Answering More Questions I've Been Avoiding... 

I’m sorry this video is going up so late 🥲 thank you for your patience, kindness and love this whitmas season 🤍 I’m so grateful for each and everyone of you.

I feel like the more you do Q&As, I feel like we have more of a connection and the interactions with you are amazing ❤️

Watch the entire video, but here are timestamps to reference🤗 0:00 Intro 1:32 Have you or Stefan ever gotten COVID this year? 1:57 Will you ever leave Gymshark? Will you ever create your own brand of athletic clothing? Do you ever feel like Gymshark is holding you from starting your own fitness line? 4:05 Do you ever get scared of gaining weight or your body changing? 6:18 Are your worried or concerned about how your body will grow and develop when having kids? 6:55 Would Stefan ever quit his job to work full-time with your businesses? 7:21 Are you ever scared to show too much and be a target for creepy people? 8:05 How to leave a toxic relationship: Were you ever heartbroken? How did you get over it? 11:21 How did you get over your abusive relationship to open yourself up to love again? 12:25 Was it hard for Stefan to adjust to being in the public eye? 12:52 Do you miss working a 9-5 job? How was your life different then? 13:38 Is there anything that scares you about marriage? 14:27 What’s the hardest part of putting your life on social media? 15:11 Are you going to be getting more into CrossFit? 15:54 How come you don’t mention your siblings other than EClaire? 16:30 Do you ever want to stop RU-vid and not have the pressure being in the spotlight? 17:00 Is your cycle every 27 days? Ha ha ha. 18:02 Calling the Giveaway Winners

Im 43 and still single it doesn't bother me if the universe brings me a man that's great if not im fine with a French bulldog. I run on my own path way and will always continue to be active athlete.

My biggest fear about pregnancy is growing eyeballs inside of me. I HAVE NIGHTMARES ABOUT THE EYEBALLS

I loved how you talked about quarantine weight and body fluctuations. This also applies so much to anyone with an injury that stops them from being able to live normally. Thank you for always being so uplifting.

I have never heard someone speak about heartbreak and emotional abuse in such an eloquent way that I whole heartedly relate to. It feels like you were speaking my thoughts out loud. I also really needed the advice about moving on. I love this video Whit 💞💞

I found out on New Year’s Day that the man I’m in love with has been cheating for YEARS, and is currently talking to 2 other girls. I can’t breathe, I can’t sleep or eat I keep opening RU-vid for a distraction and caught this video right after the upload. Thanks for the welcome distraction 💕

Bro I’m crying in my kitchen right now hearing Whit say it’s okay to gain weight 🥺🥺🥺🥺 girl thank u, I needed it 💓💓💓

Whit I notice this about you every time but you are so good about interacting with your followers and you being someone with a million+ viewers on multiple platforms I just admire that so much about you as someone I follow. You are amazing ❤️ your hard work and dedication is 100% noticed. Xo

Me crying for all these amazing women who won a scholarship! 😭😭

A Q&A that feels 100% real and authentic 👏🏽

Stefan in the background of that one clip!! We love a supportive partner.

LOVED hearing you talk about body fluctuations when living a balanced lifestyle. It’s a mantra that I try to keep in my head that my body is going to and allowed to change as my life does

She is so right. You NEVER get over a heartbreak or an abusive relationship. The first relationship I ever had was and I picked up awful relationship habits I just thought were normal. But it took time to unlearn all of that I’m proud of the partner I am today

yesss society has definitely made me think that I should be staying the same weight my entire life!! I have learned to accept that our body fluctuates depending on different situations and time periods of our lives!! I have let go of that mentality and it feels SO SO NICE

Why was I crying throughout this entire video? Felt like you were talking to us like friends and then the scholarships clips?? My hearttttt

Thank you for your beautiful and brave honesty. You have no idea how much it means to me knowing that there is another person in the world that has gone through heartache (regardless if it’s because of a guy or self-talk) and survived. It gives me the strength to work for and hope for the same. You and your you tubes truly are a blessing.

I wish Whitmas could last until February. Ah, well. I restarted my fitness journey, and instead of physical goals, I am aiming for making it easier to get sleep by working out and eating less sugar. I'm finally happyish in my body, especially since I'm in a healthy relationship and I have a therapist again. I'm of the philosophy nowadays that no fitness journey is worth a damn if you're mental health and interpersonal relationships aren't part of it. I realize that toxic relationships and poor mental health management sabotaged my fitness journeys before, and now I feel more supported and secure enough to get it done. As for getting over abusive relationships: you don't. You can learn, though, what you actually need and want in love. In that time alone, you can also learn how YOU express love.

When you went on about heartbreak and feeling fulfilled with your body, I honestly couldn’t have related more to that. I love how open and honest and raw you are with advice and sharing your story because we all go through it and we all know how it feels. It is tragic but can be turned into something beautiful when you find the right person.

you’re so raw and honest with your past heartbreaks and life struggles - this is why you are so appealing to me! the world needs more of this 🥺💕

The pregnancy thing, yes! I’m three and a half months and just found out we’re having a boy. Forget growing eyeballs and fingers ok I’m growing a WEENIE inside me 🥴

I love that you keep your professional lives appart from one another. I often see other youtubers that work with their partners on their channels and I can't help thinking how it must affect their personal life. I mean, if it makes them happy, more power to them, I just can't see myself working with my partner AND also maintaining a healthy and happy personal life at home.

You’re so relatable when you’re speaking, but also an actual goddess

"First, you gota get the child in there". LMFAO I found this so stinking funny. It's always the little things you say I catch that make me die of laughter. Love you. HAPPY NEW YEAR.

ive been watching you for 4 years and im gonna cry so much when you stop making videos

Whit you’re my favourite person I’ve not met! How could anyone ever send you hate?! Says so much about them.

I’m currently recovering from covid and it was heartbreaking when I found out that I tested positive since I never really leave the house either. This video brightened my mood so much. Thank you ❤️

literally wearing my whit x gymshark leggings as i’m watching this and i’m still in love with them months later! 🤍

I really appreciate how honest you are in these videos. Your part about heartbreak was so raw and relatable-I have been exactly where you were, literally clinging to someone and begging them not to break up with me. I was so ashamed of that for so long. But everything you said was so true and helpful, so thank you ❤️

Such a genuine soul. I can't handle how stinkin cute Whitney is!!!

You describing your first love/heartbreak is just SO RELATABLE it’s crazy! Everything you said about your first love is exactly how I felt about mine, from it being toxic and emotionally abusive, to begging them to stay because you felt they were all you had, to literally everything else. I know that can be hard to talk about, so thank you for opening up ❤️❤️❤️

I feel like you are my big sister! I didnt know I needed this ❤

currently crying my eyes out because I am so happy for those girls that won those scholarships - just imagine being able to do that for someone, SO BEAUTIFUL

Thank you for being so open with us, Whit ❤️ It’s so nice to be able to relate to someone and feel like you’re not the only one going through it💕

Thank you Whitney, for everything!! I’ve watched you for about 4 years now and you’ve grown and accomplished so much. Thank you for all the tips/tricks, food videos, workout videos, your sense of humor, your interactions with us, the nonstop grind, giving back to others, your POSITIVITY and so much more. You’ve helped me in so many ways. Keep thriving and shining. We all see you, love you, support you 🤩😍🥰 Happy 2021 🥳

i just downloaded the alive by whitney app for my gym sessions. I am a bit inexperienced with equipment as i am 14, but the app is so helpful! thank you so so much!! ❤️❤️

I feel like your/our community became closer this Whitmas! Thank you for taking the time to create for us & im so happy we got to know you better. I love the privacy you carry for yourself and those you love, but appreciate the vulnerability you trust your audience with. Happy new year Whit. ❤️

I love what you said about liking a little extra fluff on your body vs being a little leaner and more "fit". I relate to that so much. I gained 10lbs during this pandemic and sometimes I think agh I gotta lose it but then I see how the extra fluff does make me a little more womanly, so it's like I'm okay. I'm okay either way, just thankful for my health 💙

I learned the best thing to do is to work towards strength before looks. Somehow it just makes you fall in love with every aspect because you want to get stronger. All the sudden your food choices are better and you push yourself more.

I love how you take the time to like so many comments and like all the tagged photos of other women on IG. It really makes someone's day :')

I really appreciated the bit about not holding past relationships against your current relationship and trusting someone until they break it. I feel like I definitely need to work on being more open to new people this year and what you said gave me a new perspective on relationships so thank you 😊

Omg I just cried watching those girls reactions!! That was the sweetest thing!! Congratulations to everyone that won! Whitney you’re amazing as always 💓

Everything that you said about our bodies constantly changing touched me 🥺❤ I've been beating myself up about how much weight I've gained this past year but knowing that other women feel more confident when they have a little more weight on them instead of when they're shredded makes me feel better. You said everything that I've been needing to hear!!

"If you're going through heartbreak just work on you for a little bit" HECK YEAH! Best thing I could've ever done for myself

Ugh Whitney!!! You had me crying girl!! You have always been such a light in my day! You are such a genuine person! I never feel like you’re selling me something or trying to put on a show for your own personal gain. That’s what makes you so unique on this platform! Thank you for always being unapologetically yourself! You inspire me!

I love you Whitney😭😭❤️ You inspire me so much, and have helped my mental health❤️ never change

"Holy Cow, I'm never going to be single again" I know this feeling and its so bittersweet ❤️ I never thought I'd find one person I would choose to bring into my life FOREVER, but so worth it

Hope everything is okay!! We miss you!!

It's hard to believe Whitmas has come to an end :/ Whit, I'm so happy and thankful to be part of this community we have built. You've helped me through tough times and your still help me now. Your advice and encouragement gives me reassurance, thank you. Love you lots ❤❤

I’m 22 and I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 5 years and I feel so much pressure about getting engaged 🥺 def needed to hear that ❤️

Hearing you speak about accepting body fluctuations was exactly what I needed to hear. I feel as if im in a point in my life where I am getting older and naturally my body is changing and I am not the same girl I was in high school. Its super hard at times to accept and I've felt down about it a lot recently but hearing you speak on this and knowing now that it is normal was amazing. Thank you always for your kind and encouraging words! :)

NOT ME CRYING WHEN YOU CALL THE SCHOLARSHIP WINNERSSSS!!!

Wow. From someone who has been struggling this year to pay for school, it brings tears to my eyes watching these girls get these scholarships. Soooo thankful for this community, Whit!!

Thank you for noticing I comment. I really mean everything I say. I know you or I have have had a harder time with our negative thoughts but I also know we have met in the middle and at some point I have felt what you have felt for grieving, just numb don’t know why feelings. But trust me when I say I’m always there with you going thru highs and lows. That’s the beautiful thing about the world there are so many people that have felt the level of pain, anxiety or numbness you have when you don’t know it. Whitney there are so many people sitting with you myself included on your darker days. I’m right there with you. The hard days make the beautiful days even more beautiful and a more grateful heart. The bad days show the light more. It’s weird but after every bad day is a better day and it’s so ironic it’s a couple days after a really bad day sometimes. I leave these comments because I know these feelings and you reading them is so great because you do so so much for your followers. You’re a light and I’m just trying to return the favor. Will not miss a comment opportunity. Lysm. Congrats on almost Alive being one.

Girl your a wise soul ! I’m 44 and it’s so awesome seeing someone so wise who has such a great platform to inspire and motivate others ! You’re a gem been following you for a long time ! Appreciate all your content

Love you beautiful! And I miss you

Two years out of my abusive relationship, currently loving who I hope is my future hubby, REALLY relating to you talking about your past relationships. You really do fall in love with them more every day as INSANE as it sounds. Loved this whit 🥰

aweeee! The reactions to the scholarships. I cried! 😭

Thank you for saying you won't 'get over' an abusive relationship! You can take the time to heal, but a part of that is always with you. I am able to trust whole heartedly until someone breaks that trust in new relationships, but what I went through in my relationship will always be with me. It just isn't something that controls my life and emotions anymore.

Whitney you’re my inspiration 😭 thanks for sharing and making us feel like your friends!

Whitney. I have a son who finished chemo and radiation last year. He is four now and doing well! I really let myself go during his treatment 😞 I had just had his baby brother and he was only two at diagnosis. I have followed you for a few years now and I wanted to tell you THANK YOU for being such an inspiration to so many and helping me to want to be the best version of myself. It is incredibly brave and selfless to be so open and real on the internet. You helped this mama more than I can even tell you. ❣️ One day I will be able to try your amazing products.😊 God bless you girl.

Whit dropping hints of a new hustle coming soon! 👀👀 Giirrlll!! Spill the beans! Cant wait to knowww! 🤍 ILY so MUCH!

I am currently pregnant (due in May) and it has honestly been the greatest blessing for my body. Granted, this is our rainbow baby and I am feeling so eternally grateful, but I see my body in a whole new light now. I'm a marathon runner, have competed in bikini competitions, and all of that is peanuts in comparison to growing a baby. I have such a greater respect and love for my body now, and I think it's only a feeling that comes along with accepting your body throughout pregnancy. It is a wild ride for sure, but it is a blessing and I wouldn't trade it for the world! Thank you for sharing this, Whitney. I always love your Q&As because you are super down to earth and relatable. It was like catching up with a friend this morning. Wishing you all the love and health in 2021!

i have been waiting for this, literally checking my phone every time i got a youtube notification! love you whit

ok, i'm crying! you are such an amazing human paving the way for everyone! Such an inspiration to this beautiful world!

Whit.. where are you

34 wks pregnant and it really is SO WEIRD like still shakes me from time to time when I just look at myself and think “woah there’s legit a *human being* in there”!! You’re gonna make a great mom though💕 ALSO, the phone calls made me all emotional wow love hearing the true joy in their voices esp the 10K winner❤️❤️

Ugh whit I needed to hear “girlfriend you just gotta do you” I FELT THAT!!!

I just wanted to say thank you. Over time I've become less and less frustrated with myself when I fluctuate with weight because I've had the most inspiring women, such as yourself, reminding us that it's ok and it's not linear. Every time I hear you motivate women either on your RU-vid channel or your motivational insta stories, about anything, I feel a sense of calmness and clarity wash over me and it feels like a fresh start. So, thank you for being such a light for all of us women out there. I swear you feel like a big sister every time I watch you hahaha. MUCH LOVE WHIT ❤️

Yayyyy! So happy for this video. I can't believe I have to wait another year for Whitmas. Cheers to 2021. Love you Whit!

your heartbreak piece really hit home. i love you soooo much whit :') thank you for being such a light in all our lives

When you spoke about heart break I felt like it was just you and I in the room thank you for opening up

Whitney, the part Where are you talk about your previous really hard break ups really spoke to me. I’ve had particularly horrendous break ups as well and they have changed me in the best ways I never thought were possible. And those were in the seasons of being single, you are completely 100% right! I’m thankful you included that and are so open and honest because there are girls going through this right now in their early 20s just like we did and if I had someone to encourage me back then like you are right now, it would’ve really lifted my spirits. I feel like you could help a lot of girls with your encouragement for going through terrible break ups, you’re like a big sis that has every younger girls back - and I’m HERE for it! :-) I personally was hospitalized after going through this one breakup in particular 8-9 years ago, and I’m so thankful that it happened… but at the time I was so devastated that my heart felt like it actually had broke in half, and I literally had a mental breakdown. I wish I had someone like you to encourage me. So thank you for speaking to younger women in such a positive realistic way that is SO encouraging.❤️ Keep being you!!

I can't wait for Whitmass 2021.. but I'm sure I speak for all of us when I say.. post more often!!! Lol love you 😘😘

Woke up at 6am to a Whitmas video so you know I gotta watch it right away! I absolutely love spending my mornings getting ready with you Whit! And I cried tears of happiness for all the women who won the scholarships. I love to see the raw emotion of each of them, and ughhhh it just makes me so emotional! So thankful for the positivity and inspiration from your channel ❤️❤️

Wow I’m crying at the scholarship winners ❣️ Whit you are so amazing ❣️❣️❣️

I loved your honest reflection on heartbreak. 💕This is something that I’ve grown to appreciate. Heartbreak is truly one of the hardest emotions any human will ever go through. But life is SOOOO short. Don’t worry so much about romantic relationships but positive relationships in general.

Those scholarship winners 🥺 that’s incredible!

It is TERRIFYING how much I relate to you!!! I used to never want to get married or have children due to fear. Never had a good example of marriage, never had a good relationship. I also feel heartbreak .so. deeply. I’ve been working on my mental and physical health after my last, and most deep, relationship fell apart. Been a work in progress, but journaling has helped!

Why am I crying to your answer about “are you scared for your body to change” everything you said resonated with me

The abandonment pain is most of the time old pain from your childhood you're carrying with you. I feel your pain Whitney. Remember whenever it happens again, you will survive. ❤️

Why does Xmas have the audacity to be over 😢

Thank you so much for being the big sister I never had 💛Your kindness and love is so pure and I'm so happy that I and THOUSANDS of women are able to be a part of that. Thank you, Whitney 💛I genuinely love you

Thank you for talking about body fluctuations... it’s been a struggle this past year. 😅

Really enjoyed this q&a Whit! You've always been one of my most favorite transparent fitness "youtubers", I struggled growing up with constant competition/judgement etc lol you know the drill. (therefore stopped watching many you tubers because I just found their lifestyles inauthentic. Going through an extremely hard breakup right now where songs, patterns really anything we used to do gets me emotional, truly was the first time getting my heartbroken and now I understand what it's like to feel true love. Just wanted to thank you for how you run your platform because every time I tune in it puts me in such a more positive, gratitude filled headspace and I can't help but smile when you post. You're one of the most amazing mentors I've ever had and its crazy how its all been through a screen. You're amazing.

I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ❤️❤️❤️

I really really love your talk about body image and weight fluctuations. Coming from a childhood where I was constantly being told that I'm not a certain body size it made me tear up hearing you speak on this matter. Thanks so much for inspiring and motivating so much people.

I’ve loveeeeed Whitmas 2020 💕 Whitney is my favorite 😍

I needed this. That toxic relationship bit really hit home man 😭😭😭 Currently in my early 20's and it's been such a struggle on learning to learn to just work on myself and stop putting my worth in someone else or putting pressure on having everything figured out and putting all my energy on finding "the one"

Whitmas was an amazing series of wholesome videos and some of them calmed me down when I was super stressed. Thank you ❣️

Girl!!! Your intro about accepting gain/loss....just made me feel sooo.much better! I ve always been pretty thin, but over the past couple years I ve lost my drive, and been skinny, but skinny fat and soft! I ve def gained over the pandemic and it s the first time I remember being a litlle chunky, and Im sooo ashamed!!!! So thanks girl!!!!!

I gained almost 10 pounds during quarantine. And damnit I’m proud of those 10 pounds, I worked so hard to gain 😂

Your entire schpeel about heart break had me in actual tears. Your words are so powerful and motivating, I needed that so much tonight - thank you. Thank you for sharing that story with us and being so damn fricken relatable!!! The first heart break where you described yourself putting your entire worth into another human being.... I literally couldn't have said it any better myself. If you are lucky enough to be a mama one day, your kiddos are going to be so fricken blessed to have you as their mama.

Yes girl! Keep your guys careers COMPLETELY separate.

I have entered the whit & alani nu scholarship both years and I swear EVERYTIME you see these girls reactions to Whitney calling them it’s actually such a phenomenal thing 🥰 angel energy to all the women I see commenting and posting on Whitney’s insta & youtube 🙏🏻🙏🏻

“Something else in the future” - I seen that look Whit. Something is coming down the line... 🧐😍

I love your q&a videos! I felt the same way about being pregnant! I wanted a baby but not the pregnancy because I was so scared. So many women are MISERABLE and complain the the entire time. I was completely turned off by it. Skip ahead to 10 years of marriage and I found out I was pregnant! I WAS SO SCARED OUT OF MY MIND.... but listen Linda, it was literally the best I have ever felt in my life. I had no morning sickness, no back problems, no lightning crotch.... I felt like my whole life was a lie when it came to being pregnant. Lol my daughter 11 months now and she is a treasure in our life. And my husband bloomed as a dad with me blooming as a mom. It’s such a trip!

As a momma, I hope I can ease your anxiety with any future pregnancies: the safest place for that little babe is in Momma’s belly!

You are such a lady. I love the way you carry yourself, I don't think I have ever heard you swear, or anything of that sort, I started watching you in 2016 and you've always had such self respect for yourself. The way you represent yourself is very respectable. .I love that bout you. In this day and age, there is not a lot of young women, (or young men) that have hardly any dignity or self respect. I also admire that you don't post so much of your personal life online, that is awesome.