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An Autistic Nonspeaking Teen (And How We Became Friends) 

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Gabe is an autistic teenager who is nonspeaking. As we sat together, I turned on some music since we are both big fans of classic rock. After a few minutes of listening together, Gabe smiled and put his hand on my shoulder. At that point I knew we had formed a friendship through our mutual interest.
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@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids Год назад
I hope you enjoy meeting Gabe as much as I did. It was a nice reminder that words are just one of many ways to communicate with others. Anybody who would like to follow this loving family on RU-vid can do so at www.youtube.com/@fortheloveofgabe
@lanaxv
@lanaxv Год назад
mhm
@mybrokenmindddd
@mybrokenmindddd Год назад
@@lanaxv GABE IS A GOOD FREAKING HUMAN BEING JUST BECAUSE HE CAN'T SPEAK IF YOU HAVE AN ISSUE GO CRY TO YOUR MOM PEOPLE WITH SPECIAL NEEDS AND DISABILITIES ARE IMPORTANT IN THIS WORLD
@JoeGameVideos
@JoeGameVideos Год назад
wish he was allowed to play video games... then i would play along for sure
@lanaxv
@lanaxv Год назад
@@mybrokenmindddd huh....
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
What a unique life... Everyone thinks life is about getting married, or having experiences or having children or being successful. In reality the meaning of life is life. I'm glad that some of us can have more unique walks through this bed of strange flowers. Thanks for what you do. Its very important to this world. Thanks for that smile, too. c: May God be with you.
@nothingposted9056
@nothingposted9056 10 месяцев назад
You say "cookie" and he becomes alert. That's a teenager right there.
@Melancholian
@Melancholian 10 месяцев назад
Yes
@lindalarsson1436
@lindalarsson1436 10 месяцев назад
How are they communicating
@nothingposted9056
@nothingposted9056 10 месяцев назад
@@lindalarsson1436 he lifts up his head to let everyone know he is interested in the cookie
@vomm
@vomm 9 месяцев назад
I want a cookie too now
@BookwormArtistASMR
@BookwormArtistASMR 8 месяцев назад
@@lindalarsson1436 ever heard of body language?
@ElvenSailor_Main
@ElvenSailor_Main Год назад
Gabe 100% gives off angelic elf prince vibes
@salvie777
@salvie777 Год назад
RIGHT?!!
@resilientbeyondwords
@resilientbeyondwords Год назад
Totally agree
@_o6629
@_o6629 Год назад
Such a pleasant lil boy. Truly previous smile
@mapletreemeyer6184
@mapletreemeyer6184 Год назад
Yesss❤
@lauranicole3068
@lauranicole3068 Год назад
Totally!!! Now that you say it, I see it!
@BookwormArtistASMR
@BookwormArtistASMR 8 месяцев назад
Autism stereotype: hating eye-contact Gabe: communicating through eye-contact proves once more that stereotypes are bs.
@isaacvoorheis8158
@isaacvoorheis8158 8 месяцев назад
I'd say it's less of a stereotype and more of a symptom of autism. though it is a symptom of autism, some outliers that don't exhibit this symptom, such as Gabe, exist. Just like some people who have autism are non-verbal, but others are verbal.
@iamlabyrinthh
@iamlabyrinthh 8 месяцев назад
@@isaacvoorheis8158Exactly, as I’m someone who has high-functioning autism, I can say that I have a hard time maintaining secure eye contact when communicating with different groups of people. People forget that’s called a “spectrum” for a reason.
@peterharrell7305
@peterharrell7305 8 месяцев назад
​@iamlabyrinthh I remember being young and having extreme problems with holding eye contact with people. I don't know if I'm autistic or not. I learned to force the eye contact and deal with the feelings I got. The feelings have subsided after decades of doing this. But, now people tell me that my gaze is absolutely piercing. Coworkers comment to me that my heavy, sustained eye contact is almost too uncomfortable for them sometimes. I usually say "well, now you know how I felt as a kid."
@BookwormArtistASMR
@BookwormArtistASMR 8 месяцев назад
@@peterharrell7305 autism isn't diagnosed just by the way you hold eye-contact. A lot of kids are shy and can't hold eye-contact for long.
@BookwormArtistASMR
@BookwormArtistASMR 8 месяцев назад
@@isaacvoorheis8158 i'd say it's both. Stereotypes usually come from symptoms.
@ItsAboutPeaceBaby
@ItsAboutPeaceBaby 7 месяцев назад
Gabe needs some musical instruments... a guitar, a synthesizer. Something so he can express himself musically. I bet he would love it.
@Laura-kl7vi
@Laura-kl7vi 5 месяцев назад
How do you know he doesn't have these things? It's impossible they didn't think of this since you, a casual stranger briefly watching him enjoy music, could deduce that this might be a good idea. They see him loving music, dancing to it 24/7/365.
@melody88_88
@melody88_88 4 месяца назад
​@Laura-kl7vi you seem angry, chill..
@mathias_8996
@mathias_8996 4 месяца назад
⁠@@Laura-kl7viwow they were only sharing an idea, no need to unleash your anger onto them
@GeorgeSantosKR
@GeorgeSantosKR 4 месяца назад
That's sad, he's too handsome to be such a ret4rd3d.
@giovanna722
@giovanna722 4 месяца назад
​@@Laura-kl7vi Why so edgy? The commenter wasn't.
@pesa9518
@pesa9518 Год назад
Getting a light tap and small smile from Gabe is so much more meaningful than most conversations ppl have.
@verahamoen2742
@verahamoen2742 Год назад
This it made me cry, I've worked in care with people like Gabe, and when you are able to make contact on a level that they feel safe with, it is the best. Everything could go wrong during a shift, but having a smile from one of the clients who didn't make contact that easely, would allways be the best of the day.
@livmarlin4259
@livmarlin4259 Год назад
How do you know?
@JustOneMoreVermin
@JustOneMoreVermin Год назад
Exactly
@JustOneMoreVermin
@JustOneMoreVermin Год назад
@@livmarlin4259 im assuming they meant that as a general statement. I work with kids with ASD that are non speaking and i think once you get a connection with them, it feels more authentic than most interactions with neurotypical people
@jleos0095
@jleos0095 Год назад
@@livmarlin4259 your ignorance is amazing.
@adasahlin1742
@adasahlin1742 Год назад
As a autistic person it’s nice to finally see parents who don’t try to “fix” or “cure” anything. They don’t think he is less than and they don’t think that he is incapable of communication. It’s unfortunately pretty rare to see
@stanjones2492
@stanjones2492 Год назад
I think most parents are just trying to get their kids to a point where they can take care of themselves
@PixelTheExtraTerrestrial
@PixelTheExtraTerrestrial Год назад
I dont think its rare to see it depends what lense you are looking through one of internilsed abilism tht makes u mad at most things parents of autistic kids do that are just trying the best with no manual or if your looking at the non intenilisef abilism lense cuz theres alot of them out there dude im autistic too
@user-jh7gy9jj4p
@user-jh7gy9jj4p Год назад
Какие родители?!
@user-jh7gy9jj4p
@user-jh7gy9jj4p Год назад
Какие родители?!
@lovingmayberry307
@lovingmayberry307 Год назад
@Cat litter angyl I don't think anyone was parent shaming. Be calm.
@danbull
@danbull 4 месяца назад
Gabe is very present in these conversations, it doesn't matter if his body language is different and he doesn't speak... autistic people are underestimated so much of the time, I'm glad he appears to have a loving family who appreciate him the way he is and allow him to engage with them in the way that works for him
@-Hari-03
@-Hari-03 4 месяца назад
agreed. just because they may appear "different" in social situations like these doesnt mean theyre not aware and engaged in the conversation
@massiahgrom
@massiahgrom 3 месяца назад
My autistic cousin was alawys someone I wanted to be around . I was broken hearted when he was instutionlized . He became big and aggressive . I love him . My cousin Marco .
@-Elsa-MC-
@-Elsa-MC- 3 месяца назад
He’s such a handsome boy but he is on he’s little world 🌎
@MAnon-sq5nf
@MAnon-sq5nf 3 месяца назад
He doesn't speak because hes embarrassed of his lesbian mother
@azambresonia5056
@azambresonia5056 3 месяца назад
Shame on you ! This young boy can be happy not being in your surroundings.​@@MAnon-sq5nf
@dorogy4586
@dorogy4586 7 месяцев назад
He's such a handsome boy. Such a beautiful smile. His connection with Chris over the music is so sweet. I love this channel
@adventuresinsplashmountain6
@adventuresinsplashmountain6 4 месяца назад
Gabe is very sweet
@pureffm
@pureffm 4 месяца назад
Yes, you could tell the gay man was shipping him. Not sure if I find this healthy or not.
@dorogy4586
@dorogy4586 4 месяца назад
@@pureffm !!!!"d¿
@jichukittyy
@jichukittyy 4 месяца назад
@@pureffm?
@kalissaisreallycool
@kalissaisreallycool 4 месяца назад
@@pureffmhelp what 😭
@fastnpray4271
@fastnpray4271 Год назад
This is legit the most valuable channel on the internet. What a gift. Thank you.
@scottcadger7103
@scottcadger7103 Год назад
SBSK is a treasure. The work he and his partner do is enlightening, interesting, and shows a kindness that is rare to say the least.
@asuicuneontheobx823
@asuicuneontheobx823 Год назад
@@jeffhandley3224 Chomo say what
@nagromgsemaj
@nagromgsemaj Год назад
I'm constantly amazed at what I see on this channel it's hard to put into words, it's pure feeling in a way that I don't experience very often any other way (and I rarely feel moved to express a sentiment anything remotely like this).
@cloudwalker1976
@cloudwalker1976 Год назад
yes.
@amandahankins2731
@amandahankins2731 Год назад
Yes it is
@jenniferleyden6557
@jenniferleyden6557 Год назад
I love that Chris takes the time to sit, observe, leave space, and meet someone where they are. Such an important lesson for all of us.
@oceaneo4603
@oceaneo4603 Год назад
Sure he gave him space. I think we all need that time to time.
@MamaGator
@MamaGator Год назад
When I got a job at a local paper I was slightly overwhelmed because I never went to school. I spent years watching Chris though and began watching him closer and I think I really learned how to be a decent interviewer because of him. He and his partner and this channel is such a treasure to have online, for soOOo many reasons
@deeanna8448
@deeanna8448 Год назад
He's SO good at it! He can connect with anyone. As a person who has difficulty connecting with people, I envy that skill.
@JackMiller-lq4qd
@JackMiller-lq4qd Год назад
@@MamaGator lol I have coop this summer
@bendiviolet
@bendiviolet Год назад
One thing though - when you're talking to an autistic person, don't look at them continuously, like Chris did. Look away from time to time., (this video is great, it's just a minor thing, but don't put someone with autism under continuing eye contact. It can feel challenging)
@NormalHuman1..1
@NormalHuman1..1 4 месяца назад
he's so handsome even the smile is innocently cute
@GeorgeSantosKR
@GeorgeSantosKR 4 месяца назад
That's sad, he's too handsome to be such a ret4rd3d.
@himmick5438
@himmick5438 15 дней назад
He’s mewing
@lovelylele5122
@lovelylele5122 13 дней назад
​@@himmick5438 bro- 💀
@ilovemypitty7102
@ilovemypitty7102 12 дней назад
He is!!! He's very angelic
@maddiesconfusedlife9023
@maddiesconfusedlife9023 7 месяцев назад
I love how aware Gabe is even if he is nonverbal. HE’S SO CUTE😩
@anonymouse2059
@anonymouse2059 4 месяца назад
He's a teen
@liv8095
@liv8095 4 месяца назад
@@anonymouse2059she's probably a teen too..
@paulcox2447
@paulcox2447 3 месяца назад
proof looks matter more than personality lol.
@chilo8187
@chilo8187 Месяц назад
He’s nonverbal, not brain damaged!
@Ayesha______
@Ayesha______ 6 дней назад
@@paulcox2447nope if he turned out having a bad personality, no one would like him. It is a complete turn off from romantic attraction
@MaxineHarmon
@MaxineHarmon Год назад
Gabe is the most beautiful boy with the most intense eye contact. There is something magical about him. I've seen him on other social media before.
@Ilikebookssss
@Ilikebookssss Год назад
does he have Instagram by any chance?
@longlongshadows392
@longlongshadows392 Год назад
THIS!
@alienbird5624
@alienbird5624 Год назад
He’s so cuteeee
@shyspeaks9238
@shyspeaks9238 Год назад
@@Ilikebookssss He does actually! I was just on their profile a few days ago
@milkywave6222
@milkywave6222 Год назад
@@shyspeaks9238 what is it?
@meemaw-lao0wk
@meemaw-lao0wk Год назад
im so glad that his parents dont see autism as an inherently bad thing and dont see gabe as a burden, i love this family so much
@thomasvangompel7211
@thomasvangompel7211 Год назад
Dissabilitie arent supposed to be burdened
@Ethan-ee8rv
@Ethan-ee8rv Год назад
The thing is… autism itself (as a sufferer) can be really hard to deal with. It’s important that we aren’t viewed as burdens though.
@meemaw-lao0wk
@meemaw-lao0wk Год назад
@@Ethan-ee8rv oh yeah totally! autism can still affect ur daily life and can be rlly hard to deal w especially if ur undiagnosed, but its not necessarily fatal and shouldnt be treated as smth to be cured yk 😯
@ShadowIllusions
@ShadowIllusions Год назад
why does he have two moms?
@seoly3883
@seoly3883 Год назад
@@ShadowIllusions they are a lesbian couple
@TheRumourMill
@TheRumourMill 8 месяцев назад
“Where words fail, music speaks.”
@sleepygyro
@sleepygyro 8 месяцев назад
Gabe’s mothers are so lovely. I’m glad this family exists. ❤❤
@taopaille-paille4992
@taopaille-paille4992 7 месяцев назад
They probably traumatized him in some way
@user-en8zw6wv9i
@user-en8zw6wv9i 6 месяцев назад
​@@taopaille-paille4992why do you think that? Not discrediting your opinion, truly curious as to how you gather that. Like when he was a baby you think something might have happened to make him that way?
@seyornamathew4663
@seyornamathew4663 6 месяцев назад
​@@taopaille-paille4992I know you are a very religious person. You know how I know.. because they are the most dump😂
@taopaille-paille4992
@taopaille-paille4992 6 месяцев назад
@@user-en8zw6wv9i Obviouslly, not all children from homosexual parents are autistic, and not all children from heterosexual parents are non-autistic. Life is a matter of statistic, and i do not have any tangible element to sustain my "claim". It is more of a feeling of seeing the two mothers. Sometimes, you can see in indivudual that something is not right / twisted. And obviously, that is a very subjective question and very hard to prove
@joanna0988
@joanna0988 6 месяцев назад
​@@taopaille-paille4992Gabe had a father who died when his mom was pregnant.
@pm2886
@pm2886 Год назад
This boy is very intelligent. He doesn't miss a thing. He's measuring those around him.
@Kathy-pr4wu
@Kathy-pr4wu Год назад
I bet he could speak if he wanted to, but why not just let the adults around him make the effort to figure him out instead? If I carried a child all of its life would it ever learn to walk? If I solved a kid's problems every time they met a challenge, would they ever learn to think for themself?
@datemrzeadatisedive6291
@datemrzeadatisedive6291 Год назад
@@Kathy-pr4wu I don't think autism works that simple
@pm2886
@pm2886 Год назад
@@Kathy-pr4wu You're partially correct, but there's more to it. There is definitely a difference between these individuals and us .. but HOW and WHY that difference originates remains a mystery to science. There is (stastistically and scientifically speaking) a higher likelihood that it results from very early conditioning, than any kind of genetics or accident of birth. We know that from the huge amount of research carried out in the 20thC. For reasons we don't fully understand, this early conditioning (what used to be called 'orphan syndrome') seems to coincide with either limited intelligence, or hyper intelligence. We may never understand the mechanism, but it's crucially important that we keep studying this phenomenon - without impediment from obstructive politico-social ideologies.
@pm2886
@pm2886 Год назад
@@Kathy-pr4wu I also wanted to say that those who would condemn your words, are the obstructors I refer to. Ask yourself whose interests it's in to demonise this very important research. How on earth does it help these kids, to refuse to consider ALL possibilities? It doesn't. It never will. This obstruction is purely for the comfort of the 'healthy' individuals in the autist's orbit. They don't like what it may be saying about their role in the person's condition. Always look for the motive behind the anti-science, and if there's even a trace of self-interest in it, you know it's both unsound, and unkind.
@cynarancia
@cynarancia Год назад
@@Kathy-pr4wu nonspeaking autism isn't a matter of willpower or being coddled
@jayfurjill
@jayfurjill Год назад
Oh wow, when Chris played 'Melancholy Blues' and Gabe turned to sit facing Chris, it gave me happy chills! The way he started making more eye contact with Chris....oh, my heart just warmed...
@artofaries1113
@artofaries1113 Год назад
Yeah, I got chills too. I saw he was opening up.
@saritalynnedwinabaker-brow8709
Yeah he loved it
@lovinitall6639
@lovinitall6639 Год назад
He REALLY enjoyed that guy time.
@regularly_priced
@regularly_priced Год назад
This is why, as a verbal autistic person, I enjoy nonverbal communication like that. Nonverbal communication has a much greater capacity to induce strong positive feelings in other people than verbal communication(at least in my personal experience).
@analuisabrandao95
@analuisabrandao95 Год назад
Such a beautiful moment
@ElectricSpokes
@ElectricSpokes 6 месяцев назад
There is something beautiful about him. That smile was so genuine and filled with emotion. He can really express himself in ways most people cannot.
@tennolife9930
@tennolife9930 4 месяца назад
It's that childlike joy you lose once you become a teenager, yet he still has it, I actually envy him. I wish I could be his friend, trying to see the things he enjoys and doing them with him is something all of us could use every now and then,
@AmeliaEarhart537
@AmeliaEarhart537 3 месяца назад
​@@tennolife9930 My I think second cousin's 18 and he's the same way. He can't say much and they think he's autistic.
@TheBeezusjones
@TheBeezusjones 3 месяца назад
Yep cuz you know it's genuine, not second guessed or filtered. Pure.
@teresewecker
@teresewecker 4 месяца назад
I'm so impressed with that Chris guy.. I'll be so proud to have him as my son.. he exudes compassion, intelligence,, sympathy and empathy.. he will receive compensatory blessings for how he connects with the special children.
@dennisnolan5095
@dennisnolan5095 Год назад
Gabe is so lucky to have Nikki & Caroline, two moms who are 100% committed to make his life the best as it can be. Thank you (again), Chris, for introducing the world to another amazing kid with an outstanding family!
@dannykr1223
@dannykr1223 Год назад
Hello Dennis, Can I ask you a question?
@repentandbelieveinJesusChrist3
Repent to Jesus Christ ““You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭14‬ ‭NIV‬‬ J
@mt_gox
@mt_gox Год назад
@@EeeeKEEDYbeeky they're from another planet
@dennisnolan5095
@dennisnolan5095 Год назад
@Irina Nadia Really? There are all kinds of ways that a child can be raised by two loving parents of the same gender.
@dennisnolan5095
@dennisnolan5095 Год назад
All children deserve to be loved & raised in loving families. Remind me again, what exactly Jesus Christ said about this.
@elliganange
@elliganange Год назад
I am a person with low support needs autism, and no one understands how much music means to me, how much I hear in the music the notes I can pick up and replicate with ease and no one ever wants to just enjoy music with me. That would mean a lot to me too and I am so glad Gabe got to enjoy that moment!
@Heather_Morgan
@Heather_Morgan Год назад
Thank you for sharing your personal insight. It's interesting considering we can all be sitting in the same room listening to a song together, but each one of us hears it differently. I've never thought about that before. I would gladly sit quietly and listen to music with you. 🥰 When I was younger, I really listened to music and noticed all the details and individual instruments. I loved and appreciated music so much. But as I've gotten older, music gradually became just background noise to ignore while trying to get work done or something to fill the silence while driving or performing some task. It's been a very long time since I've just sat and listened to music without distractions.
@joroc
@joroc Год назад
I didn't know austists had interest in social
@elliganange
@elliganange Год назад
@@joroc ideally it would be nice to be called a person with autism rather than 'an autistic' it just sounds nicer. I'm a massively social person with autism I have a large group of friends I go to gatherings and parties. We're normal human beings with a brain that just works a little differently so just like there are "normal" people who enjoy being social and some who don't that applies to people with autism as well. I think the confusion can lie in the fact some people with autism have issues identifying social queues. I have no issue identifying social queues and responding to them but it's a constant active effort and it can be honestly exhausting pretending to be the same as a non autistic person.
@elliganange
@elliganange Год назад
@@Heather_Morgan I often use the RU-vid algorithm to just listen to new music, it's amazing at offering things you enjoy. If I'm having a difficult day that's often how I'll spend an evening.
@MeltedKittKat
@MeltedKittKat Год назад
i would listen to music with you anytime
@santosgarza3887
@santosgarza3887 4 месяца назад
Such a sweet boy, I have a autistic grandson, and he is nonverbal, but he tries to communicate with us with his hands, he is 16, yrs old and I love him very much, god bless you for being his friend.
@hudskito
@hudskito 5 месяцев назад
i cried so hard while watching this idk why. its just that his family is so sweet, he seems to be such a lovely boy, that just needs to be understood (like everyone does, we all!!). also, the way you sat together and listened to some good music was so so sweet. he liked it, he starter to really enjoyed it with time, and it was adorable to see. so lovely. people really deserve to be seen and loved. i love it!!
@SG-we1qh
@SG-we1qh 3 месяца назад
I don't think I've watched a single one of these videos without crying. It's beautiful to see people love each other so much.
@ilariacatini7752
@ilariacatini7752 Год назад
this guy has a beautiful smile
@ilariacatini7752
@ilariacatini7752 Год назад
@h654bx1u8hk What? mine is a serious compliment to this guy what's your problem?
@_justhaley
@_justhaley Год назад
@eun64d525yh5df of course looks are everything
@leesalt2787
@leesalt2787 Год назад
He's a very handsome young man
@officerjimlahey
@officerjimlahey Год назад
@@ilariacatini7752 He's pointing out that Gabe isn't that special, and that most people can't think of anything redeeming aboout Gabe's personality, except his looks.
@sugarzblossom8168
@sugarzblossom8168 Год назад
@@officerjimlahey but they are talking about his smile
@anac7096
@anac7096 10 месяцев назад
I love it how Gabe's body language changes from the moment Chris puts on the music. You can see how much more comfortable, interactive and smiley he gets as time goes by. It’s lovely to watch his confidence bloom and his beautiful smile. 🥰
@Velereonics
@Velereonics 9 месяцев назад
Autistic people can have enhanced pitch processing and ability to identify emotional information in music, which is of course interesting because they do not comprehend emotional information that comes from body language or speaking tone well at all. I'm autistic so I have my theories on why all that is the way it is, but suffices to say that in therapy music is a good tool for autistic people to vent/channel emotions and process them. As long as it's music they like. In essence, guy puts on music Gabe also likes, to him it's like a huge amount of information they can pass back and forth through the experience of listening to the song and knowing they are both having a good experience from the same thing. Neither person has to say anything.
@crow4936
@crow4936 5 месяцев назад
Wonder if he like Heavy Metal.....😁
@crow4936
@crow4936 5 месяцев назад
​@@Velereonicstrue I'm on the spectrum and I feel more emotion from music than normies. Also I like to send songs to people with lyrics or melody in that communicate how I feel.
@marianneglinda
@marianneglinda 4 месяца назад
Gabe is a rock star....l hear Freddie, l see Bowie
@marianneglinda
@marianneglinda 4 месяца назад
Gabe is a rock star....l hear Freddie, l see Bowie
@jamiegoldsby1163
@jamiegoldsby1163 7 месяцев назад
I absolutely LOVED when you played melancholy blues, he sits up, and looks at the phone for a few seconds. I imagined as he was laying there and it started playing, he thought oh wow this is a good song! And had to sit up and really listen to it. That was a really cool moment. 💕
@betbih65
@betbih65 3 месяца назад
Gabe has such model like features. He is literally beautiful
@elissaraptor
@elissaraptor Год назад
I love that Caroline called herself Gabe's "bonus mom" and how even Nikki at the end discussed the crossover lenses of being a widow, a mother of a child with autism, and being queer were all things that caused her once to shrink, and now... They're all blooming and growing and living openly! It's wonderful
@shaunalea823
@shaunalea823 Год назад
But it not about them and how they choose to live it’s about this wonderful young man.
@betha.6279
@betha.6279 Год назад
She is absolutely beautiful inside and out! Both moms are!
@deepakmenon6720
@deepakmenon6720 Год назад
@@shaunalea823 it's about the whole family and their experiences. Why are you triggered
@elissaraptor
@elissaraptor Год назад
@@shaunalea823 but my comment was. Why are you mad?
@betha.6279
@betha.6279 Год назад
@@shaunalea823 how his mom's met was a part of the story in the video. He clearly loves both of them. He is awesome and it's obvious his mom's have been an amazing support to him. It's ok to connect with everyone in this story.
@sleepykitty1745
@sleepykitty1745 Год назад
The moment where Gabe touched your arm and smiled seems so special. Because you said "I enjoy listening to music with you." And it's almost like he reached out to say "Hey, me too!" Maybe almost like a reassurance, because people sometimes can't tell or even just an underlining of something he says through his eyes or his smile otherwise.
@kylie-anneconnell4350
@kylie-anneconnell4350 Год назад
I honestly got teary eyed 😢
@officerjimlahey
@officerjimlahey Год назад
It's also possible that Gabe had no idea what he said.
@vsechtovizhu3
@vsechtovizhu3 7 месяцев назад
Gabe is a very handsome guy with a beautiful smile. I am sending him and his mothers the warmest rays of support! You are such wonderful people
@Vikki_G_
@Vikki_G_ 4 месяца назад
Gabe is beautiful, he could literally be a supermodel. 😍
@justbinji7718
@justbinji7718 4 месяца назад
I noticed how tall he was. I thought he was 15-16. But man, he sure is a tall for a 13 year old.
@TheStepmonkey
@TheStepmonkey 3 месяца назад
Yea he is so tall and handsome, he could easily be a model and make a good career 💗
@Sherryk546
@Sherryk546 3 месяца назад
I just realized that he did do a runway walk at fashion week if you check out their channel!
@skypie5374
@skypie5374 Месяц назад
I thought the absolute same! He’s tall and such a handsome boy.
@elijahchesterthomas5334
@elijahchesterthomas5334 Год назад
My daughter has nonverbal autism. To communicate she instead he uses her eyes and body gestures much like this young man here. I have three other children, none of them who have autism and she is probably the funniest of all of them. Once you get to know what they're trying to tell you, in their own way, they actually can have sense of humor just like anyone else. It's been such a joy having my little girl. Really glad to see this video. It made my day. Thank you
@livmarlin4259
@livmarlin4259 Год назад
Is she still alive?
@charlief3169
@charlief3169 Год назад
​@@livmarlin4259wtf why are you asking that??
@Uuser1a2b3c
@Uuser1a2b3c Год назад
@@livmarlin4259 why would you ask that? Autism is not a deadly thing
@rayc9763
@rayc9763 Год назад
Thank you for sharing:)
@WishxFish
@WishxFish Год назад
@@livmarlin4259 💀
@mcgoo721
@mcgoo721 Год назад
Yo he was like "Yeah everyone knows Another One Bites The Dust, cool." But you hit him with that melancholy blues and and it really seemed to strike a chord.
@Boonehams
@Boonehams Год назад
I was always partial to Keep Yourself Alive.
@WhatwouldRoddyPiperdo
@WhatwouldRoddyPiperdo Год назад
@@Boonehams i
@jpthescott5793
@jpthescott5793 Год назад
I thought it was just the video edit so there is no copyright strike lol
@emhoj97
@emhoj97 Год назад
Yeah lol as a fellow autie I felt that. Well known song? Eh ok sure I'll enjoy it. Oh you know more? Now let's engage!
@mcgoo721
@mcgoo721 Год назад
@@jpthescott5793 oh it certainly was. But he did mention that he put on the song Melancholy Blues and you can tell when the song really drops. He sits up and looks at him like "Oh you know know huh?"
@BookwormArtistASMR
@BookwormArtistASMR 8 месяцев назад
As someone who hates making eye-contact, I'd probably be in a constant state of a social anxiety high with Gabe, but at the same time find it also really cool to have this type of intimate/different (in a good way) communication with someone.
@AmeliaEarhart537
@AmeliaEarhart537 3 месяца назад
Same
@lukeben1596
@lukeben1596 3 дня назад
You work for 40yrs to have $1M in your retirement, meanwhile some people are putting just $10K in crypto from just few months ago and now they are multimillionaires..
@djeechizzy9818
@djeechizzy9818 3 дня назад
That's great! I'm motivated too! How can we achieve this challenge?
@leahmolly9150
@leahmolly9150 3 дня назад
No specific one really, because there are lots of investment plans and strategies littered all over the internet today, for instance, investments like real estates,gold, drop shipping crypto currency and lots more
@lindapoplin7150
@lindapoplin7150 3 дня назад
Warren T. Sonia is an amazing tutor for crypto. Highly recommended! She’s been my Tutor and Mentor for past solid 8years!
@karliechardi2229
@karliechardi2229 5 месяцев назад
Really caught Gabe's attention with that second queen song. He has so much expression. And that's an amazingly good communication! Really universal between any different language barrier. GABE! you're awesome. You communicate in wonderful ways. you're clever, witty, and have an infectious smile!❤
@lifesanitch404
@lifesanitch404 9 месяцев назад
He’s just like the silent protagonist in video games.
@user-qn3bh4cv8h
@user-qn3bh4cv8h 6 месяцев назад
frfrfr
@rishiranjansingh8754
@rishiranjansingh8754 5 месяцев назад
Red from Pokemon? 😂
@kumozumo
@kumozumo 5 месяцев назад
link!
@balboa9439
@balboa9439 5 месяцев назад
@@rishiranjansingh8754 Claude from GTA3
@Ligmaarse
@Ligmaarse 4 месяца назад
Link
@M_schmitt1
@M_schmitt1 Год назад
6:54 My heart melted when Gabe sat up and enjoyed the second song you played and even tapped your arm and fully communicated his appreciation and enjoyment through his eyes and body language! I had a student JUST LIKE Gabe and absolutely loved him and his personality. Gabe’s parents are amazing with him!
@daviddietrich5104
@daviddietrich5104 Год назад
Hello Missy how are you doing today?... hope my message found you in a pleasant way?
@jasminetpf6366
@jasminetpf6366 Год назад
@@daviddietrich5104 what’s your motive replying to all these women?
@clararocha1338
@clararocha1338 Год назад
you can tell he was saying “hey I really liked this song”
@GRRRRAAAAAAHHHH
@GRRRRAAAAAAHHHH Год назад
@@jasminetpf6366 its a bot
@thegnome9529
@thegnome9529 Год назад
@@GRRRRAAAAAAHHHH i doubt it, i think its some old man tryna get laid trought youtube comments
@MarkEliasGrant
@MarkEliasGrant 4 месяца назад
I needed this. It reminded me of WHY I became an occupational therapist to help people like Gabe. God bless this man working with him!
@jillryan-fortier639
@jillryan-fortier639 7 месяцев назад
Where I work we have a non-verbal person and most ppl don’t talk to the person, they don’t interact. One day I said and started asking the person questions! They answered with eye contact, and hand gestures. To this day when the person sees me, they run up to me and give me the biggest most awesome hug!!! And always walks me out, just to hold the doors open for me. I have to say non-verbal does not mean they can’t communicate, it’s just in a way most of us are not accustomed to
@haulwen0564
@haulwen0564 4 месяца назад
This is beautiful to read. I'm so pleased you made an effort and you are now friends ❤❤
@Mrsluckysa
@Mrsluckysa Год назад
I think they should give him a guitar. He really looks like he would enjoy learning to play
@thebuilder5271
@thebuilder5271 Год назад
He might, though if he has speech apraxia he may have other types of apraxia that would make it hard to do the fine motor movements required for guitar. There may be other instruments that don’t require that though
@juliabrenska4925
@juliabrenska4925 Год назад
apparently, he just received a guitar as a christmas gift!
@elisagrones2549
@elisagrones2549 Год назад
@@juliabrenska4925 i love that! :)
@d3adr3dhead
@d3adr3dhead Год назад
During one of the music bonding clips I actually thought “I wonder if Chris can play guitar? Imagine if he whipped one out and tried to teach Gabe a few of the easy chords like Em, C, D, G, A.” (Standard chords for learners
@bhwaaaHannah
@bhwaaaHannah Год назад
@@juliabrenska4925 Thank you for the lovely update, that is so good to hear!
@antaequeJ
@antaequeJ Год назад
10:56 his smile… you can tell it meant a lot to him
@everianneg
@everianneg 8 месяцев назад
Having an 11 year old brother who has exactly the same condition, this vid just made me teary-eyed. So wholesome!🫶🏻
@Nude_Tayne
@Nude_Tayne 8 месяцев назад
What a sweet boy. And what a sweet family.
@TravisMcMurray
@TravisMcMurray Год назад
There are so many LGBTQIA parents out there raising children with disabilities. Thank you so so so much for featuring this beautiful family.
@xelith6157
@xelith6157 Год назад
@@abigailaluebhousele1297 What an insightful comment full of nuance; this was truly a learning experience. Thank you for your life-changing wisdom.
@TangleHamain
@TangleHamain Год назад
Probably cus we care.. not like straight parents who are abandoning their children or ab*sing them..
@HouseOfVirgo
@HouseOfVirgo Год назад
You mean There are so many humans raising children with disabilities.
@TravisMcMurray
@TravisMcMurray Год назад
@@HouseOfVirgo No, actually. I meant what I said. I have a pretty good handle on the English language.
@unclesam6386
@unclesam6386 Год назад
@@TravisMcMurray No one cares that your lGbtQiA. Its not about you, narcissist. Its about the children that are being presented here and those like them. The fact that you're LGBTQ is irrelevant. Again, no one cares!
@Prisoner619B
@Prisoner619B Год назад
Them: "I would like people to understand that he is just like you and I!" Everyone in the comments: "Wow, its like he is from another world!!! 🤩🤭"
@7kraska
@7kraska Год назад
lol exactly
@TopOfAllWorlds
@TopOfAllWorlds Год назад
I think people in the comments mean it more like, the way he communicates and interacts is so different. They aren't saying he's not a person. That's what I like to think.
@Vgp-rp4iu
@Vgp-rp4iu Год назад
@@TopOfAllWorlds agreed. I don't think anyone is trying to be mean or anything but he just gives off that vibe.
@LimitedEditioneo
@LimitedEditioneo Год назад
100% people are totally missing the point
@AsandaMahlangu
@AsandaMahlangu Год назад
@@TopOfAllWorldsthey’re still missing the point
@Acoustin9572
@Acoustin9572 5 месяцев назад
Gabe is truly blessed with such a beautiful and kind hearted mother and her equally amazing partner. And so or they with Gabe!
@kimhisham6033
@kimhisham6033 5 месяцев назад
OMG Gabe is so cute and handsome. Wish him really good life bless his family for supporting him endlessly
@summermurray8258
@summermurray8258 Год назад
His eyes are SO expressive, it's incredible. It's close to telepathic. He is very ethereal. I wonder if he has synesthesia or something too when he looks around and listens to music.
@harmony3747
@harmony3747 Год назад
Ive followered their tiktok for a long time and have also always wondered this
@bukai_oklm
@bukai_oklm Год назад
what is synesthesia?
@summermurray8258
@summermurray8258 Год назад
@@jamiegdubois I think it's @fortheloveofgabe
@summermurray8258
@summermurray8258 Год назад
@@bukai_oklm it's when your senses kind of combine in a way. So synesthesia is seeing shapes/colors when listening to things.
@bukai_oklm
@bukai_oklm Год назад
@@summermurray8258 like when taking drugs XD
@yasminx16
@yasminx16 Год назад
Gabe could be a teen model for a fashion brand! What a fascinating young man. I bet he has an incredibly rich inner life - a lot is going on in his mind, you can tell.
@duckie4655
@duckie4655 Год назад
I was thinking the same! He's beautiful, what a loving family
@an-ic6gs
@an-ic6gs Год назад
The medicine drug mafia make medicine side effects to restrain their tongue muscles not to speak , this boy is a victim of dark side of under world .
@aprilMichelleXJRL
@aprilMichelleXJRL Год назад
Omg yes he's freaking gorgeous..... what a gem ♡
@myheartwillstopinjoy8142
@myheartwillstopinjoy8142 Год назад
I feel like the model life could be overwhelming to him. Idk how he's with sensory overload but photography studios sure have a lot of it... Noise, flashes, and people talking from everywhere :( If he'd accomated to, I'm sure he'd do amazing though!
@justahuman9273
@justahuman9273 Год назад
Let him have his own instagram and be his own manager 😂 then YES! Otherwise no... We all know the fashion world is evil.
@Itz_georgiaxx
@Itz_georgiaxx 13 дней назад
You can tell that more into the video that he actually is listening to everything that’s going off and even though he looks like he is not paying attention but sometimes with Chris he just looks at him in the eyes telling him something through the body language of them! It’s just really heart warming like - 6:53 he really understands that what’s going on and sometimes through out the video he just knows what’s going on like shows it and he is so angelic ngl ❤❤
@Luna-jk9de
@Luna-jk9de 4 месяца назад
When you play the second song and he turns around and faces you directly was so cute!!! That was such a cute bonding moment!
@lauramarchildon
@lauramarchildon Год назад
He LOVED that second song you played!
@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids Год назад
Melancholy Blues by Queen!!! Would have loved to include it in the video but had to change it for copyright reasons.
@yesterdaydream
@yesterdaydream Год назад
@@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids I played it alongside the video anyway! Take that, copyrightists!
@mariovalenzuela7153
@mariovalenzuela7153 Год назад
Why did you chose a song Dave likes?
@edenmorningstar.7865
@edenmorningstar.7865 Год назад
@@mariovalenzuela7153to make him safe and comforting and happy
@margatoonen8907
@margatoonen8907 Год назад
Wat is de derde song you played
@denise8791
@denise8791 Год назад
"You'll never get it because his arms are so long" That made me giggle. They must have so much fun in their home! Gabe is so lucky to have such gentle, loving incredible parents. What a beautiful family. I love seeing the diversity of all families and how love really is the answer. If only every single person could experience this type of love and patience...
@WorldOfNicky
@WorldOfNicky Год назад
This is such a lovely comment, well said Denise ❤ hugs
@officerjimlahey
@officerjimlahey Год назад
Just wait till they divorce.
@Arako
@Arako Год назад
@@officerjimlahey why spread negativity ??
@officerjimlahey
@officerjimlahey Год назад
@@Arako Better than most of the BS comments on this video.
@sheo3394
@sheo3394 Год назад
@@officerjimlahey why would they divorce?
@SiimplyDejellaGames
@SiimplyDejellaGames 6 месяцев назад
He looks like a angel
@obi-wankedogi
@obi-wankedogi 4 месяца назад
Gabe is lucky to have such a beautiful family. And they're lucky to have him. ❤
@BLane-xr1ic
@BLane-xr1ic Год назад
Dude, she said "I like to think he's saying I love you" then he looks at her so lovingly, I think she got that one right. So beautiful when he touched your arm and started smiling. Looked like he wanted to tell you he feels the same way about whatever you said.
@mari97216
@mari97216 Год назад
He actually did say that in a video on their tiktok, but they didn’t catch it as it was at a restaurant that was noisy. It got caught on film though, very sweet:)
@yintoons7807
@yintoons7807 11 месяцев назад
6:50 bruh I would start crying. He is too sweet.
@heatherbubke8336
@heatherbubke8336 4 месяца назад
Agreed! Thank u for noting the time.❤
@una9121
@una9121 4 месяца назад
@@louisskulnik7390 he says the names. another one bites the dust and melancholy blues
@karaatter
@karaatter 4 месяца назад
@@louisskulnik7390he says when they first start playing
@EvaLorna
@EvaLorna 4 месяца назад
He is sweet, and handsome😊 His smile is so adorable❤
@louisskulnik7390
@louisskulnik7390 4 месяца назад
@@una9121 oh, I skipped around as is my wont.
@Itz_georgiaxx
@Itz_georgiaxx 13 дней назад
6:53 OMG THIS IS SO CUTE (ngl he is cute in general) like THIS IS HEARTWARMING 💓
@nicolepoillucci2818
@nicolepoillucci2818 4 месяца назад
I LOVE this. Gabe wasn't very sure about this new connection at first. But then he started making direct eye contact, and you can see him really trying to connect here. Beautiful. ❤
@ohemdoublegee
@ohemdoublegee Год назад
There was a documentary I watched about a girl that was autistic and nonverbal and one day she found a computer and she was able to type out her feelings and thoughts. She was like "I'm a 14 year old girl I want to talk about boys and I'm tired of people treating me like I'm a child". I think she's a writer or reporter now. I'm happy they treat him like he's a 13 year old and they have a system of communication. I love how they were just hanging out vibing through music 🎶
@ohemdoublegee
@ohemdoublegee Год назад
@@paolaamadeo774 I just looked her up and it looks like she's started a podcast on youtube!
@jlshadday6401
@jlshadday6401 Год назад
Do you know the name of her podcast? Would like to check it out
@loafcat4831
@loafcat4831 Год назад
If you find it could you please also share it to me, it sounds really interesting
@ohemdoublegee
@ohemdoublegee Год назад
@@loafcat4831 posted above!! :)
@balladofahomeschooledboy0514
@@ohemdoublegee where :)
@shjobbi
@shjobbi Год назад
His eyes are so communicative and intense, it's like they compensate for the lack of spoken word
@nkemonwumah8241
@nkemonwumah8241 3 месяца назад
“Just because he’s different doesn’t mean he doesn’t understand everything “Treat him with respect,love,and kindness,as the unique individual that he is.❤
@DJthehuman
@DJthehuman 2 дня назад
i've been following both the Ulmers & Gabe's family for years now and this was the crossover i didn't know i needed. love this so much. love all of you so much. thank you all for being willing to share your story
@amelia.444
@amelia.444 Год назад
He’s almost otherworldly to me like he’s just here on earth for a visit. What a unique soul
@claudiahowick
@claudiahowick Год назад
i love this comment so so much ! so beautifully expressed
@ArchAngelManga
@ArchAngelManga Год назад
​@@claudiahowick agreed!
@fohdeesha
@fohdeesha Год назад
Ever seen the movie k-pax?
@MM-ty6cu
@MM-ty6cu Год назад
That’s what I was thinking!
@Iluvpie6
@Iluvpie6 Год назад
It makes sense that his name is Gabe since that’s the name of an angel
@kristen1324
@kristen1324 Год назад
Dude, I love the way Gabe just sat right up, turned toward you, and started engaging with you when you played Melancholy Blues for him. It gave me the biggest smile. A lot of times, you have to do parallel activities, and occasionally, you intersect, and it's beautiful .
@dannykr1223
@dannykr1223 Год назад
Hello Kristine, Can I ask you a question?
@SenorGermaine
@SenorGermaine 6 месяцев назад
Sometimes I feel like we live in a world filled with so much negativity, but then we have people like this who bring smiles to all these incredible people and remind us that there are people doing good in the world. I am glad this channel exist
@Faefair
@Faefair 5 месяцев назад
It’s nice he has such a supportive family. Not everyone had this support.
@user-gy8jn7qv5i
@user-gy8jn7qv5i Месяц назад
Família?😢
@angeleleven7692
@angeleleven7692 Год назад
i love how Gabe reacts to Melancholy Blues (definitely an underrated Queen song). he literally bolted upright and engaged so much. music is amazing how it connects people, and his smile at the end of that clip is so genuine and beautiful 🥰
@officerjimlahey
@officerjimlahey Год назад
He did not "bolt up." He just stares at the guy and has zero expression on his face.
@seajay632
@seajay632 Год назад
@Brice It's such a shame that you and a lot of the people who can communicate are such douches for no reason.
@officerjimlahey
@officerjimlahey Год назад
@@seajay632 Maybe you should work on that.
@seajay632
@seajay632 Год назад
@@officerjimlahey Lol ratio.
@jackiealexander92530
@jackiealexander92530 Год назад
yes true! I love seeing such positivity
@LitteLoneSparrow
@LitteLoneSparrow Год назад
I adore how direct he is when he looks into their eyes. I would so love to know what he is thinking.
@Pindolene
@Pindolene 7 месяцев назад
I've been following Gabe's journey for some time now, and he's such a great kid. So loving and clearly so well loved, too. Thank you for interviewing him and his family!
@Southerncomfort420
@Southerncomfort420 4 месяца назад
The world loves Gabe…. Such a gentle soul.❤
@user-yw2pr5xw7d
@user-yw2pr5xw7d 3 месяца назад
Очень красивый мальчик, похож на принца 😊❤
@eleanorlyndon865
@eleanorlyndon865 Год назад
My friends have a mostly Non Verbal Autistic son, and last week for thr first time (he is 8) he gave me a.massive hug and kiss and didn't want me to leave side. I was amazing! I really felt we had a connection.
@lucerolaura89
@lucerolaura89 Год назад
It's because you too are a sweet soul, thank you for sharing your kindness. 😇
@aakasha2816
@aakasha2816 11 месяцев назад
You probably a big softie 😺
@imacup.2667
@imacup.2667 8 месяцев назад
thats really cute actually
@ashleyrodriguez2050
@ashleyrodriguez2050 5 месяцев назад
That's cute...wish I had an autistic sibling like that..
@UnsettledSoldier
@UnsettledSoldier 4 месяца назад
@@ashleyrodriguez2050I have an autistic sibling but he isn’t non-verbal. I will say he is really sweet though
@Krisdogwisperer95
@Krisdogwisperer95 Год назад
10:56 “thank you for listening to music with me”. Then he looked up at you! That was so sweet!
@carolwalter3877
@carolwalter3877 12 часов назад
I watch Gabe and his family's videos about every day. Such an amazing trio. So much love for each other.
@shahani6037
@shahani6037 20 дней назад
6:57 was sooooooo sweet! Lol at the copyright song 😂😂😂😂 but Gabe's smile said a lot about the song playing!!
@dane2379
@dane2379 Год назад
The work SBSK does is not only exceptionally authentic but in this day and age is absolutely invaluable at bettering humanity.
@CaidicusProductions
@CaidicusProductions Год назад
I have a whole bunch of synthesizers in my home and the first thing I think, when I see Gabe, is how much fun it would be to introduce him to synthesizers. Just a whole bunch of keys, knobs, and buttons to manipulate, twist, turn, press, and interact with to create new sounds. I imagine how insanely fun it would be to listen to Gabe discover his power over sound. So, yeah! If you (Gabes parents) ever read this, have a look into the world of synthesis. Not all of them cost insane amounts of money, and all of them are an endless amount of sonic exploration. Anyhow, Gabe is a very sweet kid and it seems to me that he has lots of loving support from some amazing people in his life. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
@brittywren2877
@brittywren2877 Год назад
Amazing idea I agree. I think he would absolutely love it.
@bodyofhope
@bodyofhope Год назад
Boost! That sounds amazing
@federruchi6147
@federruchi6147 Год назад
I also love synths. They are amazing for stimming. Like top tier
@coreycann6751
@coreycann6751 Год назад
What a fantastic idea. I hope his parents read this
@jednrrp
@jednrrp Год назад
I have a dj friend with a nonverbal son and he LOVES synths. He samples sounds from the neighborhood and from videos he watches throughout the day. It totally occupies him and he is creating something great!!!
@user-nm4gj9og2r
@user-nm4gj9og2r 3 месяца назад
Thank you with all my heart for doing these visits and sharing with all of us. ❤ When you were listening to music and he reached out to you , moved his mouth.........What a beautiful sharing of two perfect souls ! Thank you
@user-wb8ky5bd9z
@user-wb8ky5bd9z 6 месяцев назад
This is so great. You can tell they love each other. So glad to see these videos. Wow, the way he slowly started to trust him. This is amazing. Wow, so sweet
@carriehiggins876
@carriehiggins876 Год назад
I love how you are comfortable just sitting with Gabe. Too many people are uncomfortable with a lack of spoken conversation. As the parent of a child with ASD I find there is much depth and communication just being present together.
@empress2529
@empress2529 Год назад
Yeap, it made me feel uncomfortable and anxious, like I kept waiting from him to say something
@carriehiggins876
@carriehiggins876 Год назад
@@empress2529 you can learn to become comfortable with the silence. It takes work because we've been conditioned to make small talk but it is worth it to learn to be comfortable just being with others.
@empress2529
@empress2529 Год назад
@@carriehiggins876 It reminds me of our son, he has emotional regulating matters, as a baby eh would up crying as crazy, tantrum, we never knew if he is pain or had a bad dream or was annoyed by something? we hoped hat when he will grow older he will explain himself.... but kids with ADD and with emotional regulation issues they also find it hard to convert events and fleeing into words... thus, we kept not receiving answers until he was much older. Having communication problems is a mayor struggle in humans, because communication is everything for humanity. I think they did not explain enough how they really communicate with him. maybe with hand blind signs? with a computer?
@christinablair1978
@christinablair1978 Год назад
I love Chris, simply for being such a genuinely caring person.
@daviddietrich5104
@daviddietrich5104 Год назад
Hello Christina how are you doing today?... hope my message found you in a pleasant way?
@myheartwillstopinjoy8142
@myheartwillstopinjoy8142 Год назад
@@daviddietrich5104 stop man 💀
@thegnome9529
@thegnome9529 Год назад
@@myheartwillstopinjoy8142 lol he seems to be doing this to all the girls he finds
@caitlynnestrada87
@caitlynnestrada87 Год назад
It gives me hope for humanity. About Chris not the thirsty guy
@myheartwillstopinjoy8142
@myheartwillstopinjoy8142 Год назад
@@caitlynnestrada87 "not for the thirsty guy" 😂💀
@abbett
@abbett 4 месяца назад
So good to see you do one of these with Gabe and his parents! I've been following their story awhile. I love all the work you all are doing to share these experiences with those of us not so challenged so that we can learn how to better communicate with them out in the world. ❤
@LM-xr2fk
@LM-xr2fk 18 дней назад
My sister has a no speaking autistic child and she was told to put him in sign language classes. This way he is now able to communicate through sign language. We are grateful to the teacher who recommended this.
@Donnie-Lee-Gringo
@Donnie-Lee-Gringo Год назад
I enjoy how Gabe is making you work for it with your one on one couch sitting. He's not going to just open up all the way with you at first. Like any teenage boy he's just playing it chill
@SamdEh
@SamdEh Год назад
The eye contact that Gabe gives the people around him is the purest form of communication and understanding from someone who is nonverbal like him, it shows that he is aware of what’s going on around him and he is acknowledging who’s there and what’s going on 😊 When he reached out to Chris at 6:52, he just looked so happy to sit down and listen to music with a friend
@bridgettecoffey1083
@bridgettecoffey1083 3 дня назад
Gabe seems like someone I’d love to just chill with and share the variety of music I listen to.
@lindseybaldwin949
@lindseybaldwin949 4 месяца назад
Honestly couldn’t tell who was his biological mother until they said it. He really resembles both of his moms
@gisampaion
@gisampaion Год назад
the way he smiled and interacted with chris while listening to music just melted my heart
@useyourwandbro
@useyourwandbro Год назад
I love that Gabe found a family that loves him and accepts him. At the same time, as a speech therapist I can't help but wonder where's his AAC system?? He could express so much more with the right tools, it could be life changing for him and his family!
@jodic4823
@jodic4823 Год назад
he has one they just didnt give it to him for the video he mostly just asks for food with it, he also has spoken a few words and sang from what ive seen on instagram
@jkscout
@jkscout 11 месяцев назад
I'm an SLP, too, and was wondering exactly the same thing. Doesn't make sense.
@jkscout
@jkscout 11 месяцев назад
@@jodic4823 food is highly reinforcing, but as much as he likes music, I'm sure he could learn to use his aac system to make music requests.
@ciaraoshea7246
@ciaraoshea7246 11 месяцев назад
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@ritamariekelley4077
@ritamariekelley4077 11 месяцев назад
I thought the same thing as an ex SPED teacher, opportunity for Gabe to express himself, but then I thought, I'm sure they tried 1000's of times, 1000's of ways.
@cuprite3430
@cuprite3430 4 месяца назад
Two types of comments here: calling him an angel or a dog, and then grown adults lusting after him. Dehumanizing. Best of luck to him
@Incognition37
@Incognition37 3 месяца назад
I don't see any "lusting" just people complimenting him
@lisam682
@lisam682 3 месяца назад
I love how you bond with each kid. It's really special. Gabe is so awesome, and so are his moms. I hope Gabe meets new friends who see and appreciate how cool he is, and I hope his future is full of happiness, music, and dancing.
@BridgeFish
@BridgeFish Год назад
Get this dude a bass!!! Gabe loves music and can clearly keep a good rhythm, I think he'd be sick on an instrument.
@BallJoinedWing
@BallJoinedWing Год назад
I was also thinking drums, but maybe start with frame drum
@absolince
@absolince Год назад
At the end of their listening party he made a strumming gesture
@vero-kd8vg
@vero-kd8vg Год назад
he definitely gives off some bassist vibes
@zad2155
@zad2155 Год назад
He needs mirrors around to help with his self awareness
@walterwallman3566
@walterwallman3566 11 месяцев назад
I was about to comment that. Give my man a bass and get him a good teacher and he would be insane
@sarahdavis2159
@sarahdavis2159 Год назад
I can't be the only one who thinks Gabe is just the cutest thing in the world. He's so adorable and his smile just really hits different.
@montiemox
@montiemox Год назад
he fine
@arhanakbarreevan6710
@arhanakbarreevan6710 Год назад
He's is so cute.
@livvyyyyyyyyyyy
@livvyyyyyyyyyyy Год назад
Yes but maybe word this differently because it can come across as If your babying him
@laurapaivab
@laurapaivab Год назад
He really seems like someone who's fun to be around 😄
@FloatyyBrain
@FloatyyBrain Год назад
@@livvyyyyyyyyyyy I agree, it’s just a tiny bit infantilizing-
@margaretandersen9914
@margaretandersen9914 3 месяца назад
I love the kindness and effort you put into connecting with every person you meet!
@byealex7607
@byealex7607 4 месяца назад
How warm. I feel it. It's so free. I am glad to have come across this video and these light people.
@dubiusindex8216
@dubiusindex8216 Год назад
I really felt the connection at 15:20, when Gabe looked you into the eyes and literally reached out towards you.
@shannanigansisme
@shannanigansisme Год назад
For the first several minutes, I thought his "bonus mom" was his birth mom. They not only look alike, they have the same stare when they're listening to others speak. What a perfect family. 🥰
@fairygrl999
@fairygrl999 Год назад
same! most of the video I was trying to figure out who his birth mom was until I came to the conclusion that it doesn't matter anyway cuz they both clearly love him a lot
@shannanigansisme
@shannanigansisme Год назад
@@fairygrl999 that's a lovely answer!
@eggchomp
@eggchomp Год назад
I always thought it was the real one, they have the very same gorgeous hair
@Heather_Morgan
@Heather_Morgan Год назад
@@eggchomp Yes, it was the hair that gave it away to me also. Beautiful!
@Heather_Morgan
@Heather_Morgan Год назад
I like that phrase "Bonus Mom". I've never thought of it that way before. Thank you for showing me a new perspective.
@never_ever_harm
@never_ever_harm Месяц назад
Gabe is such a sweet soul! I just love him! And the love of 2 wonderful mothers shows! Thank you for sharing your life with us so we can understand and show compassion for the autistic community!❤❤❤
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