I know :(( it really is for me too and I don't think I knew that was part of my issue before but even though I know now there's not a lot I can do about it. It guess it sucks but I support you !
@@neonlookslikesonicthehedgehog awe same to you! i think it’s a matter of learning how to validate yourself with your own words rather than basing your worth off of the validation of others. it’s definitely a struggle and a journey but we’ll get there :)
@@exoschen yep, relying on other people as the sole source of your happiness isnt a good thing but we can make it. Knowing your problem is the first stage to correcting it!😘😘
Going off of what Jazzy was saying about lacking genuine friendships, you will find your people!!!! Whether you’re in middle school, high school, college, 60 years old, it doesn’t matter. When you go through a period of not having friends it seems like that’s how it’ll be forever but the reality is you eventually do find people you actually vibe with. So if anyone is lonely, things will get better!!! In the meantime remember you’re amazing and can have a great time on your own because you’re a badass 🤪
i'm in my freshman year at nursing school and tbh i'm so miserable and have nooo friends and it gives me so much anxiety :( honestly your vids make me feel like i have a friend again shjshdjshj
awww:(( lowkey makes me scared for college now but i’m still a sophomore in high school :,) but i hope things will get better for you!! especially after this whole pandemic is over,, you’ll be able to finally go out and meet new people so just have hope for the future :))
Im a sophomore finishing up my prerequisites to get into the program and I have no friends either with 6 hour minimum assignments so I can’t even imagine how it’ll be when I get into the nursing program 😭 you can do it tho it’s going to be worth it in the future!!
@@kayzzzzzzzzz you're a sophomore you still have lots of time!! hopefully you get a proper graduation for high school (i didn't even get my diploma yet lmao💀) and you get to go to uni in person and get that freshmen experience :)) i wish you all the best for the future!
Me and two of my best friends have never had sex. We are all 22, but we are all like okayyy with it. it isn't weird to us, idk if that is odd. also we all have social anxiety and deep insecurities so sex is the scariest shit ever.
dont be pressured into loosing your v card because everyone else around you guys has, you will find the right person one day, and they will make u feel comfortable enough to do so, so dont worry :)
i just wanted to say that i love your eyes. they are such a pretty color, shape, and size. and i absolutely adore your monolids. i don't get why some people don't like them.
I wish people would talk about the stereotype of women and children. We're expected to like kids because we're physically able to have them. Doesn't mean I want them or need or like them. Women are always called selfish when they say they don't like kids. Me for example. I really dislike kids and I'm always called selfish for not liking kids or wanting any. Just because my womb is able to carry a baby doesnt mean I want to have one and doesnt obligate me to like kids. Whenever I talk about how much I dont like kids or dont want any Its selfish. I always get "you were a baby once!" That doesnt mean I have to like them. Still hate em. Also I hate that starting a family is the end all be all. Like the expected for women is to marry a MAN and have kids. Nope. I'm lesbian and its irritating to see little representation. It's always straight couples with kids in commercials and such. SORRY FOR SUCH A LONG PARAGRAPH, JUST WANTED TO SHARE
@@mimimarinho5268 *sigh* you're precisely the reason I had to speak about this. I don't need to explain my reasons for hating children to you, but I have my reasons.
The fact that so many people are/were, both guys and girls, means something is up. That shouldn't have scarred such a large amount of kids, even to this day. Still bad memories.
You should look into social work as a career, I think you’d be perfect for it! You have a way of making people feel comfortable the way a therapist should!!
I get so insecure when I hang out with my friends because they are ALL so much prettier than me. Every time I go out with one of my friends she always gets compliments on her hair, her clothes, and everything. I sometimes hate hanging out with certain friends because I feel it makes me look even worse than I already do if I'm next to them
I feel the same way 😭 my best friend is beautiful and smart and has dated guys before but guys don’t even give me a second glance, you just have to love yourself and understand that not everyone will find you pretty but that’s ok! There’s someone out there for everyone, and even if you don’t want to date, just remind yourself you are amazing ♥️
You'll find yourself "more attractive" when you stop comparing yourself to your friend and don't feed your jealousy! Don't fuel that fire! I know it's really difficult, but just celebrate the positives rather than seeing the negatives. It isn't a case of "She got a compliment and I didn't so I must not be good", so please try not to see it that way. See it more as a "Yes, she is and I'm happy about that!" if you know what I mean?
i love when she does these video cus as the big sister among my siblings i never had a sister best friend to give me advice n stuff they all just look at me for answers and follow what i do..i have to make the mistakes so they dont and i feel alone jazzy u dont know how much these videos help me thnks
through my younger years of my childhood (im 14) i was VERY lonely. even if i had "friends" i would always end up alone. left out of things, never really felt like i had a true friends until 8th grade. shes a new pretty girl everyones interested until she comes up to my table with her brother and we slowly become closer and closer and.. BOOM a year goes by and now she is the only person ive felt has been a true friends to me. been the only person ive told my DEEPEST secrets to, vise versa. even if i dont have any friends other than her, its okay because atleast i have ONE. and to anyone out there who hasnt found their best friend or person yet, it will come. i dont feel as lonely as i used to. i found my best friend. even if im just 14, and it may sound dramatic because im so young; i found someone. someone who truly cares. and i feel fufilled. and thats all that matters. good luck to all of you.
6:12 YOU'VE HAD YOUR PERIOD FOR 3 MONTHS STRAIGHT??!! How?? Omg I hope you're doing alright I struggle with having mine for a week lol edit: omg are y'all okay..... do i need to call a doctor?
i just love the relationship jazzy has with us as viewers. i used to wish for an older sister instead of the younger brother i have, so that i can listen to her stories and advice. but now, let’s admit it, jazzy has literally become the older sister we all wish we really had. 😩❤️
As someone a little older (i turn 23 this week), a lot of stuff in this video is “been there, done that!” But for a lot of you, it seems to be helpful. I’m so glad you all have someone like jazzy to guide you guys!! I didn’t really have anyone I could confide in growing up. My older sister acted very much like a second mother and I hid a lot of stuff from her. Use jazzy as your big sister if you don’t have one to confide in!!
YES I barely shave and have nice lingerie on for my bf and he doesn’t care, but the rare time I’m in the mood to get all ready n dressed up he appreciates it. but I do it cus I want to not for him or anyone else
Honestly,, I never was really into girl talk or whatever (probably due to 1. Not having a sister of any kind and 2. Being homeschooled which means not really having any friends, let alone any girls to talk to) but these videos are honestly such a vibe ✨✨
I feel so comfortable. I can’t talk like this with my mother we aren’t close like that and my friends don’t act mature enough for this conversation, thanks jazzy ily
I've been the background friend in most of my friend groups and I've learned that most of the time, it isn't because they exclude you, but because you exclude yourself. (not in all cases!! just reflect about it). Like, for example when there's a group project and no one comes directly at you asking to partner up, it might be because you normally distance yourself and doesn't always come to them instead
@Arcane Raven That's defiantly a possibility, but it's not always like that. I don't know your personal experiences, so I wouldn't know, but what I meant by the comment is that, if you look within maybe you feel excluded because you distance yourself in the first place. If you repeatedly look away and wait for them to include you in group projects, they'd get the idea that you don't even want to work with them, because you continuously look away and never comes to them. I have this very problem, but this is what my therapist told me and it really opened my eyes. I always blamed it on everyone else, when I actually was the only one to blame
I'm really sorry to hear that people played your videos out loud to try and make fun of/ bully you! Just hearing about it sounds traumatic to go through x( and I love your girl talk videos hehe all the best!! 💕
Honestly every single time I go to the kitchen (doesn’t matter the time of day) I have to turn around and use the bathroom and it NEVER fails I don’t understand why my bladder is so malfunctioning 😭😭
Being the oldest (not just sibling but cousin, grandkids, etc.) I had to figure all this out by myself and passed it on to my younger siblings, and take care of everyone younger than me. *Salute to my fellow oldest children*
I'm just now noticing that you're like my female Conan Gray ): I missed his chat videos where he would sit down with his subscribers and talk to them with advice and experiences, and today I realized that you are doing just that. I'm so thankful I get to have that again, more so that the talks are a bit more relatable since you're also a girl (not to say his weren't relatable because my goodness they were). Thank you so much!
these talks make me so happy bcs i dont have an older sister to talk about this stuff with and these topics arent stuff i would talk about w my mom. as an asian american its so amazing for me to see a similar perspective and feel seen
This girl is literally me!! I’m SO indecisive and insecure. Not to mention my needing for VALIDATION!! I literally have so many bad qualities about me that I needa fix, but it’s really hard! 😭
all my friends seemed so confident and had a clear direction in life, they were all the bosses of their own lives and i havent seen anyone as indecisive and on the journey of self acceptance.. ur the most relatable person i ever met and a true big sis ❤
thank you so much for making videos like these! they are really helpful for those of us who don't have sisters and aren't comfortable asking our parents
When you described your racist friends in the past I JUST KNEW IT WAS ORANGE COUNTY. Now its confirmed and makes sense lol. I live in Los Angeles and Orange County is a different breed. Anywho, it is so frustrating as a senior applying to colleges knowing (Fauci's prediction) we will be online for like two years. Like come on now, I wanted to actually make friends and go to parties. Zoom University for $45,000 a year it is :D!
Seeing and hearing you has brightened my week. I've not been in the best mind set but I love your videos :) I love you lots, ty for being my big sister
i love these big sister videos, its so cosy and makes me feel so much better, i wish my sister was still here to talk to so this is a really lovely alternative xx
Im so sorry about you being bullied, no one deserves it:( I love you so much, you're beautiful, kind, funny, have an amazing style. I know i dont know you but still.❤ Your an amazing human being so beleve that❤❤❤
omg i literally haven’t related to someone as much as i related to you. i thought i was the only person in the world that constantly needed people to tell me i look good or some shit or else i wouldn’t know it....it literally gotten the point where im convinced all my friends deep down hate me...idk idk but its so nice to see someone talking about it ❤️
i'm kind of struggling with the friendship aspect. i've never had a best friend and i'm actually a senior in college now and so it feels like that ship has sailed for me. the fear of ending up alone forever has been keeping me up at night.
I would love an entire video on friendship! I feel like when we are stuck within the norms of our own high school, it's so easy to feel so much shame about not already having a group of people. pls talk about how your friendships have changed from high school to college and tips to keep those people who actually matter to us?
I've been feeling the worst I've ever felt these couple of last days, but this video made me feel better, genuinely. I don't know what it was, perhaps the feeling of an open, honest talk and acceptance, because I've been struggling to find relief so bad. Thank you!
I love you Jazzy!! You so down-to-Earth, I could never relate to other RU-vidrs because they felt so much larger than life. Not trying to say you aren't (because you definitely are), but you feel so much more 'real' per se. Thank you so much for all the high-quality content over the years!!!
Bruh this video is so chill and the advice you gave for growing on social media , as tiny ant on this platform for fun, im like petrified if someone finds my videos and are like “haha your videos suck” it probs stemmed from a close friend shitting on it when i tried to promote to my friends but the advice really help, luv u jazzy 🥺🥺💖💖💖
u know when ur thinking abt your future and think like: i wanna be like and have kinda like that etc? jazzy is exactly the person i have in my mind all the time when i think about my future
I’m definitely the type of person that’s like “if I’m not in love am I even succeeding” but not really for those reasons, I just really enjoy being in love with things and people, and always want to be. Plus I’m not horrible at feeling validated by myself, so I feel like I’m not hurting my brain too much
It’s literally the first time I watch one of your videos and the only thing that comes to my mind is the fact that I already feel like you’re a friend of mine
Ok hear me out- the editing on your videos recently, the lighting the aesthetics~ honestly thoroughly entertaining and somehow calming. Like really good weed.
omg the part where u we’re talking about those shower tiktoks lol I cannot understand how like ?? I literally just use a dove bar soap for everything 😭🤭
Thank u for this girl. I don’t have a sister or anything, so I can’t really have this girl talks with an experienced person, so thank you so much. Hope you’re doing another one soon!!!!
