Ambika Raina (AIR 164, CSE 2022) on Loneliness, Failures and Anxiety during UPSC! 

Sir please take interview of Uma Harathi mam. She took 5 attempts to secure rank 3. We can learn a lot about mental health from her.

When She said..I was skipping toppers of 3rd-4 th attempt.. I totally relate... Sec.. That heart break of failing first attempt.. Really breaks u..its true for the first time.. In Academic...We fail in life..itni mehnat krne k baad..Thanks sir..for this video... Great support.

ABSOLUTELY ENLIGHTENING & legit content. Thanks a ton!

Yes ma'am & sir we do listen till the end..as I'm still in prep stage just listening to your conversation and finding even a small thing that I've been facing really cheers me up. Feels so good to know that it's normal more people feel the same it's not just me...really keeps me sane 😌

People do watch till the end if the content is worth enough like this one. Thanks for your efforts sir.

What an initiative. We need more of these. Great work shivin So relatable .... thanks for the session. Wish I could have seen this before writing mains

Absolutely enjoyed the video. The two of you so sensible ,smart amd funny. 🙌

Thankyou for doing this bhai. I owe you.

Such an amazing episode ever✨ Lots of hidden things you guys are talking about.😯 Dil se thankyou to both of you❣️

❤A candid conversation antigen and ma'am!🎉

Shivin Sir it is going be approx one year since i am watching your videos . Each and every comment , suggestion , analysis of yours comes out to be so logical and helpfull that i don't want to share it with any other aspirant 😂. Sir keep inspiring me !

So pure conversation ♥️🪷🫀 hats off to both of you sir and ma’am 🥺💛

Your worth or your level should not be associated with a paper.... Best line ❤ you are much more and beyond any exam, never forget your worth ❤

Bhaut logo ko help milti he ese channel se

Thank you senior ✨

What a conversation! Both of you are genuine toppers. U have dare to say all these realities on social media. I can relate each n every word.

Sir I hope you know you are an amazing person, thank you so much for understanding everyone and their efforts........thank you so much for your every effort, we are proud to have someone like you. I don't know how to put my thoughts into words...sorry about that .....but thank you once again

Thanku so much sir

Just for alert they are the competitors of 2024 prelims, they both are on extraordinary leaves for giving attempts of 2024 to be aware and focus. Use your time consciously. All the best

such beautiful perspectives.

It is history not mythology, it can't be taken so casual. Discussion was fruitful .

Good conversation Help alot

Shivin bhai jo CA Exams ki prep krte hai woh bhi immerse rehte hai ,Jo army mein jaana chahte hai woh bhi poora din SSB ke baareien mein sochte rehte hai it's the nature of Indian exams .aur end mein aapko ptah hi hai kyu iss exam ko glorify krte hai log

srsly thank u so much sir...my heart got relieved the moment u said.. toppers ans copies are the manufactured END product! It's a must to embrace ourselves always no matter irresp of anything in ur lives !!

Thanks a lot for help us

Bt the way Great conversation 😊

Really Enjoyed it, I know this channel's potential to bring a change out there. I mean nobody talks about the cries, and joys we face daily, the self-doubt that can sink your productivity in just a second. I know everybody goes through this but how we will know if issues like these will not be raised. All I have is gratitude, Thankyou Sir.

One of the best topper talk I have ever listened, thankyou sir and ma'am for sharing your valuable experience and about your "SETBACKS"😊

I liked this talk. Felt very lightweight and breezy

Today I got the right guidance

Very beasuttifuull....❤❤❤

Love the line❤🥰

Thanks for this, I am getting back

I have never felt a burnout like this in my life before. It's still 40 days to mains and things are just crazy now. Thankyou for this session.

Yes we do watch

Sir pls make a video for those writing mains..what should be their approach now..i am exactly in your position- fumbling for content, writing tests and not getting good scores, and which is causing a lot of stress and under confidence.

Why I feel, shivin sir is blushing

Bhai yar exactly i came here for a break and got this video opened.

Wahhooppppeeeee he is best 🥰🥰🥰

Shivin bro ❤❤

Shivin sir one request please conduct one session with ifs vikram Grewal

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i saw him at my school for the ted talk today and i really feel proud

She is soo cutee!!

The content that we Actually need🫡. Thank You Bhaiya 😇.

Her smile & eyes 😅❤

Ambika jee I love you ❤❤

My love is only for UPSC girls ❤❤

Handsome is hosting the video while Beautiful guest is explaining everything ❤😂.

I think somewhere she said she worked abroad for a few years and realised she wanted to work for the country and here she is saying she attempted in her graduation year itself?

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She looks like a disney character

Mam I appreciate your authenticity. I don't intend to spread any negativity around anyone . However I deeply ponder on why all officers say these days that toppers shouldn't be glorified and yet have public insta accounts. There are many ways to guide aspirants like telegram and you tube. It is Instagram which perpetuates celebrity culture and those reels with songs . Would love to know your perspective on the same. And not targeting you mam but it is general trend I have observed . Dopt not allowing insta to be private would really help reduce this influencer culture may be but then again legal mandate doesn't answer it all in a wise society

She just looks like my mother

Good evening sir 😊😊

Sir is in forum ias dipin sir current affairs is good is worthy of upsc is taking nessary or sir how you covered current affairs for mains for urs preparation please give me some suggestions

Shivin deserves to be in top 10 ranks of all time. he is mr. perfect.

0:49 😂 kya tha wo

Bhai only selected ki mental health ki baat krta h ,not selected ka bhi liya kro ,wahi batayenge kya hota hai pressure, anxiety and all most clear

wow

Sir please reply don't ignore...i am very confused about this ... please 🙏mne 3months pehle preparation start ki h or khudko English m shift Kiya h meri schooling or college Hindi medium m tha lekin 7 Tak English medium tha or 12 th m science thi phir mne b a. Kiya ab Mera optional Hindi literature h....lekin m apne mains k medium ko lekar bhut jyada confused hu ....mere decision lene ke main criteria h..m English m padh leti or class krti hu to wo samjh AA jati h lekin jb essay writing or mains answer writing ka sochti hu to lgta h ...m English m thodi vocab or sentence making m weak hu ....general English likh leti hu lekin Jo tough words h unko padhne or likhne m time lgta h... reading m bhi thoda time lg jata h kyuki Kai bar translate karni hoti h.....or mujhe ye lgta h ki jyadatar content or sab kuch English me hi available h...Maine unacademy ka subscription le rkha h ...uske bare m bhi sochti hu ki uske jyada tarah teacher English ke h to uska bhi use m English m hi kar paungi..kuch books bhi khareed Li h English jyada to nhi lekin 5-6..mujhe 2024 me first attempt Dena h ....kbhi to ye lgta h English m class krungi or poore saal padhungi to dheere dheere aa hi jaegi ....mujhe subject ki specific terminology h usne dikkat nhi h kyuki jse geography economics inme dekhe to terminology hi di ki tough h ...lekin meri English itni achhi nhi h jaisi m toppers ki copy m dekhti hu... M bhut jyada confused hu or is decision ki wjh se pdhai bhi nhi ho pa rhi .... please aapke according mujhe kya karna chahiye bta dijiye.....

Sir keep posting on this channel as well

Hiii Sir There is a an important Suggestion Please Enable Time Stamp 👍

22:36 you are spot on😂

i tolerated both of u till last😆

You are like a real mentor to me...i badly need guidance ..

For someone who has no idea about the UPSC exam preparation and guidance. Could you guys guide me on a starting level as in like....not something that I can find out in the internet but the process and how does it take a mentall toll on you when you're preparing?

28:00 34:30 isolation

Firstly when I read title I read her name as ambical cord 😅...may be it's bcoz of my lazy brain after having lunch...anyways great session shivin Bhai ❤ make more videos like this in future thanx

She is more of a TikToker than the Steel Frame of India

Her white hair speaks for how much stress she would have gone through

Kudus u brthr bring who not made it 4th aatepmt

Why in the world I am the one blushing watching him talking with her. 😅

Sir I'm preparing for UPSC and middle of my preparation... I'm facing panic attack and i don't know how to over come with it..... please help me ....I don't know what i do ....😢

Bahut talented hogi yarr

12:00

Just wanted to ask how come she got iaas when she got 164,think she could purposely choose that over irs and all

22:35 Shit, that just happened with me 😂, 10-12 hours of mains prep and in your break you are listening how its normal, just another day for UPSC aspirants.

27:49 😊

There is a story A beautiful woman approach Genius Einstein And said if we both marry Our child will have my beauty and your brain Einstein replied what if it reversed But if no reverse result is here

Mai bas sound off karke dekh raha tha 😂

Voice is not clear

Voice is not clear you should improve this next time

Hello Sir! I've been following you for a while. Since this channel is about mental health I would like to ask is there any way to identify if one is suffering from attention deficit disorder? I did search about it's symptoms in the internet and felt that I do fit in some of them. But the problem is, those symptoms are so common that many people may identify with some of them. After looking into it a bit more, I find that in the first world countries every other person claims to have been suffering from it, either it is in trend for some reason or it is feeding the market which returns nothing but drug abuse. I always felt that a professional help may lead to exploitation. I have appeared for the exam 5 times and couldn't even clear the prelims once. Its not like didn't prepare. I did, but couldn't understand why I'm making the same mistakes. Is it really the case I mentioned above or is my mind simply coming with excuses? If possible please do reply Sir.

She is Kashmiri hindu

Aap log kya baate kr rhe ho mujhe kuch samjh nhi aaya plzz hindi

12:36 bookmark

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10 rupaye ki Pepsi, humaara Shivin bhai sexy!!

Iam, mantal, probulam, not, sorre, madam, thangs

can mam get ias service @164 rank?

happened a long ago(LIVE?),,,,,,,,,,,you are just doing this for money .........SHAM ON YOU ...I USED TO HAVE RESPECT ON THIS CHANNEL.

Ratta marne me itni challenge

3rd attempt 😢😢 means long journey?? Logo ka 6attempt me niaklta hai, sabka apna apna hota hai. But you are lucky although to clear it in 3rd attempt mam.

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Dad ha moma sahdi bee hogi

Ambika's 🥭 🥭

2023 was my 1st attempt and I failed due to csat...even after taking it seriously...was done with 10 years of pyq ...but still I failed It was heart breaking for me..... I can completely relate

madam i love you sister too much then me didi behan ❤🎉

Rog ho mind fan hajokerho