not make or break. I respect a person’s character first and foremost. Money or lack thereof doesn’t change that.
@Keitumetsemulaudzi
@Keitumetsemulaudzi 20 дней назад
Agreed well said
@ANTINATALIST_lewis
@ANTINATALIST_lewis 18 дней назад
Completely agree
@TheLegend-uq1gz
@TheLegend-uq1gz 28 дней назад
If you don’t have money, you will be at the mercy of everyone including NEPA, Neighborhood, & even strangers. Poverty stinks.
@kofiduku934
@kofiduku934 23 дня назад
People who used to like you even begin to avoid you cos they know you’ll beg for money anytime 😂
@Thebest-wz7uf
@Thebest-wz7uf 16 дней назад
😂😂😂😂😂
@franciszoechituwi3369
@franciszoechituwi3369 5 дней назад
Old Age is a blessing when you have money ooh... SO HELP US GOD...
@zvikosams933
@zvikosams933 6 дней назад
Who needs Tate when you have Sir Apoki
@dm8797
@dm8797 20 дней назад
When a 🥷 pull his chair forward like that you know he’s about to drop some wisdom
@tasante27
@tasante27 19 дней назад
😂
@remabuston4160
@remabuston4160 24 дня назад
This doesnt apply to every man oo. I was living in a single room when i met my wife and i was a teacher. Three years later we got married. Long story short, our marriage is twelve years old, we have 3 children and we are doing very well financial. Things didnt immediately turn around for us after our marriage, but my wife was a great support and managed ever resource i made available then, no matter how small. She never disrespected me and that is why i dont spare any expense when i want to spoil her now. So it doesnt apply to every man and marriage. Lessons like this will only cause young men to go looking for money by all means necessary. Ask the rich men in Nigeria today whether they were wealthy before they got married...
@Sooquteluxuryhair
@Sooquteluxuryhair 23 дня назад
Thank you very much
@ohyouloveit8599
@ohyouloveit8599 23 дня назад
It’s better and easier to be more ambitious and patient than to sit and hope for the rarity of a woman who will accept substandard living conditions. This is just logic and common sense. God bless you. I’m happy it seems to have turned out well for you.
@desmondmthembu3932
@desmondmthembu3932 23 дня назад
You are a lucky man bro otherwise its hell when you don't have money
@emekaernest6499
@emekaernest6499 23 дня назад
I'm such the lucky guy too
@deven.oauditx7547
@deven.oauditx7547 23 дня назад
You have missed the point Dr Apoki is making.
@chavonazary264
@chavonazary264 28 дней назад
He is right. My brother had no money, and he was miserable. It showed in his behavior. He felt less of a man because he couldn't provide for his family. G-d rest his soul though.
@JustChill-zd4ib
@JustChill-zd4ib 19 дней назад
If you associate anything external with being a man you are a fool. Those two are completely separate. Needy behavior for external validation. Lacking moral strength of character.
@successblueprintinstitute
@successblueprintinstitute 21 день назад
I recently came into some money, not much but enough to not work a year(I still work a job) one thing I noticed is that I have never been soo relaxed and anxiety free. It’s truly a beautiful feeling Edit: if anything it’s inspired me to earn more and not blow it. I love this feeling
@kniitito801
@kniitito801 11 дней назад
I will never be poor in Jesus name
@FTDGHRELLIN
@FTDGHRELLIN 10 дней назад
Amen brother
@Neryuis
@Neryuis 13 дней назад
My parents lived during a time of war when they were only school children. They always tell me how they were hiding in basements and going to school during the bombings and shootings of innocent civilians. Well, they only got the most basic education (1-4 grade) and didn't have the chance to get more educated because the situation was getting worse. That's why I respect every cent my parents earn though their hard work and appreciate every little gift from them even if it is only a sock. I got a laptop from them as a celebration for finishing 9th grade. Now I'm aiming even higher to give my parents at least something back.
@vel5063
@vel5063 15 дней назад
This whole conversation about making money because of women and family just makes me want to be by myself and leave these things behind. Its only for people who need these things to feel complete and are scared of being alone that will go through pain because they lack money.
@ahmedalani3513
@ahmedalani3513 9 дней назад
thats life
@remchelseateam6026
@remchelseateam6026 8 дней назад
Resources are one of the survival needs. Even alone you will feel that need bro
@firmbodyval4536
@firmbodyval4536 22 дня назад
Having or not having money is relative. A once rich man might think he is broke if he only has $100k in his bank account. Meanwhile, a man who spent most of his life in poverty might feel $10k as being rich. He might have the same self confidence as a millionaire.
@johnonoriodegodday5049
@johnonoriodegodday5049 11 дней назад
If you don't have money, the gate is not properly oiled self 😅😂
@No.Name.Mzansi
@No.Name.Mzansi 24 дня назад
If you don't have money as a man, Work on your personality and character, they will outlive everything.
@joshuawilson1544
@joshuawilson1544 20 дней назад
Unless you get dementia 😂
@No.Name.Mzansi
@No.Name.Mzansi 18 дней назад
@@joshuawilson1544 sending healing. ⚕️
@xadion6866
@xadion6866 3 дня назад
ethics can only get you so far,
@tinashejena4926
@tinashejena4926 16 дней назад
"If you dont hav money as a man in church..." That one i know it very well , at my church there is this dude who physically abuse his wife and everyone knows abt it , but he got positions in church and sits at the front . Growing up i always wondered why nothing is being done abt it , until i came to understand that its because he has money .
@user-kh8vy3th1t
@user-kh8vy3th1t 9 дней назад
Brotha woke up and chose FACTS
@snaynation2
@snaynation2 11 дней назад
As long as you have God, you have everything you need.
@DaBlockPartyTvShow
@DaBlockPartyTvShow 4 дня назад
Stop It!! That’s that poverty talk….
@360integration
@360integration 28 дней назад
Very true but men please don’t go and steal or kill just to get money. Watch his other videos for money tips.
@lawron2
@lawron2 28 дней назад
My reservation exactly 💯. Some people especially the youth might take this the wrong way and go doing things that will destroy them in the name of money for freedom.
@funaccount-vr9qo
@funaccount-vr9qo 24 дня назад
I build and supply weapons and arms. Videos like this are good for business. 😂
@codephisher
@codephisher 23 дня назад
@@funaccount-vr9qoI’ll dm you soon 😂
@ziwer1
@ziwer1 23 дня назад
@@lawron2 But this is exactly what is going to happen. Search and listen to Scott Galloway on this subject. He says: "If you look at the most violent, unstable societies in the world, they all have one thing in common, and that is they're producing too many of these young, broken, alone men."
@doulayebangoura8318
@doulayebangoura8318 23 дня назад
@@funaccount-vr9qo😂😂
@samjeff6063
@samjeff6063 27 дней назад
That's why everyone wants to do anything legally or illegally just to get this money😢
@kofiduku934
@kofiduku934 23 дня назад
Sad but real
@troythompson2
@troythompson2 4 дня назад
Since the dawn of time
@ndyabawemyres113
@ndyabawemyres113 22 дня назад
A poor person doesn't eat what he wants but what is available.
@samlawaniunscripted
@samlawaniunscripted 22 дня назад
Facts I went through this for more than 3 years, chasing a vision, eating only what's available.. And please do yourself a favor and stay single else your eyes will see shege
@karabo3144
@karabo3144 2 дня назад
Whether u think u can or can't you're absolutely right
@XQRobertz
@XQRobertz 24 дня назад
Don't you know I'm your husband 😂😂😂😂 Dr Apoki's wisdom is unique 🎉❤
@Thebest-wz7uf
@Thebest-wz7uf 2 дня назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mcdollarsfreeway1549
@mcdollarsfreeway1549 15 дней назад
I will never settle for less and i will be work my way to wealth
@MultiBillionHeir
@MultiBillionHeir 4 дня назад
This is giving off old and foolish vibes. The right knowledge & a powerful way to execute it is more important than just having money.
@k99876
@k99876 14 дней назад
So trueeeee…not having money destroyed my marriage. Going through divorce now.
@cassiejacobs4197
@cassiejacobs4197 20 дней назад
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed forever. I'm a single mother living in Vancouver Canada, bought my first house in October and hoping to retire soon if things keep going smoothly for me.
@kingbush9328
@kingbush9328 20 дней назад
Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.
@MeaganGood-yn9wp
@MeaganGood-yn9wp 20 дней назад
Who is your financial coach, do you mind hooking me?
@lukeben1596
@lukeben1596 20 дней назад
Am looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you think I should be buying?
@cassiejacobs4197
@cassiejacobs4197 20 дней назад
Cryptocurrency investment, but you will need a professional guide on that.
@cassiejacobs4197
@cassiejacobs4197 20 дней назад
Facebook 👇
@chumamakasi6682
@chumamakasi6682 28 дней назад
...'money answereth all things' Ecclesiastes 10, 19
@christislight
@christislight 10 дней назад
“For the love of money is the root of all evil” 1 Timothy 6:10
@TrueYarn
@TrueYarn 13 дней назад
Broke or rich, I will be happy regardless because happiness is internal. Nothing from outside can make you happy if you aren’t happy inside. Look at all the rich and or famous people that committed suicide, hooked on drugs etc. I want to come back to peace at home and not have someone because society wants me to.
@rjensen9295
@rjensen9295 22 дня назад
Your words may not be popular especially in western cultures where I come from but what you speak is a universal truth. I wish your teachings could fill the classrooms of today’s youth to inspire an additional reason why a good education will propel our young men into the professional workforce thus helping them be better husbands and respected lovers to their wives. Dr. Bob
@IM-qy7mf
@IM-qy7mf 22 дня назад
This is a very intellectual way of saying that if you're insecure, just get more money to make those insecurities of yours look pretty.
@ANTINATALIST_lewis
@ANTINATALIST_lewis 18 дней назад
Congratulations for thinking correctly
@Liam-ke2hv
@Liam-ke2hv 18 дней назад
I'm sure if I put bows on my shit then it won't stink
@GIT-COMMS
@GIT-COMMS 16 дней назад
This is deep!
@ne1productions777
@ne1productions777 16 дней назад
Or maybe it’s talking about the opposite perspective and how people treat you, not how you feel yourself.
@ANTINATALIST_lewis
@ANTINATALIST_lewis 15 дней назад
@@GIT-COMMS I agree
@osezelejohn3214
@osezelejohn3214 22 дня назад
I like the mix of humor and true talk😂
@Pro_faam
@Pro_faam 23 дня назад
This man just dey attack me and my papa anyhow 😂😂😂😂 Make i shaa go double my hustle 😂
@DannyVibes1
@DannyVibes1 22 дня назад
I just tire, I just Dey think about my life since morning.
@JuudChima
@JuudChima 12 дней назад
Lol😅😅
@gicilo386
@gicilo386 10 дней назад
@@DannyVibes1 😂😂😂
@cyriaquesache9627
@cyriaquesache9627 7 дней назад
😅😅😅😅😅​@@DannyVibes1
@ange6501
@ange6501 23 дня назад
This was tough for me to accept of how shallow it is but is reality
@ANTINATALIST_lewis
@ANTINATALIST_lewis 18 дней назад
Agreed
@TheLegend-uq1gz
@TheLegend-uq1gz 27 дней назад
If you have money, you can push back on so many things, even death, by good medicine, overseas treatment, exercise equipment, good food, holidays, other people’s organs & so many things. Trust me on this.
@kofiduku934
@kofiduku934 23 дня назад
💯💯💯
@kennethgithinji5631
@kennethgithinji5631 24 дня назад
Algorithm did it. I'm the lastborn here. Let me tell you, about the money. about the meetings. But I am inspired about the story of King David. He was the one the family least expected.
@Elevate_Clips
@Elevate_Clips 23 дня назад
king David's story also inspired me as a last born, now at 22 I've already started doing copywriting
@kennethgithinji5631
@kennethgithinji5631 23 дня назад
@@Elevate_Clips what I've learned as a last born. Carry on, you do not know what God will gift you with what others might not value. David was practicing with a sling hunting birds before killing Goliath. I'm 31, going to study my masters in music
@carlitoclout65
@carlitoclout65 22 дня назад
@@kennethgithinji5631💪🏿💪🏿
@craigkanyemba
@craigkanyemba 21 день назад
Grow up. Go and study STEM course. And do music as a hobby. Stop being a sol boy
@Khilontre22
@Khilontre22 17 дней назад
I cant let something that was made by a machine determine if I’m gonna have a bad day or good day, it’s always a good day when I love me and got me to the end
@IIIWv
@IIIWv 15 дней назад
No man is an island
@TheLegend-uq1gz
@TheLegend-uq1gz 13 дней назад
It is the value you can get from the money, not just the paper. For example, with money you can take your family to exotic places in the world, send the kids to the best schools, donate to your church , feed the poor and old people.
@theoryfoot5770
@theoryfoot5770 13 дней назад
⁠@@TheLegend-uq1gz Contentment and happiness can be and should (also) be found outside of materialistic things. Do you think tribal people are unhappy because they can’t offer themselves holidays, cars, exotic places ?
@Belong_to_light
@Belong_to_light 16 дней назад
I’m a 30 year old woman, still a virgin not married. and I wish I could send this to my father ( he’s still my provider).. he’s in his 60s and my whole life growing up, I’ve always seen him on the edge & complaining not having enough money! Never been stable having his own house as well! My 2 brothers are younger than me and sadly now they are repeating his patterns because he never taught them nothing about what it means to be a man not even to be a man with money! Recently he’s been trying to use my name my older sister’s name as well in an illegal way to got money but we’re just wouldn’t allow it! He got big families! Brothers and sisters!.. and he would always take advantage for them to give him money or help him with it! I’m so disappointed at him and feel embarrassed and don’t and never have respect for him.
@charlesagho891
@charlesagho891 28 дней назад
I agree with you my oga 100% If a man thinks that having financial capacity doesn't matter, this mindset he has is at his own peril. He shall SUFFER ALONE.
@DrCharlesApoki
@DrCharlesApoki 28 дней назад
❤❤❤❤
@nanfwangdabiring1520
@nanfwangdabiring1520 24 дня назад
😅😂 "He shall suffer alone"
@ayobamimajasan8086
@ayobamimajasan8086 24 дня назад
This video will soon have the highest views out of all the videos Dr. apoki has done. Uncommon Truth everywhere.
@W2Gtopic
@W2Gtopic 3 дня назад
Money motivated that’s been the mission I cannot be broke
@Tyler-us9ms
@Tyler-us9ms 14 дней назад
How humanity is fallen.
@darknessalwayscomestolight
@darknessalwayscomestolight 24 дня назад
As an American lady Dr.Apoki, I enjoyed this video.
@lawrencemalika9687
@lawrencemalika9687 24 дня назад
Did you have to include "as an American lady"?!
@darknessalwayscomestolight
@darknessalwayscomestolight 23 дня назад
Yes, I did. I want Dr. Apoki to know that he has Respect and is reaching my country. Is that a problem for you?
@lawrencemalika9687
@lawrencemalika9687 23 дня назад
Not really...now I gey you better. He teaches well
@PipsoffPain
@PipsoffPain 23 дня назад
@@lawrencemalika9687lol superpower nation
@HazeSphinx
@HazeSphinx 23 дня назад
Lol America is a poor country
@davidudechi4316
@davidudechi4316 20 дней назад
If you don’t have money you can never be bold enough! You will fall in love with indoors. You turn to introvert! 🤦🏻‍♂️ hustle o!!! All he said is true!
@KadershaN-ou2sj
@KadershaN-ou2sj 22 дня назад
Exactly me as a man who is going to be 25 years old this year with low income job after leaving my 23 years being unemployed i can swear it i have shit respect and am less than a toilet paper in my family. What a man wants most is peace people will say sex but even in sex we look for peace. So i choose to live single without any regret.
@usamahisaacs8393
@usamahisaacs8393 5 дней назад
Thank you for this. The man you’re speaking about is my father and I always felt he did me a disservice by not guiding me as his son.
@clarity8296
@clarity8296 22 дня назад
As a nigerian doctor, everything he said is 100% accurate.
@canadiancombatwombatthe3rd782
@canadiancombatwombatthe3rd782 10 дней назад
If you don't have money, the gold diggers will go away.
@fran6nwoye
@fran6nwoye Час назад
It is no longer "Do you have money", because everyone has money, it is "How much money can u spend" few can answer this one.
@derekharris7634
@derekharris7634 27 дней назад
This is true…I heard a young man say this a while ago. A black man can’t get any respect without money
@TheChampFighter
@TheChampFighter 20 дней назад
It's not just a black man, brother. It's the case for all men, regardless of their skin colour and/or ethnicity. I would know this since I'm currently experiencing this reality and am trying to get out of it.
@derekharris7634
@derekharris7634 20 дней назад
@@TheChampFighter all men need money and a woman that won’t spend it all
@TheChampFighter
@TheChampFighter 20 дней назад
@@derekharris7634 True.
@user-mn9xx4yt2q
@user-mn9xx4yt2q 10 дней назад
@@derekharris7634 thanks for the facts brother.
@TheZuluman7
@TheZuluman7 22 дня назад
The adultery case got me rolling on the floor. Hypocrisy in the church is sickening 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@SolomonicLineage
@SolomonicLineage 13 дней назад
Being loved for money is dangerous once you have no money she's going to be someone else woman. I'd rather be single and happy with my peace of mind.
@krazzyvibestv8657
@krazzyvibestv8657 21 день назад
If you broke at the moment don't date focus on your goals train hard do your push ups drink that water be healthy.
@jimone732
@jimone732 23 дня назад
Yhe bottom line is you had something to start and still took care of her regardless to how litle your finances were
@apexstrength3797
@apexstrength3797 21 день назад
This is why I choose to have only 1-2 children that I can fully take care of and make sure they live a good life. I grew up poor… it’s not a good feeling at all. At least I am in good health and have better opportunities now, same for my kids
@floydmayweather2043
@floydmayweather2043 20 дней назад
But brother, when you give your kids a good life, how do you know that it is not a detriment to them or their development?
@TheLegend-uq1gz
@TheLegend-uq1gz 10 дней назад
Your personality will not pay rent, buy food, pay doctor when you are sick.
@apexstrength3797
@apexstrength3797 10 дней назад
@@floydmayweather2043 Because common sense exists. You can never know anything unless you communicate effectively and take the time as a parent to council and guide your family.
@apexstrength3797
@apexstrength3797 10 дней назад
@@TheLegend-uq1gz And money without personality will make you despised as well. You need both.
@TycoonDynasty
@TycoonDynasty 2 дня назад
“If she feeds you for five months the whole world will hear.” Let that sink in.
@GodHelpMe369
@GodHelpMe369 2 дня назад
after I'd repeatedly asked for some sort of normalization/closure/ making it real in some concrete way - even just having a coffee to clear the air - he ignored those requests. leave no stone unturned for yourself - regret would've killed me.
@austinoko6420
@austinoko6420 23 дня назад
Real talk Sir. I sleep n wake up with this thinking, it's my BIGGEST MOTIVATION to grow. If u're above 26yrs n don't knw these things already then u're dangerously naive or from a very comfortable family n very inexperienced. Either ways u still need to knw it.
@siphiwomzekandaba
@siphiwomzekandaba 17 дней назад
It has crossed my mind quite a few times that the true source of everyone's pain and sorrows is the expectation placed upon by the society, primarily parents, on them. Having money has become the sole driver of many men, and will thus be their downfall. Sad, really. My advice: just live your life. Yes, you need money, but don't burden yourself with unnecessary weight. Otherwise you'll be depressed for the rest of your life
@Krisokafor
@Krisokafor 2 дня назад
...Finally!!!
@user-nk3rp6pv8v
@user-nk3rp6pv8v 21 день назад
My advise for you is to use a sieve for every advise you get from the internet. No be everything wey look nice must enter mouth! Sieve it well and let the throw away the chaff. Work smart and work hard and don't settle for less. Money is good but it'll not solve all your problems, especially the sin problem with God.
@grayzone4183
@grayzone4183 22 дня назад
Thank you for being there for some of us that never had a father to tell us this!
@Mrv011
@Mrv011 28 дней назад
Dr Apoki, you are a bad, bad man. That’s why I admire you!!!!!
@DrCharlesApoki
@DrCharlesApoki 28 дней назад
My former P. A. said I was a bad guys , plural. 😂😂😂
@5neronaldo501
@5neronaldo501 28 дней назад
​@@DrCharlesApoki😂😂 Return of King Solomon ❤❤
@storytelah5530
@storytelah5530 28 дней назад
He is a very bad Bado
@senesiethomas7141
@senesiethomas7141 24 дня назад
The respect and value attributed to a man is in direct proportion to the value he brings to his family and table and society. I have seen rich men have many girlfriends or other ladies that the main wife know and most often they know each other but they happily stay because they understand that that man is rare and not many around and they know they have more to lose than him based on the benefits they get. But it doesn’t work for a broke man. I have observed that all of them will stay and everyone is okay.
@gp-footy9319
@gp-footy9319 23 дня назад
Big facts! If you rich, your wife will always forgive you, but if you broke she will leave on spot!
@sleepmeditation147
@sleepmeditation147 20 дней назад
This is very true. This is something I have observed in real life.
@senesiethomas7141
@senesiethomas7141 20 дней назад
@@gp-footy9319 sure bro. This is the sad reality. Women date for survival that is why the mindset of a woman in relationship choice often time is to pick winners. Their love for a man is directly based on what is clearly possible for that man to become judging by how he moves to and the things he does which makes him promising or what the man has become already. Ask your wife or girlfriend why he loves you or listen to any woman who speaks highly of a man she claims to love why she loves him_ the answer will be about how you make her feel and what you do for her and it will be full of “me me me me”! The whole love thing is not real as love to them is based on a man fulfiling a need in their lives: it can be an emotional need, financial need or status need!!!!! In reality they don't love men. What they love is what a man is to them. We can feed them from January to December and no one will hear about it but they can't do that. We will pick them from the gutter and make them a mansion they 99% of the time can't do it for us or date down when they are up. The truest form of love is personified by men. We love with little or no expectations, Protect and provide for our families even if we go hungry to bed. We can take a bullet for them to make sure they are good. Everything you see around is literally built by men. Most of the successful women you see around are helped by men to be by just being a woman and that is all it takes. When a woman has money she 98% of the time becomes independent and thinks she doesn't need a man. When a man has money he builds society and take a wife from anywhere and give her a dream life without any merit. We do so without expecting anything or much from them. Even when they have their money 95% of men don't care about a woman money. A woman can have her money and still say she lends you to take care of stuff even when she is also part of the home and expects you to pay back. Even in old age, it favours the women more because the kids often time end up taking and paying more attention to their mother. Old age does not favour men this is why you must have plans. Have you seen a woman says she loves you and you are the love of her life when things are going good but quickly bad mouths you and even cut ties with those around u when things don't work? Have you seen women accuse men wrongly by crying fake tears to get money from men and send them to jail? This is a woman who claims to love you at some point but out of greed comes to hunt you with allegations when things don't work out for the bag. I can go on and give you pointers and it will not end. I have realized all this and understand the woman and know how I move with them. What a woman does for you is for her benefit. Let me give you this example__my friend is married and his wife call him babe and not by his name but everytime they wife is pissed she call him by his first name😃. Unpack it!
@senesiethomas7141
@senesiethomas7141 20 дней назад
@@sleepmeditation147 bro the rules are standards are always towards the losers not for the winners. Winners are rare and they can not find many men that are winning and they know what they will lose. A woman looks dates with survival instinct. She can literally bear anyhow where she finds milk. This is the reality of this game. Understanding this as a man you have to know in general women really don't love men they often times love what the man is or what makes the man. When you have money even when you do what is wrong is society society pampers u. If you don't have money society can easily take a decision on you😃. The game is rigged Brother.
@sleepmeditation147
@sleepmeditation147 19 дней назад
@@senesiethomas7141 well said. This is why I always say only women, children, dogs and cats are loved unconditional. Men are loved under the condition that we provide.
@fcarter3863
@fcarter3863 13 дней назад
What my dad told me is money don't mean nothing if you have poor character. There's plenty of cowards with money
@DrCharlesApoki
@DrCharlesApoki 13 дней назад
Money legitimizes everything including bastards according to a Jewish proverb. The reality is that brave men are not usually rich because they die prematurely fighting battles that the cowards will become rich from. Society worships these rich people without character even in the different religions.
@fcarter3863
@fcarter3863 13 дней назад
@@DrCharlesApoki I agree. Money only legitimizes from a society standpoint. It doesn't determine someone's character. You can have poor character whether rich or poor. This is why you don't base your value on money and idolize rich people because many have poor character. And if someone bases your value based on how much money you have, then that's probably someone you shouldn't have around you.
@benjaminsarpong7393
@benjaminsarpong7393 17 дней назад
It’s just unresolved insecurities that most men have. Just identify your purpose in life as a man and that’s all.
@gp-footy9319
@gp-footy9319 23 дня назад
I’m a very ambitious and hard working man. I’m working towards something and if you can’t wait, free to leave. I’m not gonna speed up my process for anyone. My family worked hard for me to be here today so respect it.
@zahrasaleh6672
@zahrasaleh6672 23 дня назад
You have ambition and working toward your goals that’s all that matters
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