After the discipline is over, do you notice a shift in your feelings toward your attitude toward your husband. For example, do you feel more submissive, more respect,more love-all despite the lingering bottom pain?
Thank you for covering this. That's a great topic. There definitely is a psychological effect in having the bottom bared, and it helps during the spanking in other ways too. I always spank bare bottom.
We use four levels of spanking in our punishment system, we call them mild, medium, hard and severe. I don’t particularly like how we have labeled these levels because our mild spanking isn’t exactly mild, but is only considered mild by comparison of the other levels. A brief summary of the levels… every spanking starts with a warm up, then Mild is 30-40 swats Medium is 50-70 swats Hard is 80-100 swats Severe is 50-80 swats (with a more severe implement)
What about pleasure exactly? Many couples use spanking for pleasure, even couples that use spanking for discipline will have the occasional “fun” spanking, but that’s not the focus of this podcast.
