Andrew Tate Explains Why Men Should NEVER Get Married 

Everything a woman does for you is for her survival. Everything a mother does is for your survival. -Mike Tyson

Picking the Right Wife in the West is like trying to find a needle in a haystack

Marriage did nothing for me other than give me two wonderful kids. My ex wife only saw me as a work droid. Even though divorce was financially devastating to me, the frustration she has over my happiness makes it all worth it. Sometimes I think the broken home was bad for my kids, but now they don’t see a broken man.

That is exactly why I left my ex-wife and kids mom. We were together 20 years. Over the years, she morphed into a feminist and her respect for me went out the window. Nothing I did change the situation. I ended up leaving her and my life has been absolutely awesome ever since.

Guess I lucked out marrying a woman from Mexico. She is the exact opposite, been married 13 years and she has a heart of gold. Not just to me, to all people and animals. Its unreal, she is as genuine as it gets and an angel from heaven

100% correct. There is nothing we (men) crave more than respect in our own household.

He is 100% correct about the family sitcoms. Men on these shows are reduced to bumbling idiots, while the woman is always the smart one, the attractive one while the men are usually out of shape, losing hair and is always the one that did something wrong and the wife looks at him with disappointment and have to talk/teach their husbands to behave.

If your family is bullying you into getting married move out stop talking to your family you'll be a lot happier

I married a woman from an old world culture (Southern Italian). There is a deep respect for a man that produces. Even at family dinners the men get served first (after the kids), while the women all prepare the meal. No one in her family is divorced. My wife wakes up, makes coffee, dinner. We’re remodeling a house we just bought and she asks my opinion on everything even if for certain things she’s made her mind up. I go on vacation by myself 2x a year and there’s no static. She runs the house, works part time from home but I make the majority of the money. I’m glad I married someone from a culture where men are respected and trust me the respect is mutual. Edit: I came back to this clip and want to just add something to the comments. - I was an E2 (I think about $20k yr) in the Navy when I met her. When I got out she made a majority of the money while I started my business. She works part time now because I did very well. She basically works for fun / pocket change. Also why she makes dinner every night. - She has two sisters but both taken. One’s a doctor, the other is a software engineer. - in her culture, kids eat first so the adults can sit together after and have a quiet meal. Anyway, the point is that there are good women out there. Don’t just believe every woman are like the kind you hear about on the internet. The same for the ladies. There’s solid guys out there, a majority of us are not here to oppress you and would as Tate says would die for you if necessary.

As a man who works hard, dont cheat, take care of my wife and kids, cleaned the home and cooked, respect from my wife was gone and so did I. I neverr knew this until I heard it here. Respect is very important, may even say the most important thing.

My mother was shaming me once about not finding a girl to settle down with. So I asked her to name one benefit or one advantage of being married as a man. She looked at me for 2 minutes and changed the conversation.

I’ll make dinner. And pack a lunch too. I’ve been married 38 years. I’m an old lady now, but have been blessed by being a homemaker with clearly defined roles. It was my grandmother that taught me the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. She taught me how to cook and be a good wife and homemaker. It’s old fashioned now a days for sure. I pray that you find the woman of your dreams who knows how to cook and keeps a tidy home. God bless you. Oh and that she respects you and feeds you well with real food from the earth that nourishes your body and soul. ❤

The part where he said, “I would die for you. Could you please cook dinner?” Bro that hit so hard

I dated a woman who appeared shy and giggly. She heard comments like “your easy to love” “your so sweet” she treated everyone kindly. Behind closed doors she’s a fucking psycho and disrespected me so much. Everytime I called her out on something she would find ways to flip it. Whenever I proved her wrong she would just say “do you need some space “ ….”no bitch I need you to take accountability “

Men need respect, Women need love. Men see respect as love, women see love as respect. if both sexes can understand this, things would be much easier.

The fact that men still need this explained to them is wild.

He's absolutely correct, respect is everything to a Man. A man will fall into misery when no one respects or notices his efforts and sacrifices.

Honestly as a 43 year old divorced man, I can relate... Andrew tate is right👏

God damn! Will Smith is the most extreme living example of this mans point.

Our country has completely gone off the rails. In the US there is no reason to be married as a man.

So true. My grandfather was a stoic working man, both a sailor and factory worker. He worked his ass off and never got any respect from my grandmother. She was nothing but good to me, but my grandfather suffered in his marriage even though he made everything happen: he fixed the car, built the shed by himself, did the physical labor etc. He stayed with her because he’d be damned if my dad was going to grow up without a father. What in immense sense of duty. I hope he knows somehow that I stand in awe of him.

It feels great to finally have a voice for Men.

If you're a wealthy man, it makes no sense to get married. Imagine working your whole life to become a part of the Top 10%, just to have half of your possessions taken away, because of a divorce, and that has nothing to do with spousal support and child support 😱

Im 47, never been married and never will be. Wouldnt want it any other way

This man is 110% correct

Most people should NOT get married, it's not a requirement in life, love is rare as hell, it's just a partnership at best

I recently told my boyfriend that the reason my parents were married their whole lives is because there was deep respect on both sides. I am Eastern European and many of my American girlfriends don’t respect their partners. I agree with him on the issue of respect being key in a long-lasting relationship.

I recommend everyone to find the book titled Tate Mindset; it goes deep into all of this, and it changed my life

“Disrespect is dangerous”

"At least she's smiling at me, this one hasn't smiled at me in years" That hit me in the soul... just a iota of kindness would be enough to make a man's day and that's what a lot of modern women aren't getting

I was once married but never again. She was my biggest mistake I ever made. I could never do anything right when I was with her. But now no one tells me I wrong. So I must be doing something right finally.

I've been married for 13 years but there is still a lot to learn for me in a marriage. Videos like these help me see the other side of my relationship with my husband.

I must say this talk by Andrew hit me very hard. Forty years of work, marriage with children wears you down. Your family sees you age and sometimes fail. With society's programming they lose respect for you because there is almost no positive reinforcement. Everything you do is expected and frankly taken for granted. Hopefully as my children get older they will see things differently as I did with my father. He knew I loved and respected him before he died...

I'm one hundred percent pro-marriage and I am in a happy marriage myself. However, I married a Japanese woman for this very reason she does exactly what he is saying in this video. She absolutely respects me and I love it

I never wanted to be a boyfriend let alone a husband to anyone. I knew that since I was 7 years old. I'm now 39 and I am super proud of my decision to live my adult life as a single man. Look at all the problems men face after a divorce, they lose too much money and everything they worked for. I'm glad I'm not in that position.

Lived over a decade of my life like that. This man is speaking nothing but the truth.

He is so spot on about what culture is doing to men.

I lost 1/2 of my assets to a woman who asked for a divorce after I solely raised our two kids, cleaned and maintained the house, did the grocery shopping, etc., all by my lonesome.

It’s crazy how accurate this all is. There has been an incremental shift toward making it so that you’ll only have two options: either be in a disrespectful, bitter relationship or don’t be in a relationship at all. Any other option is being eroded away until those two are all that remain.

The single most important thing a man MUST have in any relationship is RESPECT. Especially a married relationship

I have 4 uncles. All are good men. They work their asses off, provide for their wife and children yet they don’t even sleep in the same bed as their wives… My aunts constantly nag at them that they are not doing enough around the house, their car needs fixing etc etc… it’s a sad sight to see. I’d rather continue to live single, travel overseas and focus on being the best me than to get married and live a miserable existence. I feel bad for them but they choose their fates.

He just described my entire 23 year marriage that ended in divorce. Never again unless I could find a woman who somehow missed the Matrix programming.

Women is respected when loved. Men is loved when respected. - Andrew Tate

The media called out this guy for being misogynist but he's just spitting facts.

Andrew tate has taught me more about life than my lecturers and any type of teacher that has ever taught me.

There is no choice between love and respect. There is simply no love without respect! The pillars of love are: admiration, respect and loyalty. Everything else is fake and not love.

That's why my only marriage lasted 3 months. She immediately changed after we got hitched. I left her because she had no respect for me.

He’s damn right!!!!! Listen to every word he is spot on!!! People need to understand this

We need this man back in all social media platforms ❤

57 years old. Never married,no kids. I don't think I could be happier.

We need Andrew Tate back on media platforms

Very well said by Andrew Tate, great answer and he is speaking alot of truth here, and no surprise the answer is very simple and obvious but hes not afraid to say it and be honest.

That title is NOT what he said.... he talked about the importance of RESPECT

I was broke after my wife divorced for at least 1-2 years. 5 years later and it is clear she was not going to make a good wife. I've not met one woman that is marriage material knowing what I know now. Don't simp and let them dig their own graves. Don't save these 304s, they don't want to be saved.

My marriage was 18 years long. Wife wouldn’t work. When we had kids she would only cook twice a week, didn’t clean the house, didn’t do dishes, vacuum and only some of the laundry. She wouldn’t do anything in the yard and also wanted me to deal with the kids once I came home. I beat my head for years not understanding what I was missing. I just wanted us to share responsibilities.

This is one of the most powerful segments from this long podcast. Pure Gems... Thank you for giving Andrew Tate a voice to speak on our behalf.

"I would die for you. Please just cook dinner" 🤣🤣🤣Sounds like a fair trade!

THIS HITS ME SO HARD. I've had to tolerate being walked on and disrespected for 12 years. It's still going but I've been making moves and changes to get myself out of the situation.

Disrespecting a man very dangerous.

He’s right. My husband works hard labor. Soon as he gets home i meet him at door, take off his work boots & serve him homemade meal we eat together. I appreciate all he does & truly respect my hubby.

Wow. This is honestly so humbling to hear as a woman. It makes my heart ache for how my mom treated my dad, and emasculated him throughout the years. This is truly an epidemic and men need to be heard. Shame on me.

Andrew always spitting facts, there might never rise another man like him. My respect for him deeply 🙏

I agree. There is nothing in it for men. Im getting divorced and im giving up a house i bought and paid for, fixed up and put my blood sweat and tears into. The system favors women 99% of the time.

I don’t care what the matrix says. Andrew Tate is a genuine man trying to be a voice for his fellow man. Love and respect

In today's marriage the wife cooking is cereal for breakfast (sugared milk) a 2 minute microwaved burritos for lunch, microwaved hot dogs for dinner, if you're lucky you'll get microwaved pizza 😂 Meanwhile all your money goes to her so she can paint her finger nails, paint her toe nails, paint her hair, paint her face, paint her eye brows and get fake eye lashes and buy a bunch of shoes 😂

This man is a gift for this fu**ed up society

He’s right. How the hell can a woman be home all day and not even have a meal for her husband and her kids. WTH? It’s also true that when you ask a man for guidance when you don’t know about an issue or task, they love helping out and really feel loved and valuable.

Disrespect that led me to walking away from my ex wife: -when I told her things in confidence, she would repeat them to her friends -I found a love letter that she wrote to another man, while we were married -she hid 50K in student loan debt, and constantly asked "when are we going to get a house?" -she pulled 15K out of the bank. I asked her what she did with the money and she said "I can't remember"

I have money, the ability to come and go as I please, and I never have to explain myself to anyone. I am the master of all I survey. There's no way I'd let any of this change.

It’s a good point that “I rather be married with a woman who respects me than loves me” respect builds long lasting love ❤️

All my life married people have been saying, dont get married. Maybe they know something

My dad hated everyone loved Raymond. I figured out why in my early 20s. I agree with him. He was my hero and we respected him.

Speaking of being respectful in public. My dad used to say never to get involved in road rage even when provoked because, “He might be on his way home to kill his wife.” He was right. You never know when someone is about to snap. Leave ‘em alone.

This is so true and I speak from experience. Dedicated my life to my ex , gave up friends, hobbies etc. Went to work, came home cooked, cleaned, looked after the kid's. Just to be constantly disrespected and belittled. So I left, if there is no respect (both ways) then it's never gonna work!

Andrew nailed it. Number 1 reason why I will never get married again is men no longer get respect at home. Respect has to be earned, agreed. But with social conditioning from media, women are encouraged to be uppity with their men, even the church going ones. Even when a man drops the ball once in a while and does not earn her respect, it is wise for a woman to pretend and keep respecting her man out of respect for the position. Same goes true for a man to a woman. Somedays a woman will drop the ball or lose her way. That is no time for a man to pounce on her and disrespect her. A wise man keeps encouraging her, praise her, while helping her improve her ways. It is out of respect for the position of the lady that he does this. But in this modern feminist world, a woman will pounce on her man as soon as she deems his deeds or his attitude is weak. This is unbecoming of a woman who loves and respects her family. We all need to wise up. But since I know women these days are lost, out of control F to marriage. It is just a slavery. We men are done with marriage. Number one reason why I will never get married and rest of male kind should never get married as well is because of the pervasive disrespect towards men. This is programmed for the past fifty years in American, and now the rest of the world. Starting 70s, Hollyweird keep creating TV shows where men are buffoons and mom is the smart and responsible adult in the house. Yes I have seen this in real life but I have see far more situations where the man of the house digs his heels and keeps working for the family. He works, provides and protects. What more can women want? I used to work longer hours under more difficult conditions, and made more money than wife. But a wife is never happy. She wants equal division of house chores, while demanding more sex when I am tire. Fu** to marriage. We men left. Yall are on your own.

I worked in pubs when I was younger and all the men who came in early and left late, were hiding from the nagging they knew they were going to get when they went home. One guy I spoke to even told me directly: He didn't always hang out in pubs but it got to a point where he'd rather say he was working late and not go home to an argument. And if he had to go home to an argument he may as well give her a reason, by being in the pub all night. Men who get no respect at home just stop being there.

5:16 I am at my absolute worst, skinny kid, no money, cheated on multiple times, I went to a psych ward because I cussed out my boss, and I have a lot of emotions that put me in a very dark place, feeling like I'm about to snap... just him, having this understanding, just one person, acknowledging this fact of life about respect, and disrespect, made my day.

Kids do nearly just as well as two parents with a single father but with a single mother the results are the worse.

I came to this same conclusion when my ex burned my house down. “You’re perfect, except this one thing.” That thing was me not submitting to her and holding her lazy ass accountable. I’m so glad that she cut me loose. I wish her new simp husband the best of luck.

Im so glad I'm not married anymore.... i served a 20-year sentence, and the past 4 years of bachelor's life have been the best years...... my future is wide open now, and the world is truly my oyster

Getting married is a major RISK for us men

This is so true! On the movie Barbie, Ken is disrespected by Barbie.

This as an eye opener. I didn’t realize that I have thought this way my entire life until I heard someone else say it without qualifying anything and without apology.

Respect is earned. If you allow someone to walk over you, they don't respect you. That is your fault for not standing up for yourself. Don't blame the woman, blame yourself.

True. I had networth $3.2 million before 2 divorces and now have less than $300k

As a married American man, I think my wife likes me, but she does not respect me! As a successful investor and business man, i see how my wife treats me different when I bring in lots of money and little money. Love and respect are NOT the same things! I’m trapped in a cold marriage where she would take everything if I left! Trapped!!

People can hate this guy all they want, he makes some good points.

Dude is spitting wisdom, end of story. Take it from any guy getting shit on a daily basis by their wife and family, sooner or later, he's out. Don't care how much he loves them, he's out. You can only get pushed so far as a man with the disrespect before either something really bad happens or he walks. Most guys will just walk sooner or later. I'm getting ready to walk myself.

This man is so right on so many things. A straight shooter who is living in an inverted society

Andrew is correct a woman should respect her husband but respect is also earned. In the television sitcoms, he is correct women are viewed as more powerful, but there is a reason for this scenario, although it isn't always correct. Most television shows that have two working parents, both have careers. The man works, and then comes home to relax, while the woman works, and then comes home to work. Meaning, cooking, cleaning, getting the children ready for bed or school. I don't know many working families, where both parents work, and the woman comes home to relax, but this is not always the situation. Sometimes, the man works, and comes home, and takes care of the children. In marriage both parties have to respect each other, compromise, sacrifice, and divide the necessary activities. This is needed, so no one feels unloved, used, or burnt out. You have to love your partner for who they are, and don't focus on who they are not. People love, and give differently, so this must be respected and acknowledged. For example, a husband might moe the lawn, and although he is not fixing dinner, this is him giving. You must realize how your partner loves you, because it might not be exactly how you picture love. See example above. Marriage can work but, you must be willing to grow and accept changes together. You are two different people and those gifts should have room to flourish, and sometimes merge together. Meaning, couples need breaks. Time for your private hobbies. If your husband wants to go fishing, bowling, watch the games with his male friends, let him bond. And the same for your wife, who may want to go to the movies with her friends. Couples should have time for their own space too. The bottom line is, a marriage will work, when both sides are respected and loved. A husband and wife both need the above, with trust thrown in the mix. Great interview. I love hearing, and learning the sides of the male perspective. Makes me appreciate you guys more. 🙂

“However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” Ephesians 5:33

Top G breaking down simple stuff but its so hard for the average man

This is SO true. Now I know why I got divorced!!! The respect for me was gone , and it’s at a subconscious level that things start to happen , first , a spark ,in dreams, …..then in small ideas awake , and finally there’s no going back.

Thanks to Andrew I’m no longer a simp

Tate is 100% right.

This man is a mastermind genius. So true

This man is speaking straight facts.

I always say, " Disrespect will get you killed! ".

It’s amazing to me how some women can look down on their man that’s protecting them Just be thankful, loving and supportive, he doesn’t have to do everything he does for you

My brother whos 36 going through this right now in his marriage and tells me whos 27 all the time to not get married and have kids with a straight face. you can see the stress in his eyes