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AN EMOTIONAL DAY
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@redlantern3371
@redlantern3371 Год назад
For you ladies that cannot afford an $800. jacket, look for a 1940's jacket in a thrift shop. I found 2 beautifully tailored jackets with the same sort of look. (Nipped in waist and strong shoulders) And in perfect condition with beautiful buttons for about 50 dollars. 🥰
@geyj1
@geyj1 Год назад
Bravo ;)
@elizabethlauricella7176
@elizabethlauricella7176 Год назад
Such fun!! Love finding treasures of vintage clothes.
@redlantern3371
@redlantern3371 Год назад
@@elizabethlauricella7176 Me too! I like the clothes I wear to be something I don't see on other people. And I like the fact that the clothing has a second life. With me!
@lorensciberras2855
@lorensciberras2855 Год назад
Absolutely!!!
@emmayates9309
@emmayates9309 Год назад
Lydia I love you but calling a £700 jacket affordable is what’s making so many say you’re out of touch. Lots of us watch you as escapism & enjoy your lovely lavish life, but I think it’s really important you remember that 90% of the country are drowning financially x
@gd4761
@gd4761 Год назад
True, I tend to shop in more upmarket high street brands, but £700 is crazy for a jacket. My most expensive coat is £100!
@nnr0704
@nnr0704 Год назад
You forget she is also helping the local economy by supporting small businesses.
@tulafoster3962
@tulafoster3962 Год назад
She has lost herself completely. Sad
@emmayates9309
@emmayates9309 Год назад
@@nnr0704 Supporting small and local business is a beautiful thing. This type of clothing & tailoring is many amazing things, but not affordable.
@bogdanm90
@bogdanm90 Год назад
@@nnr0704 she’s supporting herself, with expensive tailored items. She is not doing it for the business 😂
@tenwaystowearit
@tenwaystowearit Год назад
I love when Lydia went to pick up and get fitted for her jackets. I could listen to English people talk all day. I love to watch BBC series and cooking shows. As a Californian I can’t lie the English accent is lovely to me.
@caroldanderson6781
@caroldanderson6781 Год назад
And I enjoy your channel just as much I enjoy Lydia's. Lovely ladies! 🌹🌹
@marladell6091
@marladell6091 Год назад
totally agree!!!! Love the Brits!!!
@barbaragroen6406
@barbaragroen6406 Год назад
The fact that the staff of Souster and Hicks know that you love your jacket over the shoulder, the way they talk about their craft. It is so lovely to see. 💖 only 5 minutes into your vlog and already so in love
@maryka2218
@maryka2218 Год назад
Great jacket….but too tight in the back when she tried the jacket on…the pleat in the back was strained to the point that it was pulling open.
@MindyMaeCrochets
@MindyMaeCrochets Год назад
Im very sure people have already said this but please never apologize or think your a "wet blanket" You most certainly are NOT! The depth of love you have for your babies is immeasurable. Your beautiful loving heart is always worn on your sleeve where they are concerned. I have always felt this way about all my furbabies. Hugs from me to you, dear human!!
@ephphatha7269
@ephphatha7269 Год назад
I discovered Lydia yesterday on TikTok and I’ve been watching her all day, I honestly cannot get enough.😢 I’m so inspired
@Selive10
@Selive10 Год назад
Did you discover her through the critics she’s got the last couple of days? For checking into the savoy as the heating in her house is broken
@braxAllsmilez
@braxAllsmilez Год назад
Ignore the haters lol she’s lovely!
@joannehurt6393
@joannehurt6393 Год назад
Lyd, what you are experiencing is that others do not measure up to your standards and when that happens in a vile negative way, your heart becomes leaden and it bothers you. Just keep your high standards and go on. I think you are an empath and feel deeply about others in this world. You aren't a wet blanket but you are a fleece line comforter. Don't worry my babygirl, at my age of 70, oceans of tears have been shed and you will have more crying days than you think. Not crying is the sin because there will be no feelings for another. Cry your tears and cry buckets for that cleanses your very soul. Ms. Hurt
@knowchrissiechavers7642
@knowchrissiechavers7642 Год назад
Oh Lydia, You are an absolute Gem of a young lady. Iam an elder lady and I can tell you our furbabies are our children . There is nothing wrong with you loving you babies. Iam Praying for your Precious Lummy. God Bless her. Thank you for being such a kind hearted person, the world needs more love and kindness. Sending love all the way from the US , Chrissie ♥️🙏
@louisevarcoe228
@louisevarcoe228 Год назад
Please please don't spray your dog's bed with purfume/essential oil spray as it's poisonous to animals. Their sense of smell is a crazy amount higher than humans too so you can imagine how awful that must be to sleep in xx
@gabbiehepworthh
@gabbiehepworthh Год назад
Even if it's not one of the essential oils that is toxic to dogs, dogs have a very developed sense of smell (40% of their brain power goes to sniffing!) and homey scents, like their dog beds, are super important to feeling settled calm and relaxed! Definitely skip the perfume on their bed, just pop it through the wash if it's smelling bad.
@debradannergreene1088
@debradannergreene1088 Год назад
I cried over my cat and dog constantly. They are family and you love and care about them. ❤. Love how open you’ve been lately. I totally agree with your assessment of how people just have such lack of morals and values I todays society.😢
@Cazandanna
@Cazandanna Год назад
Lydia, please don't feel embarrassed about crying when having to take Lumi to the vet. I used to feel the same every time I had to take my little dog to the vet (which was very often). It's tough to do something that you know upsets them but please know that you're doing the best thing. She knows that you love her and she will forget about the vet visit in no time at all. I haven't got to the end of the video yet so I desperately hope that Lumi is ok but wanted to send you a message now as I could see how upset you were on the driveway which brought back a distinct memory when I was in the exact same position. Hugs to you and Lumi x.
@Theflowerjoasia
@Theflowerjoasia Год назад
Crying clears our soul..it is a big respite..alleviate all.. deminish our burder...it is good for our health..😊
@KarinaSwan
@KarinaSwan Год назад
Hello, that's a lovely comment, I'm sure Lydia would appreciate it. It helped me reading it as I hate taking animals to the vet! My cat gets into an absolute state of panic, she comes from an abused past and her eyes look like it's a matter of life and death. None of us are able to just hold her, she fights and I feel terrible for making her go through this, it literally gives me panic attacks seeing her like this
@SherryBaby1107
@SherryBaby1107 Год назад
It is such a deeply immeasurable type of love for our pets they give us unconditional love and we in turn love them the same when we know they hurt we too hurt and tears are our release of empathy and compassion a lovely quality not shameful in the least I do hope all is now well with her😊
@lunarfaerie8552
@lunarfaerie8552 Год назад
There isn’t a vet out there who hasn’t had experience of owners becoming emotional over their furbabies wellbeing. As you quite rightly said, it’s just an outer show of the extreme love we all have for them. Never feel embarrassed about showing your love and care of your lucky furbabies-sadly there are all too many out there who would love to be taken to the vet by a crying mum 😢
@cathrine6922
@cathrine6922 Год назад
If Ali asked you to not show his room, then why are you? I find that highly disrespectful, you are spoiling it for him!! He's not allowed to show anything of yours in his vlogs when you ask him not to, so why are you? I dread to think how you'd be towards him if he did this to you!
@jeanne_study9060
@jeanne_study9060 Год назад
She did not show the color it was the prep work
@cathrine6922
@cathrine6922 Год назад
@@jeanne_study9060 She still went inside, and we saw quiet a bit of it. Ali can never do that! That is my point. One rule for one and one for another.
@besharkey7527
@besharkey7527 Год назад
Predictable. I came on the comments as soon as I heard the words £6-700 jacket. Lydia channel is about HER life, and many many others are in a similar financial circumstance to her and Ali. Hundreds of brands everywhere have high price range and I don’t see anyone jumping at Louis Vuitton for being “out of touch” with the financial crisis. Let the girl live her fantasy, and have the target audience she desires. I am no where near Lydia’s financial gain but none the less I enjoy her lavish style, beautiful home and stylish ideas! Remember this is a young women sharing her life but it doesn’t mean she doesn’t empathise behind closed doors or do her bit. Be kind, support others. Give them the benefit of the doubt why do we always have to assume the worst or jump down throats! ❤
@nathalieleeds1117
@nathalieleeds1117 Год назад
This spoke to me more that you’ll know! I say this daily “don’t expect yourself from others” . It’s horrible to experience ugliness in people. You are a light! ❤
@mrss6187
@mrss6187 Год назад
💗
@starabaker
@starabaker Год назад
Love this!
@GardenbySerendipity
@GardenbySerendipity Год назад
You are definitely not nuts Lydia. I genuinely feel better knowing there are other pet caretakers that feel the same way I do. I struggle and worry each time I take my fur babies to the vet. I cant watch any movies with animals in it for fear something may happen to them even though I do understand it is just a movie. I so love all animals; they are a gift to us.
@DrenchedInPink013
@DrenchedInPink013 Год назад
Does anyone know what she was talking about in the car, I’m confused
@nadim2746
@nadim2746 Год назад
me too😂
@MoniqueARuiz
@MoniqueARuiz Год назад
I was super confused too! Sounds like maybe she had some bad experiences recently(?) but doesn’t want to call people out by name(?) 🤷🏽‍♀️
@carlywelsh7919
@carlywelsh7919 Год назад
'Ali has told me I am not allowed to film this'. *Carries on filming. I found that very odd and a bit disrespectful
@bogdanm90
@bogdanm90 Год назад
Yet she always asks him not share Vlogs where she has to do any reveals before she posts. Very disrespectful indeed
@alexmarshall6705
@alexmarshall6705 Год назад
Love these longer videos at this time of the year. It's become a bit of a tradition for me to watch Lydia's videos and wrap Christmas gifts (which I did way too early). ☺
@all_things_home
@all_things_home Год назад
You love her that’s why you’re crying. Crying is an emotion we all shouldn’t hide or apologize for. I hope Lumi gets well.
@MissAdoptaCat
@MissAdoptaCat Год назад
My fur babies are absolutely my heart and soul so I feel every tear you have for Lumi. I hope she recuperates very soon. Sending prayers. Hoping to make you smile by telling you that I just watched another influencer, Dominique Sachse. She was clearing out her closet with a local designer to help, and your clothes were a huge staple in her closet. They both raved about your line and kept every single piece. Just gorgeous!!
@mouriefeeney1903
@mouriefeeney1903 Год назад
Lydia...I am only suggesting, however, you might want to research frangrances (candles, sprays, etc.) where pets are concerned. We have 3 Persian cats in our home and take every precaution of this. I held my breath when you sprayed the sausage beds. Also, watching Lumi walk, it occurred to me that it could be arthritis? I am sure your vet checked the paw claws for infection. Our Persians are almost 16 years old. Your pets love you and Ali so and give their unconditional love. The best of everything good and happy this Christmas season.
@d26s10
@d26s10 Год назад
Lydia I’m with you. Integrity is everything to me. I’m a highly sensitive person too and I genuinely receive the biggest joy from seeing people being kind to one another...even complete strangers in the supermarket...e.g. someone fetching an item off the top shelf that the other person can’t reach. Words really affect me to. When people say something so flippantly mean, it upsets me. I understand that it’s a reflection of them and their inner pain which helps me deal with it. On the other hand, words are the way to my heart too...and well written card, a hand written letter... ugh that’s all I ever need gift wise from a man who I’m dating. I work with a lady who clearly has a lot of mental health issues and childhood wounds so when she snaps, it’s hard not to soak in that energy as I’m an empath...but I have another lady in my office who is more like me and we’ve spoken about her behaviour and we support one another. We know she’s not inherently mean but honestly, if I didn’t have my colleague there who’s more like me, I don’t think I could be around her for 8 hrs, 5 days a week!
@kayttcreedon524
@kayttcreedon524 Год назад
My dear Lydia, it has been a while since I have looked at a full video (not that I have not wanted to, just have been too busy) You are such a great girl, what I love about you is that you have not changed in all the years...you have just got to be a better version of yourself. Love all your content, fashion, garden, house...they tick all my boxes. Continue to grow and be yourself...this is one of your best qualities..you are always down to earth, fun, and funny! God Bless you...
@janekaraoke2491
@janekaraoke2491 Год назад
When pets are sick, they can't talk and say what's wrong, and so you end up feeling helpless and intensely sad. I really hope Lumi gets better❤❤
@danaweaver4129
@danaweaver4129 Год назад
Part of the wet blanket club, I cried over you crying over Lumi. ❤
@lydiamillen
@lydiamillen Год назад
We are ridiculous and I love it 😭🤍
@sheddingthealbatross
@sheddingthealbatross Год назад
I was just going to admit the same. I cried over you crying. I have a sweet Cavapoo named Oliver. He is limping too😢. He’s gone to his vet twice now yet no real findings. We are treating him with anti-inflammatories. I don’t feel good about it at all. Prayers for our sweet babies. One more thing….what is your “PT”? Peloton Physical Therapy? I’ve been reading on it
@mrss6187
@mrss6187 Год назад
I cry too 🙋‍♀️ I'll cry if I shout at her for begging & her little face makes me feel bad 😞
@DB-hz6vr
@DB-hz6vr Год назад
@@sheddingthealbatross i think personal trainer 🤔
@ghc26
@ghc26 Год назад
I cried too! ((Hugs to all of us in the wet blanket club.)) 😻💞
@sophiecziglenyi6506
@sophiecziglenyi6506 Год назад
I cry all the time when I take my cat to the vet. Our fur babies mean the world to us. Don't feel embarrassed 😢
@tanyabryden4640
@tanyabryden4640 Год назад
The tailor really is lovely and one of a kind old school. His knowledge is amazing. His compliments are genuine. Such passion for classic style. I could listen to him all day.
@merry6117
@merry6117 Год назад
Lydia, that bespoke jacket made for wearing over your shoulders is beyond gorgeous. I'm kind of surprised that the pleat in the back opens so much when you put it on, though.
@loripenzato5247
@loripenzato5247 Год назад
Ken and Graham have transformed that dressing room !!!! They are incredible!!!!It is so wonderful to have them painting your home.. They take pride in the work they do!!! The garden is so beautiful!!! Praying for Lumi, hope she feels better soon!!!
@dianemilligan7370
@dianemilligan7370 Год назад
Please don’t feel alone, I am just the same and cry at the Vet when there is a problem. And, we can’t bare to have our beloved pets be miserable.❤️
@nads2211
@nads2211 Год назад
Don’t feel embarrassed about being emotional taking her to the vet. It’s so understandable given losing Lynx (sorry if I’ve misspelt it) and the issues you’ve had with Lumi recently. At the end of the day we want our fur babies to be ok and it’s only natural to be worried and emotional. Hope she’s ok. Sending you much love
@laurend731
@laurend731 Год назад
I feel like your just projecting at the end there. You too have not been so nice in the past that is well documented so let’s not be judgemental of others who may be still in their growth phase of life. You listed off so many privileges at the end there- maybe be aware that not everyone has those and maybe that’s why life isn’t so kind to them and therefore causes those negatives outlooks they have. Many people in your life gave you the space to get things wrong and learn so maybe you could do that for others?
@thelegaultlife3096
@thelegaultlife3096 Год назад
You literally change your house up monthly. Are you ever satisfied with anything??
@ericawallin6972
@ericawallin6972 Год назад
Our animals are our babies so I completely understand your crying.. I get like this as well. I'm grateful you are so compassionate about your animals. That is wonderful!
@janacieskova5675
@janacieskova5675 Год назад
Lydia, I normally don't post any comment and keep my thoughts to myself however, I'll make an exception as I somehow feel strongly about this. I do wish you would stop showing Ali's projects when he asks you to, just like he is respecting your request not to show the projects you want to present. I remember last year how precious you were about Ali not showing anything on your Christmas decor to the point he was anxious not to catch a glimps of it in his camera and yet you don't seem to have the same respect for his content. Please don't do it. I love your content as it is and watch his as is. Or, allow him to do the same. Love you both xx
@gawill2327
@gawill2327 Год назад
Animals sense your moods and vibes….I know it’s upsetting Lydia, but you are strong, Lumi needs a strong and positive mummy when she visits the vet it would settle her much more! Xx big hugs
@Esh486
@Esh486 Год назад
Aw bless you Lydia, I can relate to what you feel. I'm what you call HSP (highly sensitive person), I cry very easily, and I'd cry at the vets so much with my dogs that I told them I'm worried they're gonna start charging me for tissue paper. 😂😂 Lumi is such a gorgeous girl, wishing her lots of health!
@sarahbond8496
@sarahbond8496 Год назад
How did you go from talking about lumi to having a big speal on obviously having a pop at someone! And I'm sorry but to be that flippant about the cost of living crisis which is affecting so many people I think was incredibly disrespectful. I usually like your videos but this was a bit much.
@kristinathiveos847
@kristinathiveos847 Год назад
Oh god reading this is exhausting. Get over it and enjoy the video…
@katiehull2590
@katiehull2590 Год назад
Beautiful, you and Ally compliment each other perfectly.
@aishah5244
@aishah5244 Год назад
Loomie sitting in her cage like “Ok momma, but can we hurry up and get to this appointment so we can hurry back home?”. 😂😂😂
@juliash1135
@juliash1135 Год назад
Omg You shouldn't feel bad or embarrassed about getting emotional about your fur babies! I've been watching your channel for years now and I loved seeing Lumi and Lynx on your channel and being a first time kitten mum myself, vet visits are the most stress inducing things ever for both myself and my kitten; Pudding! Even this morning, Pudding started snorting for a few seconds and I almost had an asthma attack myself lol So don't feel embarrassed and it's totally normal to be emotional!
@hhhhhhh8208
@hhhhhhh8208 Год назад
£700 is affordable? I'm well off, but I am also aware that for most people £700 for a jacket is a lot of money.
@DreaLeigh_
@DreaLeigh_ Год назад
Lydia, I love the chat that you had in your car, I have never heard someone on the internet be so open about these things and it is very encouraging to hear. Also, I would say that there is no shame in being emotional, but society has made it seem (granted we are getting better but also maybe taking it too far at times) with getting emotional as a woman it can still feel like we are showing "weakness" when in reality we are caring humans, and emotions should never be the equal to being weak as it shows, as you mentioned, tremendous care. I definitely feel like there is a culture which is being produced at the moment which both wants people to be more open but is hypocritical at times to those who are too open to where others get their own feelings hurt or offense is taken, when in the reality of things there is no offense in being open about what you're feeling, we can not cater every feeling and thought to every other human of the world. Basically all of this to say, in short, I appreciate your honesty and care for caring so much about society and other humans that you took the time to bring up honor, and working hard for things even if in todays world they look at hard work and get offended that others work harder than they. But I may have taken this out of context and don't wish to put meaning to your words whatsoever. I hope that you are having a great day today, and that your life is filled with more selflessness and kindness and that those who don't show those qualities may look to you when they happen to bump into you (whether through your channel or physically on the street) as a guide in order to find joy and not bring others down.
@MargoSickele
@MargoSickele Год назад
I understand your emotion about your animals! I am a new cat mom, and I get that emotional as well, especially when they are scared. I find that, as much as I love fall, I also get very sad. Sometimes it's because of the gloomy weather times, but I also lost my father in the fall, and that is always an emotional time (he's been gone for over 30 years!). Fall is also a reminder of the circle/cycle of life. While find it to be generally hopeful and about renewal, it is a deeply reflective time for me as well. Sending hugs.
@duchesshenderson4482
@duchesshenderson4482 Год назад
Soooo, why are you showing Ali’s dressing room if he doesn’t want you to?! 😐
@MikadoDragomir
@MikadoDragomir Год назад
We would have never known to go to Ali's Channel if Lydia did not give a sneak peak to get us interested it's called marketing 🤔
@duchesshenderson4482
@duchesshenderson4482 Год назад
@@MikadoDragomir That may be so, but when someone asks you not to do something but you do it anyway, it isn’t very respectful.
@christinegregory1942
@christinegregory1942 Год назад
I love your car chats =] I feel the same way at my big age of 31, I always assume people will carry themselves like I do in this world and it always always always astounds me when that is simply not the case. I should've learned earlier and that's probably what's caused me personally a lot of heartache
@AnyaFortygin
@AnyaFortygin Год назад
£700 for a custom tailored jacket is quite reasonable. And historically- that is the relative price point for tailored clothing with inflation. Clothing is not meant to be cheap and dispensable. Investing and planning in a quality wardrobe is a good way to create support for the local hard working tailors and also creating a timeless classic wardrobe.
@WastingThyme
@WastingThyme Год назад
Wet blanket = Compassionate, Caring and Loving. I cried for your little one. Been there far to many times. Love from Canada
@Lou7301.
@Lou7301. Год назад
Lydia your words spoken were just how I would describe how I think and feel. I too am very sensitive usually to other peoples pain, loss, love for my family, proud moments etc I don’t have a long future ahead of me with my husband and our dogs sadly but I live each day the best I can with hope, love and gratefulness. I’m always happy for other peoples success your success it honestly feels me with joy (Hope that doesn’t sound weird 😊) I don’t really understand jealousy as it only brings unhappiness into our own lives. I love my home but god I’d love yours 😂 but im happy I get to see yours. The Inspiration you give me in the home for my budget clothes etc I just love. I love me but I’m grateful for you 🙏 Ps Being sensitive is a gift x
@bogdanm90
@bogdanm90 Год назад
If you truly felt bad for Lumi you wouldn’t have sat in the car for half an hour having a rant about God knows what and would have taken her to the vets directly without prolonging her stress! It’s rather clear your crying was directed at something or someone else entirely. We have two cats and ours is really shaky and cries when we take her to the vets so try to put her in right before we need to leave not earlier,and take her to the vets as fast as possible for her to stress as less as possible.
@stefaniesombaty8980
@stefaniesombaty8980 Год назад
I cry every time I take my pets to the vet when they are sick.. When I had to put down my boy "who lost his religion" I sobbed as I held him till he died. The next day before I put him in his grave I held him and sobbed some more. I am crying now. It is what makes us human beings.
@Alinanais
@Alinanais Год назад
There is nothing embarrassing about releasing emotions! I have both a daughter and animals and is different with kids because you can talk to them explaining that is in their own interest but with animals you can t, that's where the guilt, the strong emotions come from! I took my dog a month ago to be sprayed and I cried the whole day! I allow myself to feel it all! You are a good person, be good to yourself also! Using words like I can't cope, I am an idiot etc is not being nicer and gentle to yourself! Worrying is not changing the situation , of course you can cope, you just need to tell yourself the opposite! You have phenomenal coping skills Lydia! Tell yourself this instead!
@geyj1
@geyj1 Год назад
Come on some of us have kids that can not communicate at all!!! I think its the time of the month or ... I love animals but I think its a bit much crying like that!!!!
@geenagr
@geenagr Год назад
I'm not a big fan of blazers worn on the shoulders (just a little preference), but when you wear them they look spectacular! So nicely done. Your nonno was a tailor, my pappou was a textile merchant and whenever I bought a new piece of clothing, he would always touch it and look at the textile closely. God I miss him!
@rachelcameron2414
@rachelcameron2414 Год назад
I had your vlog on whilst my drunk fiance stumbled in and surprisingly watched your whole vlog with me (an unusual encounter for him to partake in my vlog watching) but i just have to share some of his insight which i thought was lovely and you'd like to hear. He mumbled how lydia is his favourite person out of all the vlogs i watch, she seems really lovely and he hopes we bump into you and Ali at the Formula 1 one day so he can tell you how lovely and genuine you seem, theres nothing better than a drunken compliment so here you go hahah!
@jam6391
@jam6391 Год назад
You are not alone Lydia - when I worked at the vets we had lots of people who cried when bringing their animals in to see us. Everyone who works in a vet hospital is used to it, so there is no need to be embarrassed. We've seen it all before, so don't worry. We would rather see people tearful with love and compassion, than act in a callous, unfeeling way towards their pet xx
@kylanhiggs7536
@kylanhiggs7536 Год назад
When I tell you…I canNOT wait…to see all of your Souster & Hicks pieces, I am legitimately SO excited!!!! Hope to see you style your blazer multiple ways!!
@Julie-sr5di
@Julie-sr5di Год назад
Hi Lydia. Thank you for sharing your thoughts in general about people and humility. So much reflected what I have witnessed too. ❤️ your honesty.
@CountryloverCountrylover
@CountryloverCountrylover Год назад
Hi Lydia, your lovely topiary trees are beech not birch. Both tress are great I. A country garden such as yours and do wonders for wildlife. We’ll done for planting them and helping our struggling flora and fauna
@HannahBMann
@HannahBMann Год назад
Safe to say Lumi's stollen your heart. Lovely sentiments about people today--kindness and morals still matter to some of us. Also, the equine art you've chosen is beautiful; Corum is in Kentucky with all the beautiful horses and bourbons. xo
@jpatterson4016
@jpatterson4016 Год назад
Hello Lydia, this is why I left the corporate world. All the backstabbing and working with people that don't like you and only want to step on you on their way to the top. Now I have my own small business and work with people I love, it's the best 💗💗💗
@carlaalves3486
@carlaalves3486 Год назад
you are a fantastic person Lydia, it 's ok to cry, in fact it reveals that you are an emotional, sensitive person. thank you for all your shares of your life, work, your wonderful dogs. you are an inspiration to many women. kisses for you and ali from Portugal
@sashabargery
@sashabargery Год назад
I had my cat put down a week today. Start of kidney failure and she was 4. Pets are family do not feel embarrassed for crying it’s completely normal ❤
@alisonkovacs9871
@alisonkovacs9871 Год назад
Lumi is so beautiful as well bless her hope she is ok sending her lots of love
@Nicky-Mc
@Nicky-Mc Год назад
Bless you Lydia , don’t question your feelings of love for Lumi, she is your family. As someone a little bit older than you, and also someone who always tries to do the right think and be kind at all times , I have realised that you meet people in life that are not like that for lots of reasons, some sadly not of their making and you can’t always rationalise their actions. I think you have to just gain a level of acceptance that people don’t always behave in a way that you would want or expect. You choose who you want in your life, who shares your values, who makes your garden grow. Those who don’t, you wish them well, you hold no grudge and you move away with no guilt x
@deniseallott3756
@deniseallott3756 Год назад
Wise words.
@sheddingthealbatross
@sheddingthealbatross Год назад
Thank you @Mrs Mcenery. I’ve written your words in my diary.
@MsTunish
@MsTunish Год назад
I am so much the same. I cry at the vets , as well. The cats get me worse than the dogs, for some reason. Take care, and feel proud of who you are. These are the moments that build endurance and endurance builds character, it helps create who we are. I think that you are a great person. If you had to hide these feelings from your viewers, than your content would not be the same at all. I am 53 years old, and I have 3 daughters, whom I pray will turn out very much like you. Genuine and kind. Cry Lydia, cry your pretty head off, hehe.
@barefootandroaming
@barefootandroaming Год назад
I love the behind the scenes at Souster and Hicks and your appreciation for beautiful craftsmanship! Watching you choose and create pieces with them is so heartwarming. Gorgeous as always!
@pammills7912
@pammills7912 Год назад
I love that you are supporting a British tailor you will look amazing in them I feel it is so important to support our local companies
@erikalouwrens3992
@erikalouwrens3992 Год назад
I understand Lydia, I really do. I am beside myself when I have to take my precious parrot, Banjo to the vet. It is so stressful. And it is love. It's totally love.
@sandrabrooks2611
@sandrabrooks2611 Год назад
I love how much you love those dogs. People tell you to have children and you already have two❤. Cry if you need to we all do when we love something.
@claireboxer6027
@claireboxer6027 Год назад
Lydia maybe re frame how you look at your tears for Lummy : it's so beautiful that you care so much. Its not wet to cry, its powerful and honest. I am exactly the same, I felt bad for weeks after taking my kitty to the vet for his poorly paw.
@tatianasarkissian9951
@tatianasarkissian9951 Год назад
Hi Lydia! Papier d'Armenie bases it’s origins in Armenia. A Frenchman visited the country and was inspired by the scents there. He went back to France and created the scented papers.
@rachelmcook
@rachelmcook Год назад
We recently found a stray kitten with an injured arm and ringworm. The animal shelter’s vet suggested amputation. I decided to do a little research and found a vet who would come to our house and perform acupuncture. Slowly, this little kitten is gaining use of his paw back. These animals deserve to have owners who are willing to do anything for them. Lumi is lucky to be so loved ❤
@vivenuestrasvidas
@vivenuestrasvidas Год назад
I cry over my dog all the time...he's 13 years old and I just cry over the fact that he's old or that he's deaf or that someday he will no longer be with me which scares me to dead because he's my soul animal, my best friend, and sometimes I just sit and cry for awhile just thinking.... 7 years ago we lost our 12 year-old bunny, I remembered my mom telling me she felt like she has just lost a child and people will never understand that you can love animals as much as your own child but you can
@BClanBeauty
@BClanBeauty Год назад
You are absolutely right. Normally (some woman don’t experience it right away), the love we have for our children is a love like no other. I always say, I love my husband but I know in my core of my body, I love my children and should anything bad happen to them, a piece of me diminishes. Your heart will no longer remain in your body but in that person you birthed. It’s definitely an intense sort of love. Hard to explain sometimes. I know that not all women want children but I always encourage because once you have a child it’s like you can’t see how life was without them.
@_juju_5
@_juju_5 Год назад
Those are some of the MOST beautiful dresses you’ve ever shown on your channel Lydia, you looked so so stunning in them.
@marci.m91
@marci.m91 Год назад
Dear Lydia, I just saw your last vlog where you went with Lumi to the vet. You admitted being vulnerable and crying when your pets aren't well. I feel you, my senior sausage lady has had serious health issues since September, she is still hanging there and I've been crying ofter. She is my furry baby as I cannot have my own children and she is my world. I wanted to thank you for sharing such moments, it has helped me a lot. ❤️
@carmengrauwels
@carmengrauwels Год назад
A tip for sippers that go up on the back : see if you have a very light clothinghanger: yes? Then see if the __❔️__ lus /hook of the hanger fits thru the opening of the sipper. Yes? Then put thhe dress/jumpsuit/ whatever on and take by end of hanger and pull it up A tiny long ribbon works too
@caroldanderson6781
@caroldanderson6781 Год назад
Kindness is so needed right now.
@cosy1
@cosy1 Год назад
I am not a pet owner BUT: I did hear about using essential oils or some specific SOS drops also for pets to calm them down. And make them feel safe. In Germany they are called „Bachblütentropfen“ 😅
@susieqmartin2746
@susieqmartin2746 Год назад
Your American Artist is living in Tennessee it has the Appalachian mountains, and is very beautiful. I’m sure it is like Scotland Highlands, to many people, but it is extremely mountains. Side note Jack Danials is the best American whiskey. Makers Mark 46 & Jim Beam are the finest Kentucky Bourbons! Kentucky is the state above Tennessee, which is our biggest horse state. This is where we have the Kentucky Derby horse race. New York is where the Preakness is headed also the Belmont those are the triple Crown of horse racing in the USA so she comes from a place wherein horse racing is very big. Thank you for sharing her art!
@TheoriginalANGEK439
@TheoriginalANGEK439 Год назад
Shame you and your tailor can’t come up with say three designs and manufacture and sell. Like on a limited edition type vibe. Small numbers say 500 of the three pieces. Sell them on your website. Have a launch day. Just some crazy thoughts. Or maybe not so crazy ! 👍♥👍
@MsTunish
@MsTunish Год назад
What a wonderful thought!!! ❤
@lizcosgrove8199
@lizcosgrove8199 Год назад
Try not to get upset because animals pick up on that and get annoyed and afraid. If you can't handle it get someone who can handle it because there's no point in upsetting the animals. It same with children you have to be strong and not show them your fears because then they get very upset.
@floofy7194
@floofy7194 Год назад
You fully went off on a tangent while talking about lumi. I'm sat here thinking hmmm did I just miss something
@nadim2746
@nadim2746 Год назад
yes. so incoherent
@PlumebeautyDunsborough
@PlumebeautyDunsborough Год назад
As a Mumma of 3 cats .. and someone who cry’s at everything. I feel you .. xx
@cares8181
@cares8181 Год назад
Ali's roasts are certainly becoming more professional looking. The potatoes look so delicious! And the Yorkshire puddings are so "rustic" and larger than you normally see, which my husband would love. I'm going to have to make him some rustic Yorkshire puds.
@sians9242
@sians9242 Год назад
Don’t expect anything ever and you’ll never be let down 🙃 a lot of people are unhappy/jealous.
@ghc26
@ghc26 Год назад
I completely understand and empathize with you when it comes to taking our sweet felines to the vet. I get more upset seeing animals feeling poorly than my own friends and family. How crazy is that! I just feel so awful because you can’t tell them you’re doing everything possible to keep them well. I’m so glad they didn’t find anything serious with Lumi. 😻🙏🏼🥰
@jessicawiebe4694
@jessicawiebe4694 Год назад
Lydia, thank you for sharing the way you did today. It was open and honest and so refreshing. I have had this same conversation so many times with my husband regarding business conduct and the lack of integrity of some people. I honestly can’t wrap my head around how they live their lives this way, but feel even more compelled to do the right thing and walk in utmost integrity and respect to my life and business. Love that you chatted about this today ❤️❤️
@starabaker
@starabaker Год назад
Totally agree! I have been thinking about that so much lately as well!
@alice.l.reeder
@alice.l.reeder Год назад
Lydia, please don’t apologise for the sound of the rain. It’s my favourite sound 🌧️🤍 P.S love the headbands. They are giving me Blair’s Waldorf vibes. I have a draw full of headbands that I stopped wear but I’ll be getting them back out. If it’s good enough for Lydia it’s good enough for me 😂 xx
@katrina.dippyduck
@katrina.dippyduck Год назад
HicLydia I'm part way through watching. I get what your saying. Having a daughter 17. I love my Coco Mademoiselle just as much honestly. Love is love. Sensitivity is what you feel I think. You here reminded me of myself. Also I want peace and no drama. I just want everyone to be nice. How lovely would that be. Much love to you. Another gentle soul x
@PjTexas
@PjTexas Год назад
I read politics sooo much, but then I’m always like, “It’s Lydia time!” You help me decompress sooo much and loving your fairytale dress the most! All very cool, but fairytale is the most unique. 🧚🏻‍♂️🧚🏼🧚🏼‍♀️
@Neslin75
@Neslin75 Год назад
Hi Lydia, have you thought about doing a Trauma session about your experience when Lumi was critical ? As a therapist I know that when you have unresolved trauma, similar things like bringing her to the Vet will continue to trigger you. I usually recommend Traunatic Incident Reduction (TIR) or you can also try any of the other evidenced based trauma techniques. I can only highly recommend it😊 also love your vulnerability, we need more people be kind, caring, and take pride in their work, without being so selfish and screwing people over! Well said👍👌
@AdeleInTheMiddle
@AdeleInTheMiddle Год назад
Just a thought, is the sorry dog friendly? Some essential oils are poisonous. I’m sure you’ve check ☺️
@christinewiseman2728
@christinewiseman2728 Год назад
Oh sweetheart don’t be embarrassed showing the love you feel for your sweet kitty,I really think it’s harder on cats as they get so stressed out, where dogs are just happy going anywhere with you, plus she’s been very poorly in the past. Your a beautiful lady inside and out. Glad she’s feeling better ❤️
@snoble20
@snoble20 Год назад
I cried all the time over my fur baby. When Aspen was diagnosed with glaucoma and he eventually went blind OMG. So don't apologize for crying they are your babies.
@herhomeonthehill
@herhomeonthehill Год назад
Thank you Lydia 😭❤️ I have found my wedding dress! My partner and I are having a very intimate beach wedding next year and I will be purchasing the white feathered gown! I think it will be perfect and it won’t break the bank! 🙌🏾
@cathm652
@cathm652 Год назад
Well I can tell you she survives! As I’m watching this a year later! My can’t won’t go in the box so she just doesn’t go to the vet!
@MetaMM
@MetaMM Год назад
Lumi can feel what you feel and once you got yourself into talking normally, she to stopped shaking. Just don'f get yourself into such anxiety, she feels it too. Just think all will work out and she'll be okay.
@lighthouse1566
@lighthouse1566 Год назад
Hi Lydia, another sensational wonderful vlog ! Quick question : would you consider adding ivy or another greenery , other than the wisteria, to the exterior walls of your house? It would give it so much character even if it’s just around the edges or around door and window frames to soften it up. Your house is beautiful and just keeps getting better and better. So grateful for all your inspiring content .
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